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Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Nobody: 11:11am On Oct 05, 2019

All these liars everywhere.
Now,in the present day Nigeria,men are looking for a made woman to marry grin

I went to 2 marriage ceremonies where the brides footed the bill from a to z.
The dude left his one room apartment with joy to go and live with her.

Another was the babe's family that did everything. Mr man don't have and his fellow guys considered him very lucky to have met such luck in life.
They are living in a house giving to them by her family.
His life is better now.

It's only when u see yourself in such scenario, u still think like a cave man that a woman should worship.
U don't help out in the house and expect to be worshiped cos u have prick, the woman will unleash her terror on you or eventually frustrate your life.

Play your part and this woman will make sure u become the envy of most men.
U will definitely have her back always.

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Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by tosyne2much(m): 11:12am On Oct 05, 2019

Bizibi:
exactly,it is very important, especially if she is the serious type of person. It becomes easy when your wife is well respected and she gives you that respect...... I remember the owner of a popular hotel in ihama road, G.R.A,benin city,the man and the wife are simple,but their wealth alone..... Some of us thought the woman was richer than the man until she told us not compare her to him. They stayed together and raised their children,one of their sons is managing the hotel now

Honestly it is a thing of joy to work together as one,when you see some marriages, to marry go sweet you.

Exactly bro!.. Working together and pulling resources together to build wealth is the best thing any couple can do. It's usually very easy to build wealth when both of you join hands and pull resources together not when one of you is only doing it for their own selfish motive

The respect wealth commands not to only you but your wife in the society no be small thing bro

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Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Bizibi(m): 11:14am On Oct 05, 2019

tosyne2much:
Exactly bro!.. Working together and pulling resources together to build wealth is the best thing any couple can do. It's usually very easy to build wealth when both of you join hands and pull resources together not when one of you is only doing it for their own selfish motive

The respect wealth commands not to only you but your wife in the society no be small thing bro

yes brother

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by mechanics(m): 11:15am On Oct 05, 2019

Hahahah, she can sell her house and move into his house or sell his house and move into her house, base on compromise.

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Nobody: 11:20am On Oct 05, 2019

tosyne2much:
Even if the woman is humility personified and doesn't humiliate the man with it, what about the in-laws? Honestly, in the African settings, a man being housed by a woman is never regarded by his in-laws

It's a big lie.
Very big lie.
In law will come in if u don't respect their daughter or sister.

There are so many big men daughters that married into poor families and they are doing very well. Most of the time the big man settles the husband and help push him up.

It's never an issue in my place.
As a matter of fact, from what we gathered, marriage between rich daughters and poor husbands hardly ever end in divorce unlike when the two are from rich family.
Also men tend to respect their rich wives more than poor woman married to a rich boy. The boys background and family always see the woman as gold digger.

If a woman from rich family happens to love you and a friend or member of her family call her husband gold digger, she will mostly go gaga with such person. So u can talk secretly but not on her face.

Go to Abuja, that's the target of most Abuja bachelors now.
Country hard.

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Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by marinepatrol: 11:35am On Oct 05, 2019

[quote author=Breaststroke post=82805628]Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

You wouldn't understand until u marry? Our Ego stands to protect us.

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Ryan03(f): 11:39am On Oct 05, 2019

Jayslicky:
As a man never move into your wife's house because when things go sour between you and your wife the humiliation and insults you would receive would be able to give you a cardiac arrest, men be wise!!! Don't do it especially if she is a Nigerian woman, they naturally have entitlement spirit.

and when foreign women throw their husband's to the street because of marital issues irrespective of who have the house? Stop tarnishing the name of Nigeria women

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Wiifesnatcher(m): 11:54am On Oct 05, 2019

khome:
Continue confusing yourself jare

mumu girl, as if the confusion will reinstate your lost senses

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Ryan03(f): 11:58am On Oct 05, 2019

Jayslicky:
Men you see what I am talking about, she said my house not our house

as a man, you built a house in your name before marriage, will you change the ownership to include her name after marriage? When you know how greedy some humans can be? Sometimes we act as if women are not humans also and should surrender all their properties once married

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Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by updatedws: 11:59am On Oct 05, 2019

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

Very rare to see gals talk sense like this on this forum..

like you searching right?

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Ryan03(f): 12:02pm On Oct 05, 2019

AntiBrutus:
If he doesn't want to stay in her house, he can go live on a cliff. Ain't no one begging a nigga to use his head and do what is best for everyone.

His house better be his o. Because if it is on rent, I am not contributing to it.

crazy girl, I like your sincerity cheesy

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:10pm On Oct 05, 2019

naijadrivablog:
Assuming your wife-to-be has a mansion and car while you have (or live in) a modest house, whose house would you live in when you get married?

https://mobile.twitter.com/naijadrivablog/status/1179640427600863233

I know a married couple who after marriage moved to the woman's house. It is logic. Her house was bigger and more befitting for a couple ready to start a family. We need to let go of this African mentality. .. Move into her house and rent his own out for extra income. They can't rent out her house. Who will be able to afford rent for that?

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:14pm On Oct 05, 2019

Breaststroke:
Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

the African mentality of the average African man and envy they have for a woman of power is appalling... I see no reason why I should be ashamed if my girlfriend, fiancé or wife has more wealth than myself... It is childish and very reckless...

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:19pm On Oct 05, 2019

Fountainofyouth:
So non Nigerian women don't have same traits? Or do you want to say Oyinbo women are of good behaviour even when the horseband is the owner of the house? I understand that most of you guys here have extremely low self esteem and also nationality racism but once in a while, tell your brain to switch on the sense button too.

there re certain things you give no answer to.. A lot of guys on this platform have very low self esteem and bush mentality. Reality hasn't hit most of us here... When e set, dem go get brain... Meanwhile, not everyone is meant to be smart...

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Nobody: 12:23pm On Oct 05, 2019

Ryan03:
crazy girl, I like your sincerity

I can't come and kill myself for Naija man matter. You do or you don't do- you are doomed.

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Beesluv: 12:39pm On Oct 05, 2019

His house. They can rent her house out

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Worriedgurl: 12:44pm On Oct 05, 2019

Jayslicky:
As a man never move into your wife's house because when things go sour between you and your wife the humiliation and insults you would receive would be able to give you a cardiac arrest, men be wise!!! Don't do it especially if she is a Nigerian woman, they naturally have entitlement spirit.

Same way you Men boot us out of your houses if things go sour.

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by kiddkash(m): 12:47pm On Oct 05, 2019

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

nice thinking. i would marry you but i am not that old enough for marriage

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Boatswain: 12:52pm On Oct 05, 2019

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by naijadrivablog(op): 1:18pm On Oct 05, 2019

CHESTER48:
that's stupidity. Your wife has mansion and you then go and rent a house wasting money. You don't have business brain. Let's assume you get a house you can pay 600k per year. Cause your wife can't build a mansion to follow you and live in a 2 or 3 bedrooms apartment never possible. If you save that 600k for 5 years or even 10. Can get you a cheap land and build a house. Like you said, you guys knew yourselves she knew you don't have money and you know she has. Then how can she come and suffer when she married you knowing you're poor but loves you and want to share here wealth with you. Myopic

I like how my comment thoughtfully provoked you.

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by khome(f): 1:20pm On Oct 05, 2019

Wiifesnatcher:
mumu girl, as if the confusion will reinstate your lost senses

I rest my case, i can feel your pain

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by ogawisdom(m): 1:23pm On Oct 05, 2019

Lol don't marry a woman richer than you if want any atom of respect from her cool

shoe get size abeg.

But if u are a gold digger n DNT mind being used as a house boy then u are good to go.

Marrying a woman richer than u automatically makes a man a woman. A rich woman is just another man with a puci

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Wiifesnatcher(m): 1:30pm On Oct 05, 2019

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khome:
I rest my case, i can feel your pain

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which case is the mumu girl resting. nonsense girl

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by tosyne2much(m): 2:11pm On Oct 05, 2019

Osobi32:
We will live in my small house for a short while then I will upgrade to a modern bungalow. I will never live under a woman's roof.... Not out of pride, am just respecting myself coz even if she don't insult u someday her family or relatives will.

I've seen men living with the pride's parents and bearing children there.. I've also seen men living with their own parents together with their wives and are bearing children there. Not temporarily oooo, I mean permanently

I once lived in a house, the man has two sons and they both married and gave birth to five children each in the same house oooo. They feel highly of themselves and are very proud of it grin

There are some certain things don't dignify a man no matter how much we try to paint it well, but I really don't know if I'm the only one who sees it this way

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Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by djon78(m): 3:14pm On Oct 05, 2019

Marriage makes them one. Let's leave all this bickering. If the woman is the one that owns a house, if marriage is really true, then it belongs to both of them.

Many men get benefits from there wives.
My oga that mentored me in business. His wife was an ExxonMobil engineer, as in international staff level.

Then he hadn't much, but the guy was controlling everything, even his wife's account, ATM everything. The woman was completely loyal.
He started a thriving lucrative business now worth 100s of millions from his wife's money.
Today they live in the US, ExxonMobil transferred the woman to there international headquarters. The wife brain hot wells, had first class in engineering.
But my oga then na very responsible man. Never messed around, very well cultured.

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by Kooldon(f): 5:09pm On Oct 05, 2019

His house and rent out mine to make more money for Dubai Travels
grin

Re: Whose House Would You Live In After Wedding? (Pictured) by vikstandon(m): 5:25pm On Oct 05, 2019

naijadrivablog:
Assuming your wife-to-be has a mansion and car while you have (or live in) a modest house, whose house would you live in when you get married?

https://mobile.twitter.com/naijadrivablog/status/1179640427600863233

Put it on rent... Together we stay on mine.
We use the proceeds plus what am able to raise and build a house together.

Is better to contribute together to our growth than to depend solely on the feminine possession... She would insult you with it some day directly or indirectly.