₦airaland Forum

Ybaby:
All men with good characters provide for their family. How can you be family oriented on 50k salary you can only wish to be family oriented with 50k you cannot afford yourself talkless of family.

A woman is not yout financial helpmate just like you can not help her carry pregnancy no matter how you want to. If he is a hardworker let him chill till he has money then choose a woman and marry.

I beg you do not recruit another human being into poverty or bring children into hunger

Which experience? You have never been rich so how do you know that there is more to life than being rich. Craaap!

Peace

Ybaby:
Personally I lean fully on my husband - he looks after me and the kids squarely and I am very grateful. He is our hero without him we will be incomplete I will do anything to protect him and look after him. He is a good man..... all my money from my business I invest in real estate for my self and our children.

You are right a woman's beauty depreciates with age and men value beauty above sense so young ladies donot waste your youth on a man like the poster - in his house a woman will age fast and loose her beauty from working like a horse for him. Use your youth and your young look to find a good provider man who will protect you and your kids and build his empire for you and the kids. A hardworking thorough bred man that you will be proud of.

Peace

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Wow and hear I am thinking I was talking to a mature person. OK ma wish you luck in your pursue of a rich man.

Please note I make a minimum of $1500 a month from my business and online trading so I am not a poor man but In the beginning it was not so. All I am saying is that as long as the man have potential, don't write him off.

thebosstrevor:
you also need to look out for yourself and prepare for the what if scenario

Naija men no dey live long ooh, that is why they advise all women to get something doing so that incase the man is not there, she can survive and provide for the kids.

Ybaby:
You are sha insisting on not amounting to much.... na wa o! I am doing my best

You are fighting not to be pressured to be somebody in life

Men have always competed for resources and the big dogs even dominate the resources.

In the animal kingdom - the female only go to th strongest males to reproduce - who wants to produce weaklings and lazy bones.

it is a given that when you mate 2 race horses you will get a race horse so why water down my perfectly good genes and mate with a lazy man who has no ambition, does not want to be inspired and in words wants to run his own race ( as if it is not madness to be in a race all by yourself) imagine the Olympics and only one person running his own race.

Lazyness will fight everything but poverty.

I am married and my husband depends on me to bring the vision so he can work and bring home the prey. When I was single I did everything I could to avoid men like you.

Ybaby:
You are not doing badly, Chief but you are far from rich - with $1500 your potential is "beginning" to show - a lady can start listening to you now but she dares not get pregnant or it is back to square 1.

In the beginning, Adam was alone - Eve did not join him. Please all men learn to be alone in the beginning make something and then ask Eve to join you.

Ybaby:
My husband will live long in Jesus name.

My father did not live long and my mum remarried - a woman must work hard but not at the detriment of her children and her money is hers alone not to feed a grown man. May all good men live till very ripe age and eat from the fruit of their labor.

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Sorry to disappoint you but I already have a lady that has been listening to me as far back as when I was earning less than 50k(naira oo) a month. She saw what only a vitreous woman can see. By December I am wifeing her. By this time next year mark my word. I will be earning nothing less than $5000 a month God willing.

As long as he has POTENTIAL don't write him off yet.

Ybaby:
I am married bruv.

Glad you didnot marry her when you had just 50k salary. She really took a risk on you - hopefully you are worth it.

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She stood by me when I WAS earning LESS than 50k because she saw the potential in me many women missed their God giving husband because they are not willing to hustle with the guy they claim to love. While many will boldly marry a yahoo, armed robber or even a ritualist just to feel among.

I will choose a legitimate hustler with potentials for my daughter over a wealthy man who can not explain his source of wealth.

Peace.

thebosstrevor:
i was expecting that, it seems most nigerians do not live in reality, this is not about prayer of long health but lack of medical care by your government

as the health sector improves so will the life expectancy rate of both men and women improve, presently the life expectancy of Nigerians is around 54.5 years of age according to WHO data, with men living an average of 53.7 years and women living an average of 55.4 years, also to live long, your lifestyle matters, alcohol, smoking, good food,exercise, good sleep etc, all matters for living long.

A woman money is her money alone, a man's man is for both the woman and man, we are living in 2019

i think your mentality is the reason why many Nigerian marriages are in a mess, every body got to put something on the table,maybe life will be easy for some men.

djon78:
Your husband depend on you for vision? Nothing person no go hear for nairaland and you call me lazy.......

I said no competition
No pressure
Running one own race meant I am lazy
Well its your level of understanding

But note this
Humans are most creative when less pressure. Think better productive thoughts that yield better results
Most of you Ladies are materialistic
You worship money
I don't worship money
Rather I create and deliver quality value
And money naturally follows me
And I get the best enjoyment out of it
Likewise my woman has no option than to follow my direction
That's why many men are having low life expectancy in this part of the world
This life is meant to be enjoyed
Not for a man to come and kill himself
For a money monger that doesn't give a damn about him but his money

Ybaby:
No ! One more question.
When last did you pay school fees??

Ybaby:
She is the table!

Without her you cannot have children to carry on your lineage. She brings pregnancy and breastfeeding to the table. You bring to her

Ybaby:
You have no money how can you lead.....

Lead her to poverty ?? Men are meant to work what do you think your logical brain is there for - what do you think your muscles are there for

Lazy men don't lead they follow their wives into her home or bring her into their father's home....

Avoid lazy men who are crazy enough to want access to women's pussycats - get some soap and put on some marlian music - ko jo soapy.

thebosstrevor:
na wa ooh, just because she bring children to the lineage meaning, she should be lazying about

basically her life ambition is to get pregnant and breastfeed the child like it is the only job in the world a woman can do

kay4kay:
The issues is that while struggling, she would have served all the sugar daddy the juicy part of the cookie. Her age bracket now wise up will rather go for the smalies with juicy kitten.

MasterRahl:

The women who should respond to Alibaba's post should be female doctors, female IT experts, female pharmacists, female academicians, female boutique and supermarket owners, female nurses, female hoteliers, female programmers, female civil servants, & other numerous females whose profession adds value to human lives. These glorified oloshos who call themselves actresses are NOT SUCCESSFUL in the true sense of the word.
By success, I mean those who have felt the brunt of the Nigerian economy and still rose above it.

marriedvirgin:
That is the greatest level up.Wetin you dey drink?I want serve you for this excellent comment.


quote author=Ybaby post=82402799]The solution to this problem is simple.

Ladies stop giving poor men the puussycat - trust me! Adam was incredibly lazy that Eve had to be created to entice Adam to work.

The only way Lazy men can have a little ambition is if you do not entertain them.

Lazy men are happy to dance soapy - let them! Give the soap and vaseline - only gravitate towards men with means.

Thank you.

Smile4mee01:
Education and freedom is leaving more and more women more successful financially and I think this formula of women going to school, find a job and wait to get married could be a lie sold to women to make them think a womans priority is to be rich and successful.

Though they end up rich, they often are not fulfilled emotionally as marriage, love and Love seem to elude them.

Women are trying so hard to be men. They are quick to say what a man can do a woman can do better but you will rarely see a man mention what a woman can do he can do as well. Men know thier place and will never attempt to be women but women want to be men.

Haven said that. I think the key is age. Get married early, have all the kids you want to have early say before 30. Then you can choose to pursue a career all the way. Should you wait to choose to get your bsc. MSC. PhD. You would ask your self where have all the good men gone.

Ask Linda Ikeji.

mhizv:
I wonder why most guys feel any successful and independent woman,must have given up her body in exchange for whatever she has achieved.
There are women who are goal getters and do the that right way. Enough with the stereotype abeg

opebiboy:
Go sleep old harlot

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Wow and hear I am thinking I was talking to a mature person. OK ma wish you luck in your pursue of a rich man.

Please note I make a minimum of $1500 a month from my business and online trading so I am not a poor man but In the beginning it was not so. All I am saying is that as long as the man have potential, don't write him off.

Ybaby:
@opebiboy
@Smile4mee01
@masterrahl
@thebosstrevor (boss 4 mouth)
@kay4kay
@somehow


I did not know you guys are on Twitter. How is OTA today guys?

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Ladies be at alert o LA not OTA in Jesus name
@mhizv
@marriedvirgin


I did not know you are on Twitter. How is OTA today?

Ybaby:
My dear if more women were praised for staying at home and training thier children we will have less men like you. The subliminal message is loud enough.

thebosstrevor:
funny enough we have hundreds of women like you as home stay mums whose main job is to pop kids out but i wonder why we still have lot of yahoo yahoo boys and prostitutes all over the place. It seems like so called mothers like you arent doing their job exceptm popping out kids like rat, no wonder we are over populated and crime infested society.

Ybaby:
That's your mama you described dear, you know her so well. I mean see how you turned out inspite her best efforts.

thebosstrevor:
i described you.

Nothing special, basically the society we live in is a true reflection of the type of home training so called mothers are giving their children, our crime infested society has showned that women are overated, we can see how our society turn out to be.

Ybaby:
Honey, you don't know me ? do you know my name?

but your mum - you know her , you know her name and I agree she is not special and absolutely overrated - for her to have done the 9 months - gone to heaven and all she could find to bring to earth is you? She has really contaminated the society - all it would have taken was 2 tablets of postinor and you would have been flushed in to the gutter where you truly belong.

Now she has a son who knows she is a woman and says women are overrated therefore she is overrated and a true disgrace to the woman folk.

We sympathise with her about you being her failed project and a societal ingrate. When you get home please tell her women including herself is overrated.... she is your first experience of a woman and she did a terrible job.

My regards to your overrated mummy