Amijos:
Madone this lady is fighting for her life in the hospital right now...the husband beats her over little things that shouldnt even cause fight thats my pain. Hes simply doing this because he knows theres no one there for her...so sad

spyg1:
Madam, marriage fight dey start from bedroom the come out, an there e still dey end o. na the two know the real cause.

mysticwarrior:
You better mind you business and stay away from them, one man was always in the habit of beating his wife in my compound, he would Lock the door and beat hell out of this woman and leave her with scars and bruises, one day the man was beating the wife because he claims the woman refused to prepare food for him but this time around the door was open, a woman entered the house with the intention of making peace, only for her to be stabbed with a kitchen knife by the battered wife.

The woman sustained injury and was taken to the hospital for treatment, I saw this same couple the next morning laughing together as they both walked along, since then I dey see fighting married couples dey run.

mysticwarrior:
You better mind you business and stay away from them, one man was always in the habit of beating his wife in my compound, he would Lock the door and beat hell out of this woman and leave her with scars and bruises, one day the man was beating the wife because he claims the woman refused to prepare food for him but this time around the door was open, a woman entered the house with the intention of making peace, only for her to be stabbed with a kitchen knife by the battered wife.

The woman sustained injury and was taken to the hospital for treatment, I saw this same couple the next morning laughing together as they both walked along, since then I dey see fighting married couples dey run.

Amijos:
A friend is currently admitted in the hospital due to terrible injuries inflicted on her by her huaband in Agbor Delta state. This young lady has no one in her family to defend or fight for her.
She has 3 little kids and her 1 year son is currently in the hospital with her because he was also injured by the man too.
Do you any domestic Voilence agency in Delta state? Please help this lady before she dies.

Im thinking of getting the police to arrest this man but cant even archive thus from my location right now and there's no one available to help.���

Amijos:
A friend is currently admitted in the hospital due to terrible injuries inflicted on her by her huaband in Agbor Delta state. This young lady has no one in her family to defend or fight for her.
She has 3 little kids and her 1 year son is currently in the hospital with her because he was also injured by the man too.
Do you any domestic Voilence agency in Delta state? Please help this lady before she dies.

Im thinking of getting the police to arrest this man but cant even archive thus from my location right now and there's no one available to help.���

carinmom:

This is really unfortunate, some men are worse than animals. A similar case happened in my neighborhood last month, the lady lost her life due to domestic violence. Before losing her life she first lost her pregnancy as a result of beating and now the lady lost her life just because she was sick and was unable to cook for the useless husband.

AfroKnight:


Wow! This is why even police officers often ignore domestic violence cases unless a lawyer is involved. Police go tell you point blank, go home and settle your quarrel.

You know how many cases were opened in station only to be ignored by the victim later?

OP, if the wife did not specifically ask for your involvement, kindly hold your peace. A Yoruba proverb says “you can only carry a child who raises his arms.”

megareal:

If we all mind our businesses, how will we ever help those who really need it? Some people find themselves in these kind of terrible situations and are so helpless that it takes another person to pull them out else they pay with their lives.
We can still help, albeit with wisdom.

Poster, find a human rights lawyer or activist in Delta state and refer the lawyer/activist to her. They will take it from there.

Coolabbie:
Why blame only the horseband? She that sat there until dey killed her nko?

Amijos:
Thank you all. This lady needs help. She called me crying for help and the photos i saw made me cry all night too.
I dont live in Nigeria, thats my pain.
Im only looking for an agency for domestic violence in Delta state or a lawyer/activist . If you can help me with numbers call, i will appreciate this.

megareal:

If we all mind our businesses, how will we ever help those who really need it? Some people find themselves in these kind of terrible situations and are so helpless that it takes another person to pull them out else they pay with their lives.
We can still help, albeit with wisdom.

Poster, find a human rights lawyer or activist in Delta state and refer the lawyer/activist to her. They will take it from there.

Mindfulness:
Amijos
Let me congratulate you first for caring enough, people prefer to look the other way and not get involved. It is understandable since there have been too many examples of those who tried to help only for the wife to go back and cut off all ties making the helper look stupid. But regardless of the outcome, you are doing the right thing. It is not only that there are two adults involved, there are children involved as well. And they suffer a lot. At this stage they are possibly traumatized. The question now is what you can do about it. It's her who must call the police. You can only call the police to deescalate and protect her but the deed has already been done, she is in hospital now. Show her love and attention the best way you can, support her, listen to her, be understanding.

She must leave the man, be very clear about it. He won't stop. However, for her to leave she must have somewhere to go and a source of income to feed herself and her children. Where will she go? Is there a source of income? Is there any institution nearby that helps women recover and start a new life? Try to find out.

If you can't do the above, is there a possibility to let the man's family know? This one is tricky because such men often are from families where violence was the order of the day and also because we don't know how protective they will be of an in-law.

By the way, today is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women. Thanks for caring. God bless you.

Amijos:
A friend is currently admitted in the hospital due to terrible injuries inflicted on her by her huaband in Agbor Delta state. This young lady has no one in her family to defend or fight for her.
She has 3 little kids and her 1 year son is currently in the hospital with her because he was also injured by the man too.
Do you any domestic Voilence agency in Delta state? Please help this lady before she dies.

Im thinking of getting the police to arrest this man but cant even archive thus from my location right now and there's no one available to help.���

frozen70:


How come she doesn't have families to fight or caution that beast

So who took her bride price and drank her marriage wine

You see why I keep saying that women should never allow any man to kill their emotions

Assuming she is capable of taking care of her self, she won't even look at the idiot

Check very well, its unresolved money matters that is causing this havoc

Women, once you accept your faith that you can't struggle on your own be ready to accept what goes with it

Well she has the option to walk out or return back after the hospital admission

If a man's wife is doing well, that one alone will intimidate a man not to be disrespectful

Amijos:

Thanks so much dear. Yes we're able to file a complain with the police and and the man has been arrested. im in touch with the IPO . She has no job and taking care of her 3 kids is her major fear.
Im currently looking for an apartment for her in Lagos. If you know any affordable one or an agent who can help please advise - preferably in the mainland.
After this, we can think of a little business that can possibly help her pay her bills. Thank you everyone. God bless you all

mysticwarrior:
you are a reincarnation of wise king Solomon, abeg kindly permits me to salute you in warri style, three gun shot salute for you Kpoko..kpoko..kpoko your teeth complete dem no reash.

mysticwarrior:
You better mind you business and stay away from them, one man was always in the habit of beating his wife in my compound, he would Lock the door and beat hell out of this woman and leave her with scars and bruises, one day the man was beating the wife because he claims the woman refused to prepare food for him but this time around the door was open, a woman entered the house with the intention of making peace, only for her to be stabbed with a kitchen knife by the battered wife.

The woman sustained injury and was taken to the hospital for treatment, I saw this same couple the next morning laughing together as they both walked along, since then I dey see fighting married couples dey run.

frozen70:


How come she doesn't have families to fight or caution that beast

So who took her bride price and drank her marriage wine

You see why I keep saying that women should never allow any man to kill their emotions

Assuming she is capable of taking care of her self, she won't even look at the idiot

Check very well, its unresolved money matters that is causing this havoc

Women, once you accept your faith that you can't struggle on your own be ready to accept what goes with it

Well she has the option to walk out or return back after the hospital admission

If a man's wife is doing well, that one alone will intimidate a man not to be disrespectful