alphaNomega:

I'd like to know your opinion on this in the next 5 years.

Bro.... Just be supportive of a brother's ambition's

Buy another TV put inside room or u ask her why she is always annoyed when u leave her

If she can't explain chai but women sef get problems oo

Mindfulness:


While you have considered your parents' desire for grandchildren, have you also considered what would be best for the children?

everything will come good in due course.....
Las Las Everybody Go Dey Alright

Playstation1:


everything will come good in due course.....
Las Las Everybody Go Dey Alright

So you haven't, thought so. Grow up!

Beosten:


She told doctor she wants me to be chubby, dt I lean small.

You should understand that she's complaining about your man part. That it's too small and you're probably more interested in pressing your phone than pressing her.

naijabetboy:


Thanks, I understand. I'm not meddling. We were just gisting and he mentioned it. It's not like he sees it as a major problem in his marriage. We spoke about it in passing. Moreover, he is aware I posted it here. He finds some of the comments funny too

mind your business,you and your friend are not mature to handle marriage.
Why did the friend not post it.
What's Ur business? ABI u Iike the wife,home breaker.

Funny wifey. i can only get worried if you dont perform ur other room duties. but u do what is my concern with movie? me that hate movie like kilode. just watch ur stuff while i sleep jare my own is dont disturb me when i watch my wrestling or football

Beosten:
He should not mind her. That's how most of them behave. My own is that I press phone till around 1am. Wife would wake up and tell me to come and sleep. She told our doctor that I stay awake at night. Doctor then told her to be seizing my phone after 10pm

This is the funniest thing I've read all night
So shes only obeying Dr's orders
Wonders

Playstation1:


Politics inside marriage!
someone should pls enlighten me.

Let me give you an example.

You love your wife, you love your kids, you love your parents and in-laws.
How do you balance competing interests so that one does not suffer for the other?

Playstation1:
lemme drop a plan for the way forward for those of us still young and not yet ready for women wahala...
1: Hustle
2: Continue hustling
3: Keep hustling, and by this stage u must have done well financially, and can provide and flex urself. then
4: ENROLL FOR THE BABY MAMA PROGRAM
5: Continue hustling and balling why doing stipends for baby mama and child
5: By now u must have grown financially okay and well doing. then
6: BOOM- ANOTHER BABY MAMA ENROLLED, LOADED AND DELIVERED
7: Keeping the hustling spirit and been a boss and a baller at the same time, u must have acheived alot like:
Owned a car
Completed ur house
Explored all varieties of pu**y
8: Been a boss, continue pu**y exploration while developing urself
9: Another baby mama must now be Enrolled and delivered
10: Saved enough $$$,
11: Now in the later stage of life mid to late 60's get urself a good old evening newspaper to co-habit with and take care of eachother for there is noting more to explore in life again.
#happy life no girl nagging

And then your "good old evening newspaper" will kill you so that she can inherit your wealth.

And that's the end of Solomon Grundy.

AkhereOkaka:

Simple, this shouldn't be an issue, since he loves watching Tv at night he should buy one and put in the bedroom.

And then it becomes she is disturbing her sleep. It is a marriage and not a covenant of doom. In marriage, the individuals are not glued and one party should not scheme on how to deprive the other of what s/he loves to do provided it is not hurting the party.

FrLukas:


You should understand that she's complaining about your man part. That it's too small and you're probably more interested in pressing your phone than pressing her.

No go DT side o. I be chakie Chan on bed

naijabetboy:


Okay,

He said that she would usually say "what if something happens to me while you're in the living room"

I'm like what will happen..

Like a cat will appear and choke her troat like they do in nollywood

Vikky014:
Funny wifey. i can only get worried if you dont perform ur other room duties. but u do what is my concern with movie? me that hate movie like kilode. just watch ur stuff while i sleep jare my own is dont disturb me when i watch my wrestling or football

If you are truly a female I find your comment funny.

A woman who doesn't like movies but loves wrestling and football?

Weird

Beosten:


No go DT side o. I be chakie Chan on bed

Lol. I hear you sir.

naijabetboy:
Okay, here's the thing

A friend of mine got married less than a year now. He has this habit of sometimes waking up at night (anytime between 2:00am to like 5:00am) and go to the leaving room to watch TV (mostly weekends). Most if the time, he is back in bed before 5:00am.

But his wife gets mad at him for leaving her side. He said that she is usually fast asleep in this period, it's not like they're going to have sex, or have a conversation or anything. She just wants him to be in bed beside her.

He thinks it's he didn't do anything wrong... I think so too

Please married men in the house, do you experience this too? Is my friend wrong to watch TV in the living room at night leaving his wife's side or is the woman just over reacting?

I actually find it adorable ... Shows how much she wants her husband around her. He should buy one n keep in their bed room

Beosten:
He should not mind her. That's how most of them behave. My own is that I press phone till around 1am. Wife would wake up and tell me to come and sleep. She told our doctor that I stay awake at night. Doctor then told her to be seizing my phone after 10pm

naijabetboy:


Okay,

He said that she would usually say "what if something happens to me while you're in the living room"

I'm like what will happen..

Some people can't sleep alone though.

I personally don't like it when people are walking around in the room when I'm sleeping.

What if something possesses you and you strangle me to death in my sleep?

FrLukas:


If you are truly a female I find your comment funny.

A woman who doesn't like movies but loves wrestling and football?

Weird

funny i wasn't allowed to watch movies when i was growing up. was always banned from it. Go and read your book was always the anthem so i ended up hating it jare it isn't weird.

naijabetboy:
Okay, here's the thing

A friend of mine got married less than a year now. He has this habit of sometimes waking up at night (anytime between 2:00am to like 5:00am) and go to the leaving room to watch TV (mostly weekends). Most if the time, he is back in bed before 5:00am.

But his wife gets mad at him for leaving her side. He said that she is usually fast asleep in this period, it's not like they're going to have sex, or have a conversation or anything. She just wants him to be in bed beside her.

He thinks it's he didn't do anything wrong... I think so too

Please married men in the house, do you experience this too? Is my friend wrong to watch TV in the living room at night leaving his wife's side or is the woman just over reacting?

She is obviously a clingy woman. Clingy people can be a pain in the ass.

Vikky014:
funny i wasn't allowed to watch movies when i was growing up. was always banned from it. Go and read your book was always the anthem so i ended up hating it jare it isn't weird.

Interesting. Not a TV person myself.

FrLukas:

Interesting. Not a TV person myself.

cool

FrLukas:


Some people can't sleep alone though.

I personally don't like it when people are walking around in the room when I'm sleeping.

What if something possesses you and you strangle me to death in my sleep?

You have trust issues.

And it can be detrimental to your health if you don't address it.

One way to address this issue is to intently look at the issue from different angles.

One angle: even if your partner sleeps in bed with you, what is the assurance that they won't still get up while you are asleep and strangle you? Or is it possible for you to keep awake all night?

This is also what I tell people with trust issues. I tell them, you just have to trust someone. Paranoia is a serious health hazard, and many people who suffer from paranoia never enjoy normal life. They are always scared that they will be harmed.

naijabetboy:
Okay, here's the thing

A friend of mine got married less than a year now. He has this habit of sometimes waking up at night (anytime between 2:00am to like 5:00am) and go to the leaving room to watch TV (mostly weekends). Most if the time, he is back in bed before 5:00am.

But his wife gets mad at him for leaving her side. He said that she is usually fast asleep in this period, it's not like they're going to have sex, or have a conversation or anything. She just wants him to be in bed beside her.

He thinks it's he didn't do anything wrong... I think so too

Please married men in the house, do you experience this too? Is my friend wrong to watch TV in the living room at night leaving his wife's side or is the woman just over reacting?

Women like cuddling especially sleep time

Tell him to ask the wife to choose either to have a telly at in the room and she won't complain about the lights reflection and noise

Or she will have to endure since he doesn't do it all the time

But the good thing is that if they have little kids that disturbs at night, he should carry the child through out that period and she will not complain

Vikky014:
funny i wasn't allowed to watch movies when i was growing up. was always banned from it. Go and read your book was always the anthem so i ended up hating it jare it isn't weird.

That was bad.

Parents need to understand that mass media is one of the agents of socialization.

TV ordinarily is not bad, and a child can learn a lot from watching some educative TV programs like quizzes, and highly educative and entertaining animations.

I grew up watching many science genre movies that shaped my understanding of the world around me.

frozen70:


Women like cuddling especially sleep time

Tell him to ask the wife to choose either to have a telly at in the room and she won't complain about the lights reflection and noise

Or she will have to endure since he doesn't do it all the time

But the good thing is that if they have little kids that disturbs at night, he should carry the child through out that period and she will not complain

According to the OP, she was always already asleep. She couldn't have expected that he would cuddle her all night.

BluntBoy:


You have trust issues.

And it can be detrimental to your health if you don't address it.

One way to address this issue is to intently look at the issue from different angles.

One angle: even if your partner sleeps in bed with you, what is the assurance that they won't still get up while you are asleep and strangle you? Or is it possible for you to keep awake all night?

This is also what I tell people with trust issues. I tell them, you just have to trust someone. Paranoia is a serious health hazard, and many people who suffer from paranoia never enjoy normal life. They are always scared that they will be harmed.

The only people who have trust issues are people who trust everyone.

Did you read the story of the girl who was poisoned by her "best friend", someone she had known since they were four years old?

Anyway, I don't have trust issues. That which you bolded was meant to be taken lightly.

But I still can't sleep in a room with people moving around anyway. I'd sense it and wake up.

BluntBoy:


You have trust issues.

And it can be detrimental to your health if you don't address it.

One way to address this issue is to intently look at the issue from different angles.

One angle: even if your partner sleeps in bed with you, what is the assurance that they won't still get up while you are asleep and strangle you? Or is it possible for you to keep awake all night?

This is also what I tell people with trust issues. I tell them, you just have to trust someone. Paranoia is a serious health hazard, and many people who suffer from paranoia never enjoy normal life. They are always scared that they will be harmed.

watchusay

I Thought There Was An House Girl In The House, But If Is Jst Watching T V No Problem.

That is the only time the wife has to feel warm of man. It is not too good to leave your wife like that it makes her look like she no fit you. If there are something you detest in her, let her know.