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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by NomzyJust(m): 4:37pm On Feb 22, 2020
You're too nice, that's why you're getting hurt. Man up and exercise your rights as a man. If he shouts, you shout. If he hits, you hit. That's how you gain respect.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Perfecttouchade: 4:38pm On Feb 22, 2020
bigcee:

Baba manage am abeg grin grin grin
carry those bottles come bro grin
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by madridguy(m): 4:40pm On Feb 22, 2020
grin grin grin You no get chill at all.

TonyeBarcanista:

Baba as an Ijawman, my ancestors will disown me if I tolerate 0.5% of what OP is tolerating and nagging. Eh? Person go use Tonyebarcanista shine? Them never born that person well! Instead na me go use you shine! Eh, I don't even do neighbor - neighbor thing sef. I mind my business.

In my former apartment my landlord attempted one stunt on me (that he normally does with other tenants and get away with), omo I go station file case of theft, threat to life and attempted murder using thugs against am grin

Na so police find am go him house go arrest am. Him sleep 2 days for station. Na him brother wey be lawyer broker peace angry

I warn am say make him de look face o... Meanwhile, I was the youngest tenant among all the tenants.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by CarlosTheJackal: 4:42pm On Feb 22, 2020
Nobody has any reason to shout my name like an idiot.

Even when I was doing paid job, my boss knew that I don't take bullshit from anyone
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by VULCAN(m): 4:43pm On Feb 22, 2020
Still trying to fathom what the Op wants us to do with this narration?

Do you want us to come round and beat the man or to organise soldiers to do same??

I am not yet clear.

But one thing I can guarantee you is that he has slapped you and you let him go...your wife is next.

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by tunize(m): 4:44pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ur fork up shall na highest level. Weda caretaker self or co-tenant our business is simple, i read ur tenacy agreement if i'm cool with it i pay u, u stay ur own i stay my. If na me dey ur house be sey i don beat that man tire self e go see me dey run or pack. Is good to be calm but sometimes u deal wit ppl the way dem want am.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Mac2016(m): 4:45pm On Feb 22, 2020
morgan100:
Sorry that this might be lengthy, but that’s just the only way I can cover what happened.

Around March last year, I needed an accommodation where I can bring in....
Bro, your landlord is the main problem here.
A seriously problematic and jobless idiots amidst other peace loving occupants is a serious threat to lives.

Arrange with others and play around with your landlord to sack him. He should. If he doesn't.. Go to the police, report and request the idiot agrees to restraint order from you and your family.

That's if all you've made us believe here is so.

Stay blessed!
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Perfecttouchade: 4:46pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ishilove:
J111333, why are you disturbing the OP? The day e go blow you for teeth and shift a jaw my hand no dey there o. Immediately I saw that dilapidated cage I knew you were the one. That is your poultry.

Op, you are too gentle. Fight fire with fire.
ishilove no dey fight na grin

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Treasure17(m): 4:49pm On Feb 22, 2020
morgan100:

My wife was happy I didn't hit him back, not that I can't fight back, I was only respecting him initially because he was older than I do, and besides am not used to fighting unnecessarily, I only wanted to use the right means to deal with him, of which if I knew my wife won't allow me to arrest him, I would have hit mine back in a very hard way self, so not that I can't do anything.
The man literally profiled you before carrying out his nuances. You shouldn't have allowed him to treat you in a condescending manner from the outset. Thank goodness you didn't hit back cause something bad could have happened in the process. Keep minding your business till you locate another apartment. Even the landlord will dear not talk to me like that in this Lagos as long as I do the needful.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Ladycewhy(f): 5:05pm On Feb 22, 2020
Why don't I meet such people ,it's my husband that will be the one calming me down cos I will slap him back . I hate nonsense angry angry angry.


Even if he is the landlord ,commot from my house doesn't mean leave this world,houses full everywhere o. You are too calm even your wife sef too calm. It's not a bad thing o but people like you always get ridden on by assholes. The only language assholes understand is fire for fire.


I am the type that likes to mind my business ,but if you want it ,I will give it to you hot hot,not time to check time.

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by tundaz2002: 5:08pm On Feb 22, 2020
Guy, you're too gentle...
Gentleman no dey Lagos oo
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by sammirano: 5:10pm On Feb 22, 2020
morgan100:

I was only trying to respect initially, thinking his head is correct, although maybe I messed up too in that regard, I for no dey answer the idiot..

You are right not to hit him back. However, you seriously should warn him or report him. No one can try such with me, even if you are 70 years I no dey look face, you gave him the opportunity apparently, those times he called rudely, I would have ignored him and told him later to desist from yelling my name and willingly give him my, no to only chat me up in case of emergencies, no call pls. There are a million ways to handle a mad dog. I have dealt with so many tenants.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Ishilove: 5:14pm On Feb 22, 2020
Perfecttouchade:
ishilove no dey fight na grin
I'm a lover, not a fighter grin

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Ivebeenbanned(f): 5:18pm On Feb 22, 2020
Men are men's greatest enemies.

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by openmine(m): 5:22pm On Feb 22, 2020
Op you no try ohh...so he will call your name as if you were his houseboy and you will come down to see him? Na wa to you ohh...

I also agree that the man has a mental problem!
Maybe if you had given him a better and echo induced slap,his brain would have restarted! cheesy

The truth is that you permitted him to treat you this way even to the point of hitting you!

From now on,ignore him and always keep a stern face when you see him!

If he mistakenly calls you again like he used to,just stay at your balcony and warn him to behave or he will get what he is looking for!
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Makavelli25: 5:27pm On Feb 22, 2020
This op dey craze o. Your fellow man slap you and keep quiet cause of ya wife. Nawa o
That man supposed to be in fmc or prison now.
Op you fuucked up swears. Nobody go respect you for that adugbo again.
Btw send me ya adress let me offer you my street service for free. I you dont wake up to meet him in that cage next tomorow then am not makavell25

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Rozaytee: 5:30pm On Feb 22, 2020
Op u are too weak and dull baba...am angry right now angry

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Rhaspody(m): 5:33pm On Feb 22, 2020
Davash222:
Op, you sef dull, walai.
Your fellow man hit you in your wife’s presence and you couldn’t do anything. Shame no gree you to say when next he hit you again, you’re going to lock him up. You’re even waiting for him to hit you again. Imagine
You’re too calm on him hence he’s taking that leverage. You fight fire with fire! You’re a young man, you need to exercise your young blood on that man, that’s the only way you’ll have peace in that compound.


Please, don’t allow your fellow man to mess you up in your wife’s presence.

Op is wise. Violence begats violence. You don't know what would have happened if he had retaliated with anger. His anger will definitely increase his retaliation 10x and the troublesome man might just slump

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Perfecttouchade: 5:40pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ishilove:

I'm a lover, not a fighter grin
lobaatan emi gan I'm a lover o.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 22, 2020
morgan100:

My wife was happy I didn't hit him back, not that I can't fight back, I was only respecting him initially because he was older than I do, and besides am not used to fighting unnecessarily, I only wanted to use the right means to deal with him, of which if I knew my wife won't allow me to arrest him, I would have hit mine back in a very hard way self, so not that I can't do anything.
Your wife might be happy you didn't fight back, but one day, she'll use it against you when you harass her.
You should stand up to that man.

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by WildChild00(m): 6:06pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ladycewhy:
Why don't I meet such people ,it's my husband that will be the one calming me down cos I will slap him back . I hate nonsense angry angry angry.


Even if he is the landlord ,commot from my house doesn't mean leave this world,houses full everywhere o. You are too calm even your wife sef too calm. It's not a bad thing o but people like you always get ridden on by assholes. The only language assholes understand is fire for fire.


I am the type that likes to mind my business ,but if you want it ,I will give it to you hot hot,not time to check time.


Iron lady grin hope you have not beaten up all the ladies in your hood grin

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by kushercain: 6:17pm On Feb 22, 2020
Bola146:
grin grin Like seriously, maybe he just like you ni now cheesy .... You have really tried grin grin That man na kolo mental cheesy How I wish I'm living in the same compound with you guys to see all these drama grin grin. The best thing is to warn him or leave the house asap ..... He is a jobless man indeed cheesy cheesy

You go like amebo eh cheesy
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Bola146(f): 6:20pm On Feb 22, 2020
kushercain:

You go like amebo eh cheesy
cool cool
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Ishilove: 6:28pm On Feb 22, 2020
Perfecttouchade:
lobaatan emi gan I'm a lover o.
Oya clap for yasef

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Perfecttouchade: 6:30pm On Feb 22, 2020
grin grin
Ishilove:

Oya clap for yasef
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by yeyeosoronga: 6:57pm On Feb 22, 2020
You need to learn how to deal with such people.

I enjoy such projects...

You should have turned the tables on him, and become the aggressor, but do it subtly.
Be very passive aggressive.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Ladycewhy(f): 7:05pm On Feb 22, 2020
WildChild00:



Iron lady grin hope you have not beaten up all the ladies in your hood grin
I nor dey fight o. I dey cane my lane. I don't even know the people in the next compound sef cos I mind my business,they might know me but I don't know them.
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by WildChild00(m): 7:16pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ladycewhy:
I nor dey fight o. I dey cane my lane. I don't even know the people in the next compound sef cos I mind my business,they might know me but I don't know them.


If you say so...
Re: My Hostile Neighbor by booz(m): 7:30pm On Feb 22, 2020
Ask around for his first name na. And when he shouts 'Mark' , you'll also respond 'Rasaki! Na you dey call me?'.
Next time his mind will skip before he calls you. Respect begets respect.

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by AceRoyal: 7:36pm On Feb 22, 2020
morgan100:


I messed up in that regard which I know too
You're too gentle, NEVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT FROM ANYONE, especially when you are not dependent on them!

Peace.

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Re: My Hostile Neighbor by Sirk2018: 7:44pm On Feb 22, 2020
AceRoyal:

You're too gentle, NEVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT FROM ANYONE, especially when you are not dependent on them!

Peace.

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