Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

The fact that your brother held it down for those years by paying rent made the difference. For one thing I am sure your family would not have been comfortable with him moving in with his wife from onset. There is mutual respect when the man takes that big responsibility of at least paying the rent.

KaBabs1:
It depends. If she built the house with her money, I'm definitely moving in with her.

Even if na e sugar daddy build house I go still dey der, she married me and naija too hard for priding

franchasng:
lol



All the ladies saying it doesn't matter are currently BROKE!! Don't listen to what they are typing now, wait until they get the money and then hear their real opinion.



All the guys saying I will move into her house are either students, teenage boys still living life based on the few foreign romance novels they read, wait until they get mature and start facing reality of life in Nigeria

you dey mind them, I dated one Lady then those she's staying with are so Rich, the day she invited me to Ibadan (our first meeting) she spent nothing less than 45k that day. she spent money like mad because I just graduated then but I notice after some few months she started feeling fly. I told her see girl, you're spending for me and I'm giving you fvck, my diick too is expensive. that was what really dropped the relationship, she want someone that will be worshipping her even if I date Buhari's daughter I won't auction my self esteem



Rich ladies are full of pride if poor guys fall in their hand. make sure she make you Rich at least 40% of her financial weight before going on with marriage plan

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

Better woman, pls will u marry me? Am on my knees.

Wiifesnatcher:




you dey mind them, I dated one Lady then those she's staying with are so Rich, the day she invited me to Ibadan (our first meeting) she spent nothing less than 45k that day. she spent money like mad because I just graduated then but I notice after some few months she started feeling fly. I told her see girl, you're spending for me and I'm giving you fvck, my diick too is expensive. that was what really dropped the relationship, she want someone that will be worshipping her even if I date Buhari's daughter I won't auction my self esteem



Rich ladies are full of pride if poor guys fall in their hand. make sure she make you Rich at least 40% of her financial weight

lol, the guy don't need to tell her to make him rich, use your brain and enrich yourself with her connect and if she bleeps up, dump her ass for some 18+ hotties, pls don't let Kristina see this

My neighbors or my drivers house.

Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

it is not about ego. But people are judging from people's experience.

Dagger111:


Better woman, pls will u marry me? Am on my knees.

lol, I hope u have looked well oh, she is talking in proxy based on *if she had the wealth.....so wait for her to have the wealth first, then u can believe her action not even her words

It dépend on Who she is before we decide, if she is an understanding girl and decent girl and not too socialise with fake life style we Will move into her house, because her own House is big enough And enough space to live normal life, and i Will put my own House on rent SO that money Will be enter, but nothing bad in moving into your wife house only if she is a good Lady, yoruba said karodimaso korosomadi kidisatimagbofo mean ( rap rapper round our bottom or rap bottom round rapper, dont just live your bottom empty )

franchasng:
lol



All the ladies saying it doesn't matter are currently BROKE!! Don't listen to what they are typing now, wait until they get the money and then hear their real opinion.



All the guys saying I will move into her house are either students, teenage boys still living life based on the few foreign romance novels they read, wait until they get mature and start facing reality of life in Nigeria

I totally agree with you. The comments show the spectrum of persons here

Mekenz:
if the building is hers, I will gladly move in with her, and rent out my own bungalow, I doesn't see anything wrong with that, because I will still be fulfilling my duties as the head of the house.

exactly,
u have positive way of thinking

One of my Male friend married his wife in this scenario. Dude was still hustling, wife already made with a duplex to her name but dude refuse they move into her place and lady agreed but today dude is made and quadruple wife's riches...in fact wife now "hawk" perfume and the marriage is fantastic after over 10 years.

I have yet another dude who married a rich babe yet again. Fantastic duplex, SUV, cars etc but guy man was a casual worker then when they married but till date they're still married and guy man without any meaningful income still maintain his husband man status but I know he most of the time is the "wife ".

franchasng:
lol, the guy don't need to tell her to make him rich, use your brain and enrich yourself with her connect and if she bleeps up, dump her ass for some 18+ hotties, pls don't let Kristina see this

sometimes things doesn't go that way. she can take you to court if she found out you trick her or you've been exploiting her. no rich lady will allow you go Scot free when she realized your deceit


there are many way of influencing a lady to bless you without stressing ya brain

Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

onky a fool will follow the b word and coming out of your mouth.. Before even checking the monitor. My6min'told me the person who wrote this must be a nugheriaac woman and yes I am female...the days there is a small misunderstanding between you and that Nigerian wife will be one of the days you regret living in a house built by your wife... Say all you can.. E3en a secret that could cost your life will be spilled by you Nigerian wommgen.. Believe them truthfully on your own peril

naijadrivablog:
Assuming your wife-to-be has a mansion and car while you have (or live in) a modest house, whose house would you live in when you get married?


https://mobile.twitter.com/naijadrivablog/status/1179640427600863233

Anywhere she wants as long I have my job and making money

Only a misogynistic man will refuse moving into the more comfortable house.

A smart man will put his own house for rent and move in immediately with the woman.

naijadrivablog:
Assuming your wife-to-be has a mansion and car while you have (or live in) a modest house, whose house would you live in when you get married?


https://mobile.twitter.com/naijadrivablog/status/1179640427600863233

certainly my house whatever,no two ways about it.

There are women you should just not marry at all especially if their is this much difference in level.

But there are also women who actually love & respect their husband no matter how wealthy she is.



So decisions will be made based on personality, Am a free somebody, I don't care anything else as long as we both no our roles as husband & wife

Well it's noteven by force...if you can't wait till you find a woman even who when even making the least of point would think it's low self esteem, then don't marry... The day you are humiliated then your brain would reset... She was once a very loving disrespectful wife but now there is guts to shame you...

Every one with his or her cross...nigerian woman with money will shame you one day.

My junior brother had a fiancee a live in lover until she got a job and moved to another town. Company she works for gave her accommodate and property allowance and before you know it she already got a tastefully furnished apartment. They got married after few months and first visit of my brother to her place, she began dishing instructions on how and when to use the house appliances something she enjoyed seamlessly before in her husband's house. My brother came back and marriage ended almost immediately.

Imagine if she owns a duplex and my brother wasn't gainfully employed.

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

A million blessings for you if what you said is really the truth from your mind.

Wiifesnatcher:



sometimes things doesn't go that way. she can take you to court if she found out you trick her or you've been exploiting her. no rich lady will allow you go Scot free when she realized your deceit


there are many way of influencing a lady to bless you without stressing ya brain

anyway, I might not know about this one cos I from day 1 hated the idea of a lady spending on me or giving me money cos to me, I don't even consider any lady as richer than me even if she is a billionaire, I still see their money as nonexistent and insignificant

Wetin eye no go read

Rafiq2:
There are women you should just not marry at all especially if their is this much difference in level.

But there are also women who actually love & respect their husband no matter how wealthy she is.



So decisions will be made based on personality, Am a free somebody, I don't care anything else as long as we both no our roles as husband & wife

you just finish everything in mind.. It's the personality. Some women would live you no matter how richer they are to you..those ones are few... The ones who actually have time to think you have low Cass esteem all over Maura land are majority of:the ones who would embarrass you later in life if you don't step up... It's not by force to marry a way with bad character but has money. You only reduced your life span by a Decade or so.

Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

Because of you "women" o. Most times ehn, una matter dey always need time for man to understand well.

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

My thought exactly

Rafiq2:
There are women you should just not marry at all especially if their is this much difference in level.

But there are also women who actually love & respect their husband no matter how wealthy she is.



So decisions will be made based on personality, Am a free somebody, I don't care anything else as long as we both no our roles as husband & wife

maybe white ladies, not black or Nigerian women, not possible....in fact the relationship won't even lead to marriage if the guy is not rich or as rich as her, oh no, in fact the dating won't even start talk more of relationship

Definitely my house... It embarrassing for a man to move into a woman's house whether she inherent it or not...

franchasng:
anyway, I might not know about this one cos I from day 1 hated the idea of a lady spending on me or giving me money cos to me, I don't even consider any lady as richer than me even if she is a billionaire, I still see their money as nonexistent and insignificant

oh OK. you're entitled your opinion my main man



nothing do you

some Nigerian men and poverty are in good terms.
Many will opt to rent a house than move in with a woman with good property like this.

Home is where the heart is...