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Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Well, I wouldn't really say I was raped but I was molested By my father. My father used to be the person I loved most. I never thought he would be the one to hurt me. The first time he grabbed me, I was 12. My aunt had sent me to go give food to my dad. I dropped the food and was about leaving when he just grabbed me and forcefully kissed me. The next time, he pinned me down and used his fingers on me . The day he tried to penetrate me, I wrestled as hard as I could , I don't know how but he finally let me go. I recently clocked 21 and I hate my father. I can't stand to be alone with him . sometimes I feel like he stares at me with lust. For me , I didn't have anyone to talk to. My mom was tough on us.she was 90% strict and 10 percent motherly. All she ever did was punish us . I was always scared she wouldn't believe me. Till date , no one knows about this. It's harder than we all think. Coming out to talk about it takes a whole lot of courage. I may never be able to tell anyone about this because somehow I feel the world would judge me . I mean , how do I tell my mom what he did to me ? How do I even say it now. I guess I just have to leave it the way it is . 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Abused By Daddy by zeb04(f): 10:58pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Do you have brothers, tell them. They will always believe and protect. Might even confront your dad. |
Re: Abused By Daddy by thorpido(m): 11:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
What are you doing now op? Would you like to talk ? |
Re: Abused By Daddy by lilmax(m): 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
make a video like busola everyone will be on your side trust me |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 5:23am On Jun 30, 2019 |
lilmax: I don't want anyone to be on my side.. 6 Likes |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 5:30am On Jun 30, 2019 |
zeb04: Yes I do. I know they'll always protect me but I don't wish to tell anyone |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 5:32am On Jun 30, 2019 |
thorpido: No I'm not talking .. For me, it seems like every one has moved on |
Re: Abused By Daddy by thorpido(m): 7:17am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Tewarh:Do you still live with your dad? |
Re: Abused By Daddy by babyfaceafrica: 7:40am On Jun 30, 2019 |
and so..why are u telling us?.. 2 Likes |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 7:50am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Re: Abused By Daddy by boldconfidence: 9:32am On Jun 30, 2019 |
@tewarh I understand where you are coming from. I salute your resilience and the fact you were wise to resist him which would have been difficult for you considering he his an authority figure in your life. For those wondering why she is sharing it now. Please know that sometimes it is an heavy burden to carry alone when your trust has been betrayed in the worst possible form. She may want to share it but not with people that know her dad because of the havoc it can wreck (protecting the perpetrator because of the relationship) . Fathers and Mothers: Children (male and female) are abused every day in their own homes(a place that should be secure), by people you trust, who have full access to them(your family members, staff, religious leaders etc). Please be on guard! 5 Likes |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 9:35am On Jun 30, 2019 |
boldconfidence: Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Abused By Daddy by UjuJoan2: 9:49am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Tewarh: Wow, I have no word . . . except of prayers. May God be with you. |
Re: Abused By Daddy by thorpido(m): 12:11pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Tewarh post=79797451 Yes but I'm in school now[/quote] Try to stay away from home as much as possible.While home try to have company especially if your father is home. |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
[quote author=thorpido post=79804199][/quote I'm no longer 12, if he ever tries to touch me again, I'll kill him and go to jail. 1 Like |
Re: Abused By Daddy by JoannaSedley(f): 1:23pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:You are a metastasised malignant tumor. If the emotional trauma isn't resolved now by voicing out and going to therapy, an innocent man may end up marrying a frigid wife or a nymphomaniac. 5 Likes |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:28pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: She is not telling people like you, she is telling people who understands the plights of her and others like her, so take your stupid self out of this thread. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abused By Daddy by babyfaceafrica: 1:32pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:will you kip kwayet!!!..I will comment on any thread I like,how I like..it is called opinion!!!...who are you to call me stupid and ask me to leave?...even the owner of the forum dare not say such......you better be careful before I bring my full wrath on you..... saucy thing!! |
Re: Abused By Daddy by babyfaceafrica: 1:37pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
JoannaSedley:you are not feeling fine at all,almost half of all ladies claim rape!!..where is the proof!!!....do you know how many boys were raped during childhood?. why are they not making noise on social media!!....if anyone things by telling social media your rape case will solve anything is naive!!!..and please it is my opinion,if you don't it,your problem!!..nansense |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:43pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: I am waiting on your wrath you insensitive hard hearted stone cold human, how dare you say that? It is called PEACE OF MIND, it is called letting go and moving on, irritating thing. 2 Likes |
Re: Abused By Daddy by babyfaceafrica: 1:45pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:we don't care...simple!!!..if has any proof ..sue him .if not kip kwayet!! |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: You don't have to exchange words with whoever is behind that moniker. It's of no use. 1 Like |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Mizwisdom(f): 3:16pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
You're a strong girl now, I think it's time to confront your father in the presence of all your siblings. It's time to call him out |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Pavore9: 3:30pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
Truth is, so much sexual abuse is happening within families but hush is the word and many wonder how possible is incest. |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Holycity(f): 4:04pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
I feel for you.....
sorry about that..... |
Re: Abused By Daddy by JoannaSedley(f): 6:18pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:You are so naive. That's why we have so many perverted men roaming around. That men don't scream rape is because the awkward society they helped create will not believe them. Same thing is happening now, same men are trying their possible best to hush women from screaming rape because they, men has erroneously accepted it. Rape is inhuman and the perpetrators needs to be punished, man or woman, no matter how long it takes. Little Ochanya never lived long to tell the tales as people will still doubt her. Governments across the world recognizes that rape is a crime which cannot be wished away but punishrd and the rapist labelled a sex offender forever ever. Those of us in psych recognises it as what it is, a major cause of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after war. Acknowledging and voicing out that it happened is the beginning of the healing process for the victims. 3 Likes |
Re: Abused By Daddy by babyfaceafrica: 7:11pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
JoannaSedley:k |
Re: Abused By Daddy by Katier00(f): 10:33am On Jul 01, 2019 |
First of all, forgive yourself and then your dad. Try to be happy and focus on your studies. Give yourself time to heal. Its ok to feel sad now but time heals very wound |
Re: Abused By Daddy by mostyg(m): 9:18pm On Jul 01, 2019 |
It's necessary to know how his feelings towards him now. Is he the same man with lustful feeling ( you must confirm) or he is a changed person who has regretted his actions? Are you the only female child? If not, and he hasn't changed, other girls may be in trouble with him. It's necessary to know him now, that knowledge will form the basis of your reaction. |
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