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greatme2good:
Return the sister to her parents and don't let her have any house girl or relative to stay with again. Let's see who she will leave the kids for while going out.
But Op you are wrong to have slapped her and it seems there's no deep communication between the two of you coz her cursing you and her sister means there's something she's suspecting. Do not slap your wife again, apologize to her for slapping her.

Theunbreakablem:
Thanks have spoken to my mother in law on the phone , have told her everything that has happened in the house that I wanted to send the girl back to her but she pleaded with me that my wife had called her earlier in tears narrated everything and she admitted to be wrong and will change , begging her mother to plead with me to keep her sister with us. She promised to come over next week and have a chat with both of us.

Theunbreakablem:
I’m speechless but you may be right because when she came back that day , she lied to me about leaving the house at 6.30pm but her sister has already told me she left at 4pm. I’m confuse now

ireneidiva:
So the woman is never supposed to leave the house because she has kids? Mind you I don't support leaving the sick child for a long time.

greatme2good:
Leaving without at least informing her husband?

Theunbreakablem:
There is nothing going on between me and her sister , the only thing that I’m never happy with my wife is the way she send the girl on errands without break and she does everything including cooking , dishing out my food from the pot and serving it for me which I don’t like , she knows that I hate anyone else cooking my food apart from her but she still make the girl cook and all my wife does is pressing phone 24/7. Whenever I complains about this issues , it doesn’t always ends up well.

Theunbreakablem:
Yes she is a stay at home mom and I take care of her with the little that I have . I cut my coat according to my size.

Theunbreakablem:
There is nothing going on between me and her sister , the only thing that I’m never happy with my wife is the way she send the girl on errands without break and she does everything including cooking , dishing out my food from the pot and serving it for me which I don’t like , she knows that I hate anyone else cooking my food apart from her but she still make the girl cook and all my wife does is pressing phone 24/7. Whenever I complains about this issues , it doesn’t always ends up well.

Vyolet:
A man can buy clothes for his mistress's children, heck he can even buy for you the husband.

crackkhaus:
You don't know what is called a thunder slap.
The only thing you will have the strength to do after receiving it is to be moving your lips, using it to ask rhetorical questions like did you just slap me, or using it to rain abuses that don't make sense.

It's like having a concussion.


See them...even their own blood sister living in their matrimonial home is still a big problem.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/disgusted.gif

Fiyinfoluwa20:
Walahi, Thunder slap off me ������. This man is harsh !!!!

Theunbreakablem:
Hmmm I don’t think she is cheating on me and if that was the case it is possible for another man to buy clothes for the children that doesn’t belong to him ?

crackkhaus:
You don't know what is called a thunder slap.
The only thing you will have the strength to do after receiving it is to be moving your lips, using it to ask rhetorical questions like did you just slap me, or using it to rain abuses that don't make sense.

It's like having a concussion.


See them...even their own blood sister living in their matrimonial home is still a big problem.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/disgusted.gif

Theunbreakablem:
There is nothing going on between me and her sister , the only thing that I’m never happy with my wife is the way she send the girl on errands without break and she does everything including cooking , dishing out my food from the pot and serving it for me which I don’t like , she knows that I hate anyone else cooking my food apart from her but she still make the girl cook and all my wife does is pressing phone 24/7. Whenever I complains about this issues , it doesn’t always ends up well.

Theunbreakablem:
I’m speechless but you may be right because when she came back that day , she lied to me about leaving the house at 6.30pm but her sister has already told me she left at 4pm. I’m confuse now

mankettle:
1. On the issue of the leaving children.. Warn her strongly. That next time....

2. On the issue of the slap, beg her to forgive you.. No be u she slap. She just talk u know how women be.. When annoyance enter their head they go carry small matter turn am to waec exam. Just let her be.

3. As for the sis, out of the abundance of the heart.. The mouth speaketh.. She must have thought of it, so she said it. So instead of unnecessary stress and jealousy send the sis home so that peace will reign.

ireneidiva:
Hitting your wife is wrong. Learn to communicate and avoid violence. Send that girl back. That talk about sleeping with her from your wife is disgusting. That girl is a teenager and shouldn't be in such a violent and unhealthy situation.

Belafonte:
Not that I support physical violence o. But as an expert communicator, what would you say is the appropriate answer to her telling him she’d pour water on him too ? Because I truly don’t know what I’d have done. I’d be speechless probably

ireneidiva:
Walk away. The problem is that the issue escalated till it went out of control. The period the wife was given silent treatment and maltreating the girl should have been used to communicate and sort out the issue.

Belafonte:
Walking away is not proper communication. That’s a recipe for her even becoming more brazen.

I agree he let it linger too long though

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Hahahahahahahahaaaah. I don die here bro.

ireneidiva:
You cant reason with a mad person. Walk away and come back when she is calmer.