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Nigerians are the Most Foolish,unwise, senseless,imprudent,indiscreet,brainless and the Most idiotic set of people on this very earth!!!!
You are protesting in for of God while you can't protest in favour of yourself!
Every thread COZA here and there Abuja residents embarking on a protest over a rapeing allegation which is yet true or false whereas Buhari is imposing His RUGA policy on you...
You people are keeping mute over it and you guys are busy following an irrelevant and nonsensical News....
Drinking Paracetamol on Another persons headache,
How can you say to your brother remove that splinter in your eyes....
When you haven't notice the wooden beam in your own eye.....


I cry for Africa.....

Not like Mr. Poju

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*

Due to the current and often false allegations made by women, which include Rape, Harassment, Blackmail etc. there is now an agreement to be signed before "action".

By. *Com. Usman Abdulgafar*

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*

I, ___________________, the undersigned female partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with _________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:

1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.

2. THAT I am not under the influence of liquor or any narcotic.

3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.

4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.

5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.

6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.

7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.

8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love it and want it as much as he does.

9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.

10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.

SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED

ON THIS ___ DAY
OF _____ (MONTH)
________ (YEAR)
AT ______ (AM/PM)

_______________________
(Signature of Screwee)

-------------------------------------
(Signature of Screwer)

Guys, is this cool?�‍♂�‍♂�‍♂�‍♂

*~~Com. Usman Abdulgafar*

NO TO RAPE

The level of envy amongst pastors is so unreal.
I wonder why women always shout rape later in life most often against successful men, but against broke ass brothers they are usually mute.
If Pastor biodun was a failure, Busola would most likely never come out with this so called rape revelation!
Pastor Biodun crime was that he slept with a minor who most likely had a crush on him.
Women can be extremely vindictive
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

nairalee:
Yeah I wonder how she'll be feeling whenever she is now.

Some people feel she did it for fame

I doubt that. She's already a celebrity's wife and as such has had her fair share of fame

On the contrary coming out makes her forever in public glare as a kinda victim. Even their kids be affected.

"My name is Bola Dakolo"
"Wait, are u related to the Dakolo that got raped family"?

My brother, oil dey your head. The stigma that will follow her for the rest of her life will be like flies following a corpse. And that's why most victims don't come forth.

It's not easy, and being a person of status makes it all the more difficult.

Korllami007:
You need to give more explanation on what you mean by first hand information. First hand information comes from both the accused and the accuser. If anything happens btw them whether rape or consensual sex, no one knows because nobody was there.
Busola, the accuser has given her own first hand information and it remains Biodun to give his own first hand information. Any information that does not come from these two people is second hand information. Unless someone plants cctv on their bodies during that time.

Did you check out the page? If no, stop mentioning me please

LordKO:
He meted out predaceous acts against her for many years, not rape - it's literally worse than rape though. His actions and inactions damaged her emotionally, psychologically and morally.

Almost all religious leaders are predaceous, just as their followers have penchant for commensalism but always end up becoming victims of the predators - opportunism binds them together.

That psychological manipulation by people preying on the vulnerable is the point people overlook. Those saying they have an affair, is it right for a married pastor to have an affair? Or isn't that adultery albeit consented?

crooked pastor.

I feel he has taken side by sympathizing with her, whereas he stated that the issue is still and "allegation". the sympathy should be mutual until the truth is out.

Iyajelili:
Did you check out the page? If no, stop mentioning me please

Can you provide a link? The one I'm seeing on facebook is replete with politics

sisipelebe:
I don't need it. I'm already filled with the holy Spirit.

yinmu. Busola Dakolo that was raped na evil spirit fill am abi?

enemyofprogress:
yinmu. Busola Dakolo that was raped na evil spirit fill am abi?

At least it's better than what you presented to me.

blackpanthar:
this MAN IS SO INTELLIGENT AND WISE.... see how he craftily avoided taking sides.

lol @ craftly.

LordKO:
He meted out predaceous acts against her for many years, not rape - it's literally worse than rape though. His actions and inactions damaged her emotionally, psychologically and morally. Meaningful physical evidence isn't obtainable in a case like this.

Almost all religious leaders are predaceous, just as their followers have penchant for commensalism but always end up becoming victims of the predators - opportunism binds them together.

All this ur grammar yet u didn't communicate.

DameB:
That psychological manipulation by people preying on the vulnerable is the point people overlook. Those saying they have an affair, is it right for a married pastor to have an affair? Or isn't that adultery albeit consented?

Most people won't understand the gravity of damage he inflicted on her. It takes a lot for one under the emotional, psychological and moral entanglement of a predator to disentangle himself/herself. It's a feat many can never achieve until they die.

However, the only reason I'm exempting her of any wrong doing is because she's reported to be an underage when they started.

CHURCH ATTACK? NO WAY, THE CHURCH MUST MOVE FORWARD IN NIGERIA

The church is not under attack, Jesus is the church, he can't be attacked.

Its the mind of men that he(Satan) wages his wars, forcing the ignorant to err this granting him the kind of audience this COZA issue presents

Far be it from me to talk against a minister, no way, guilty or not, let God(in the case of a minister) be the judge. But my question to all those people condemning pastor fatoyinbo is

TO WHAT END IS THE MIRAGE PRESENTED TO YOU TRUE?
HOW SURE ARE YOU?
DONT YOU THINK THERE IS MORE TO THAT STORY THAT DOESNT ADD UP?

I'm in no way supporting rape, it is evil, but why are Nigerians so gullible and insensitive to things that undermines the body of Christ?,

The so called religion of knives and blood don't go around bullying their leaders, even in the face of gross misrepresentation, yet they commit more atrocities across the nation.

The protesters at COZA are saints indeed, I even saw a hijab amongst them, oh foolish Nigerians, who have bewitched you?

We didn't protest the herdmen terror group, we didn't protest election rigging, we didn't protest lopsidedness in government, no no no, all this don't matter, as long as it doesn't carry the name of a church, we will survive!!!!!! Hypocrites!!!!

The online judges, well done sir, please get a chamber and a real court case.

The Facebook commentators, if you have no sin in you, keep casting your stones.

Rape is evil, but what is so evil is keeping silent for 20years!!!! He raped you so early in the morning in your parents living room, with your sister around, and even after the act, went out to his car and got you a drink? All these sequence, and you couldn't raise alarm? You waited for him to return with krest and you drank it with tears or smile?

You were raped, yet continued to serve in the choir, shouting amen to all his declarations, dancing away the krest from your system....isn't this more wicked than anything Satan ever did?

This story doesn't add up, he came to your house, closed your mouth with one hand, removed ur oversized pant if you had one on, with one hand, unzipped his fly with one hand, and your two hands were waving into the Lord?

To timi dakolo, you married a wench, a cheap choir master bleeper, and of course, a krestalite.......

DameB:
That psychological manipulation by people preying on the vulnerable is the point people overlook. Those saying they have an affair, is it right for a married pastor to have an affair? Or isn't that adultery albeit consented?

The contention here is rape. Nobody is talking about extra marital affair. Rape is a crime not extra marital affair. She accused him of RAPE.

crazygod:
All this ur grammar yet u didn't communicate.

Lol. Why not jump and pass naw!

AngelHoly:
Sometimes i wonder the kind animals I'm sharing this country with......[b][/b]


How can you believe dat he rape a virgin gal without any sound....nawa oh

I knw wat I pass through with Susan before reaching her state capital...i swear if Na marathon race I embarked on dat day.....i swear all those boys no go see my back
And yet she is NT a virgin

when I start the ministration and she start telling me baby dnt stop as if she was the one dat ask me to start,remember she was naked before I start preaching and embarking this journey

The best way our naija babes will tell yuh they loose their virginity Na by telling yuh dat she was rape

Never see any gal dat said dat she lost her virginity willing cos of shame of calling her olosho,sex addict,or start condemning her as if she have loot naija resources like Abacha and Mmadueke did

Lemme tell yuh....Dakolo wife cook up this allegation to clear her husband dat she lost her virginity by force so he wont see her as olosho or loose gal as we normally call it

A guy cannot come to ur house and use one hand to cover ur mouth and the other hand to remove his own trouser and ur own pant while ur two hands are free and be doing nothing if yuh are not in the game.....

So the truth is clear....and she said is NT once or twice.....for Christ sake... imbecide will shout sef,even make any form of alarm

After fornicating and yuh came up with the story dat u was rape.....fear God cos karma is real..cos yuh are tryin to spoil the house of God

I ain't saying it is not possible for the MOG to have sex with her.

What I want to hear is, it is consensual..... Thinking from your analysis.

I don't want to insult her Busola has been stupid.

My reason is quite simple... She became a choir in the same church, got married which was blessed by the same MOG. To me, she benefit literally w/o any form of suppression. She might have the tendency to get married to the same accused MOG.

if the rape incident was painful to her, emotional and psychological, she would have keep a distance from the alleged rapist.

I believe something erupted, that brought her out to bear her mind on the rape issue to cover the real story or bone of contention.... Ready to fight dirty.

If the MOG wasn't successful... He would kill the story with no second thought.

From what I have read, she is equally wayward with her lifestyle .

LordKO:
Lol. Why not jump and pass naw!

I wanna understand na

Matured response. God Bless you, sir.

What a master class response from my amiable man of God.I no say you no fit disappoint .Kudos to you .

Iyajelili:
Those of you saying it is just an allegation and that he(Biodun) might be innocent, please check KWARA MUST CHANGE handle on Facebook and read the write up about Busola/Biodun story.
Oh my lordy lordy!!! You'll see lots of first hand information about the incident

KWARA MUST CHANGE is not evidence. Dem say dem say no be evidence.

LordKO:
Most people won't understand the gravity of damage he inflicted on her. It takes a lot for one under the emotional, psychological and moral entanglement of a predator to disentangle himself/herself. It's a feat many can never achieve until they die.

However, the only reason I'm exempting her of any wrong doing is because she's reported to be an under age when they started.

Seriously I am surprised a man gets it and women seem not to get it. Check out victims of coercive control or partners of narcissistic men/women

LordKO:
He meted out predaceous acts against her for many years, not rape - it's literally worse than rape though. His actions and inactions damaged her emotionally, psychologically and morally. Meaningful physical evidence isn't obtainable in a case like this.

Almost all religious leaders are predaceous, just as their followers have penchant for commensalism but always end up becoming victims of the predators - opportunism binds them together.

Forget all this grammar wey you dey blow.Almost everybody have been molested one way or the other either male or female .So If na by that almost everybody go go jail including you .So stop the holier than thou attitude .

livinbygrace:
Forget all this grammar wey you dey blow.Almost everybody have been molested one way or the other either male or female .So If na by that almost everybody go go jail including you .So stop the holier than thou attitude .

Shut up and stop using yourself as standard. I and many others haven't been unfortunate like you and your ilk who've been molested or that molested others. It's obvious you're a typical sheeple. . . And there's nothing holier than thou attitude about my submission.

Don't worry, I won't dignify you with any more reply.

nairalee:
Yeah I wonder how she'll be feeling whenever she is now.

Some people feel she did it for fame

I doubt that. She's already a celebrity's wife and as such has had her fair share of fame

On the contrary coming out makes her forever in public glare as a kinda victim. Even their kids be affected.

"My name is Bola Dakolo"
"Wait, are u related to the Dakolo that got raped family"?

Permanent resident

Iyajelili:
Those of you saying it is just an allegation and that he(Biodun) might be innocent, please check KWARA MUST CHANGE handle on Facebook and read the write up about Busola/Biodun story.
Oh my lordy lordy!!! You'll see lots of first hand information about the incident

Out of curiousity, i went there to read comments. If what they say about the pastor is true, mehn it's so disgusting.

LeoFish92:
Can you provide a link? The one I'm seeing on facebook is replete with politics

Just scroll down abit. Read the comment section too. It's just 1st hand comments from some people that grew up in the neighborhood where victims and accused lived and testifying to the pastor's randy nature.

LordKO:
He meted out predaceous acts against her for many years, not rape - it's literally worse than rape though. His actions and inactions damaged her emotionally, psychologically and morally. Meaningful physical evidence isn't obtainable in a case like this.

Almost all religious leaders are predaceous, just as their followers have penchant for commensalism but always end up becoming victims of the predators - opportunism binds them together.

Stop being sentimental. That man never rape that girl. He may have slept with her.That's a good looking stud right there. Women naturally pull towards them. How can you rape a woman twice. Fool me once,...fool me twice..


Someone raped you once assume you were traumatized. You still went to him. Close enough to be in a close isolated place with him for a second encounter.

Multiple rape can occur when a young woman live in the same house with a man. A father or care giver. One who you are so depended on that you can't possibly think of an alternative.

Like bringing a naive girl from the village and sneaking multiple times into her room. Fear of the head of the house may paralyze that girl towards reporting. Non of this aforementioned was present in her case.

The guy is not even a provider or relative of the family. Yet he took advantage of you in your house and out of it without you making a sound. No scratch or injuries on you to suggest violence.

Pray this case don't make it to trail. If an ignoramus like me can pick a hole in her story, you don't want to know what a meciless/ruthless lawyer will do with her.

She won't survive intense crOSS examination if she still sitting on this rape claim