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Advice Needed by thaprofit88: 3:59pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
I have a situation on my hand. I ll try to be brief. I moved out of my father's house in 2013 to my own rented apartment. His house is a four flat inhabited mostly by his family members. In 2015, I had crisis in my job where salaries were cut by 65%, as at that time one of the family members moved to his personal house so a flat in my father's house was vacant. I moved in. I got married 2016 and my wife joined me in that flat. 2017 till date has opened my eyes to the errors of staying in a family house as family members began disrespecting my mother, my wife and myself and guess what? My father took their side. I paid for an apartment 2 months ago and I intend to move in month end. I told my dad about my plan last night and he was most unsupportive, saying that I am misplacing my priorities that I should have built my house with the money used for paying rent. Saying his family members that stayed are all in their various houses. Am I supposed to follow the family pattern? What's his problem?? Can't I still have my own house whIle in a rented apartment? Comments please. |
Re: Advice Needed by tevanso(m): 4:03pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
thaprofit88:bros u are on the right path. Go ahead and move to your rented apartment. God will bless u from there and u will build ur own house 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed by seyigiggle: 4:17pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
you need peace of mind that would create you wealth |
Re: Advice Needed by chii8(f): 5:11pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
Since you have already paid rent,move out of the family house. Meanwhile, it seems you're from a polygamous family,just work harder,if God blesses your hustle, you will build your own house. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed by babythug(f): 5:41pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
thaprofit88: The family members who stayed on in the house have they built their own houses? If you can move out before month end sef please do so! |
Re: Advice Needed by thorpido(m): 8:13pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
thaprofit88:The bolded answers whatever question you have Your father's impression doesn't have weight in view of the bolded. Not everyone can build a house before marriage or when just starting out. |
Re: Advice Needed by thaprofit88: 8:58pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
tevanso: Thank you |
Re: Advice Needed by thaprofit88: 8:58pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
thorpido: Thanks a lot |
Re: Advice Needed by thaprofit88: 9:00pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
seyigiggle: My thoughts exactly |
Re: Advice Needed by thaprofit88: 9:01pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
chii8: Not polygamous. The family members here are my father's paternal family |
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