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Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by bukatyne(f): 7:44pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Carlyscales: Longetivity of marriage does not necessarily mean that all is well. That is one thing we forget. 3 Likes |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by cococandy(f): 7:44pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
I think their advice was for people who aren’t married yet. They were already married without doing the proper legwork hence it couldn’t work. In hindsight they said ifyalways: 5 Likes |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by cococandy(f): 7:46pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
That’s literally what the whole post is all about. I don’t understand why everyone is missing the point. Maybe they should turn back the hands of time and do the right things that they only realized they should have done before getting married? I don’t think this post is that hard to understand. mechanics: 7 Likes |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by deebrain(m): 7:48pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
No matter how you try to beauty disgusting, it still remains disgusting. So with all this knowledge of the things they've learned, they can't apply them now to save their marriage? Satan is a liar. 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by bukatyne(f): 7:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Any reason they couldn't start afresh rather than divorce? 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Bossjakande: 7:50pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
d devil like divorce DAT wat he enjoy in marriage 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Bossjakande: 7:51pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
bukatyne:nice one dear DAT wat our genaration have become to divorce and marry anyhow. baby mama and baby papa |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Onliie(m): 7:51pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
If those ideas works, why don't you use it now and get back together 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by sisisioge: 8:06pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Wow! Very very insightful! |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by sisisioge: 8:12pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
bukatyne: You kuku refused to read their advice ba . They said once values, visions, purpose and everything in between are misaligned, nothing can work. These two are true to self. By the way darling, which church did you recently join fa? May we find truth, peace and wisdom around us. Cheers darling . |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Reference(m): 8:14pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Celebrating selfishness and failure and even have the guts to call God into the unfortunate equation after He must have lured you, prompted you to knowing Him and knowing life. Just wasted 13 years of your life and still cannot emerge better. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by sisisioge: 8:19pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
cococandy: Thank you o ma sister... They realised how they shouldn't have gotten together in the first place! Whew...it is well. 2 Likes |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Bossjakande: 8:20pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ifyalways:God bless u ma |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Carlyscales:Ur parents know just one thing they never knew, PERSEVERANCE 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Ijawwomaninoyo: 8:23pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
zomoears: When you talk of marriage, please don't mention Tonto, it is an insult. She goes to ANY length to pull anybody down and play victim card. She dragged Mercy Johnson more than Churchill, people thought they were dragging a same man. She is naturally toxic and needs help. No SANE Igbo family can accept her. Churchill just did a hush hush wedding to her because he didn't want his child outside wedlock. |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by desvi: 8:23pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Reference: they haven't wasted anything |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Bossjakande: 8:26pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
bukatyne:dear all cant be well in marriage no marriage or life is perfect even dose DAT married 1m years will still have issue. a matured person dont run away from evry priblm |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by sanmtiago(m): 8:29pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
This is real trash..teachers where no fit implement their own knowledge *spits on their fucking futile advice |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by bukatyne(f): 8:31pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
sisisioge: Church I recently joined ke? My point is that if they are civil enough to compose this together, maybe they could still salvage the marriage with compromises. Well it is true to discover yourself before marriage (I say that a lot here), people change. For instance, Rihanna is a musician who has evolved to a business mogul and actress. According to some sources, she made more money in her makeup business than music which is her core. Imagine if she was married as only a musician and her husband is not willing to grasp that his waist winding musician is now interested in numbers. Michelle Obama was a brilliant lawyer who transitioned into a housewife and now an author. Arole the comedian has added movies under his belt. Victoria Beckham changed from music into a business mogul. Etc. No one stays the same so we need to be very flexible. If on Feb 1st 2018 someone told me that by Mar 2018 I would have a book manuscript, I would have thought the person was crazy. We need to be flexible and ready to grow with our partners. |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by tiger28: 8:35pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
martowskin1:VERY good and SERIOUS topic here..... Are you mad that its not about tonto and naira marley etc? |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by sisisioge: 8:44pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
bukatyne: Whew! I understand your argument but our focus is on these two civil people who have been there but emerged to realise that they were not supposed to be in the first place. Changing themselves or the other was just not going to work for them hence the reason they are apparently divorced and co-parenting. There is no much wisdom in trying to force your partner to accept the version of you he didn't bargain for or changing yourself to fit that which he thought he was buying. A simple due diligence while dating would have averted the catastrophe! Anyways, I hope others would learn from them...it is better to call it a day than to die while roughing the nights. May God help us find our right fits. |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by zomoears(m): 8:47pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Ijawwomaninoyo: Agreed. Tonto is the definition of toxic. I pity people who admire aspire to be like her. |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Sinach0191(m): 8:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
your divorce ur problem |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Angelfrost(m): 8:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ifyalways: There's really no such thing as "happily ever after"... Don't let the fairy tales fool you. |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by TSRC: 8:57pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel.... Malachi 2:16 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by babyfaceafrica: 9:05pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
cococandy:but their advice is useless ?..who ask them for advice ?... 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by flowx(m): 9:24pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
rattlesnake:. Haaaaaaa! Oyibo... |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by advocate666: 9:28pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Just say you are tired of fucking each other and leave all other grammar aside. 1 Like |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by advocate666: 9:28pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
TSRC: The lord of hate is not even married. |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Bossjakande: 9:38pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Angelfrost:ask d couple DAT were married for 71 years |
Re: Couple Celebrates Divorce After 13 Years Of Marriage, Offers Advice. by Nobody: 2:45am On Jun 16, 2019 |
Great pieces of advice. |
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