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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by manlawal(m): 9:53am On Dec 22, 2019
Jesusjnr are you also saying is a sin for couples who are yet to give birth to use ivf or other artificial means to conceive?
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Acecube(m): 9:54am On Dec 22, 2019
ursullalinda:
Well as a Christian and a Catholic using any form of sex protection apart from billings method is a sin
what's Billings ?
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by abdullkabar(m): 9:57am On Dec 22, 2019
If you say using condom is a sin, then using medicine too is a sin bah
We should learn when to apply logic and when to apply religion(which still needs logic)


I had a medicine student as a roommate when I was in part 1 in OAU then. He belongs to one of the Christian extremist church(apologies).
There was a time he was really sick, can you guys believe this guy didn't use any drug just because of their believe, all he did was pray.
On the evening of the forth day, we noticed he was shaking and was looking really pale,I had to carry him to the health center.
Where the doctor examined him and told him to go take his bath(later prescribing some drugs for him)
The doctor said his radiator was dried, that he doubted he would have made it to the next day if he hadn't come to the hospital.
Point: A medicine student leaving logic on the path of medicine which is his field for religious believe(so you wonder)

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Iwanttoto: 9:57am On Dec 22, 2019
post=85121344:
[s]7 reasons married couples might choose to use condoms:

1.Maybe one or both of them is unfaithful.

2.Maybe one or both of them has an infection.
Maybe one of them was born HIV positive.
Maybe one of them contracted herpes from a previous partner, or from childhood sexual abuse, and doesn't want to infect the other. Maybe one of them works in a career that has them coming into regular contact with blood-borne pathogens.

3.Maybe they don't want children yet or ever, but the woman can't take hormonal birth control because she has cardiovascular disease and it would put her at high risk for stroke, or because it gives her severe nausea.

4.Maybe it's against her religion, or she just doesn't like synthetic hormones in her body. Maybe condoms are a back-up in addition to birth control pills for a woman who is known to be forgetful with taking them, or has gotten pregnant while being on the pill before and prefers a condom as a safety net.

5.Maybe they like condoms. Maybe they think the ones that have warming and cooling sensations, or ribbed ones with tingling lube, feel good and add to their sexual enjoyment.

6.Maybe they want to prolong the sexual encounter and make the man last longer before having an orgasm.Maybe their favorite part of the sexual encounter is holding each other afterwards, and condoms make it such that they can lay there and cuddle with minimal interruption for clean-up.

7.Maybe one or both of them was raped by someone not wearing a condom, and bare ejaculation in the body is triggering and traumatic.

Have a nice Xmas Week ahead Everyone! wink[/s]

Maybe one or both of them slept with the human meat seller
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by realestniggah: 9:59am On Dec 22, 2019
I cant even be bothered to read this thrash

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by deltateam: 10:02am On Dec 22, 2019
jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?


This post is an offshoot of a recent thread titled, "Are we truly safe when we commit sin with condoms?"

https://www.nairaland.com/5582353/truly-safe-when-commit-sin

That thread was primarily intended to use the Truth of Jesus Words to disprove the idea being sold by the world in the name of "safe sex", that someone who commits a sexual sin, let's say, adultery, using a condom could yet be truly safe.

But then a someone with the moniker @Prettyjanet1 pops up with this interesting question:



So that's obviously where I got the thread title from, and this was my answer to the question:



So married couples using condoms was not considered a sin to me then, and that corroborated my position on the Op of that thread that I wasn't against the use of condoms because I didn't believe that it was a bad thing.

But then came someone else with the moniker @Godsonjolly with the following question:



This was my response:



Then he said:



But his comment seemed to make some sense to me, hence my response:

Therefore his comment agreed with my inclination on the use of condoms amongst married couples, because I believe that God should have the last say on the amount of kids a couple should have, even though at the time I didn't consider it to be a sin if they did so.

However the difference in this case was that I somehow just found it hard to include the part that "it was not a sin to me" in the final post of my conversation with him, as I did in my response to the first question, even though I had initially typed it. So I just had to chop that part off before posting, because at that point, it just felt quite uncomfortable to include it, as it just didn't seem right.

So it seemed my initial position about married couples using condoms during sex not being a sin had began to experience a bit of a wobble.

And to add to that uncertainty, there was a development I had noticed after making that thread, and it was the word "condom" suddenly beginning to feature in my tongues. But I felt very uncomfortable with that for obvious reasons, even though I had just done a thread that had something to do with that, as I had expected to move on from that since I had accomplished what I intended with that thread. So the last thing I was expecting was for it to start showing up in my tongues.

But it was later when I began to say "condom na sirin" repeatedly in tongues, that the picture began to become clearer of what the message appeared to be, as it sounded like "condom na sin" in pidgin English.

I began to have the feeling that perhaps the Holy Spirit wasn't pleased with the impression I had given about the use of condoms on the Op of that thread, where I said that I wasn't against the use of condoms and didn't believe that it was a bad thing, so that i would correct it.

But it was when I came back to the thread and saw where I had categorically responded to @Prettyjanet1's question, and said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin, and had followed my responses up til the final response I gave on that same matter, where I was no longer comfortable to say it was a sin as i had done initially, that it became much clearer to me what actually happened then, and what that had to do with my spoken tongues about condoms.

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

This may have been one of the things that displeased God concerning Onan that made Him slay him as was suggested by @Godsonjolly, for in the Bible days there were no condoms, so child bearing among married couples was solely God's prerogative, therefore Onan may have also dishonored God by what he did.

This is not intended to frighten or judge married couples, however I believe that especially for christians, it's best to follow the examples given in the Bible where childbearing in marriage was usually attributed to God, and the amount of children was determined by Him, so that condoms would not take God's place in determining how many kids they have.

That would obviously require married couples completely trusting God concerning childbearing, but i believe the marriages of those do so surely shall surely reap the rewards of them placing such extent of trust in God, because God alone best knows how many children a married couple should have.

God bless.

All these epistles for what exactly?

That's why I hate seeking validation from men. God gave man a conscience for a reason but some will rather pretend its not there while the rest suppress it with hard substances.
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by CSTR2: 10:08am On Dec 22, 2019
ikennaiteogu:
It's not a sin but weird to do so.
It is not weird.
Condom among married couples is the reason why our population has not doubled yet.

Couples must fucckk even after five children and condom is the best contraceptive.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by stanliwise(m): 10:17am On Dec 22, 2019
jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?


This post is an offshoot of a recent thread titled, "Are we truly safe when we commit sin with condoms?"

https://www.nairaland.com/5582353/truly-safe-when-commit-sin

That thread was primarily intended to use the Truth of Jesus Words to disprove the idea being sold by the world in the name of "safe sex", that someone who commits a sexual sin, let's say, adultery, using a condom could yet be truly safe.

But then a someone with the moniker @Prettyjanet1 pops up with this interesting question:



So that's obviously where I got the thread title from, and this was my answer to the question:



So married couples using condoms was not considered a sin to me then, and that corroborated my position on the Op of that thread that I wasn't against the use of condoms because I didn't believe that it was a bad thing.

But then came someone else with the moniker @Godsonjolly with the following question:



This was my response:



Then he said:



But his comment seemed to make some sense to me, hence my response:

Therefore his comment agreed with my inclination on the use of condoms amongst married couples, because I believe that God should have the last say on the amount of kids a couple should have, even though at the time I didn't consider it to be a sin if they did so.

However the difference in this case was that I somehow just found it hard to include the part that "it was not a sin to me" in the final post of my conversation with him, as I did in my response to the first question, even though I had initially typed it. So I just had to chop that part off before posting, because at that point, it just felt quite uncomfortable to include it, as it just didn't seem right.

So it seemed my initial position about married couples using condoms during sex not being a sin had began to experience a bit of a wobble.

And to add to that uncertainty, there was a development I had noticed after making that thread, and it was the word "condom" suddenly beginning to feature in my tongues. But I felt very uncomfortable with that for obvious reasons, even though I had just done a thread that had something to do with that, as I had expected to move on from that since I had accomplished what I intended with that thread. So the last thing I was expecting was for it to start showing up in my tongues.

But it was later when I began to say "condom na sirin" repeatedly in tongues, that the picture began to become clearer of what the message appeared to be, as it sounded like "condom na sin" in pidgin English.

I began to have the feeling that perhaps the Holy Spirit wasn't pleased with the impression I had given about the use of condoms on the Op of that thread, where I said that I wasn't against the use of condoms and didn't believe that it was a bad thing, so that i would correct it.

But it was when I came back to the thread and saw where I had categorically responded to @Prettyjanet1's question, and said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin, and had followed my responses up til the final response I gave on that same matter, where I was no longer comfortable to say it was a sin as i had done initially, that it became much clearer to me what actually happened then, and what that had to do with my spoken tongues about condoms.

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

This may have been one of the things that displeased God concerning Onan that made Him slay him as was suggested by @Godsonjolly, for in the Bible days there were no condoms, so child bearing among married couples was solely God's prerogative, therefore Onan may have also dishonored God by what he did.

This is not intended to frighten or judge married couples, however I believe that especially for christians, it's best to follow the examples given in the Bible where childbearing in marriage was usually attributed to God, and the amount of children was determined by Him, so that condoms would not take God's place in determining how many kids they have.

That would obviously require married couples completely trusting God concerning childbearing, but i believe the marriages of those do so surely shall surely reap the rewards of them placing such extent of trust in God, because God alone best knows how many children a married couple should have.

God bless.
please op what is the current world population?
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by gustav25: 10:20am On Dec 22, 2019
This one is a brain damaged fanatic

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by buoye1(m): 10:22am On Dec 22, 2019
Only God can deliver you from this calamity you've put yourself into....i pity you and some stupid fellows that will follow this gabbagge you've posted

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Nobody: 10:25am On Dec 22, 2019
In 2019 this topic made front page? Really? undecided
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Generalyemi(m): 10:32am On Dec 22, 2019
stop making caricature of Christianity by asking stupid questions
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by fimi: 10:33am On Dec 22, 2019
donstan18:
This topic further explains why people say that over religious fellows are not logical in reasoning.
God bless u
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by KIDfurniture(m): 10:34am On Dec 22, 2019
See wetin religion don turn this person too. God punish the people that introduced religion to us. The executives a.k.a founders of various church business centers are banging church members and have multiple concubines.
Please ask your pastor if it's ok to use condom on your wife..


beewhy009:
sad

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by KIDfurniture(m): 10:35am On Dec 22, 2019
Pastors will tell this one to bring his wife for confirmation. This one will gladly submit en wife to pastor asap...mumu Christians

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by jaxxy(m): 10:38am On Dec 22, 2019
That person who asked this question. This is my answer for ur ridiculous questions. No it’s not a sin for married people to use condoms bt however it is a sin for married people to have sex.

Yes i know it’s a ridiculous answer, for ur ridiculous question.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Patrioticman007(m): 10:38am On Dec 22, 2019
KIDfurniture:
Pastors will tell this one to bring his wife for confirmation. This one will gladly submit en wife to pastor asap...mumu Christians

Sexual perverts religion.

If u say using condom is not a sin, can u then explain this
Genesis 38:9 (KJV) And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.
Genesis 38:10 (KJV) And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Realdeals(m): 10:39am On Dec 22, 2019
Idiotic question, this are the kind of doctrine and beliefs that makes religion sickening.
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by janettee(f): 10:48am On Dec 22, 2019
This thread is stupid and doesn't make any logical sense.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by janettee(f): 10:49am On Dec 22, 2019
Who even moved this rubbish to fp lipsrsealed.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Nobody: 10:50am On Dec 22, 2019
donstan18:
This topic further explains why people say that over religious fellows are not logical in reasoning.

I agree with you
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 22, 2019
If you are not married, you look more like an i.mbec.ile when you try to give a piece of advice you know nothing about. Advice should be given by people that are experienced and wise, and it is glaring that you don't make it to that list.

The Op doesn't even look like someone with a decent job. You want people without the means to procreate endlessly, even with the Bible saying that a man who is unable to provide for his household is worse than an infidel?

Your pastor, and whoever it is that teaches you this crapp should be brought to the market square and given 39 strokes of the cane, in three successions like it was practiced by the Ancient Jews.

It is only a brain that is hopelessly enslaved that interprets everything in the light of sin. Christ came to repair man's mentality, to stop people thinking like that.

Op should go back to Sunday school and ask questions that are not above his/her age grade.



jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

God bless.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Ugohenryugo(m): 10:54am On Dec 22, 2019
I strongly disagree with you on this wherein, you said it is a sin for married couples to use condom. And don't attribute your decision to the Holy Spirit, what steps did you take to confirm it was indeed the Holy Spirit that spoke to you. I advise you and every one else to download the message or E-book below as shown on the image accompanying this comment. Just type the title on Google and you will see it.

Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Liposure: 10:54am On Dec 22, 2019
Your question is like asking somebody if it is wrong to take medication when u r sick. Necessity they say is the mother of invention.condoms are problem solvers.the use of condoms shouldnt be connected with 2 religious dos and don'ts.
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by KIDfurniture(m): 10:55am On Dec 22, 2019
Why did you quote the bible verses sir? Your point sir? Jehovah killed them cos they committed abomination . I wish jehovah would kill humans like he did back then . Why would any man bang his brothers wife? Why?


Patrioticman007:


Sexual perverts religion.

If u say using condom is not a sin, can u then explain this
Genesis 38:9 (KJV) And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.
Genesis 38:10 (KJV) And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by 4gunners(m): 10:56am On Dec 22, 2019
dragon2:
It is a sin,because it objectifies the Husband and the wife.It turns both into mutual objects of pleasure for themselves and reduces love in the married life. If you have sex with your spouse just because of pleasure, without giving the chance of procreation you objectify your spouse.
Objectify, you say. Some people reason ehn...So they should continue to procreate...

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by KIDfurniture(m): 10:57am On Dec 22, 2019
Use protect if you know u re not ready to father a child oh. If u keep shooting sperm inside ur wife and she keeps printing out human beings be ready to be responsible for them oh. Dont be a useless father plus husband in this life.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Judolisco(m): 10:57am On Dec 22, 2019
Are you catholic?
jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?


This post is an offshoot of a recent thread titled, "Are we truly safe when we commit sin with condoms?"

https://www.nairaland.com/5582353/truly-safe-when-commit-sin

That thread was primarily intended to use the Truth of Jesus Words to disprove the idea being sold by the world in the name of "safe sex", that someone who commits a sexual sin, let's say, adultery, using a condom could yet be truly safe.

But then a someone with the moniker @Prettyjanet1 pops up with this interesting question:



So that's obviously where I got the thread title from, and this was my answer to the question:



So married couples using condoms was not considered a sin to me then, and that corroborated my position on the Op of that thread that I wasn't against the use of condoms because I didn't believe that it was a bad thing.

But then came someone else with the moniker @Godsonjolly with the following question:



This was my response:



Then he said:



But his comment seemed to make some sense to me, hence my response:

Therefore his comment agreed with my inclination on the use of condoms amongst married couples, because I believe that God should have the last say on the amount of kids a couple should have, even though at the time I didn't consider it to be a sin if they did so.

However the difference in this case was that I somehow just found it hard to include the part that "it was not a sin to me" in the final post of my conversation with him, as I did in my response to the first question, even though I had initially typed it. So I just had to chop that part off before posting, because at that point, it just felt quite uncomfortable to include it, as it just didn't seem right.

So it seemed my initial position about married couples using condoms during sex not being a sin had began to experience a bit of a wobble.

And to add to that uncertainty, there was a development I had noticed after making that thread, and it was the word "condom" suddenly beginning to feature in my tongues. But I felt very uncomfortable with that for obvious reasons, even though I had just done a thread that had something to do with that, as I had expected to move on from that since I had accomplished what I intended with that thread. So the last thing I was expecting was for it to start showing up in my tongues.

But it was later when I began to say "condom na sirin" repeatedly in tongues, that the picture began to become clearer of what the message appeared to be, as it sounded like "condom na sin" in pidgin English.

I began to have the feeling that perhaps the Holy Spirit wasn't pleased with the impression I had given about the use of condoms on the Op of that thread, where I said that I wasn't against the use of condoms and didn't believe that it was a bad thing, so that i would correct it.

But it was when I came back to the thread and saw where I had categorically responded to @Prettyjanet1's question, and said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin, and had followed my responses up til the final response I gave on that same matter, where I was no longer comfortable to say it was a sin as i had done initially, that it became much clearer to me what actually happened then, and what that had to do with my spoken tongues about condoms.

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

This may have been one of the things that displeased God concerning Onan that made Him slay him as was suggested by @Godsonjolly, for in the Bible days there were no condoms, so child bearing among married couples was solely God's prerogative, therefore Onan may have also dishonored God by what he did.

This is not intended to frighten or judge married couples, however I believe that especially for christians, it's best to follow the examples given in the Bible where childbearing in marriage was usually attributed to God, and the amount of children was determined by Him, so that condoms would not take God's place in determining how many kids they have.

That would obviously require married couples completely trusting God concerning childbearing, but i believe the marriages of those do so surely shall surely reap the rewards of them placing such extent of trust in God, because God alone best knows how many children a married couple should have.

God bless.
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Ugohenryugo(m): 11:00am On Dec 22, 2019
Liposure:
Your question is like asking somebody if it is wrong to take medication when u r sick. Necessity they say is the mother of invention.condoms are problem solvers.it has nothing 2 do religious ethics.

Nice one.. Taking medicine or going to hospital ought to be regarded as sin as well, because God is able to heal us, so why do we have to take drugs when we are sick?
Is drugs now taking the place of God? Who gave human being the knowledge to produce drugs?
Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 22, 2019
ursullalinda:
Well as a Christian and a Catholic using any form of sex protection apart from billings method is a sin
Please educate me about the billing method. Thanks!

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married Couples To Use Condoms? by Alawode01(m): 11:08am On Dec 22, 2019
Is not a sin,is one of family planning that's very guarantee.

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