SenorFax:

If she gets raped, which I don't pray for, I won't be on social media to spread my dirty sheets. I would seek justice silently if I have the connection Dakolo's wife have.

Silently indeed... And who says the court proceedings won't go viral?

safarigirl:
There is no disgrace here

People of respectable status in society will look at him with respect, then nonentities and mongrels like Waconzy and some other nobodies on this thread, whose respect is inconsequential to Timi, will keep feeling important.

We have seen the caliber of people that have stood with the Dakolo family, a street urchin like Waconzy cannot even be in the same room with such people, so, I reckon Timi is in good company

Most of them didn’t watch the whole interview. That is why they are all running their mouth.

see sense............

u talk well

AmeLonRo:
Exactly bro. same applies to reporting your marital matters with others. it simply ends up in them looking down on you. If you hurt take it calmly and move on. Don't be tempted to report your partner or anyone on any issue henceforth. Time heals. God heals. Silence heals.

andrew444:


Sorry if a woman in my life have been raped previously before I met her it's a past tense and I am not bringing it to the public and I will tell her to forget about that ,everybody have their past .

I can't go and be fighting for something I know nothing about all in the name of I love my wife,it's a past tens as we will continue to live happily unless she chooses to be sad inside her mind

So many kids on Nairaland

Thank u waconzy

we are all looking

Wait until they rape one of your sisters or mother.

STRENGTHesq:
In court a rape victim's identity is hidden

Thank you sooooo much for this information. Which does make sense if its true and protects the victim against stigmatisation

Reading some of this guys comments on bad behaviors of people,there had not been any place he'd made sense to me.And it indeed shows which side of the coin he belongs and further proves that he's a sour grape himself.
If the Dakolos failed to get justice, it won't be a surprise to us.This is Nigeria,a mini Sodom and Gomorrah where evil receives praise and justice denied.
But one thing has come to register,the Dakolos voice helped in exposing the evils being done by some so called men of God.

what many people fail to understand now is that any woman you date and you didn't married her after some years back when you hammer and become rich she can alleged allegations on you that you rape her to tarnish your career image.

AntiWailer:


If your sister come out to say somebody raped her.

I am sure you won't ask all the crazy questions u people ask. Neither will u say she enjoyed it.

I understand the guilty conscience where u rapists try to tell urself a rape is not actually a rape.

They shout go and report to Police. A lady ran to the police station after a rape and the policeman on duty ask to see the pussssy raped.

So if the only way to heal is speaking about their experience. If u dnt know what these victims go through, Just shut the fck up.

Tokunbo Ajayi died due to this kind of shame sluting rape victims.

As for the rubbish Buhari analogy, Get well soon.

That's not the only way to heal. She was paid good money by bloggers for this publicity. No one question her motives?
She can get healing and more in court. Everyone is interested in truth not throwing her a pity party.

who is Waconzy?

When you lost your silver spoon at birth what else are we expecting from you?
Olodo

I only love Timi dakolo more, my respect for him has grown bigger.

Waconzy is a fake ass wipe.....

iamjavadem:
It goes both ways but timi should have been wiser. Even my wife thinks what they did is foolish.

It doesn't go both ways, bro! The only person that should be shamed is the rapist! Only daft idi0ts will shame the victim, & it seems we have quite a lot of them in Nigeria going by some of the comments we've seen regarding this story!
The biggest celebrities abroad have come out to tell stories of how they were raped when they were young & it hasn't taken anything away from them.

psucc:
Sure you were there when the rape was carried out. Or do you think this is another 'corruption' fight by Buhari where any opposing voice is guilty as charged?

If the can actually pray, the truth will reveal itself.

God will forgive you for stupidity.

ScotMisile:


So many kids on Nairaland

So am wrong ba ?

Your opinion

As far as Busola Dakolo did not rape herself, she or her husband have no reason to feel disgrace. It is the person who raped her that should feel shame. Wackonzy has exposed his backwardness with this statement and should feel shame as well.

Everyone should learn to live their lives without fear. If someone harms you, the right thing to do is to fight for justice, instead of allowing yourself to be intimidated into silence.

richie240:

On point! Only a criminal will fight justice!

Best quote for today.

Thank you.

glink2015:


Don't you know this is an adulterous and perverse generation.
Timi dakolo successful proved to the whole world that they are part such Generation.

Nothing do them .... Rubbish combinations.

Shit!

Sad I saw a generation as moraless as this

sinceraconcept:
who is Waconzy?

Maybe the name of an animal, place or thing.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

Simple question for you: if Timi and his wife had sued Pastor Biodun, and a case of rape was instituted against him and a hearing has started, do you think the news won't be all over social media now? Won't everybody by now know that she was raped? The only difference it would have made is that the noise would have been less, and perhaps there wouldn't have been protests. If they needed more victims to join in the suit, how would those victims have known before the commencement of the trails?

You see, Pastor Biodun is under spiritual authority. There are men of God he reveres, and they are the ones that made him to step down. Biodun can lie to the world, even the justice system, but he cannot lie to those people. Those are the people that matter more in this case, and I can bet you that they are already involved. The court alone wouldn't have achieved much, cos Busola didn't have any tangible evidence. Biodun would have denied all the allegations in court. With the involvement of those pastors whom Biodun respects, he cannot but admit his guilt (if he is actually guilty as charged).

Busola and Timi also put their reputation on the line to save others. Don't think they were stupid, and didn't know people like you would come and shame them online. They were very much aware, and I'm sure they are ready to bear the consequences. If speaking out will make Busola heal, it is much more important to her than what people like you will think about her later on. If it will also save one or more other victims from the same predator and men like him, then it would be worth it at the end.

Finally, your attitude is the reason why rape will continue unabated in Nigeria. As you guys keep shaming rape victims, you're discouraging other victims from coming out, thereby fuelling the evil of the rapists. This is clearly rape apology, and it is almost as evil as the actual rape.

TANID:
Seriously They Don't Think Twice Before Come Up With That Bad Idear, Now He's In Studio Try To Release Song That He Used His Family To Promote.

Na ignorance
When ur stupid and u marry a foolish wife... D combo is....

Duru009:
Timi doesn't know what he has done to his family. In 4 or 5 years time he will certainly know.

The stigma alone in time to come will be unbearable !!

I am not taking part in the stigma stuff. if the allegation comes out true, I will love the family even more.

There are a lot of potential rapists on this thread.

Was it not This same Timi who boasted some years back that he is the first person to see his wife's pant and knack her...so how is he now claiming he knew she was raped since back then ..like b4 they married...I am sure he wanted to hit her and run, b4 she come get belle, then he was forced to Marry her..Shameful people..looking for where to increase their dying fame

nrexzy:

Na ignorance
When ur stupid and u marry a foolish wife... D combo is....

You will remember this comment when you experience one. You guys are the lot participating in stigmatization of rape.

Sainthommes:
Who is this idiot? So who told you your opinion will make public change their mind about how they react to the issue? Rapist supporting rapists. ONE HIT WONDER!

yes, because you will do such thing you do not want to hear the other side there is a difference between, rape, under age sex, rape and abuse. this looks more like a consensual sex. the story is half told why does she want to say it now on social media after 20 donkey years you are now married, blessed with children and have the holy spirit to comfort you and make you let go of the pain Something is not right to here to all sane minds, not bad bellis and jealous people and those who wants to shine with her misery.
From the onset i flayed the husband you have lost control of your home you allow her the seal and she open the flood gate. go read your bible and learn to take control. you ought to comfort her and tell her to forget it does she not love you, true happiness have a way of making us let go of some sorrow.

AdeTish:



Most of them didn’t watch the whole interview. That is why they are all running their mouth.

How does an interview get justice 4a woman who said she was raped?

She was Krested by Pastor Krest of krest ministry

levi2:
Was it not This same Timi who boasted some years back that he is the first person to see his wife's pant and knack her...so how is he now claiming he knew she was raped since back then ..like b4 they married...I am sure he wanted to hit her and run, b4 she come get belle, then he was forced to Marry her..Shameful people..looking for where to increase their dying fame

I pray you can see your comment from a better angle.

Kennydoc:


Simple question for you: if Timi and his wife had sued Pastor Biodun, and a case of rape was instituted against him and a hearing has started, do you think the news won't be all over social media now? Won't everybody by now know that she was raped? The only difference it would have made is that the noise would have been less, and perhaps there wouldn't have been protests. If they needed more victims to join in the suit, how would those victims have known before the commencement of the trails?

You see, Pastor Biodun is under spiritual authority. There are men of God he reveres, and they are the ones that made him to step down. Biodun can lie to the world, even the justice system, but he cannot lie to those people. Those are the people that matter more in this case, and I can bet you that they are already involved. The court alone wouldn't have achieved much, cos Busola didn't have any evidence. Biodun would have denied all the allegations in court. With the involvement of those pastors whom Biodun respects, he cannot but admit his guilt (if he is actually guilty as charged).

Busola and Timi also put their reputation on the line to save others. Don't think they were stupid, and didn't know people like you would come and shame them online. They were very much aware, and I'm sure they are ready to bear the consequences. If speaking out will make Busola heal, it is much more important to her than what people like you will think about her later on. If it will also save one or more other victims from the same predator and men like him, then it would be worth it at the end.

Finally, your attitude is the reason why rape will continue unabated in Nigeria. As you guys keep shaming rape victims, you're discouraging other victims from coming out, thereby fuelling the evil of the rapists. This is clearly rape apology, and it is almost as evil as the actual rape.

You when dey write epistle, you go allow your wife come public say dem knack her?