AwkaetitiBabe, Can you see love then as compared to that of pappy2000 whose Wife wants him to sell his Uber car to buy Okada because of one day marriage procession?

Serious lesson is to be learnt here with respect to support, Love and understanding in relationships

mrbock:
I hate stories like this man

Men need to value themselves more.

She didn't do you any favours by marrying you , you were her only option

Take your wife to Greece if you desire to and leave all this long stories

i dont really know who taught men that women that agrees to marry them is a favour,men who reason that way i usually say they have no life and i mean it,kudos to you for your comment.

[quote author=praizblog post=83836076][b]See More Photos of the Now rich couple he reminds me of me

Why is he making it look like she did him a favor by marrying him.

iswallker:
He forgot to tell us what legit business he involved in that turned him to millionaire...

Or Nigerian politician is a business venture..

Stupid then and ten yrs down the line still stupid..

you are looking for whom will spood feed you with information, kwa?

mrbock:


It's not peculiar to Nigeria

It's everywhere

When I hear things like" she stayed with me when things were rough "

I just cringe

Brothers hypergamy is real ,

Treat your wife with the respect and love she deserves but don't turn it to worship

YOU WERE HER BEST OPTION AT THE TIME !

No, its not everytime that a womans choice is her only/best option. If you would just permit yourself to believe it, some women have a good nature that makes them pick the men they like over someone who has more.

That aside, i don't want any gender to always feel that their partner 'managed' them, did them a favour by picking them. It will make that person always feel small and inferior. So i kinda get what you're saying.

chukxie:
Why do I love this inspiring and romantic story? Well, it's because I can completely relate with it. When my wife's dad found out his masters-degree-pursuing-daughter was dating a black guy he was not thrilled to say the least. So, I rolled up my sleeves, laced up my boots, and got to work. Together my wife we set up a business in a two room apartment, worked our butts off. Today, through God's grace, hard work, careful planning our business has grown into three branches with twenty staff members which is comprised of two Nigerians, a Rwandan and seventeen Chinese. My father-in-law respects me a lot now. In fact he works with me! Glory to God for all things.

similar to mine....more Grace bro

midnighter:


Americans have visa-free travel to almost everywhere while we dont, so it can never be a silly question

And they achieved that by harassing every successful young people with "what work do you do?"
Is that how to fight corruption?

peeps4u:


SMH. This obsession with "what does he do" can only reign in a country where poverty has been exalted such that they feel it is almost impossible for anyone to be rich.
Can Americans be asking such silly question because a young man post his vacation pictures?

Only a fool like you will think richness grow over night.

Every rich American source of income is not hidden

truer words have never been spoken bro.
Reminds me of this popular quote:
The pussy isn't yours, it's just your turn.
Hypergamy is super real!!

mrbock:


It's not peculiar to Nigeria

It's everywhere

When I hear things like" she stayed with me when things were rough "

I just cringe

Brothers hypergamy is real ,

Treat your wife with the respect and love she deserves but don't turn it to worship

YOU WERE HER BEST OPTION AT THE TIME !

femi4:
Only a fool like you will think richness grow over night.

Every rich American source of income is not hidden

And 10 years is over night?

Now I know you've made made covenant with poverty to be poor all your life.

Because you don't know his source of wealth means it is hidden?

Are you close to him?

Do I know you or your source of income? Does it mean you're into fraud because I don't know your source of income?

If a poor or an average person posts pix online, you don't have issue with it, but when you see a picture of a successful young man online, you wolves come out asking "what do you do?"

I ask again, why do you have phobia for riches and love for poverty?

You will only die of frustration because no matter how much you cry about people flaunting their wealth, people will still do it and you keep asking "what do you do?" While they keep making their money and laugh at your frustration.

Keep asking while those that love wealth keep making money and how to better our lives

MhizzAJ:
This is the kind of person you call a man plus he got good friends not all those undercover agent of darkness masquerading as friends... help they cant help, na sit down look be their name, they will even want to collect your blood if it's possible


These kind of men work extra hard and take care of their wives, spoil them with expensive gifts and trips.

Meanwhile, some kind of men are out there looking for a lady that they can use and make her life miserable ... If u like give them 20 years, dem no go fit achieve anything and na those type like to quick marry.

But you know some ladies won't marry a man trying to make ends meet, they want an already made man, that's what pushes men to live a fake life and when there is no money, no love, a lady that will marry a man when he's nothing, that friendship will stand the test of time.

luluosas:
You mean he now work for you? Wonderful

work with me and work for me are two different thing Oga.... Sharrap there

peeps4u:


And they achieved that by harassing every successful young people with "what work do you do?"
Is that how to fight corruption?

It's nothing to do with harassment, your expenditure must always match up with your occupation

It's actually good that we make enquiries into how people earn their money, it helps to keep everybody accountable.

Not asking these questions is what has made us into the fantastically corrupt nation we are today

In fact, in developed countries it is very easy to check somebody's educational, employment and property information in public records. Can we say that in Nigeria?

People are fast to tag any reasonable question as "bad belle" which makes it easier for thieves to deceive people

LesbianBoy:
All these yahoo boys and their success stories

u know Dem!

purples25:


No, its not everytime that a womans choice is her only/best option. If you would just permit yourself to believe it, some women have a good nature that makes them pick the men they like over someone who has more.

That aside, i don't want any gender to always feel that their partner 'managed' them, did them a favour by picking them. It will make that person always feel small and inferior. So i kinda get what you're saying.

There are always exceptions to the rule. I'm speaking for the majority, not everyone will meet a unicorn


the managed feeling and gratitude is what baffles me.

Any man that marries a good wife will turn out fine, but a man that marries a bad woman is gone. Do u think he will be where he is today she didn't support him.


My dear any man that love a woman will go to hell if possible to make her happy. The woman automatically becomes a motivation. So if you see a man that does not give a damn, just no that he does not love the woman his with.

MhizzAJ:
This is the kind of person you call a man plus he got good friends not all those undercover agent of darkness masquerading as friends... help they cant help, na sit down look be their name, they will even want to collect your blood if it's possible


These kind of men work extra hard and take care of their wives, spoil them with expensive gifts and trips.

Meanwhile, some kind of men are out there looking for a lady that they can use and make her life miserable ... If u like give them 20 years, dem no go fit achieve anything and na those type like to quick marry.

chukxie:
Why do I love this inspiring and romantic story? Well, it's because I can completely relate with it. When my wife's dad found out his masters-degree-pursuing-daughter was dating a black guy he was not thrilled to say the least. So, I rolled up my sleeves, laced up my boots, and got to work. Together my wife we set up a business in a two room apartment, worked our butts off. Today, through God's grace, hard work, careful planning our business has grown into three branches with twenty staff members which is comprised of two Nigerians, a Rwandan and seventeen Chinese. My father-in-law respects me a lot now. In fact he works with me! Glory to God for all things.

Lovely story. Please maintain your success by Gods Grace

chukxie:
Why do I love this inspiring and romantic story? Well, it's because I can completely relate with it. When my wife's dad found out his masters-degree-pursuing-daughter was dating a black guy he was not thrilled to say the least. So, I rolled up my sleeves, laced up my boots, and got to work. Together my wife we set up a business in a two room apartment, worked our butts off. Today, through God's grace, hard work, careful planning our business has grown into three branches with twenty staff members which is comprised of two Nigerians, a Rwandan and seventeen Chinese. My father-in-law respects me a lot now. In fact he works with me! Glory to God for all things.

You refused to mention the business for learning sake.

DexterousOne:


Never knew you married a Caucasian

My wife isn't Caucasian, she's Chinese.

IamHonourable1:

You refused to mention the business for learning sake.

Nairaland! I love this cyber-parlour! We're into education/ cultural exchange programmes.

babzo:



Lovely story. Please maintain your success by Gods Grace

Thanks, bruv. I wish you likewise. If our hands are clean, we plan, we pray, we dare to try and we stay focused on our agenda, God will bless our works. We may not be Instagram big boys, but we'll be comfortable in our own little and legit way.

Keepem:
similar to mine....more Grace bro

Bigger grace to you, bruv!

chukxie:


My wife isn't Caucasian, she's Chinese.

Owww

That's good


So I believe you can speak Mandarin


One language I for like learn
But my head no carry am

luluosas:
You mean he now work for you? Wonderful

I didn't want to use the phrase 'work for' so I chose "work with" for respect purposes.

shamsin6300:



Interesting. Will luv to knw u made it

First and foremost, it was God, it is God and it will be.
Secondly, my wife had an acorn seed-like idea which happened to align with my passion for teaching. And that was it! We struggled for about a year because it was difficult to get who believed in us. But we didn't give up. Then God stepped in, and changed our lives for good.

DexterousOne:



Owww

That's good


So I believe you can speak Mandarin


One language I for like learn
But my head no carry am

Yes, I do. Self taught. And I do speak some Korean, too.
You fit learn the language provided you put your mind to it.

Love it...so touching

MhizzAJ:
This is the kind of person you call a man plus he got good friends not all those undercover agent of darkness masquerading as friends... help they cant help, na sit down look be their name, they will even want to collect your blood if it's possible


These kind of men work extra hard and take care of their wives, spoil them with expensive gifts and trips.

Meanwhile, some kind of men are out there looking for a lady that they can use and make her life miserable ... If u like give them 20 years, dem no go fit achieve anything and na those type like to quick marry.

let it out dear, the more you do, the better you feel.

chukxie:


First and foremost, it was God, it is God and it will be.
Secondly, my wife had an acorn seed-like idea which happened to align with my passion for teaching. And that was it! We struggled for about a year because it was difficult to get who believed in us. But we didn't give up. Then God stepped in, and changed our lives for good.

Congrat once again ....... Api 4u Sir. Will luv 2b like u wen I am done with my UNDERGRADUATE.

shamsin6300:



Congrat once again ....... Api 4u Sir. Will luv 2b like u wen I am done with my UNDERGRADUATE.

God's got different plans for everyone. You story might be better than mine. So, I pray God gives you what is yours. All the best with your studies.