AkupeMBANO:

another Timi dakolo

Another Fatoyinbo.
Don't worry,there's always that one day for the thief.

stanliwise:
All I am saying is that you people are the ones stigmatizing the rape stuff. What do you mean that people shouldn't speak publicly about rape. we are in 21st century for God sake. Educated people like us should know better and learn to see the importance of sensitizing rape and fighting against it.

The rape allegedly happened over 20yrs ago she was still a member of his church, meet her husband there and the husband said he married his wife a virgin... No they woke up to tell us she was raped

I don't give a f cos of d MAn involved is a pastor f his religion my concern is they rate at which u people jump to conclusion just cos d man is rich.. If it were a poor man would we hear this sentimental thoughts?

MrMou:

How una dey take reason sef? She's speaking out because that's on of the proven ways to heal! Tell your beloved rapist pastor to take her to court na!
The way I dey look you, you go say the lady assulted by the adamawa senator which was captured on CCTV should have taken the case to court instead of releasing the CCTV footage to the public! Or you don't feel like defending that senator too?

Guy you sound like a sharp man so I tell you leave woman and fine/rich guy stories to rest. Just nod your head say you hear! Them no DE take side. You no DE there.

My own is based one the porosity of her story. He may have slept with her but rape is something else.

Sainthommes:
Who is this idiot? So who told you your opinion will make public change their mind about how they react to the issue? Rapist supporting rapists. ONE HIT WONDER!

How do you know that Pastor Fatoyinbo is a rapist? How do you know that Waconzy is a rapist? Any evidences for your claims?

obayendo1010:
timi dakolo is a f**l quote me anywhere and any day he is still a f**l......celebrity dont play victim this man has successfully put an end to his career because he gonna be a victim for life......my broda if now me we die with the secret since you nor fit talk am before i marry you or we divorce...now me pipo one dey send simpathy msg GOD FORBID...the case is fading gradually soon he will be reinstated as coza senior pastor again and anytime you hear timi you mind just flash....so he married a victim of rape....

But you know the amazing thing here. you and your gang are the victimizers here. I ain't part of it.

lexy2014:


In terms of evidence, did busola not say she informed members of her family about d situation & some pastors of coza came to beg her family on behalf of Fatoyinbo?

In the court, her family's testimony can't lead to a conviction. COZA Pastors would definitely deny that they knew about it. I don't count those as evidence in the court.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

Since this news broke out, your comments has been about discrediting the Dakolo's family. You're an idiot just like the 200+ that liked your comment. It's your type who allow evil to thrive. You plant evil, water it, nourish it, harvest it and package it to evildoers like yourself.
And if the whole world knows that someone is a rape victim, what's the biggie?

Unlike what you think of yourself, you are mentally retarded.

nrexzy:

The rape allegedly happened over 20yrs ago she was still a member of his church, meet her husband there and the husband said he married his wife a virgin... No they woke up to tell us she was raped

I don't give a f cos of d MAn involved is a pastor f his religion my concern is they rate at which u people jump to conclusion just cos d man is rich.. If it were a poor man would we hear this sentimental thoughts?

Stop streamlining the case to Busola and fatoyinbo, and stop faining ignorance as if you don't know any of this happen. The discussion here is "should rape victims not speak up publicly because of fear of stigmatization? "

Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

crazygod:

Abi. Especially where the victim lied cos according to timi, he found his wife as a virgin.

Did he personally tell you that? Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

nrexzy:

The rape allegedly happened over 20yrs ago she was still a member of his church, meet her husband there and the husband said he married his wife a virgin... No they woke up to tell us she was raped

I don't give a f cos of d MAn involved is a pastor f his religion my concern is they rate at which u people jump to conclusion just cos d man is rich.. If it were a poor man would we hear this sentimental thoughts?

stanliwise:
Stop streamlining the case to Busola and fatoyinbo, and stop faining ignorance as if you don't know any of this happen. The discussion here is "should rape victims not speak up publicly because of fear of stigmatization? "

How do u know or collaborate a rape victim?
A man and woman can have sex consexually and she would go around saying the guy raped her mayb after a breakup, or misunderstanding or better still to play victim which is usual..

See I am against rape.. and will like rapists to be jailed/ castrated..


But kindly knw ur environment, what will happen in the USA/Canada &Western Europe and will make one a star over night (like Kim Kardashian); if u try it in eastern Europe & Mexico, south America, Africa, middle east.. can destroy a woman's life forever..

See I have seen people that are married to rape victims, what they did as the new man in the woman's life, were to try and make their wives life stable emotionally and forget the past...

because immediately the story is out in the public, the immediate nuclear family reputation maybe at risk. Especially if they are based in any of these countries eastern Europe, Africa, middle east...

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

cococandy:
Did he personally tell you that? Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

Imagine if someone does same to ur dad

levi2:


You when dey write epistle, you go allow your wife come public say dem knack her?

God forbid my wife will be a rape victim. If in my dream that situation happens, and I know going public will put an end to the evil and protect other innocent young girls, I will do it.

What's d big deal with the public knowing the point in bold? Wizkid, Davido and other celebrities have baby mamas that Nigerians have turned to celebrities. Dem no knack them? People have sex without hiding it, porn actors and actresses have sex live and yet some of them are almost seen as celebrities.

Let me also let you know that millions of Nigerian ladies are rape victims, so it isn't a big deal. I would rather marry a girl who has been raped before but has healed fully and isn't affected by it anymore, than marry a girl who has committed an abortion. Infact, I will even chose a rape victim with no emotional or psychological baggage than a lady who has had consensual sex multiple times before. A girl whose only sexual encounter was a rape has far more decency than the regular girls you guys sleep with.

nrexzy:


How do u know or collaborate a rape victim?
A man and woman can have sex consexually and she would go around saying the guy raped her mayb after a breakup, or misunderstanding or better still to play victim which is usual..

Bro I don't want to sound insulting.
"Should rape victims not speak out publicly because of fear of stigmatization"
Stop avoiding the questions

levi2:
Was it not This same Timi who boasted some years back that he is the first person to see his wife's pant and knack her...so how is he now claiming he knew she was raped since back then ..like b4 they married...I am sure he wanted to hit her and run, b4 she come get belle, then he was forced to Marry her..Shameful people..looking for where to increase their dying fame

Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

But the kids tho.. They all look like COZA Fatoyinbo.. [color=#990000][/color]

Kennydoc:


God forbid my wife will be a rape victim. If in my dream that situation happens, and I know going public will put an end to the evil and protect other innocent young girls, I will do it.

Let me also let you know that millions of Nigerian ladies are rape victims, so it isn't a big deal. I would rather marry a girl who has been raped before but has healed fully and isn't affected by it anymore, than marry a girl who has committed several abortions. Infact, I will even chose a rape victim with no emotional or psychological baggage than a lady who has had consensual sex multiple times before.

Bro You're wise man indeed.

No sympathy for wickedness in my space.

Anyone coming forth with such accusation against any of my family members will be given a listening ear.
I will personally ensure that the atmosphere that encourages truth will be created for everyone to say their truth and for the accused to adequately defend themselves.

My first reaction won’t be to shame the accuser.

Y’all need to do better. It’s despicable what you support

nrexzy:

Imagine if someone does same to ur dad

Las Las na depression and frustration go settle this Coza rape

EmmBim:
But Timi said,he married his wife as virgin

Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

nrexzy:

Na ignorance
When ur stupid and u marry a foolish wife... D combo is....

Splendid Bro. I Agree With You

stanliwise:
Wait before your day is made completely, have you heard of "unfinished business"? It is one of the greatest cause of depression among people today. when an event or a situation occur in your life and the effect keep haunting you for a long time. if not readdressed properly, sanity will be a stranger to you.
As for Timi, he should make sure his wife is telling him everything, so that he has nothing to fear.

u are right

Brightest23:
Thought Timi Dakolo said he married his wife a virgin? So how come she was rape at the age of 18?
Nigerians think before u criticize anyone

Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

stanliwise:
Stop streamlining the case to Busola and fatoyinbo, and stop faining ignorance as if you don't know any of this happen. The discussion here is "should rape victims not speak up publicly because of fear of stigmatization? "

Speak up ke. D one that Timi said about deflowering her is what? Abeg make we hear word. No investigation yet, everybody is giving quick judgement.

Adakintroy2:


That's not the only way to heal. She was paid good money by bloggers for this publicity. No one question her motives?
She can get healing and more in court. Everyone is interested in truth not throwing her a pity party.

Says an idiot, who is too stupid to seek knowledge. Evildoer oshi

stanliwise:
Bro You're wise man indeed.

Thanks

cococandy:
Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

Then maybe what? Spiritual what? Were u there during d rape?

cococandy:


Because someone posted it on social media doesn’t mean it’s true. Y’all jumping on that wagon beer so eager to discredit her story because of your bias for the alleged rapist.

And even if he did say it, it might hold some personal truth to them.
If she didn’t have an sexual intercourse with anyone after the rape incident then maybe she still viewed her virginity (which is a spiritual thing to some people) as intact because she refused to give power to the rapist.

think before u respond and nt otherwise!. .it is for ur benefit

Ugosample:


you better move your kids from that poisonous environment

too many fools in one continent

Boss. I go like move over to Abidjan. Abeg. Which business I can do there?

they forgot that home affairs are not talked about at public square

cococandy:
No sympathy for wickedness in my space.

Anyone coming forth with such accusation against any of my family members will be given a listening ear.
I will personally ensure that the atmosphere that encourages truth will be created for everyone to say their truth and for the accused to adequately defend themselves.

My first reaction won’t be the shame the accuser.

Y’all need to do better. It’s despicable what you support

Ur a lady I believe..
So let's put in that position u were raped by a man, u still remain close to that man for 20yrs then u speak up to say u were raped...