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Obataosu:
what will you do if you found out that the woman you want to marry is an OSU and she is also pregnant for you?
this is the current situation I found myself in now. this lady is beautiful to the core and she love me to the extend that she is now thinking of committing suicide because my people don't marry OSU. this lady is a type of woman you will marry and you will never regret it. she is so loving, caring, she can share whatever she have just to make you happy. this lady is pregnant for me. you guys should advise me please.

Which kind Osu? Is there any scriptural passage that says anyone should be known and addressed as Osu?

Marry that lady before you lose your soulmate.
Osu my foot! Even in this modern day?

Worst case scenario, don't tell your family about her pregnancy until she puts to bed. In fact, don't tell them she's "an osu".

Obataosu:
sir/ma'am, I'm too responsible to fake this type of information. is still in practice in my village. I'm not begging you to believe me.

I believed you man 100%.. though it seems as if it has been abolished but the stigma attached to anyone marrying from a different caste is a different ballgame...

if u think that you can endure the sidetalks from your family members, community and age mates, then go for it man.. what matters is what makes you happy.. others are just secondary..

But don't marry her now then tomorrow u start acting as if u did her a big favour by marrying her.. u succumb to pressure from family members and taunts from the community.. It is better for you to chicken out now that you can, instead of making her life a living hell in future.. Remember she has no fault in all of these.. she didn't asked to be born in a place where she will be discriminated upon

Just saying all these because the coded taunts will happen, Stupid remarks will occur, Some will try to annoy you deliberately.. are u ready to deal with it the best way that you can? Are you really ready to ignore their ignorance and stupidity? .. Are u ready to fight for your love for her? If yes then you are good to go..

just email me some cake after the wedding man.. I am crazy about lemon flavoured cake for your information .. I will appreciate it ... good luck buddy

Richy4:
I believed you man 100%.. though it seems as if it has been abolished but the stigma attached to anyone marrying from a different caste is a different ballgame...

if u think that you can endure the sidetalks from your family members, community and age mates, then go for it man.. what matters is what makes you happy.. others are just secondary..

But don't marry her now then tomorrow u start acting as if u did her a big favour by marrying her.. u succumb to pressure from family members and taunts from the community.. It is better for you to chicken out now that you can, instead of making her life a living hell in future.. Remember she has no fault in all of these.. she didn't asked to be born in a place where she will be discriminated upon

Just saying all these because the coded taunts will happen, Stupid remarks will occur, Some will try to annoy you deliberately.. are u ready to deal with it the best way that you can? Are you really ready to ignore their ignorance and stupidity? .. Are u ready to fight for your love for her? If yes then you are good to go..

just email me some cake after the wedding man.. I am crazy about lemon flavoured cake for your information .. I will appreciate it ... good luck buddy

I just fell in love with your write ups. Best comment in nairaland since this 2019. Your comment just described how intelligent and matured you are. Keep it up dear

Acidosis:
I wonder the kind of religion some of you carry on your head. Every Sunday morning, you wake up, head towards the church for mass, listen to messages about sanctification, new birth, rebirth, etc., yet hang on to some deity beliefs.

For your own good, discard that deity and forge ahead with your life (but ensure you're a partaker and a believer of Christ). If you don't hold on to the new covenant, the past will ALWAYS come back to visit you, whether she's OSU or not. Your forefathers have terrible history so you need to disconnect yourself and your family. This is not about OSU, it's about the past (filthy history with rituals) you do not know.

May God bless you for this comment. Many people fear men more than God walahi!

needful:
I just fell in love with your write ups. Best comment in nairaland since this 2019. Your comment just described how intelligent and matured you are. Keep it up dear

Thanks

Bro marry her cos it has been abolished in iboland...ur village might be sanctioned if found to still practice it....by d way osu people r d most handsome n beautiful species of humans set aside specially for d gods which is why till today all osu genes remain d most gorgeous till date if u spectrum thru any OSU person u see...d gods were only given d best of d best in sacrifice so that explains their nice outward appearance....they r also rich n really industrious humans...they never deserved all d shame Ibos meted out to them till date

Ardar:
Afonja what's your business with Igbos?

You're talking about disunity, have you forgotten ife vs modokeke saga? Or

Yoruba Moslems vs Yoruba Christians or

Yoruba Moslems vs Yoruba traditionalists etc that we see on nairaland?

Dey there and be mumuing your self.

Your IQ is too low for me to exchange banters with you. Now I see your foolishness from another perspective. So u think am Yoruba for me to make such comment? You are one of the numerous problems of igbos. I am 100% Igbo from a modern royal home so I don't really have time to waste with lowlife like you.

Fatherofdragons:
Your reply shows 100% that you are not Igbo but looking for trouble where there is none.

You choose obataosu as your moniker because you felt it's connected to your fake thread because of the osu but as a non Igbo, you don't know what it means, you heard your Igbo friend using it and decided it's about osu people.

I don't blame you, and I think you have problem with trust.

extremelygolden:
Which kind Osu? Is there any scriptural passage that says anyone should be known and addressed as Osu?

Marry that lady before you lose your soulmate.
Osu my foot! Even in this modern day?

Worst case scenario, don't tell your family about her pregnancy until she puts to bed. In fact, don't tell them she's "an osu".

I have not told them, but they are planning to visit her village to confirm themselves.

Obataosu:
what will you do if you found out that the woman you want to marry is an OSU and she is also pregnant for you?
this is the current situation I found myself in now. this lady is beautiful to the core and she love me to the extend that she is now thinking of committing suicide because my people don't marry OSU. this lady is a type of woman you will marry and you will never regret it. she is so loving, caring, she can share whatever she have just to make you happy. this lady is pregnant for me. you guys should advise me please.

Very touching! The caste system in Igbo land in this 21st century is a sad one. Bro, she totally makes you happy. Therefore, damn the consequences and marry her. One of the strategic mistakes in life is to be married to someone who does not make you happy-you will be condemned to everlasting agonies. I wish you well.

extremelygolden:
Which kind Osu? Is there any scriptural passage that says anyone should be known and addressed as Osu?

Marry that lady before you lose your soulmate.
Osu my foot! Even in this modern day?

Worst case scenario, don't tell your family about her pregnancy until she puts to bed. In fact, don't tell them she's "an osu".

never will I tell them, but the problem now is that they want to go to her village to enquire.

Richy4:
I believed you man 100%.. though it seems as if it has been abolished but the stigma attached to anyone marrying from a different caste is a different ballgame...

if u think that you can endure the sidetalks from your family members, community and age mates, then go for it man.. what matters is what makes you happy.. others are just secondary..

But don't marry her now then tomorrow u start acting as if u did her a big favour by marrying her.. u succumb to pressure from family members and taunts from the community.. It is better for you to chicken out now that you can, instead of making her life a living hell in future.. Remember she has no fault in all of these.. she didn't asked to be born in a place where she will be discriminated upon

Just saying all these because the coded taunts will happen, Stupid remarks will occur, Some will try to annoy you deliberately.. are u ready to deal with it the best way that you can? Are you really ready to ignore their ignorance and stupidity? .. Are u ready to fight for your love for her? If yes then you are good to go..

just email me some cake after the wedding man.. I am crazy about lemon flavoured cake for your information .. I will appreciate it ... good luck buddy

thanks for that wonderful advice.

platinumventure:
Bro marry her cos it has been abolished in iboland...ur village might be sanctioned if found to still practice it....by d way osu people r d most handsome n beautiful species of humans set aside specially for d gods which is why till today all osu genes remain d most gorgeous till date if u spectrum thru any OSU person u see...d gods were only given d best of d best in sacrifice so that explains their nice outward appearance....they r also rich n really industrious humans...they never deserved all d shame Ibos meted out to them till date

thanks for the advice

Ardar:
Afonja what's your business with Igbos?

You're talking about disunity, have you forgotten ife vs modokeke saga? Or

Yoruba Moslems vs Yoruba Christians or

Yoruba Moslems vs Yoruba traditionalists etc that we see on nairaland?

Dey there and be mumuing your self.

thank God it's only on nairaland. And it always happen in your brain too. And communities in ebonyi and abia always fight over boundary. so?

Obataosu:
never will I tell them, but the problem now is that they want to go to her village to enquire.

Commit everything into the able hands of God.

Please what is OSU?