Hello Nairalander!
With so much anger and confusion I write this to seek for your opinion and advice as regards this issue frustrating my religious life.
I am not a type of person who dedicate all my time in church but I so much believe and have faith in God a lot. Also, I barely go closer to my pastor because am always glued to the bible and I also seek spiritual understanding from the holy spirit each time I am confused, but this time I won't bother the holy spirit at all, I will handle this carnally!
There is this church my mum and siblings started attending newly, which name I will make anonymous, each time I travel home to visit my mum, she always force me to attend and at the end of the service she still force me to see the pastor for no reason, if I question her she will be like " just go and greet him and that's all" this was getting too much for me, so that sunday August Last year, I travelled home to see her, I went to the church with her and as usual she still forced me to see the pastor, which I adhere to... I went to the pastor, introduced myself and we greeted, he asked after my work, health and many more, he collected my phone number and that was how I started unbelieving that pastor. Since then he started calling me, giving me prophecies, and at the end of the prophecy he will tell me to send money to him so that he will use it to sow seed to God, the first day I sent it to him. And he never called again, later after some weeks he called again, and told me I Should I will have to sow seed #7,000 to God through him, and I was wondering why on earth will I sow seed to God through a pastor? I ignored and I transferred the 7k to his account. He did this from last year down to this year, last 2weeks he called me and requested for seed of 8k for God to wash away my sins and take me back because am far from God, I said hmmmm and I sent him the 8k, the next day in the morning he called me again that he has used the 8k to sow seed to God on my behalf, but he has a problem with the police, that his car was withheld at the police station and that he needs #10,000 I was surprised... I thought in my mind " I send u 8k yesterday and today u are requesting for #10,000" since he said I should transfer anything I have, so I transferred him 1k, because I was so angry..... I called my mum and brother to inform them what had been going on, because they are closer to the pastor.... And to me and my brother's surprise my brother told him he also called him early that morning before he called me that he needed money and he sent him 4k. So I felt like OUR MUMU DON DO..... So I made up my mind never and never to send him money nor pick his call again... I was surprised on Thursday my mum called me I told me that she wants me to send 6k to the pastor for prayers, that he saw a vision about my pregnant sister, anyway I don't want to tell my mum no, because she is all I have left, so I told her I will send it, but deep down inside me, I knew I will never Send it, so I never did. But since then I have been receiving rapid and endless calls from the pastor and my mum, endless WhatsApp messages from the pastor, endless WhatsApp calls from the pastor all requesting for another 6k. And all the money he has been collecting from me all this while are never less than 7k

Pls nairalanders pls help me, what do I do?? My sister is so dear to me, I just buried my dad in is early 50's this year February, pls help me what should I do? As sending the money to that pastor makes me look like a fool!

if you keep sending the money, u sef know wetin u be.

Talk to your family (esp ur mum) and leave the church as soon as possible.

as in just japa

Go and read ur bible and stop being foolish. Read Ezekiel 13, from verse 1 down to where u would say "damn"!

Hehe you know what to do na

DavidEsq:
Go and read ur bible and stop being foolish. Read Ezekiel 14, from verse 1 down to where u would say "damn"!

thanks man!

The pastor lacks descipline and he is greedy. There's no problem giving to a pastor or anyone in need but when they turn it to your responsibility, you have to stop the nonsense. Next time, tell him you need money too when he calls.

eikechukwu8:

thanks man!

Oga, no be by "thank man". Read and come back here with the quotations that stand out in that chapter, if not u are not ready to solve u problems

DavidEsq:

Oga, no be by "thank man". Read and come back here with the quotations that stand out in that chapter, if not u are not ready to solve u problems

ezekiah 13:2-23 is very detailed

Even if you stop sending him money and cut off from him, you need to pray for your mum and sibblings because they are tied down by the pastors yoke, and he will continue to manipulate them as long as they are in that church.
Most widows are usually vulnerable, how much more a widow who's husband died at such a young age. It is very good to help pastors, but that pastors actions currently is fraud. Cut off from him, try and convince your siblings to reduce their contact with the pastor, as for your mum only prayers can make her quit the church. Let's hope the pastor is not an occultic type. Contact a genuine MOG to pray for your pregnant sister.

Bizmagnet:
The pastor lacks descipline and he is greedy. There's no problem giving to a pastor or anyone in need but when they turn it to your responsibility, you have to stop the nonsense. Next time, tell him need money too when he calls.

Make the guy call the pastor now say him need money.
Tell the pastor that you need it to pray against police cases for the pastor .

sexy74:

Make the guy call the pastor now say him need money.
Tell the pastor that you need it to pray against police cases for the pastor .

sexy74:

Make the guy call the pastor now say him need money.
Tell the pastor that you need it to pray against police cases for the pastor .

My man, the pastor sees Nada so he can't do nada. Ignore him totally and also if possible give your mum some space.. When it comes to religions, women are easy to brainwashed

sexy74:

Make the guy call the pastor now say him need money.
Tell the pastor that you need it to pray against police cases for the pastor .

Lolz.

eikechukwu8:

ezekiah 13:2-23 is very detailed

Can u bring out one or two scriptures in that read, that apply to ur situation?

Drop God and turn inside
Drop inherited God and stay open
Drop the Bible and read nature

None of your problems are real
They gave you God to control you
You have forgotten yourself

Reduce your attachment to the flesh
Your fear is borne out of ignorance
Pastors feed on people's ignorance

Your sister and mother are separate flesh
Your attachment to them is not love
Love and fear cannot exist together, therefore don't let your attachment to them suffocate your common sense and turn you into a tool for another man amusement.


I know I sounded like a godless person
Yes, I respect nothing invented by man
Everything about man is exploitation; think deep.
Face your fear and it will disappear, even death.