Hello everyone please its my first time writing , so please I would ask to be pardoned with my English or writing skill.
Well I need advice on this.i will make it short.

I have been married for six years now , and blessed with an amazing kid.my husband n I have this natural bond and all , seems like everyday we just met .I love him n like wise he does to me.he has been there for me so countless of time ,even to my flaws ,he still loves me n can go at any length for me n the kid...
It's not always rosy ,like we do have our differences, but we make up n put them aside.
This last month January I observe is kinda of changed.
Not that he stopped been nice or sweet or caring.i think he is just been neutral.i have jokingly ask him if hes seeing someone he said No...but my mind keeps telling me something different...
I love my husband,my HOME! ...
What can I do?this feeling is eating me up.

Continue. That thing you are wishing, you will get it soon.

Since he said no, let him be. The more you search for what you don't know if it exist, the more it eats you deep. You may find time to talk to him about your concerns and hopefully, whatever the issue is might come up.

Why do you think seeing someone else should be your first thought?
If indeed there is an issue that has changed his behaviour,have you thought that it might be issues at work?Has his salary bee paid.

Don't raise or suggest infidelity except you see proof first?

The momement you start monitoring a man, dat is the beginning of yr sleepless night.

Fake story!
Fake husband!
Fake kids!
Fake love!
From an attention seeker!



Please, get out!!!

donstan18:
Fake story! Fake husband! Fake kids! Fake love! From an attention seeker!


Please, get out!!!

Hanty! ... Why so bitter tonight

Madam rest...na so i been dey feel like sey i wan mess...wen i try am na purge i purge full my body...no force dis mess.

Talk to him... Tell him playfully that he is not being nice and free as he used to... Many things run through men's heart(s)... It could be finance or he is probably just stressed.. It might not necessarily be cheating....

Martini101:
Continue. That thing you are wishing, you will get it soon.

Amenn....Fire!!!

[quote author=thorpido post=86571935]Why do you think seeing someone else should be your first thought?
If indeed there is an issue that has changed his behaviour,have you thought that it might be issues at work?Has his salary bee paid.

Don't raise or suggest infidelity except you see proof first?


Thanks.i appreciate your advice..

Never you act based on feelings.

Stop jumping into conclusion

Something is definitely bothering him, and instead of u to ask him, you concluded his cheating.

What if he wants another child and doesn't no how to tell u

What if he plans to surprise u with something nice and his plans are not falling into place

What if he is been stressed at work and doesn't want to bother you

Some many " what if"

That he is keeping silence doesn't automatically mean that he's cheating, he might be fighting an inner battle.

Give him your shoulder to lean on and don't put him away pls.

New moniker New script.

Next story pls!

It might be inner intuition (A gift) or it might be paranoia (false interpretation of others action)
If you ask me I will say you bury the thought,enjoy your life and marriage with the husband of your youth,as the preacher said

Then listen to your mind as you claimed.