₦airaland Forum

martineverest:
ubi don bribe the judge ...useless people

Obviously

AuroraB:
Obviously

it trust Lilian she will right it till her last breath..she will use multiple baby Mamas as a evidence against him

Gosh, the judge they funny no be small

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You love preserving the family when it’s male infidelity

Shut your hypocrite mouth

PHIPEX:
Fairness is subjective so quit being sentimental. You and I weren't in court and you didn't hear what the judge heard. The issue they had isn't all about what you heard in the social media so don't think you know better than the judge in this matter nor care about them more than anyone else.

The aim here is preservation of the family system not a showcase of gender equality.

DrTee1:
Hey! Folks blaming the Judge do not understand what happens in Courts.

The Court is a place for legal matters - not emotions - and everything is done in the open, and can get into the media.

A Judge can refuse to dissolve a marriage even if the couples, both members of the marriage, agree to a divorce.

You've got to prove irreconcilable differences in court.

So for celebrities who are married by the Marriage Act, and whose breakup and divorce matters would get to the Courts (and social media!), where information revealed there is like being in the open market square and washing dirty linen, it is not like social media trials at all.

The couple who want separation have to really to convince a Judge that the differences are indeed irreconcilable, it can be very difficult to be honest and plain and not want to tarnish the image of the other party but leaving the real sleaze out - and still get a divorce when there is no hatred between the couple who simply want a legal separation.

The Judge would tell the couple and their lawyers that S/He was not there when they were loving each other and having fun to the extent of marriage and children - and s/he isn't convinced that the separation is irreconcilable. Oya, alele, go back home to continue your love and don't put your divorce on my head/name.

It is like Pilate washing his hands off the crucifixion of Jesus. It is difficult for people who don't work around the courts or visit it regularly to understand these things. To put it clearly, if two people in marriage do not exemplify extremely negative emotions towards each other, it is almost impossible to get a divorce before a Judge. For every friendliness the court sees, it would be willing to explore it and restore the marriage.

Judges are more interested in reconciliation of marriages than divorce. Marriage isn't for kids or people who cannot deal with extreme issues and keep the evidence if you ever want to get a divorce. Now, that is very difficult, because only a very wicked person can stay in a marriage and be keeping evidence of abuse against his/her wife/husband - so you see, except where there are clearly established cases of infidelity or threat to life or something - it is very difficult to honestly prove a case for divorce in court.

So yes, the next time you read something about proceeding from divorce cases, please know that in most cases, the issues are exaggerated so as to make the Judge get convinced.


N.B: Note that I didn't say 'all cases'

Well, This judge actually wants fame, he knew they are celebrity and I thinks he also infused emotion on this judgement. No court or judge can force two people to remain married against their will. Meanwhile irreconcilable differences is used at no fault divorce, nobody has to prove anything, it means we no wan do again. It's not his or her fault but we are not compatible. Anywhere, even in contested divorce, once the couple could not reconcile during the time that was given to them , the marriage is dissolved even if one party is not in agreement. But by law, the judge has to seek ways to salvage it and if he cannot within the stipulated time, dissolve it. They married in customary court to, lilian parents should first of all return the bride proce to ubi village or take it to the customary court if ubi no accept it. High court or low court no fit enter. Judge wants to be in the news,

cococandy:
You love preserving the family when it’s male infidelity

Shut your hypocrite mouth

Now that it involves insults I'll say goodbye, thought we were having reasonable discussion.

Reasonable? Indeed

Also ways insulting about pointing out your hypocrisy?

PHIPEX:
Now that it involves insults I'll say goodbye, thought we were having reasonable discussion.

Good

Tunagee:
Traditional marriage is handled by the magistrate court, and lawyers are needed to file the petition, or be on the defensive when issue of properties, assets are involved.

Customary Court for Traditional Marriage and Sharia Court for Islamic Marriage.
Magistrate’s Courts don’t have jurisdiction

efavour:
Well, This judge actually wants fame, he knew they are celebrity and I thinks he also infused emotion on this judgement. No court or judge can force two people to remain married against their will. Meanwhile irreconcilable differences is used at no fault divorce, nobody has to prove anything, it means we no wan do again. It's not his or her fault but we are not compatible. Anywhere, even in contested divorce, once the couple could not reconcile during the time that was given to them , the marriage is dissolved even if one party is not in agreement. But by law, the judge has to seek ways to salvage it and if he cannot within the stipulated time, dissolve it. They married in customary court to, lilian parents should first of all return the bride proce to ubi village or take it to the customary court if ubi no accept it. High court or low court no fit enter. Judge wants to be in the news,

First question: Are you a lawyer?

If you are, I'll withdraw from further discussions. I don't argue with lawyers. They make money from arguments.

If you aren't, we may converse.

Irrespective, the judge wants to be in the news? For what reason? When did judges start issuing judgements to get popular?

Who is the most popular Judge in Nigeria in that regard? What would the Judge use the popularity for? Business? Social media relevance?

When did the Bench become that?

I disagree with that presumption of yours.

LearnITsmash:
Lillian will be like ohhhhh and I have one allahaji who wants to marry me now, kai which kind wahala be this naaaa

This is Lilian and the Alhaji

Xisnin:
And when things turn violent and deadly, you will come here to insult the erring party
or even blame the victim.
Courts should grant a divorce to any couple who wants it for whatever reason.

Some unscrupulous partner can even accuse their ex of heinous crimes or irresponsibility just to get divorce
because they know that our courts don't like the truth.

when the going was good, who and what was responsible, now the going is going sour , who is now also responsible,
Ego is the root cause of most break up and marital problem, the only way out is for people to keep me aside and think over their problem.

Nthrone:
when the going was good, who and what was responsible, now the going is going sour , who is now also responsible,
Ego is the root cause of most break up and marital problem, the only way out is for people to keep me aside and think over their problem.

The cause doesn't matter. When a relationship is not working, the participant must be allowed
to freely choose their own solutions.

Xisnin:
The cause doesn't matter. When a relationship is not working, the participant must be allowed
to freely choose their own solutions.

Go to the law court, and listen to the complaint of some these married people that want divorce, most ,if not all of them are hilarious. The only time divorce is and should be non negotiable is in the case of adultery and physical abuse, as for others, it can and will be managed if partners can hide their egos and talk.