50% of this Story Seems false. This multiple times Rape thing i'm hearing doesn't add up. Lets admit it,The Pastor Seems like a Serial fornicator and Timi's Wife Seems like someone whose puna was on a romp spray. Finally,This must have been a case of Timi Dakolo trying get reasons as to why his Wife was so Porous at a Tender age and his curiosity got the better of him.
Joromi12: if it continued after it wasn't rape then. it was consensual. religion has always been a scam am not surprised. a coursemate of mine in unilorin those years was also involved with him, she got gifts and money.
17 years consensual.. are you okay? she was raped twice against her will and you are here saying nonsense. Are you a lady at all? do you not know everyone isn't strong willed? Please thread lightly you may have daughters in the future who might be subjected to abuse at the hands of a sexual predator.
Elbone2: 50% of this Story Seems false. This multiple times Rape thing i'm hearing doesn't add up. Lets admit it,The Pastor Seems like a Serial fornicator and Timi's Wife Seems like someone whose puna was on a romp spray. Finally,This must have been a case of Timi Dakolo trying to know why His Wife was so Porous at a Tender age and his curiosity got the better of him.
rubbish. story 100% true. She was raped twice because he succeeded in perpetrating his abuse without consequences.
This guy has escaped one to many... He's going down for it this time.
It baffles me though how this has stayed under the carpet all these years while the guy continues to blossom in his ministry considering the number of people who knew the story??
Nigeriaunited60: The most difficult thing in life is to confront someone in position of authority, wealth etc in Nigeria especially if you are the underdog. Be them pastors, celebrities, wealthy people, powerful etc. Its unfortunate that most Nigerians encourage their irresponsibilities. Please encourage women to speak out against rape and stop slut shaming them. Encourage people to speak out against oppression by the wealthy and powerful and stop branding them as enemies of progress or PHD syndrome.
I hope this will encourage other victims to come out
Almost all the beautiful ladies in abuja attends that church, and.....
chai.. the guy must have smashed a lot.....but he has missed his calling. he should have been a porn star or even a music star like wizkid so he can be smashing legitimately continuously instead of destroying young girls lives and polluting the gospel. God will judge all these evils at the right time
Naija bloggers sef. What sort of an incoherent trash is this?
Everybody wants to be a blogger even folks who couldn't pass English 101
O pari
Oluwolex2000: One of the most shocking and explosive stories you’d be reading today is that of Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola Dakolo revealing how the senior pastor of Commonwealth Of Zion Assembly, Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her twice years ago.
In an exclusive interview with YNaija, Busola gave a detailed account of how she met the pastor while she was in secondary school and started worshipping at his then club turned church after a lot of persuasions from her sisters.
Busola Fatoyinbo revealed in graphic details how Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo was ruthless and unremorseful during the period he raped her. She went on to reveal how finally opened up to her family about the raped incident and how her brother was held back from attacking Pastor Fatoyinbo. Here are five explosive things Busola Dakolo said about Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo.
1. Their first encounter
“I have to say this is the first time I would be coming out like in public to discuss something with someone else, except my family and my husband. I was still in secondary school and I came home, I was still staying in Ilorin because I was born in Ilorin, went to primary and secondary in Ilorin. I returned home for a particular holiday and my sisters all told me that they are now going to a particular club…I went there and they said time for new first timers to stand up and I did, introduced myself as Busola and explained my journey there,” she said.
She went on to talk about how she wasn’t really interested in coming to the club because of the way they worshiped God but was impressed by the kind of messages and what people had to say.
“After the message, Pastor Bioudun Fatoyinbo preached, he came to meet me after the service, then it wasn’t COZA, it was called Divine Delight Club and he wasn’t married yet but he was engaged to his present wife. He came to meet me and said I was such a bold lady that he had never seen someone like this, that I needed to keep the fire then he said, can you do something in the next meeting before you go to school? He asked me when I’ll be going back to school…then I told him I can sing and he said that’s great. He then said he plays the keyboard that he would help me rehearse. So, I told my sisters,” she said.
For Busola, because she was skeptical about the club, she informed her sister about her unwillingness to actually go ahead with the plan to which they rebuffed her. She, however, agreed and decided to go ahead.
“My sister then took me to his house, he was living with his father and his wife was always there. She left me there because he was already seated by the keyboard. As at then, I didn’t have a phone, even my house, we didn’t have any landline. So he asked me what kind of song I wanted to sing, I did and we rehearsed and I went back home. So the next meeting I did the song and I was singing someone came out to give his life to Christ…after the service he gave me books to read, but it wasn’t at the spot,” she said.
2. How Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her the first time
The first time he visited, he asked if she’d join him on an errand run. Her mother was concerned but didn’t really push when Busola insisted that she wanted to go. They drove in his white Mercedes Benz and finally spoke for the first time. Though she was normally guarded around men, Fatoyinbo was charming, using his knowledge of her family and the absence of her father to gain her trust. Before long, he was visiting the house regularly, engaging her in ways her unavoidably distant sisters weren’t.
“One particular day, Pastor Biodun came to meet me and he said, you don’t like to talk and he was like how are you and I was like I’m fine. He started coming to my house and my family was very involved in the COZA,” she wrote.
Then one morning, Fatoyinbo showed up at her house unannounced. It was a Monday morning early enough that Busola Dakolo was still in her nightgown. Her mother had traveled with her sisters and were absent at service the previous Sunday. He didn’t say a word, forcing her onto a chair, speaking only to command her to do as he said. It took Busola a while to come to terms with what was about to happen, and it was why she didn’t struggle or make a fuss when he pulled down her underwear and raped her. She remembers he didn’t say anything after, left to his car, returned with a bottle of Krest and forced her to drink it, probably as some crude contraceptive. She remembers him saying.
“You should be happy that a man of God did this to you.” At this time, his wife had just given birth to their first child, Oluwashindara.
3. Raping her the second time
She was too terrified to tell her sisters or mother about his violence, stewing in silence for a week. Her sisters were active in the church, and to avoid suspicion she followed them to church the next Sunday. She remembers he spoke about grace during the service and after, Modele Fatoyinbo asks that she come to help her with her new baby, something she had never done before. It was normal for church members to come to serve at the pastor’s house so her sisters allayed her protests.
Feeling she had no options, she went to her pastor’s house, Fatoyinbo tried to isolate her later that night from his wife and their daughter by insisting she slept in the family’s guest room. She managed to thwart his plans, appealing to the pastor’s wife to let her sleep in their master bedroom. “No one ignores me.” He would tell her this the next morning, smacking her butt. It was an ominous enough statement that Busola became apprehensive and tried to leave for her house once it was past twilight. It was the first of many threats she would get from the flamboyant pastor.
Fatoyinbo would insist on dropping her off at home, even though she protested several times. Instead of dropping her off at the junction as he had promised, he detoured, driving her away from safety and towards a secluded spot. He threatened her the entire drive, making proclamations about how he owned her and how he was angry that he had thwarted her the night before. He opened the car, pulled her out of the passenger seat and raped her a second time in the space of a week. First behind the car, then moving her to the bonnet for ease of access.
She didn’t fight, she had lost all her will to. She’d protected her virginity for so long that having it forcefully taken this way broke her. He guided back into the car when he was done, and told her he loved her, speaking of how he’d told his pastors that men of God raped women, that there was nothing special about what he did. He dropped her off outside her home as though everything was normal.
4. Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo confessing
In Lagos, her sister who she believes has the Sight, told her about a dream she had had, where she’d seen Busola crying, blood on a chair and Fatoyinbo smiling. She asked her pointedly, breaking months of silence and starting a flood of admissions about the rape and everything that had happened. Her sister convinced her to return to Ilorin and together they told her other sisters and her brother, who was studying at the University of Ilorin. Her brother flew into a rage, grabbing a pocket knife and taking her to Fatoyinbo’s house. He was able to intercept them before they reached his house, and together with Wole Soetan, who she suggests is now the pastor of the COZA Portharcourt branch, convince them to return home and that Fatoyinbo would follow.
The pastor and two of his church members would eventually come to pacify her family, blaming the devil and Soetan even promising to leave the church to show how little tolerance he had for promiscuity.
After Soetan would confide in Busola that he couldn’t leave the church because he felt Fatoyinbo was ‘weak’ and needed spiritual guidance and support. He convinced her siblings to keep the rape and assault from her mother. Numb to all emotion, Busola pretended to concede and after two weeks of constant visitation from the pastors and the unspoken implication that Fatoyinbo was an alleged reformed cultist with a lot to lose if news of her rape went public, she returned to the church to protect her family and project normalcy.
5. How Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo continued to target her
Fatoyinbo continued to target Busola in the intervening months, organizing prayer sessions and specialized deliverance sessions with guest pastors to help ‘repair’ her ‘bondage’ and suggesting to her that the violence he had meted towards her was a problem they both had in common and needed communal deliverance, Busola would find out that Fatoyinbo had been telling church members that she wasn’t ready for a relationship when the pastor’s cousin befriended her.
Their time would eventually develop into a relationship and she would confide in him about what had happened to her. With his help, she would leave the church and join another congregation.
thesicilian: How does one prove that he is innocent of rape? To the best of my knowledge only Neymar has been lucky enough to have evidence of his innocence.
you can't prove a negative bro..once you're accused, you're stigmatized for life
Hmmm. Timi Dakolo dey try o. Regardless of the situation, it is hard to put up with even the idea of someone raping your wife and almost had her as his slut. I am of the opinion that she should have left out the details to spare the husband the emotional torture. Some of us can relate to Bonnet sex o. It is a naughty something.
olurich01: Ok. I know this is a different thread, I need front-page to comment this. That COZA and Busola SAGA is true. I lived in Ilorin all my life before I recently moved to Lag. We started COZA together before he moved to Abuja. The number of girls (past B as we fondly call him ) slept with is numerous. If all of them should come out. COZA WOULD BE FAR GONE..A LOT HAPPENED INSIDE STELLA MULTI PURPOSE HALL ALONG OFFA GARAGE ROAD. JUST DONT BE BEAUTIFUL. IF YOU ARE. YOU CANT ESCAPE PASTOR B. I BELIEVE HE'S A CHANGE PERSON BUT HIS PAST WILL FOREVER HUNT HIM. CONTROL YOUR LIBIDO GUYS
How do you know he has changed? This one was like 15 years ago. Ese's own is almost 6 years now? I'm sure he still has his paroles currently where is the change? if he has changed, he would have gone to do inner healing and restitution personally with Busola and all his other known and unknown victims? he's still in the game bro. There is someone current he is smashing now
Biglittlelois: Only those that stay in Ilorin will know this guy well, the church was first along Pipeline road going to Tanke when I first attended the church, now they are in Stella Obasanjo hall, the first time I went there, the manner they welcome first timers was impressive but I wasn't comfortable with their mode of service and worship, after church, first timers were given refreshments and expected to have ONE on ONE talk Fatoyinbo...........after that day I never stepped my leg there ever again.
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Did he rape you too? Confess now or remain silence forever
Joromi12: if it continued after it wasn't rape then. it was consensual. religion has always been a scam am not surprised. a coursemate of mine in unilorin those years was also involved with him, she got gifts and money.
robust ke....his cup is full already and his image tarnished forever. At least the girls in COZA are safe for now those that still choose to remain.
For where, this too shall pass. Apostle sule survived his own, Oyakhilome survived, bros Joshua survived the mass burial of church members. In Nigeria, this too will pass.
17 years consensual.. are you okay? she was raped twice against her will and you are here saying nonsense. Are you a lady at all? do you not know everyone isn't strong willed? Please thread lightly you may have daughters in the future who might be subjected to abuse at the hands of a sexual predator.
Wait o! That's a lady you mentioned?!
Can't believe I have to bring up kids in the same society as people like her. Kai!
rubbish. story 100% true. She was raped twice because he succeeded in perpetrating his abuse without consequences.
Sorry but i think before we brand someone or call them a rapist we need certainty beyond a reasonable doubt. I think it's consensual sex...Let her tell the truth. My Opinion.
Can't believe I have to bring up kids in the same society as people like her. Kai!
it is well. But this was well known now, That this guy was a sexual predator I wonder why it has to take someone like Busola to give it credibility. This guy is like Bill cosby....Nigeria's favorite sexual predator.
Lol no he didn't , but he was a very touchy touchy person.
Eeya you must be beautiful for him to be touchy touchy you....that man eye no dey like ugly girls...I wouldn't mind if you give me opportunity to touchy touchy ....I don't like people that do by force...like your touchy touchy pastor. ..I be gentle man....if you are single we can mingle
where is the change? if he has changed, he would have gone to do inner healing and restitution personally with Busola and all his other known and unknown victims? he's still in the game bro. There is someone current he is smashing now