kneehighbootz:
flyca, you're a god. You're my WCE ( Woman Crush Everyday). I like the way you said the truth, no bullshit.
God bless you and continue to bless you forever.
As for OP, Beverlypie, you're a scammer and you only initiated that marriage for the green card or passport just like your other scamming black brethren.

Its black men like you that hawk yourselves for passports to countries that men like you built and established and then you turn around to abuse black women.

For passports, men like you are ready to sleep with even a white corpse just to stay in a foreign country. My sincere wish is that that white woman deals severely with you. By the time she's through with you, you will forget your own name.

Scammer!!!!

LMAO "Sleep with a white corpse". That's GOLDEN.

2buffagain:


It is, isn't it?

This is why I don't even give change to akata/white-people begging in the streets.
You have a blue passport/citizenship. That's all you need to be successful in this yankee....if you want to be.

To add to the fact that this hobo citizen also likely voted for Trump and blames me for his condition instead of his own laziness...Nigga isn't getting a dime of my compassion pennies. It's as dumb as some idiot from the north voting for Buhari, and then coming to beg me for money on my street. The nerve.

When I see those meth head white junkies begging on the street I just laugh and think "What a waste of white privilege." Those sorry homeless opioid son of a Bytches have moved on the mountain in my neighborhood.

They are living under cardboard boxes with so much junk surrounding them and are stinking up the neighborhood.

I called Code Enforcement to get them out but because they are white they have the complection for the protection and nothing is being done about it.

We are holding a community meeting in our park next month to discuss solutions to get rid of those foul demons. They should not be around our children. It is illegal for them to squat on that beautiful mountain, but you know the rest.

khiaa:


When I see those meth head white junkies begging on the street I just laugh and think "What a waste of white privilege." Those sorry homeless opioid son of a Bytches have moved on the mountain in my neighborhood.

They are living under cardboard boxes with so much junk surrounding them and are stinking up the neighborhood.

I called Code Enforcement to get them out but because they are white they have the complection for the protection and nothing is being done about it.

We are holding a community meeting in our park next month to discuss solutions to get rid of those foul demons. They should not be around our children. It is illegal for them to squat on that beautiful mountain, but you know the rest.

im not in the state, but those white folks are everywhere. I give them my change when I have any. I can’t really blame them. It takes true sickness to understand the value of health and true hardship to understand opportunity when u see one.
Some of urs had the opportunity to experience hardship before comfort so we will never abuse it.

Some of those guys don’t really understand what life is all about.

Beverlypie:
im not in the state, but those white folks are everywhere. I give them my change when I have any. I can’t really blame them. It takes true sickness to understand the value of health and true hardship to understand opportunity when u see one.
Some of urs had the opportunity to experience hardship before comfort so we will never abuse it.

Some of those guys don’t really understand what life is all about.

I don't give a damn what happens to white people, all they have shown is wickedness in this country to all people who are not white throughout the history of the United States and still today.

I could careless if they fell of the face of the Earth, the planet would be so much better without them on it. I wonder how many Nigerians you showed the same compassion for when you were there.

PS..If you don't blame them for their behavior who is responsible for it?Doing drugs was a choice that they made. You brought up my people, well they have always had hardship in this country due to the injustice of the people you chose to lay down with and show unreturned compassion for.

khiaa:


I don't give a damn what happens to white people, all they have shown is wickedness in this country to all people who are not white throughout the history of the United States and still today.

I could careless if they fell of the face of the Earth, the planet would be so much better without them on it. I wonder how many Nigerians you showed the same compassion for when you were there.

PS..If you don't blame them for their behavior who is responsible for it?Doing drugs was a choice that they made. You brought up my people, well they have always had hardship in this country due to the injustice of the people you chose to lay down with and show unreturned compassion for.

Lol .... u are right

Beverlypie:


Lol .... u are right

I'm glad you understand, as for your situation, move on, you'll find the right woman for you to have your beautiful babies. What country are you in?

A lot of Nairalanders are going to get pissed at me for saying this, but hey, I'm going to say it anyway.

YOU HAVE MY SUPPORT TO SCAM THOSE DEMONS IN ANY WAY YOU CAN!!!

If any of you don't like what I typed you can kick rocks.

khiaa:


I'm glad you understand, as for your situation, move on, you'll find the right woman for you to have your beautiful babies. What country are you in?

A lot of Nairalanders are going to get pissed at me for saying this, but hey, I'm going to say it anyway.

YOU HAVE MY SUPPORT TO SCAM THOSE DEMONS IN ANY WAY YOU CAN!!!

If any of you don't like what I typed you can kick rocks.

Haaa! I'm going to kick a mountain down! No nau, same way we have both good & bad here, that's how it is the world over! No scamming biko, let no innocent be tried for the guilty' crimes. Who knows, someone may just be plotting against you too...pls no.

sisisioge:



Haaa! I'm going to kick a mountain down! No nau, same way we have both good & bad here, that's how it is the world over! No scamming biko, let no innocent be tried for the guilty' crimes. Who knows, someone may just be plotting against you too...pls no.

Those greedy demons aren't victims, they are reaping what they have sown. They are the biggest scammers ever known to man.

A lot of these comments here are just weird .


Brotherly ,

First and foremost , have you secured citizenship in that country ?

Secondly you have to familiarize yourself with the family and marriage laws of the land .

It's good that you haven't had any children with wife . I could be wrong but it depends on what country or state you are in. Child support could be something else .

I would advise you to seek your fellow African brothers or Nigerians for advice .

As for your emotions , my brother I understand but you have to give serious thoughts to the red pill movement . It's not an instant fix but it will help you be tactically aware of the psychology of relationships.

Just Google Rollo Tomassi , Richard Cooper , Rian Stone there's endless material.

This hopefully will make you a better man and improve on yourself.

You can't change people , but you can work on yourself. But that all starts with knowing what you want and subtracting things that aren't good for you .

One .

tobianthony:
A lot of these comments here are just weird .


Brotherly ,

First and foremost , have you secured citizenship in that country ?

Secondly you have to familiarize yourself with the family and marriage laws of the land .

It's good that you haven't had any children with wife . I could be wrong but it depends on what country or state you are in. Child support could be something else .

I would advise you to seek your fellow African brothers or Nigerians for advice .

As for your emotions , my brother I understand but you have to give serious thoughts to the red pill movement . It's not an instant fix but it will help you be tactically aware of the psychology of relationships.

Just Google Rollo Tomassi , Richard Cooper , Rian Stone there's endless material.

This hopefully will make you a better man and improve on yourself.

You can't change people , but you can work on yourself. But that all starts with knowing what you want and subtracting things that aren't good for you .

One .

Very weird comments

flyca:


I wish I could Lol

Ask him why he chose to be anonymous.
If he shows you his other monikers here on NL, you will pity our older decent Nigerian sisters who are still praying to God for a man to call their own.

And what if you're wrong?

Beverlypie's
“Then came in a little bit of jealousy when I got my first job,”--- Now she can’t control you
“I wanted to save up to repay my loan” ---now it is all about u, what about the bill u said 50/50 , u want the kids to pay bill?
“My conscience won’t just let me walk out, but there was no progress....” --- two of get pro help
“She knows my pay rate but still tell people I was not honest because she doesn’t see my payslip”-----controlling lady
“She always tell me to leave the house at every provocation then turn around” ----------Tell her next time she ask you to leave that u are not coming back, to kiss the marriage bye
I know all you are talking about this first hand the only differences she has her money a lot but I have more and I am always doing project
it is all about control and insecurity on her part
she is sweet and sour
The difference here is I am crazy
I told her I will pay and I am paying lot of money
I am counting down to 5 more year
she is still begging , i just ignore the begging text msg


She will come and beg
and Do it again
Get pro help
If it doesn’t work you know you tried
If you want to talk
we can set it up

email me your phone number
osag6532@gmail.com

tobianthony:
A lot of these comments here are just weird .


Brotherly ,

First and foremost , have you secured citizenship in that country ?

Secondly you have to familiarize yourself with the family and marriage laws of the land .

It's good that you haven't had any children with wife . I could be wrong but it depends on what country or state you are in. Child support could be something else .

I would advise you to seek your fellow African brothers or Nigerians for advice .

As for your emotions , my brother I understand but you have to give serious thoughts to the red pill movement . It's not an instant fix but it will help you be tactically aware of the psychology of relationships.

Just Google Rollo Tomassi , Richard Cooper , Rian Stone there's endless material.

This hopefully will make you a better man and improve on yourself.

You can't change people , but you can work on yourself. But that all starts with knowing what you want and subtracting things that aren't good for you .

One .

Thanks my bro

Sis, comman see chumchin oh! .
Cc: yettymuse .

Mstick:
Nigerian women are gold diggers, white women? Oh they're angels! Buhahhahahhaaaaaaa #TEAMFOREIGNGIRLS.


OP are you sure she's really white or an albino from IMO state? You know white women are true lovers they don't care about money and they are submissive. Check very well.

hahahahahha I can't help but laugh out loud

GoodFaith:
Beverlypie's
“Then came in a little bit of jealousy when I got my first job,”--- Now she can’t control you
“I wanted to save up to repay my loan” ---now it is all about u, what about the bill u said 50/50 , u want the kids to pay bill?
“My conscience won’t just let me walk out, but there was no progress....” --- two of get pro help
“She knows my pay rate but still tell people I was not honest because she doesn’t see my payslip”-----controlling lady
“She always tell me to leave the house at every provocation then turn around” ----------Tell her next time she ask you to leave that u are not coming back, to kiss the marriage bye
I know all you are talking about this first hand the only differences she has her money a lot but I have more and I am always doing project
it is all about control and insecurity on her part
she is sweet and sour
The difference here is I am crazy
I told her I will pay and I am paying lot of money
I am counting down to 5 more year
she is still begging , i just ignore the begging text msg


She will come and beg
and Do it again
Get pro help
If it doesn’t work you know you tried
If you want to talk
we can set it up

email me your phone number
osag6532@gmail.com

Apt. Nice dissectioning

Beverlypie:


Thanks my bro

Hey bro. So far have you initiated some of the positive ideas mentioned here. How's it going with you both. Do not be smashamed to share your experiences as it helps equip some coming from behind

flyca:
She throws you out of the house.
She is insecure.
She is (was) jealous (when you got your first job)
She insults you, says hurtful things to you.
She accuses you falsely (calls you a scammer even when she knows you can't scam anybody).
She raised lazy and lousy kids.
She argues endlessly.
She does not want you to establish yourself in a foreign land.
You want kids, she doesn't (I mean, she already has at least 2, and not very young anymore).

Okay, so lemme ask you. Would you tolerate a quarter of these from a Nigerian woman?

Will you marry a 35 year old Nigerian woman who is not in marriage? Either as a single-mom or a divorcee?

I hope you did not change your moniker because your past here will hunt you? Are you one of the she-males that calls spinsters “evening newspapers”?

You guys (esp here on NL) are strangely amazing!

The same guys, if given the opprtunity, will lick the assssss of a white female who is “few years apart with her being on the high side” and with kids! You just imagined escaping Nigeria to live a happily-ever life of splendor “in the abroad” without putting in a decent amount of work?

3 years of dating, why were you not researching and developing yourself in employable skills in oyibo's country. Now, money to feed oyibo's kids you want to use and read book, huh? Well done sir. Mucheche

See the characteristics of a woman that you are painting a saint, because she is oyibo and oyibo no dey do wrong for una eyes

Your eye never clear sef.
Chances are you are just getting by abroad, so you are not truly independent. You also will rather chose to be oyibos “bom-boy” than being thrown back to Nigeria. The reason you are trying really hard to make your marriage work.

Don't worry, you will be fine las las.

If the Nigerian woman has nothing else to bring to the table, apart from sex, y should he tolerate her?

I tell every young person, male or female, build yourself up and make sure that apart from sex you have something else to bring to the table.

You can bring good behaviour and great personality. You can bring patience and peaceful home. You can bring support and love. You can bring money or connections.

Whatever you bring to the table should be what your partner cannot easily get anywhere else.

Goddeywithme:


If the Nigerian woman has nothing else to bring to the table, apart from sex, y should he tolerate her?

I tell every young person, male or female, build yourself up and make sure that apart from sex you have something else to bring to the table.

You can bring good behaviour and great personality. You can bring patience and peaceful home. You can bring support and love. You can bring money or connections.

Whatever you bring to the table should be what your partner cannot easily get anywhere else.

Jah bless .... U said the mind of all legitimate hustling brothers... marriage is actually a risk irrespective of who u marry...... but if sex is the only thing the woman wanna bring to d table, then the man should be ready to be a double looser except if he’s born with a silver spoon.

Beverlypie:


Jah bless .... U said the mind of all legitimate hustling brothers... marriage is actually a risk irrespective of who u marry...... but if sex is the only thing the woman wanna bring to d table, then the man should be ready to be a double looser except if he’s born with a silver spoon.

What has your non-nigerian wife brought to the table? A permanent residency and green card? You're obviously using her then.
She isn't going to have children for you, she sends you out of the home at the slightest chance, she doesn't speak nicely to you and not even a basic respect.
What exactly has she brought to the table? More like a lot of unresolved baggage from what you've written, unless you've just lied and painted her black for people to be sympathetic towards you.

yeyeosoronga:


What has your non-nigerian wife brought to the table? A permanent residency and green card? You're obviously using her then.
She isn't going to have children for you, she sends you out of the home at the slightest chance, she doesn't speak nicely to you and not even a basic respect.
What exactly has she brought to the table? More like a lot of unresolved baggage from what you've written, unless you've just lied and painted her black for people to be sympathetic towards you.

She brought visa and residency. And she can also bring passport.

I am not saying it is right for him to marry the white woman for papers, neither am I saying it is wrong.

Marriage and relationship is always a risk. Love should be the foundation, but love ain't enough, unless it is equal both ways.

Before u blame the young man, remember that the woman has not recently shown him much love. So in this case, it seems to me both had something to gain from the relationship. For the man, it was papers. For the woman it could have been the big black penis, the companionship someone to talk to. Etc.

So going by your writeup, I will say both used the other.

But I don't like the LANGUAGE (USED). Both of them brought something to the table. And when they don't need each other, let them separate. Simple. Especially as no kids are involved.

OP, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE REGULARISED YOUR STAY. GET YOUR PASSPORT. IF YOU DON'T.....

Goddeywithme:


She brought visa and residency. And she can also bring passport.

I am not saying it is right for him to marry the white woman for papers, neither am I saying it is wrong.

Marriage and relationship is always a risk. Love should be the foundation, but love ain't enough, unless it is equal both ways.

Before u blame the young man, remember that the woman has not recently shown him much love. So in this case, it seems to me both had something to gain from the relationship. For the man, it was papers. For the woman it could have been the big black penis, the companionship someone to talk to. Etc.

So going by your writeup, I will say both used the other.

But I don't like the LANGUAGE (USED). Both of them brought something to the table. And when they don't need each other, let them separate. Simple. Especially as no kids are involved.

OP, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE REGULARISED YOUR STAY. GET YOUR PASSPORT. IF YOU DON'T.....

That's the only thing she brought to the table- a foreign passport, which she was likely born into and had no control over.
He on the other hand only used her to get a passport. Staying with someone for sex- big black pen.is is not different from what you say Nigerian girls bring to the table. She also brought her pussy to the table, so you can't say she used him either.
If he has just used his wife to get foreign passport, that's their family problem.
Don't involve Naija women and tell us they have brought nothing but sex to a table hanging on the tethers when you also have brought nothing but your big black pen.is to your marriage and have cold heartedly used your woman for her passport.
You are no different from the Nigerian woman you always vilify.
You now come back and tell us the foreign woman you have always claimed was better than your sisters is no longer a good woman after you have got your passport?
We know users when we see them jare. Fear God pls

yeyeosoronga:


[s]That's the only thing she brought to the table- a foreign passport, which she was likely born into and had no control over.
He on the other hand only used her to get a passport. Staying with someone for sex- big black pen.is is not different from what you say Nigerian girls bring to the table. She also brought her pussy to the table, so you can't say she used him either.
If he has just used his wife to get foreign passport, that's their family problem.
Don't involve Naija women and tell us they have brought nothing but sex to a table hanging on the tethers when you also have brought nothing but your big black pen.is to your marriage and have cold heartedly used your woman for her passport.
You are no different from the Nigerian woman you always vilify.
You now come back and tell us the foreign woman you have always claimed was better than your sisters is no longer a good woman after you have got your passport?
We know users when we see them jare. Fear God pls[/s]

Stop ranting, you're not making sense.

You Nigerian girls no dey add anything to man life except more expenses, extended family wahala, problem with your mother in laws etc. Even if whitey bring all this one come but still add kpali on top, then she has become 1000 times better than you people.
This guy problem is even rare, he is one of the exception. Most whiteys no dey give man wahala the way this nigga own dey worry am so chill.
You sef if you see one white bobo wey ask you to settle down with am now, you go run leave dat your managing boyfriend one time. Its just that you girls no dey quick get that opportunity like the guys.

Beverlypie:


Jah bless .... U said the mind of all legitimate hustling brothers... marriage is actually a risk irrespective of who u marry...... but if sex is the only thing the woman wanna bring to d table, then the man should be ready to be a double looser except if he’s born with a silver spoon.

My broda handle your whitey well jor, leave dis bad belle women Wey dey wish say dem get those biracial kids they are always saying awwwwww to.

saucecode:

Stop ranting, you're not making sense.

You Nigerian girls no dey add anything to man life except more expenses, extended family wahala, problem with your mother in laws etc. Even if whitey bring all this one come but still add kpali on top, then she has become 1000 times better than you people.
This guy problem is even rare, he is one of the exception. Most whiteys no dey give man wahala the way this nigga own dey worry am so chill.
You sef if you see one white bobo wey ask you to settle down with am now, you go run leave dat your managing boyfriend one time. Its just that you girls no dey quick get that opportunity like the guys.

Haha Haha... I laugh in Mandarin. I have lived with them for years, and I see the way our Nigerian men lament about their white wives. Some are even keeping black concubines in the abroad. I see the way they struggle to make money, care for their homes, cook and even look after their children and stepchildren. I see how their wives don't understand why their visitors from home can come and spend extended time with them and I see how their husbands always have to justify sending money home all the time.
Most of their #teamfroeigngirls women are not having that BS..
Infact, in OPs case, she isn't ready to have his children either and yet he is babysitting another man's child (which is great, as I believe a child doesnt have to be biologically yours before you can raise him and he calls you dad). You see that a lot in the abroad. He even has no control over his own salary.. hahahaha #teamforeign
Exact same way Nigerian wives do all these in the Nigeria, and more. The role reversal is really eye-opening.
In as much as having a pali is great, and if you're #teamforeign, do it with your heart and marry these women because you love them/like them enough to marry with their baggage.

yeyeosoronga:


That's the only thing she brought to the table- a foreign passport, which she was likely born into and had no control over.
He on the other hand only used her to get a passport. Staying with someone for sex- big black pen.is is not different from what you say Nigerian girls bring to the table. She also brought her pussy to the table, so you can't say she used him either.
If he has just used his wife to get foreign passport, that's their family problem.
Don't involve Naija women and tell us they have brought nothing but sex to a table hanging on the tethers when you also have brought nothing but your big black pen.is to your marriage and have cold heartedly used your woman for her passport.
You are no different from the Nigerian woman you always vilify.
You now come back and tell us the foreign woman you have always claimed was better than your sisters is no longer a good woman after you have got your passport?
We know users when we see them jare. Fear God pls

If you understood what I wrote, u will know that I did not in anyway excuse, or blame the guy. Neither did I excuse or blame Nigerian women.

My premise is this: the ability of your marriage or relationship to last depends on what you brought to the table at the beginning, and what you continue to bring to the table. Love is extremely important, but ain't enough. This applies to men, as well as women.

If I didn't communicate this premise well enough before, I hope I did that now.

Marriage or relationship is not do or die. If it doesn't work out for you, think deeply, and consider walking away.

You only live once.

Team foreign women are better than Nigerian women.
Enjoy your foreign woman and stop complaining to us.

yeyeosoronga:


Haha Haha... I laugh in Mandarin. I have lived with them for years, and I see the way our Nigerian men lament about their white wives. Some are even keeping black concubines in the abroad. I see the way they struggle to make money, care for their homes, cook and even look after their children and stepchildren. I see how their wives don't understand why their visitors from home can come and spend extended time with them and I see how their husbands always have to justify sending money home all the time.
Most of their #teamfroeigngirls women are not having that BS..
Infact, in OPs case, she isn't ready to have his children either and yet he is babysitting another man's child (which is great, as I believe a child doesnt have to be biologically yours before you can raise him and he calls you dad). You see that a lot in the abroad. He even has no control over his own salary.. hahahaha #teamforeign
Exact same way Nigerian wives do all these in the Nigeria, and more. The role reversal is really eye-opening.
In as much as having a pali is great, and if you're #teamforeign, do it with your heart and marry these women because you love them/like them enough to marry with their baggage.

Leave talk Jor. For every Nigerian u see lamenting about their whitey, I can bring two that not lamenting. Na today?
Na who no sabi play him game dey talk say whitey dey give am stress for house

saucecode:

My broda handle your whitey well jor, leave dis bad belle women Wey dey wish say dem get those biracial kids they are always saying awwwwww to.

Biracial kids are beautiful, as I see children generally beautiful. However, so are black children. Infact, black chubby infants always melt my heart.
How can I deny my own cuteness as a child? How can I wish people like me were never born or were born another color or skin tone?
That's what is called self-hate my brother. That's why the blackman can never establish his place in the world.
It's bad enough to be known as the major race colonised by every other race, however we did get our independence. The major problem we can't seem to get out of is this mental colonization that has eaten into the soul of Africans. How can you be free from your mind? Are you strong enough to wage war against your own soul that has been rotted by this mental slavery you're in?
I genuinely have no problems with interracial relationships, as I am over the injustice done to my forefathers by their own forefathers. But everyone presently should take their place proudly in the grand scheme of things in this current era we're in. Don't sell yourself short

yeyeosoronga:


Biracial kids are beautiful, as I see children generally beautiful. However, so are black children. Infact, black chubby infants always melt my heart.
How can I deny my own cuteness as a child? How can I wish people like me were never born or were born another color or skin tone?
That's what is called self-hate my brother. That's why the blackman can never establish his place in the world.
It's bad enough to be known as the major race colonised by every other race, however we did get our independence. The major problem we can't seem to get out of is this mental colonization that has eaten into the soul of Africans. How can you be free from your mind? Are you strong enough to wage war against your own soul that has been rotted by this mental slavery you're in?
I genuinely have no problems with interracial relationships, as I am over the injustice done to my forefathers by their own forefathers. But everyone presently should take their place proudly in the grand scheme of things in this current era we're in. Don't sell yourself short

Tell this to your fellow womens, the rate at which dem dey wear oyibo hair and turn skin to by force yellow is nothing compared to the men Wey dey hussle kpali. Relax
All of una dey guilty of this self-hate, iz not today

Meanwhile, OP, this just made fp, awon team foreign women

Goddeywithme:


If you understood what I wrote, u will know that I did not in anyway excuse, or blame the guy. Neither did I excuse or blame Nigerian women.

My premise is this: the ability of your marriage or relationship to last depends on what you brought to the table at the beginning, and what you continue to bring to the table. Love is extremely important, but ain't enough. This applies to men, as well as women.

If I didn't communicate this premise well enough before, I hope I did that now.

Marriage or relationship is not do or die. If it doesn't work out for you, think deeply, and consider walking away.

You only live once.

Yes, I agree with you. Relationships are not by force. I really wish the OP well. I'm even glad he was honest about his challenges, so that the impressionable young men on this forum can see that #teamforeigngirls might just be a mirage and mean nothing at the end of the day especially if you're thinking of a long term relationship.
Don't get me wrong, I have seen many interracial marriages doing well (blackman+whitewoman, blackwoman+whiteman) but oftentimes usually takes the blackman to TOTALLY submit to his white woman for such relationship to work out. Which is not a problem if he's happy doing that tbh.