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Quality20:
Some or many won't go to church but use d period to fornicate while some girls will go straight to their slaughter at their guy's house directly from service

purples25:
In my opinion, women shoot themselves in the foot on that issue. The women that cover themselves are constantly mocked and mistreated by those that are in the latest fashion. Until one joins them, they can't do their fashion in peace. Guys too, they mock and avoid modest women. Modest women today are being left alone by most guys, only the village boys are left for them. And these are your guys o, later they will come and say all ladies are ho.es.

well, for a woman of today to remain decent of her own free will, it takes realising that your life isn't about others opinions. Believe me, with the harassment IT IS NOT EASY for a woman to just be decent.

kittykollinxx:
U guys treat sex as a man's worse enemy

Finallydead:
True. The pressure is undeniable. But one of the usual many the christian is faced with in life's journey. But then again, it won't be so difficult if women realise, you can look so awesome and colourful/fashionable without compromising decency. I've seen many ladies look that way even some non-christians at times. No one has to go around looking old-fashioned, unappealing like olden-days deeper life.

SimeonOTC:
bro Overcoming sexual sin is not easy cux even the bible nvr told us to fight against it but to FLEEE!! 1st corithians 6vs18, 2nd timothy 2vs22 both started with "FLEE"..

the only few and well known working solution is

* Start changing and working on your mindset (especially the way one's think)

* Study the word of God and Pray (VERY VERY IMPORTANT)..
the devil, or any kind of immoral spirit or thought are not afraid of one going to church or praying 2.4.7, they are only afraid of one's knowing the word of God, i swear bro, they are dam scared of the word of God, they cant stand it..How

take a look at this short description / explanation;

Jesus said in the book luke 11vs24 "that when an evil spirit leaves a person (they become disembodied spirit) , it travels through the arid(desert) region looking for where/who (human body) to settle on,and when they dnt see any, they go back to the body they left and when they see the host has been cleaned, they go back an invite 7 extra demon".

bro, this things happen when one masturbate, especially when one wants to stop masturbation.
after chasing the sexual urge with the word of God, it comes back latter, with the urge more stronger, it take the grace of God and it word to overcome it. i passing through that process and i nearly died ..but it makes me stronger, though i stil have sexual urge but they are so weak and cant pull me down cux i already defeated and came out from a stronger one.

back to God's word,

one has to know and meditate on the word like;
" my body is the temple of the holy spirit whom have receive from God and who lives in me according 1 Corinthian 6vs19, now the lord it the spirit and where the spirit of the lord is, THERE IS LIBERTY!! (blast in tongues)
he said he has given us is spirit not of timidity but of Power (2nd timothy 1vs7),
by the power vested in me by the most high, i liberate myself from any spasmodic immoral spirit that is not of God, i build a wall of defence with the blood of Jesus against them"

thirdly and lasty,

* Self discipline and self control (1st Thessalonians 5vs5-10, titus 2vs6, 1st Thessalonians 4vs4, proverb hmmmm, IN FACT, EVERY SINGLE VERS AND CHAPTER IN PROVERB)

sorry for the long tori

Finallydead:
Not long tori at all. Bro you've already done better than OP. You've listed some practical points at least. So we can say it this way too. The principle is persistence/perseverance in what you've outlined. Building up spiritual strength and capacity requires consistency in spiritual exercise(prayer, fasting, and meditating on the word) in the face of seeming failures and unceasing showing up of the flesh again and again. If you stick to your spiritual exercise, eventually you would awaken your inner man and he will rise and overcome the outer man/flesh. However, most men don't know and they quit their spiritual exercise before their spirit is unlocked to rise to the occasion.

abbatoir:
Bro, let me help you... take it or leave it You only have to focus on just one focal point and I assured you that's the secret of strength and grace.







Channel all your energy on your thoughts process... endeavours to keep it pure. Trust me.You will receive invisible help

Finallydead:
Thnx bro. Im however not in need of help in thisby His grace. Check my other replies to brothers on this thread, ive said something similar to what you just said somewhere, but im speaking in general for believers in need of help.

abbatoir:
Oh.. Congratulations!

micgray100:
My brother and sister.. There is time for everything o.. From experience, at a certain age, a man will masturbate o.. Porn movie will be like heaven to him o. Seeing girl unclothedness alone can make you go crazy.. Growth is constant o..later in life, I got to a point that I remember those things and just laff.... I am a father now with two kids.. Married..

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Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni

God is the Ultimate Protector, the most Reliable Security. He is the Authentic Defender who doesn't need security. You know, the strongest and "most intelligent" security organizations in our world have disappointed and failed at various occasions (think about the highly-rated United States Secret Service that couldn't stop the assassination of various serving American Presidents under its watch).

In the Bible (in Genesis 15:1), God told Abraham: “Fear not, Abram, I am your shield". No wonder, Abraham lived to a full old fruitful age! Even when he was wandering in the territories of the evil, they just couldn't hurt him. God's Pillar of Protection ensured he didn't lose anything that belongs to him while he lives!

God loves displaying His expertise in Security and Protection at all times. He has promised to keep His own safe (physically and spiritually) at all times. Those who had decided to honour Him by doing His will automatically earns His Protection. Any person walking in the will of God would find him or herself being surrounded by the Hedge of God's protection. Nevertheless, while the Hedge of Protection always remain available (as God will always be faithful to His own part), it is possible to silently and ignorantly move away from the Hedge, thereby exposing oneself to dangers (physically and spiritually).

One thing that makes people slip away from within God's Hedge of Protection is SIN. Sin (of all kinds) is a pulling evil that exposes one to the attacks of the enemy. One of the major types of sins that has exposed millions of people to cruelsome attack is sexual immoralities, which often come about as a result of ignorance, and failing to do all it takes to tame and have one's sexual desires under control.

Believe it or not, there is a spiritual dimension to the life we live. Don't be deceived by "ignorant logic". The spiritual (or supernatural) operates on a higher level than the physical. The "logic" in the spiritual is different from the "logic of the physical. Wisdom demands that you do all it takes to ensure your total protection to enable you fulfill your full potentials on earth.

The spiritual realm is a very busy world with activities unstop. Many evil strategies and plans are being constantly devised there. Many harmful arrows are being aimed at people. After all has been finalised in the spiritual realm, it then materialised in the physical realm. Many events tagged "coincidence" in the physical realm, are not actually coincidence, but are "done deals" orchestrated from the spiritual. Many people were killed from the spiritual realm since they were exposed, and they died mysterious and untimely here on earth.

You might wonder (ignorantly), "but I'm an easygoing person trying not to offend anyone, why would anyone want to hurt me?" Listen, by the virtue of being a human being, you automatically have an enemy in the devil (and he hates you vehemently). By extension, all his demons and agents are your enemies too.

Therefore, you can't afford slipping away from God's Hedge of protection if you want to fulfill destiny.

And so, you must tame your desires and keep in check any urge that tries placing your hands in sinful ventures. Always rely on God's strength every moment, and play your part by fleeing all forms of immoralities at all times. And when you made any mistake, swiftly ask for forgiveness of sins in Jesus Name, and get restored before it's too late.

Finallydead:
This is the reason why sexual immorality is ever growing in christianity, were too legalistic about it, as in, we keep telling people to avoid for one reason or another but we never teach them practical steps to overcome. @OP what PRACTICAL steps do you recommend. We all know that sexual desire is such a bondage, highly insurmountable especially with the heavy pressure from today's lawless, immoral world. So arm the youth with workable knowledge and don't just say its by grace explain exactly how it works, thnx.

OyinO:
Yet angels descended to earth to Bleep ladies taking a Riverside bath? Who gave them dicks? Yet Angel bleeped vitgin Mary and impregnated Joseph's wife, and the leaders threatened him not to take actions but agree it was an angel man who was later called God? Nonsense!

Stanchem029:
Thanks my brother. One can overcome sexual immortality through the following steps:
1. Make up your mind not to do it like Daniel in Dan.1:8
2. Pray and watch daily
3. Fill your self with the Word of God continually
4. Chose your friends 1cor 15:33
5. Stay away from places where Satan can easily entice you like hotels and oloshoo joints

victorian:
I beg to disagree.

You can tame sexual desires. It's possible.
Everything is determination and from the mind and also assisted by grace of God but u can tame it

I'm a living proof anyways.

abbatoir:
...No enemy elsewhere


Trust me!

Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni

[s]God is the Ultimate Protector, the most Reliable Security. He is the Authentic Defender who doesn't need security. You know, the strongest and "most intelligent" security organizations in our world have disappointed and failed at various occasions (think about the highly-rated United States Secret Service that couldn't stop the assassination of various serving American Presidents under its watch).

In the Bible (in Genesis 15:1), God told Abraham: “Fear not, Abram, I am your shield". No wonder, Abraham lived to a full old fruitful age! Even when he was wandering in the territories of the evil, they just couldn't hurt him. God's Pillar of Protection ensured he didn't lose anything that belongs to him while he lives!

God loves displaying His expertise in Security and Protection at all times. He has promised to keep His own safe (physically and spiritually) at all times. Those who had decided to honour Him by doing His will automatically earns His Protection. Any person walking in the will of God would find him or herself being surrounded by the Hedge of God's protection. Nevertheless, while the Hedge of Protection always remain available (as God will always be faithful to His own part), it is possible to silently and ignorantly move away from the Hedge, thereby exposing oneself to dangers (physically and spiritually).

One thing that makes people slip away from within God's Hedge of Protection is SIN. Sin (of all kinds) is a pulling evil that exposes one to the attacks of the enemy. One of the major types of sins that has exposed millions of people to cruelsome attack is sexual immoralities, which often come about as a result of ignorance, and failing to do all it takes to tame and have one's sexual desires under control.

Believe it or not, there is a spiritual dimension to the life we live. Don't be deceived by "ignorant logic". The spiritual (or supernatural) operates on a higher level than the physical. The "logic" in the spiritual is different from the "logic of the physical. Wisdom demands that you do all it takes to ensure your total protection to enable you fulfill your full potentials on earth.

The spiritual realm is a very busy world with activities unstop. Many evil strategies and plans are being constantly devised there. Many harmful arrows are being aimed at people. After all has been finalised in the spiritual realm, it then materialised in the physical realm. Many events tagged "coincidence" in the physical realm, are not actually coincidence, but are "done deals" orchestrated from the spiritual. Many people were killed from the spiritual realm since they were exposed, and they died mysterious and untimely here on earth.

You might wonder (ignorantly), "but I'm an easygoing person trying not to offend anyone, why would anyone want to hurt me?" Listen, by the virtue of being a human being, you automatically have an enemy in the devil (and he hates you vehemently). By extension, all his demons and agents are your enemies too.

Therefore, you can't afford slipping away from God's Hedge of protection if you want to fulfill destiny.

And so, you must tame your desires and keep in check any urge that tries placing your hands in sinful ventures. Always rely on God's strength every moment, and play your part by fleeing all forms of immoralities at all times. And when you made any mistake, swiftly ask for forgiveness of sins in Jesus Name, and get restored before it's too late.[/s]

harrwix:
I am glad you were able to achieve that...

But do you know what?

Take the spirit of God and the grace of God from all your efforts, and you will have failed

Some thought by declaring celibate in the seminary they will overcome
Some thought by marrying a beautiful wife/handsome husband that does wonders in bed and they will keep faithful
But we all know the end

NB: I am not taking it away from atheist and other religions who have been able to keep themselves by strict body and mind discipline.
I am trying to address the challenge as regards contemporary Christians today.

kittykollinxx:
Your enemy is devil and your flesh

micgray100:
My brother and sister.. There is time for everything o.. From experience, at a certain age, a man will masturbate o.. Porn movie will be like heaven to him o. Seeing girl unclothedness alone can make you go crazy.. Growth is constant o..later in life, I got to a point that I remember those things and just laff.... I am a father now with two kids.. Married..

You see life..

abbatoir:
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Chi133:
Words of a fool

SimeonOTC:
a billion and one percent sure sir.

Auxtin85:
Me get huge sexual libido, my sex drive na Ferrari

abbatoir:
Bravo!


I wish you nothing but strength in your struggles against yourself...like I used to say...No enemy elsewhere but within!