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Sttmema:
BA!!!!!!
Hellloow everyone and able feb teamies!!!
Announcing the arrival of the most beautiful princess in the world!!!!! I’m sooooo egzited jare, don’t mind me....BS soon enough hopefully
Cc beyedew pls note

Congratulations Ma'am

bibiliscious:
First Timer, just thought to share my experience as I am very distraught ATM . I lost my first baby last Saturday 1st Feb at 21 weeks.

It started out like any other day the Thursday before . I went to the office , bought a few food stuff on my way home n then went home cooked , served my husband and then we got intimate .

Few hours later I had re occurring cramps (I have growing fibroids which isn't in the uretus) I assumed that was what caused the cramps but if was persistent from midnight to 6am my husband insisted we went to the hospital which we did and I found out I was contracting .

The Gynae gave me some injections n placed me on drip and the contractions continued and eventually stopped. On Friday morning I noticed I was bleeding non stop I asked for the gynaecologist and was told he doesn't work on weekends that he has travelled to visit his family (I was surprised Cz I was his patient and it was an emergency so expected him to atleast stay Friday to monitor me ) .

In the afternoon on Friday , I noticed my gestational sac hanging out of my vagina (that is the sac that holds the amniotic fluid and baby ) I was screaming in tears n shock . I was supposed to have my baby in the us so I called my Us doctor who insisted they carry out an emergency cerclage (stitching of the cervix) but the gynae was unavailable .

I asked to be transferred to another hospital n they said their ambulance was at their ikeja office , wow I was dumb founded Cz I couldn't stand n needed to be in laying position due to the sac sticking out. After some time the sac went back in . I kept on praying n crying as this was our first child.

I asked if they had incubator just incase the baby comes out they said no.

After much back n forth he sent a replacement gynae from their ikeja branch (I was in ikoyi branch ) who arrived at 8pm who advised that nothing could be done but observe and pray and he left back to ikeja branch instead of staying with me as I was an emergency patient.

I bled all night , my baby was a fighter his heart beat was still on functioning well all through the distress (every time I did scan in the past , drs always commented of how active my son was)

On Saturday morning I woke up to pee and felt like a balloon burst from inside me my water broke. Immediately called the nurses who checked the heart beat n the baby's heart rate was still perfect.

I went to the delivery room , my son head popped out he was still moving as he came out inside the sac after 5 mins he passed. Then the torture began . They general practitioner n nurses spent 2-3 hrs trying to remove the placenta , used all sort to expand my uterus - forcep, hands , clamps I was in excruciating pain . All this while the gynae n replacement gynae were not available .

They finally got the placenta out n I had to be treated with lots of antibiotics as I was feverish n having short breaths so they gave me that incase of any infection .

Been crying all through , the gynae finally graced us with his presence on Monday night imagine the loss was on sat(no calls or nothing the whole weekend) .

My husband and I asked him for reason for the pre term labour he couldn't give us a specific reason . Just said stress , sex we had a night before or anything .

Let me just stop here ,I am recovering and I pray no one ever experience such treatment as I feel like this could have been controlled and the loss was due to negligence .

So sorry for your loss Ma'am. I understand what you are going through.You're coming back soon

Fruitfulvinee:
Experienced mamas in the house,im here again.
The last time, I was here complaining about having cramps. So today, I decided to see my gynecologist.
On getting there, was told the cramps was as a result of the multiple fibriods and will have to undergo a cerclage procedure just to keep my cervix closed.
I really do not want to go through that procedure as I've read beautiful bs of mamas with fibriods here, who still give birth to their lo managing the fibriods.
Pls I need advice. I'm 15+weeks gone
I'm on hospital bed as I type, taking the 3rd drips

Good morning Ma'am, I will advice you to follow your doctors advice. I had fibroids too but did not really feel much pain because my doctor told me that the only way to avoid cramps is to take enough water(4-5bottles of water in a day) and I should take pregnacare instead of folic acid because she said folic acid makes fibroids grow faster. I also did cerclage at Week 15 too and I am presently 27weeks now.

Even though I was placed on progesterone till week 28. You can still visit another hospital if you doubt the present doctor.

bibiliscious:
First Timer, just thought to share my experience as I am very distraught ATM . I lost my first baby last Saturday 1st Feb at 21 weeks.

It started out like any other day the Thursday before . I went to the office , bought a few food stuff on my way home n then went home cooked , served my husband and then we got intimate .

Few hours later I had re occurring cramps (I have growing fibroids which isn't in the uretus) I assumed that was what caused the cramps but if was persistent from midnight to 6am my husband insisted we went to the hospital which we did and I found out I was contracting .

The Gynae gave me some injections n placed me on drip and the contractions continued and eventually stopped. On Friday morning I noticed I was bleeding non stop I asked for the gynaecologist and was told he doesn't work on weekends that he has travelled to visit his family (I was surprised Cz I was his patient and it was an emergency so expected him to atleast stay Friday to monitor me ) .

In the afternoon on Friday , I noticed my gestational sac hanging out of my vagina (that is the sac that holds the amniotic fluid and baby ) I was screaming in tears n shock . I was supposed to have my baby in the us so I called my Us doctor who insisted they carry out an emergency cerclage (stitching of the cervix) but the gynae was unavailable .

I asked to be transferred to another hospital n they said their ambulance was at their ikeja office , wow I was dumb founded Cz I couldn't stand n needed to be in laying position due to the sac sticking out. After some time the sac went back in . I kept on praying n crying as this was our first child.

I asked if they had incubator just incase the baby comes out they said no.

After much back n forth he sent a replacement gynae from their ikeja branch (I was in ikoyi branch ) who arrived at 8pm who advised that nothing could be done but observe and pray and he left back to ikeja branch instead of staying with me as I was an emergency patient.

I bled all night , my baby was a fighter his heart beat was still on functioning well all through the distress (every time I did scan in the past , drs always commented of how active my son was)

On Saturday morning I woke up to pee and felt like a balloon burst from inside me my water broke. Immediately called the nurses who checked the heart beat n the baby's heart rate was still perfect.

I went to the delivery room , my son head popped out he was still moving as he came out inside the sac after 5 mins he passed. Then the torture began . They general practitioner n nurses spent 2-3 hrs trying to remove the placenta , used all sort to expand my uterus - forcep, hands , clamps I was in excruciating pain . All this while the gynae n replacement gynae were not available .

They finally got the placenta out n I had to be treated with lots of antibiotics as I was feverish n having short breaths so they gave me that incase of any infection .

Been crying all through , the gynae finally graced us with his presence on Monday night imagine the loss was on sat(no calls or nothing the whole weekend) .

My husband and I asked him for reason for the pre term labour he couldn't give us a specific reason . Just said stress , sex we had a night before or anything .

Let me just stop here ,I am recovering and I pray no one ever experience such treatment as I feel like this could have been controlled and the loss was due to negligence .

So sorry darl. God in His infinite mercies Will replace this with a beautiful one. The one that will be the coolness of your eyes.

bibiliscious:
First Timer, just thought to share my experience as I am very distraught ATM . I lost my first baby last Saturday 1st Feb at 21 weeks.

It started out like any other day the Thursday before . I went to the office , bought a few food stuff on my way home n then went home cooked , served my husband and then we got intimate .

Few hours later I had re occurring cramps (I have growing fibroids which isn't in the uretus) I assumed that was what caused the cramps but if was persistent from midnight to 6am my husband insisted we went to the hospital which we did and I found out I was contracting .

The Gynae gave me some injections n placed me on drip and the contractions continued and eventually stopped. On Friday morning I noticed I was bleeding non stop I asked for the gynaecologist and was told he doesn't work on weekends that he has travelled to visit his family (I was surprised Cz I was his patient and it was an emergency so expected him to atleast stay Friday to monitor me ) .

In the afternoon on Friday , I noticed my gestational sac hanging out of my vagina (that is the sac that holds the amniotic fluid and baby ) I was screaming in tears n shock . I was supposed to have my baby in the us so I called my Us doctor who insisted they carry out an emergency cerclage (stitching of the cervix) but the gynae was unavailable .

I asked to be transferred to another hospital n they said their ambulance was at their ikeja office , wow I was dumb founded Cz I couldn't stand n needed to be in laying position due to the sac sticking out. After some time the sac went back in . I kept on praying n crying as this was our first child.

I asked if they had incubator just incase the baby comes out they said no.

After much back n forth he sent a replacement gynae from their ikeja branch (I was in ikoyi branch ) who arrived at 8pm who advised that nothing could be done but observe and pray and he left back to ikeja branch instead of staying with me as I was an emergency patient.

I bled all night , my baby was a fighter his heart beat was still on functioning well all through the distress (every time I did scan in the past , drs always commented of how active my son was)

On Saturday morning I woke up to pee and felt like a balloon burst from inside me my water broke. Immediately called the nurses who checked the heart beat n the baby's heart rate was still perfect.

I went to the delivery room , my son head popped out he was still moving as he came out inside the sac after 5 mins he passed. Then the torture began . They general practitioner n nurses spent 2-3 hrs trying to remove the placenta , used all sort to expand my uterus - forcep, hands , clamps I was in excruciating pain . All this while the gynae n replacement gynae were not available .

They finally got the placenta out n I had to be treated with lots of antibiotics as I was feverish n having short breaths so they gave me that incase of any infection .

Been crying all through , the gynae finally graced us with his presence on Monday night imagine the loss was on sat(no calls or nothing the whole weekend) .

My husband and I asked him for reason for the pre term labour he couldn't give us a specific reason . Just said stress , sex we had a night before or anything .

Let me just stop here ,I am recovering and I pray no one ever experience such treatment as I feel like this could have been controlled and the loss was due to negligence .

I’m so sorry dear. Please be strong! God will surprise you

Jehovahoverdo1:
My fellows sisters.....I am writing this with a heavy heart and I know it is only miracle from God that can help my situation.

I went for scan and I was really expecting to see my baby but the man that did scan for me said he can see a gestational sac but no foetal pole yet.He concluded that maybe my body is taking its time to form the baby and I told him my last period was on Nov 21st and he said I shouldn't panic that some bodies take time in making the baby grow that I should just make sure I eat well and take folic acid daily and I shouldn't stress myself and I should repeat scan in four weeks time.

I am just sad at the moment....Though my husband is trying to cheer me up still I am not myself.




Put me in your prayers

Sis be positive and pray. He has perfect everything

ambient:
Dont be sad teamie i saw my fetal heartbeat at10weeks,i was so worried i kept asking questions here.you be fine and i pray your monicker name works for you.

Do we have a new team mate? Welcome ma. EDD?

Sttmema:
BA!!!!!!
Hellloow everyone and able feb teamies!!!
Announcing the arrival of the most beautiful princess in the world!!!!! I’m sooooo egzited jare, don’t mind me....BS soon enough hopefully
Cc beyedew pls note

congrats mama and welcome to your princess.

Sttmema:
BA!!!!!!
Hellloow everyone and able feb teamies!!!
Announcing the arrival of the most beautiful princess in the world!!!!! I’m sooooo egzited jare, don’t mind me....BS soon enough hopefully
Cc beyedew pls note

Congratulations mama, I'm happy for you. May God grant all the remaining preggies safe and painless delivery too. E-kisses to your princess.

[quote author=bibiliscious post=86467664][/quote]so sorry for your loss ma'am, God will give you double for all your troubles.

ijeije123:
Team July, am I the only one who isn't showing yet? I'm becoming worried o cos the pregnancy bumps I see online for team July are out already unlike mine. I only notice it when I'm naked or putting on a singlet, which just looks like one is overfed. Also, I haven't registered for antenatal yet. Hope its not too late?

my bump isn't showing too, so u r not alone. Please go and register oooo

I think this should be beneficial.

Download and use this app from Google play store to ask pregnancy related questions from health experts. They used to reply quickly.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.askquestion.myapp

bibiliscious:
First Timer, just thought to share my experience as I am very distraught ATM . I lost my first baby last Saturday 1st Feb at 21 weeks.

It started out like any other day the Thursday before . I went to the office , bought a few food stuff on my way home n then went home cooked , served my husband and then we got intimate .

Few hours later I had re occurring cramps (I have growing fibroids which isn't in the uretus) I assumed that was what caused the cramps but if was persistent from midnight to 6am my husband insisted we went to the hospital which we did and I found out I was contracting .

The Gynae gave me some injections n placed me on drip and the contractions continued and eventually stopped. On Friday morning I noticed I was bleeding non stop I asked for the gynaecologist and was told he doesn't work on weekends that he has travelled to visit his family (I was surprised Cz I was his patient and it was an emergency so expected him to atleast stay Friday to monitor me ) .

In the afternoon on Friday , I noticed my gestational sac hanging out of my vagina (that is the sac that holds the amniotic fluid and baby ) I was screaming in tears n shock . I was supposed to have my baby in the us so I called my Us doctor who insisted they carry out an emergency cerclage (stitching of the cervix) but the gynae was unavailable .

I asked to be transferred to another hospital n they said their ambulance was at their ikeja office , wow I was dumb founded Cz I couldn't stand n needed to be in laying position due to the sac sticking out. After some time the sac went back in . I kept on praying n crying as this was our first child.

I asked if they had incubator just incase the baby comes out they said no.

After much back n forth he sent a replacement gynae from their ikeja branch (I was in ikoyi branch ) who arrived at 8pm who advised that nothing could be done but observe and pray and he left back to ikeja branch instead of staying with me as I was an emergency patient.

I bled all night , my baby was a fighter his heart beat was still on functioning well all through the distress (every time I did scan in the past , drs always commented of how active my son was)

On Saturday morning I woke up to pee and felt like a balloon burst from inside me my water broke. Immediately called the nurses who checked the heart beat n the baby's heart rate was still perfect.

I went to the delivery room , my son head popped out he was still moving as he came out inside the sac after 5 mins he passed. Then the torture began . They general practitioner n nurses spent 2-3 hrs trying to remove the placenta , used all sort to expand my uterus - forcep, hands , clamps I was in excruciating pain . All this while the gynae n replacement gynae were not available .

They finally got the placenta out n I had to be treated with lots of antibiotics as I was feverish n having short breaths so they gave me that incase of any infection .

Been crying all through , the gynae finally graced us with his presence on Monday night imagine the loss was on sat(no calls or nothing the whole weekend) .

My husband and I asked him for reason for the pre term labour he couldn't give us a specific reason . Just said stress , sex we had a night before or anything .

Let me just stop here ,I am recovering and I pray no one ever experience such treatment as I feel like this could have been controlled and the loss was due to negligence .

So sorry mama, the Lord will make you laugh very soon and you will forget all the pains you've gone through.
Try to get another gynaecologist and work with him or her to prevent future occurrence.

The Lord be with you and your family.

Sttmema:
BA!!!!!!
Hellloow everyone and able feb teamies!!!
Announcing the arrival of the most beautiful princess in the world!!!!! I’m sooooo egzited jare, don’t mind me....BS soon enough hopefully
Cc beyedew pls note

Congratulations teamie... it finally ended in praise. God bless the baby and the parent. Wish you speedy recovery and success in your exams.

bibiliscious:
First Timer, just thought to share my experience as I am very distraught ATM . I lost my first baby last Saturday 1st Feb at 21 weeks.

It started out like any other day the Thursday before . I went to the office , bought a few food stuff on my way home n then went home cooked , served my husband and then we got intimate .

Few hours later I had re occurring cramps (I have growing fibroids which isn't in the uretus) I assumed that was what caused the cramps but if was persistent from midnight to 6am my husband insisted we went to the hospital which we did and I found out I was contracting .

The Gynae gave me some injections n placed me on drip and the contractions continued and eventually stopped. On Friday morning I noticed I was bleeding non stop I asked for the gynaecologist and was told he doesn't work on weekends that he has travelled to visit his family (I was surprised Cz I was his patient and it was an emergency so expected him to atleast stay Friday to monitor me ) .

In the afternoon on Friday , I noticed my gestational sac hanging out of my vagina (that is the sac that holds the amniotic fluid and baby ) I was screaming in tears n shock . I was supposed to have my baby in the us so I called my Us doctor who insisted they carry out an emergency cerclage (stitching of the cervix) but the gynae was unavailable .

I asked to be transferred to another hospital n they said their ambulance was at their ikeja office , wow I was dumb founded Cz I couldn't stand n needed to be in laying position due to the sac sticking out. After some time the sac went back in . I kept on praying n crying as this was our first child.

I asked if they had incubator just incase the baby comes out they said no.

After much back n forth he sent a replacement gynae from their ikeja branch (I was in ikoyi branch ) who arrived at 8pm who advised that nothing could be done but observe and pray and he left back to ikeja branch instead of staying with me as I was an emergency patient.

I bled all night , my baby was a fighter his heart beat was still on functioning well all through the distress (every time I did scan in the past , drs always commented of how active my son was)

On Saturday morning I woke up to pee and felt like a balloon burst from inside me my water broke. Immediately called the nurses who checked the heart beat n the baby's heart rate was still perfect.

I went to the delivery room , my son head popped out he was still moving as he came out inside the sac after 5 mins he passed. Then the torture began . They general practitioner n nurses spent 2-3 hrs trying to remove the placenta , used all sort to expand my uterus - forcep, hands , clamps I was in excruciating pain . All this while the gynae n replacement gynae were not available .

They finally got the placenta out n I had to be treated with lots of antibiotics as I was feverish n having short breaths so they gave me that incase of any infection .

Been crying all through , the gynae finally graced us with his presence on Monday night imagine the loss was on sat(no calls or nothing the whole weekend) .

My husband and I asked him for reason for the pre term labour he couldn't give us a specific reason . Just said stress , sex we had a night before or anything .

Let me just stop here ,I am recovering and I pray no one ever experience such treatment as I feel like this could have been controlled and the loss was due to negligence .

I'm angry in your place but thank God you are alive. By HIS grace your permanent testimony is on its way. Take heart and rest.

Mummy4life1:
Good morning Ma'am, I will advice you to follow your doctors advice. I had fibroids too but did not really feel much pain because my doctor told me that the only way to avoid cramps is to take enough water(4-5bottles of water in a day) and I should take pregnacare instead of folic acid because she said folic acid makes fibroids grow faster. I also did cerclage at Week 15 too and I am presently 27weeks now.

Even though I was placed on progesterone till week 28. You can still visit another hospital if you doubt the present doctor.

Thank you mama. I do take folic acid. Infact it's part of the routine drugs given to me. I'm already planning to register in another hospital.
Pls which of the pregnacare are you taking?

spixytinxy:
my bump isn't showing too, so u r not alone. Please go and register oooo

my cappo gm oo
so we are all in this bump thing 2geda.
How is it going ma

Mummy4life1:
Congratulations Ma'am

congratulatons!! Ma,welcome princess may u continually bring joy to your home

Mummy4life1:
So sorry for your loss Ma'am. I understand what you are going through.You're coming back soon

very sorry ma'am
God will see u through and give u double for ur trouble in jesus name.Amen.

Jellyshine:
Normal natural lemon grass leaf will do.

ok thanks ma'am God bless

Bisade44:
Sis be positive and pray. He has perfect everything

Amen sis....thanks

spixytinxy:
my bump isn't showing too, so u r not alone. Please go and register oooo

Okay, tnx teamie

cinderellashoes:
Please don't worry, it will be good news when you go back. My last menstrual period was on the 7th of November, yet I was told that there was no baby. The sonographer was even asking if the blood test was positive and I said yes. They asked me to come back but I went to another place after two weeks and they did TVS, the baby was seen and heartbeat was heard. Please be on bed rest and check after four weeks. God will make you smile.

Thanks for your encouraging words sis.....I am hopeful

ambient:
Dont be sad teamie i saw my fetal heartbeat at10weeks,i was so worried i kept asking questions here.you be fine and i pray your monicker name works for you.

Amen sis....thank you so much

@bibiliciious- its so painful hearing ur ordeal. So sorry for ur loss dear. May God give you triple for your loss. Please take care of yourself and try to think less abt it.

Perfectella:
my cappo gm oo
so we are all in this bump thing 2geda.
How is it going ma

good morning dear, we r pushing it small small ma. Me I like d fact dat my bump isn't showing yet sha. Hope u v registered sha, sup with shopping?

spixytinxy:
good morning dear, we r pushing it small small ma. Me I like d fact dat my bump isn't showing yet sha. Hope u v registered sha, sup with shopping?

no ooo i have not registered ooo
work!
Shopping for now na small small oo
anyone i see and i have the owo i get.thanks ma'am for ur concern

Perfectella:
no ooo i have not registered ooo
work!
Shopping for now na small small oo
anyone i see and i have the owo i get.thanks ma'am for ur concern

u welcome dear, me I Neva buy anything fa, want to know baby gender before I start.

You are not alone

ijeije123:
Team July, am I the only one who isn't showing yet? I'm becoming worried o cos the pregnancy bumps I see online for team July are out already unlike mine. I only notice it when I'm naked or putting on a singlet, which just looks like one is overfed. Also, I haven't registered for antenatal yet. Hope its not too late?

Hello house, I’m 14weeks pregnant. I’m basically all by myself, no mum or sisters just me alone. I have been having serious maleria and I went to a government hospital, I was given 3days injection and drugs but right now I can’t stand the drugs they gave me, the drugs are killing me, I don’t sleep well at night and I don’t feel alright at all.. pls should i be worried? My hubby is not in Nigeria and I’m 28yrs old and this is my first pregnancy..

Strongmercy123:
Hello house, I’m 14weeks pregnant. I’m basically all by myself, no mum or sisters just me alone. I have been having serious maleria and I went to a government hospital, I was given 3days injection and drugs but right now I can’t stand the drugs they gave me, the drugs are killing me, I don’t sleep well at night and I don’t feel alright at all.. pls should i be worried? My hubby is not in Nigeria and I’m 28yrs old and this is my first pregnancy..

If there's no improvement why not return to the hospital. Since today is already Saturday, if you're too down you can go for emergency services or visit a good private hospital with record of your treatment so far. Hope tests were carried out before the prescription. Get well soon

spixytinxy:
u welcome dear, me I Neva buy anything fa, want to know baby gender before I start.

thats what also holding me though but u can do like me buy those ones gender does not affect.maybe something unisex.