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hammerU:
The reason y in Igbo culture, marriage is presided over by the Father and his Kins men is becos the woman is too emotional and preoccupied with the now and never seeing the big picture.

If u doubt me, take a look at Regina williams.

It is not hard to see or identify the types of marriages that are contracted by women.

Once dey gain financial independence they usurp up the role of the father.

what's wrong with Regina marriage,bad belle?

If she married at 38,na Una go dey call am evening newspaper.painment.shiorrr

In a case where d daughter did not even know how d father looks like, when she was trying to be close to d man through phone call her step mom made everything difficult, d father did not contribute one naira to her upbringing and his not willing, even after having her number he can stay 2yrs without flashing her not to talk of call, no father to daughter bonding and she is d first daughter and first child. Do u still expect a man like dt to av right over d daughter's wedding? U guys should stop supporting nonsense.

dangotesmummy:
whether film, whether movie shooting,she don marry,she don marry,bride price has been paid and the marriage has been consumated so if he likes make he go create scene say him daughter never marry it will now become (daughters husbands family ,ngozis family Vs the man and his family) battle so he had better respect himself.the trouble he's looking for they're not wars that gets settled in days or hours so he should think very well before being s+upid

Well seems you are not married yet.

So no need.

hammerU:
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I know your a yoruba man fighting your corner to marry Igbo women, dat is your own position and u see the father as a threat right?

Learn to always tell the truth.

U cannot forcefully marry any man's daughter, against his consent. It is not marriage.

U go and ask him and persuade him, if he agrees fine, if not, plenty more fishes out there.

when will you understand that there's a big difference between father and sperm donor?

When a child is about to get married a FATHER'S take on the matter IS RELEVANT, IMPORTANT AND MATTERS


but a sperm donors opinion is irrelevant BECAUSE HE HAS NO CONTRIBUTION/ STAKE IN THE CHILD'S UPBRINGING

ask the sperm donor the school the child went to,he nor know,why will he know? He pay school fees?

What degree did she come out with? Why did she choose that school,who are her friends,What course did she study,how did she meet her husband,why did she decide to marry that particular guy despite other guys coming around, what church does she attends , what can she cook best,etc.he might be totally ignorant of the child's development process ( which a FATHER will know) all of a sudden he's feeling entitled and bitter.


Have you now seen why some women think the presence of a spperm donor doesn't count in the daughters marriage?

MelesZenawi:
Well seems you are not married yet.

So no need.

lmaoooo another s+upid talk

iammee:
In a case where d daughter did not even know how d father looks like, when she was trying to be close to d man through phone call her step mom made everything difficult, d father did not contribute one naira to her upbringing and his not willing, even after having her number he can stay 2yrs without flashing her not to talk of call, no father to daughter bonding and she is d first daughter and first child. Do u still expect a man like dt to av right over d daughter's wedding? U guys should stop supporting nonsense.

lmaoooo see I wasn't far from the truth


African men and their entitlement mentality.

See as body dey Pepper the man.e dey do am like say make he go scatter their marriage

He's not even happy that ngozi was matured enough to keep their divorce Saga/drama out of the media

At least ngozi was decent enough not to bad mouth the father to her daughter,he let her try and bond with her (sperm donor) but he wasn't available for her so why is he suddenly pained when someone extended a hand of friendship/ relationship and you reject it and you now feel you should have a say in her marriage?

Yoruba Will say nigbawo labere love,to'n kiss

After all if a man toast you,you no gree and he go marry another person,body nor suppose pepper you na.shebi na you say you nor do

hammerU:
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E be like say u be product of single parent.

Continue listening to your mother, dont go and find your father.

U dont know the value of a father.


Can u see the way i carry culture for head?


I am my father's son.

What is the value of a father who abdonemned his children because he has misunderstandings with his wife.

The children don't needs to listen to their mom as they are adult and they know who is paying the bills. Some children will even go out there to meet their father for financial help, but the so called father will not give them dim. So now He want to eat where he did not sow.

MelesZenawi:
The man is right

Ngozi Ezeonu is good in movie tradition but a mess in reality.

She has no right whatsoever to give the daughter in marriage without the man's consent.


No wonder she married her off to a Yoruba man...

That says it all..

A real man will ask questions before going ahead on marriage..

More the girl married to her fellow si.....ssy.

U were absent in your child's upbringing, tradition didnt allow u to raise her or care for her at the peak of her life and from no where tradition has given you the right to take charge of the lady's lifee whilst trying to bad mouth the woman and all she has put in to raise a child.
As for u supporting the man, may God never allow ur daughter find herself in such situation.

nana06:
U were absent in your child's upbringing, tradition didnt allow u to raise her or care for her at the peak of her life and from no where tradition has given you the right to take charge of the lady's lifee whilst trying to bad mouth the woman and all she has put in to raise a child.
As for u supporting the man, may God never allow ur daughter find herself in such situation.

Tradition is not run on emotion but on merit.

E no easy keeping up with a celebrity wife
Check out most celebrity married women only few marriages are intact
U can't understand though!

ChoCho54:
Lawd! What chauvinistic insecure retards y'all posting crap about the lady are!

Have you bothered asking how come he was left out?

BTW, the lady in question is above 18years and has the right to be married without either parents breathing down her neck!

Fear any animal with a tail in front!

MelesZenawi:
Tradition is not run on emotion but on merit.

Kindly explain how badmouthing a woman who invested her all in raising a child d man abandoned for years is merit?
If Ngozi had ignored the lady at the time the father left them and the lady turned out a prostitute, kidnapper and all sort of societal menace, will the tradition allow the man to be proud or welcome home the lady as his beloved daughter? The same tradition will give the man reasons and right to abuse, deny the lady and call her all kind of names like a fruit does not fall far from its tree..
Truth is most of y'all dont know tradition aside what you see in Naija movies plus the court comes before tradition except a settlement is reached outside the court and the final agreement taken by back to the court.
If Kings can be sacked by courts, what are we talking about?