I want to appreciate the woman's doggedness for not succumbing to pressures. Some people still don't believe that this life is full of surprises.

mrbock:
I hate stories like this man

Men need to value themselves more.

She didn't do you any favours by marrying you , you were her only option

Take your wife to Greece if you desire to and leave all this long stories

As in eh... most Nigerian men lack wisdom

MhizzAJ:
This is the kind of person you call a man plus he got good friends not all those undercover agent of darkness masquerading as friends... help they cant help, na sit down look be their name, they will even want to collect your blood if it's possible


These kind of men work extra hard and take care of their wives, spoil them with expensive gifts and trips.

Meanwhile, some kind of men are out there looking for a lady that they can use and make her life miserable ... If u like give them 20 years, dem no go fit achieve anything and na those type like to quick marry.

if you as a lady achive something for the family na crime?Oprah winfery is she not a woman?Nigeria men will not die for our women in Jesus name amen,you marry a Nigerian woman if her brother or sister need school fees na you, her mama or papa sick na you ,landlord wan drive her parent away from their flat na you, her brother wan start business na you ;if I hear Nigerian men no dey try

One out of hundred men, not some useless men here on nairaland.

MhizzAJ:
This is the kind of person you call a man plus he got good friends not all those undercover agent of darkness masquerading as friends... help they cant help, na sit down look be their name, they will even want to collect your blood if it's possible


These kind of men work extra hard and take care of their wives, spoil them with expensive gifts and trips.

Meanwhile, some kind of men are out there looking for a lady that they can use and make her life miserable ... If u like give them 20 years, dem no go fit achieve anything and na those type like to quick marry.

Shut up your fxxxking mouth.
Ur type would not even contemplate dating not to talk of marrying a struggling dude.
Cus the story has changed today?
Can you even imagine what the woman endured years after the wedding and the hardwork/sacrifices she put into this union before now.
People like you that are quick to shout spoil a woman are only good at devouring.
They's time for everything.
She sweated with the young chap, encouraging him while on it.
We always tell ladies, men are not demons. No man will want to push away such an angel after all they' ve been through, for what now?

This is lovely sha. The woman followed her heart and took her chance on him. .The man stayed true to his woman and did not pay her back with evil. I must say he is a real man.

SouthSouth1914:


Moral of the story is appreciation!! Not favor.., stop twisting the story to suit your prerogative!

If you are sensible enough you’d appreciate this correction!

what are you on about

chukxie:
Why do I love this inspiring and romantic story? Well, it's because I can completely relate with it. When my wife's dad found out his masters-degree-pursuing-daughter was dating a black guy he was not thrilled to say the least. So, I rolled up my sleeves, laced up my boots, and got to work. Together my wife we set up a business in a two room apartment, worked our butts off. Today, through God's grace, hard work, careful planning our business has grown into three branches with twenty staff members which is comprised of two Nigerians, a Rwandan and seventeen Chinese. My father-in-law respects me a lot now. In fact he works with me! Glory to God for all things.

Interesting. Will luv to knw u made it

HannahHitler:
This is very inspiring and there's one thing I've picked from this. She believed in him.

I have no problem with broke people, I just have a problem with broke people with poverty mentality who have absolutely no plans to leave their comfort zones.

I don't care if my partner is broke, all I need is for you to show me 'the vision', sell it to me and once I buy it, we move. I like challenges, I'm striving to make you better but don't be a lazy ass, dreamer with no potentials who constantly makes wrong decisions and business moves and expect anyone to stick with you. Puhlease..

Talk is cheap, granddaughter of Adolf Hitler.

femi4:
Nobody is asking about the type biz he's into

SMH. This obsession with "what does he do" can only reign in a country where poverty has been exalted such that they feel it is almost impossible for anyone to be rich.
Can Americans be asking such silly question because a young man post his vacation pictures?

Marvieduke:
One out of hundred men, not some useless men here on nairaland.

hehehe Not even one woman on here can take bulshit marrying broke niggarr

This is exactly what I tell ladies. You know the man that has prospects if you see him. You know it requires patience, prayer and support but due to peer pressure or social media brohuhaha, you leave the man with vision. It is not magic to have a happy home, it is both parties decision.

The woman was supportive, beliefs in his man, prayed for him, managed the little resources that was brought to the table, lived a simple life, refused to listen to friends decisions. Now, she's enjoying her patience and support.

God bless every woman doing this. I pray, very soon, you will also be happy with the sacrifice you have made for your home.

Elder0001:


As in eh... most Nigerian men lack wisdom

It's not peculiar to Nigeria

It's everywhere

When I hear things like" she stayed with me when things were rough "

I just cringe

Brothers hypergamy is real ,

Treat your wife with the respect and love she deserves but don't turn it to worship

YOU WERE HER BEST OPTION AT THE TIME !

Marvieduke:
One out of hundred men, not some useless men here on nairaland.

And some useless girls here on nairaland too.

subcbouy:
hehehe Not even one woman on here can take bulshit marrying broke niggarr

Thank you my brother. They cant stand 1% of what that lady face.

I know of one right now who's at war with her guy for suggesting to rent a wedding gown for her.
All she wants is the kind of Governor's daughter's wedding not minding its impact on the guys business

Hustle o

mrbock:
I hate stories like this man

Men need to value themselves more.

She didn't do you any favours by marrying you , you were her only option

Take your wife to Greece if you desire to and leave all this long stories

you spoke my mind bro.

mrbock:
I hate stories like this man

Men need to value themselves more.

She didn't do you any favours by marrying you , you were her only option

Take your wife to Greece if you desire to and leave all this long stories

sharrap. Will you?

See this slay queen With an empire, she made him a king, And tonto had to leave Churchill because he was broke? God punish slay Queens without a crown ad a throne ,may their standing never end

hokafor:
you spoke my mind bro.

I blame hollywood and popular culture
imagine people commending her for staying with him.
I just shake my head

lovchalice:
sharrap. Will you?

What are you on about

Sunnymatey:
Thank you my brother. They cant stand 1% of what that lady face.

I know of one right now who's at war with her guy for suggesting to rent a wedding gown for her.
All she wants is the kind of Governor's daughter's wedding not minding its impact on the guys business

Don't mind all these flashing indomie girls. They come on here and splash their dirty thought.

Sunnymatey:
Thank you my brother. They cant stand 1% of what that lady face.

I know of one right now who's at war with her guy for suggesting to rent a wedding gown for her.
All she wants is the kind of Governor's daughter's wedding not minding its impact on the guys business

The guy is a fool.

if she's hell bent on buying a dress , let her buy it with her money

peeps4u:


SMH. This obsession with "what does he do" can only reign in a country where poverty has been exalted such that they feel it is almost impossible for anyone to be rich.
Can Americans be asking such silly question because a young man post his vacation pictures?

Americans have visa-free travel to almost everywhere while we dont, so it can never be a silly question

Myhusband:



I don't know why man make woman feel they're doing them favour for marrying them


hey no lady is doing you favour for marrying them, respect to those men marrying 5 wives and still planning of marrying young wife. one mumu will meet one lady and be doing like robot

What happened to you?

They looked happy enough in the wedding pics. I don't see the need to put on wedding wears while on a vacation

chukxie:
Why do I love this inspiring and romantic story? Well, it's because I can completely relate with it. When my wife's dad found out his masters-degree-pursuing-daughter was dating a black guy he was not thrilled to say the least. So, I rolled up my sleeves, laced up my boots, and got to work. Together my wife we set up a business in a two room apartment, worked our butts off. Today, through God's grace, hard work, careful planning our business has grown into three branches with twenty staff members which is comprised of two Nigerians, a Rwandan and seventeen Chinese. My father-in-law respects me a lot now. In fact he works with me! Glory to God for all things.

Really, sticking with a poor man is not easy. Yet, it is still a favour for any man to chose a given woman over others. That they made it together is worth celebrating, though.

hustle

Samantha23:
what should we make out of this news now?

Samantha23:
what should we make out of this news now?

If this doesn't inspire you, what will?

BluntBlunt:


What happened to you?

for hitting the nail on the head. ladies ain't shiit,pussy ain't shiit




she has pussy, I have dick. so why feel inferior for one nonentity?

MhizzAJ:
This is the kind of person you call a man plus he got good friends not all those undercover agent of darkness masquerading as friends... help they cant help, na sit down look be their name, they will even want to collect your blood if it's possible


These kind of men work extra hard and take care of their wives, spoil them with expensive gifts and trips.

Meanwhile, some kind of men are out there looking for a lady that they can use and make her life miserable ... If u like give them 20 years, dem no go fit achieve anything and na those type like to quick marry.

Would have been able to withstand d pressure d lady was under? Can u respect & marry a poor guy like d lady did? It takes two to tango