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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Joystark(f): 7:38am On Feb 26, 2020

lol...
"One thing led to another"

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by pacino26(m): 7:39am On Feb 26, 2020

Nobody is infallible. It is better to correct a mistake than to sustain it. Walk into any police station and ask for the JWC Dept think it has to do with women and juveniles some domestic offenses. Make a report and go to WACOL too. You'll be amazed the king of help these two will provide. Who knows maybe you get to Sue the idiot for blackmail and if you get to see any of your pictures on the internet he is in way more trouble.

If you're strong enough walk up to your hubby on a good day and spill the beans, I pray your sincerity will win him over and earn his forgiveness.

Nothing is black and white.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by namiji2598: 7:42am On Feb 26, 2020

Hmmmm hot sex?

Show ur husband this meme

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Nobody: 7:53am On Feb 26, 2020

Forgive my curiosity ma'am, but do you mean 'naked' or 'nacked'. First off, you messed up big-time. You fell for a scammer. The devil you know (your husband), is better than the Angel (stranger), you don't know.
You fell cheaply like a pack of cards, simply because your husband is not providing for you, financially.
Don't go to the Police first, rather, inform or confess to your husband, first.

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Came4amod: 7:58am On Feb 26, 2020

Barbie15:
Hello Everyone, I am still awake by this time cause couldn't sleep. I have invited the ant infested fire wood. I am a married house wife , though a graduate but jobs weren't coming fourth. My husband is not really trying his best to provide for us ,I do some online stuffs to assist. My hubby lives in fantasy,he always believes that tomorrow will be better, he will build mansions etc but he doesn't do any practical hustle. He believes in that one political appointment can make him super rich but year after year there will be no progress.

I became frustrated that I can't even make my hair nor buy creams. I was so in lack with my kids. My online biz doesn't pay every time. There was this guy I met online and we moved our conversation to whatsap. He chat like old school friends. He works with a bottling company in PH. I started asking him for assistance, he will send 10k, 5k and at one time 15k for me. It was quite a relieve for me. It happens that he decided to spend his leave in Aba at his friends place. We decided to see for the first time. I went to the place and surprisingly he was all alone. He was tall and huge and obviously younger. We gisted, talked about vancancies in his place of work. We had a little to drink and he kissed me ,one to led to another and we had a very hot sex together right in the sitting room. I felt guilty but he started petting me to relax that I am not the first married woman he has made love to. He gave me 20k but I still felt guilty.

5 days later he called me to come to same house but I objected and I even stopped taking his calls. I was shocked when I entered my whatsap and saw him threating to expose me and post my nude on Facebook that he recorded us and me after we finished when I was nacked and crying...He said his friend was actually inside the room and on the passage recording me. He said I must come for him to keep having sex with me till he leaves Aba. That all the money he spent me on I must pay it back. I am really confused cause I am not sure if he really recorded the videos but he only showed me a picture of me nacked and anyone that doesn't know me too well won't recognise that it's me. He promised to show me the video tomorrow afternoon. I don't know what to do. Please I don't need insults kindly advice me

Pretend u want to see him.. go there with sniper and slip it in his drink.. mofo deserves to die .. he wants to destroy you .. so destroy him before he gets the chance ..

No sniper is not good enough sianide doesn't smell ..

Disclaimer whatever you do is by your will .. but above all that bastard deserve what is coming to him

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Yeecar(m): 8:09am On Feb 26, 2020

Barbie15 What you know how to eat as finally choked you. I don't believe in all your manipulations and lies! I believe you are a coded olosho doing it underground, but you have beaten more than you can chew. I wont help you exept you come out clean to me!

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by zeenaman: 8:10am On Feb 26, 2020

Whatever decision you make, be sure your husband doesn't know about this. Otherwise, your marriage is gone and you will get the humiliation you so deserve

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by proclinician: 8:15am On Feb 26, 2020

Naomila:
you might have also had sex with him to make up for the money he sends to you. You felt like you owed him a fav. Which honestly you do. Cause why would a married woman be asking another guy for money?? Why didn't you tell your husband how you really felt bout him not working hard enough. Honestly now you're a sex slave to him till he leaves .

Hmmm are u a prostitute?

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Asquare84(m): 8:15am On Feb 26, 2020

try and see a strong pastor for prayers to block the guy eyes from releasing the video

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by proclinician: 8:16am On Feb 26, 2020

But poverty Na bastard. That man u married Na dumbasstic element.

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Naomila: 8:26am On Feb 26, 2020

proclinician:
Hmmm are u a prostitute?

you misunderstood I guess

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by proclinician: 8:40am On Feb 26, 2020

Naomila:
you misunderstood I guess

Money does not compensate for sex okay. She classified the sex as "hot" which means she enjoyed it. It's a two way traffic.

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Gift7428: 8:46am On Feb 26, 2020

When i tell people that the first thing you should strive for in life is money, they argue.
Get money and every other thing will come along.

See how you fell cheaply for 5k here and 10k there.

I wont talk about the sex part.
Nobody holy pass.The ones calling you names might have done worse in life.Na who them catch be thief.

Tell me the truth, during your dating period did you send your nudes to him?

And i hope you guys used condom sha.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by SammieRexx(m): 8:54am On Feb 26, 2020

"Surprisingly he is tall, huge and way younger"
"We had hot sex"
Madam...You knew what you were doing all along....habits formed is very difficult to break. You can lie to yourself for all you want but you actually knew what what you were getting into and wanted the sex
How else can a married woman be demanding money from a man who is not your husband or a relative. Na fada Christmas he be?
He is not taking care of you.....madam there are women your age mates who are taking care of themselves and children....God forbid....what if somtin happens to your husband.
My advice...come out clean to your husband first of all..You owe him that and then you both can fight of the intruder (blackmailer). Wish you the best

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Ginaz(f): 8:55am On Feb 26, 2020

Dear please you have to report him ASAP!!! That guy is a stupid man. You already had sex you wanted all along then why blackmail her?

He should be taught a horrible lesson he won’t forget in his life . If you have brothers or uncles you can trust to stand for you in place of your husband , tell them the issue on ground and let them set trap for the guy and arrest him , take him to the police station to sign an undertaking not to blackmail you.

That’s if you have the cash to pursue police matter o, cos na money dey move justice fast for this country.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Uyi168: 9:20am On Feb 26, 2020

Another fake story..
Mtchewwwe.. angry

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by femi4: 9:29am On Feb 26, 2020

Barbie15:
Hello Everyone, I am still awake by this time cause couldn't sleep. I have invited the ant infested fire wood. I am a married house wife , though a graduate but jobs weren't coming fourth. My husband is not really trying his best to provide for us ,I do some online stuffs to assist. My hubby lives in fantasy,he always believes that tomorrow will be better, he will build mansions etc but he doesn't do any practical hustle. He believes in that one political appointment can make him super rich but year after year there will be no progress.

I became frustrated that I can't even make my hair nor buy creams. I was so in lack with my kids. My online biz doesn't pay every time. There was this guy I met online and we moved our conversation to whatsap. He chat like old school friends. He works with a bottling company in PH. I started asking him for assistance, he will send 10k, 5k and at one time 15k for me. It was quite a relieve for me. It happens that he decided to spend his leave in Aba at his friends place. We decided to see for the first time. I went to the place and surprisingly he was all alone. He was tall and huge and obviously younger. We gisted, talked about vancancies in his place of work. We had a little to drink and he kissed me ,one to led to another and we had a very hot sex together right in the sitting room. I felt guilty but he started petting me to relax that I am not the first married woman he has made love to. He gave me 20k but I still felt guilty.

5 days later he called me to come to same house but I objected and I even stopped taking his calls. I was shocked when I entered my whatsap and saw him threating to expose me and post my nude on Facebook that he recorded us and me after we finished when I was nacked and crying...He said his friend was actually inside the room and on the passage recording me. He said I must come for him to keep having sex with me till he leaves Aba. That all the money he spent me on I must pay it back. I am really confused cause I am not sure if he really recorded the videos but he only showed me a picture of me nacked and anyone that doesn't know me too well won't recognise that it's me. He promised to show me the video tomorrow afternoon. I don't know what to do. Please I don't need insults kindly advice me

Report him to the police. Its called blackmail

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by LadySarah: 9:33am On Feb 26, 2020

Record it and tell him you are going to the police to report if he tries any Rubbish.

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by JustinOwen(m): 9:42am On Feb 26, 2020

Going back for more rounds is never the way to go. It's a tough one I must say but you have to steer clear from him totally. I think he's just threatening and he must have enjoyed the session he had with you. Please next time, the way you went is never the right way.

Meanwhile, if you are looking for a side hustle or want to start earning online, there's a link in my signature that might help out. You don't have to ship and sell anything. It is for only those who are ready and determined to earn money.

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Lilcentt(f): 9:50am On Feb 26, 2020

call him and threaten to report Hinton the police for blackmailing. record the conversation as you do this. make him say things like enough evidence. after the call tell him the conversation is recorded and he will hear from the police in a few days

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Mizwisdom(f): 10:03am On Feb 26, 2020

Barbie15:
But my husband will find out, I am so scared..I can't even blink

Another fake story grin

For less than N80K you committed adultery? everything sounds fake to me sha

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Nnemuka(f): 10:05am On Feb 26, 2020

So you went to collect preek because of hair and cream.
You guys always come up with a reason to justify your terrible actions.

"I am a graduate" can never give you job or money so better get up and look for what to do.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Nobody: 10:07am On Feb 26, 2020

A figment of your imagination. If you believe this, you'll believe anything.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Winneygirl(f): 10:19am On Feb 26, 2020

All these 'one thing led to another ', I just don't believe it.
I only see such in movies.
How does 'one thing lead to another' with a stranger? Unless you were hoping to go have sex with him that day, I don't believe this story.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by Kelvin30286063(m): 10:21am On Feb 26, 2020

Carry your cross Mrs unfaithful wife. I can't advice a cheat and if I'm the police. I won't help you either. Your husband deserves to know the kind of woman you are before you infect him with some incurable disease.

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by backnbeta(f): 10:22am On Feb 26, 2020

Barbie15:
Hello Everyone, I am still awake by this time cause couldn't sleep. I have invited the ant infested fire wood. I am a married house wife , though a graduate but jobs weren't coming fourth. My husband is not really trying his best to provide for us ,I do some online stuffs to assist. My hubby lives in fantasy,he always believes that tomorrow will be better, he will build mansions etc but he doesn't do any practical hustle. He believes in that one political appointment can make him super rich but year after year there will be no progress.

I became frustrated that I can't even make my hair nor buy creams. I was so in lack with my kids. My online biz doesn't pay every time. There was this guy I met online and we moved our conversation to whatsap. He chat like old school friends. He works with a bottling company in PH. I started asking him for assistance, he will send 10k, 5k and at one time 15k for me. It was quite a relieve for me. It happens that he decided to spend his leave in Aba at his friends place. We decided to see for the first time. I went to the place and surprisingly he was all alone. He was tall and huge and obviously younger. We gisted, talked about vancancies in his place of work. We had a little to drink and he kissed me ,one to led to another and we had a very hot sex together right in the sitting room. I felt guilty but he started petting me to relax that I am not the first married woman he has made love to. He gave me 20k but I still felt guilty.

5 days later he called me to come to same house but I objected and I even stopped taking his calls. I was shocked when I entered my whatsap and saw him threating to expose me and post my nude on Facebook that he recorded us and me after we finished when I was nacked and crying...He said his friend was actually inside the room and on the passage recording me. He said I must come for him to keep having sex with me till he leaves Aba. That all the money he spent me on I must pay it back. I am really confused cause I am not sure if he really recorded the videos but he only showed me a picture of me nacked and anyone that doesn't know me too well won't recognise that it's me. He promised to show me the video tomorrow afternoon. I don't know what to do. Please I don't need insults kindly advice me

Please go and report at the police station, armed with the Whatsapp message he used to threaten you.

However, know ye that anything can happen after that, that is; your husband may be involved at the end of the day

Or you can set him up and get a lawyer to meet up and discuss the legal implication or his threat and attempted blackmail

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by loveliveshere: 10:33am On Feb 26, 2020

Barbie15:
Hello Everyone, I am still awake by this time cause couldn't sleep. I have invited the ant infested fire wood. I am a married house wife , though a graduate but jobs weren't coming fourth. My husband is not really trying his best to provide for us ,I do some online stuffs to assist. My hubby lives in fantasy,he always believes that tomorrow will be better, he will build mansions etc but he doesn't do any practical hustle. He believes in that one political appointment can make him super rich but year after year there will be no progress.

I became frustrated that I can't even make my hair nor buy creams. I was so in lack with my kids. My online biz doesn't pay every time. There was this guy I met online and we moved our conversation to whatsap. He chat like old school friends. He works with a bottling company in PH. I started asking him for assistance, he will send 10k, 5k and at one time 15k for me. It was quite a relieve for me. It happens that he decided to spend his leave in Aba at his friends place. We decided to see for the first time. I went to the place and surprisingly he was all alone. He was tall and huge and obviously younger. We gisted, talked about vancancies in his place of work. We had a little to drink and he kissed me ,one to led to another and we had a very hot sex together right in the sitting room. I felt guilty but he started petting me to relax that I am not the first married woman he has made love to. He gave me 20k but I still felt guilty.

5 days later he called me to come to same house but I objected and I even stopped taking his calls. I was shocked when I entered my whatsap and saw him threating to expose me and post my nude on Facebook that he recorded us and me after we finished when I was nacked and crying...He said his friend was actually inside the room and on the passage recording me. He said I must come for him to keep having sex with me till he leaves Aba. That all the money he spent me on I must pay it back. I am really confused cause I am not sure if he really recorded the videos but he only showed me a picture of me nacked and anyone that doesn't know me too well won't recognise that it's me. He promised to show me the video tomorrow afternoon. I don't know what to do. Please I don't need insults kindly advice me

Call his bluff, he can go to hell. He might end up blackmailing you to pay ransom if you don't look him dead in the eye now.

But for the records, you messed up big time. I pray you find peace within yourself and may things change for your family financially. Times are hard, agreed, but your body should never be the price to pay.
Take care of you.

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 10:42am On Feb 26, 2020

drmikeadams:
. Throway ur sim card,he won't do jack

The way una dey share ttoto these days dey give worries pass buhari matter

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by suaveBrother(m): 10:44am On Feb 26, 2020

... you did wrong by collecting money from him ...

... nothing goes for nothing ...

... get a new SIM card ... keep your current one for now.

... he blackmailed you, report him to the authorities. your husband might find out ...

... las las we are responsible for every decision me make whether directly or indirectly ...

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by lewis512(m): 1:34pm On Feb 26, 2020

I wish you the best, it’s got served

Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by franchasng: 1:50pm On Feb 26, 2020

Eh yaah, I feel for the op....sighs....every young man need money to settle down.

Single guys reading this, this is another reason you should not listen to those pushing you to go and marry when you have nothing doing to earn money....please don't listen to them, marriage does not bring any magic or luck that bring money after a man marries, if marriage brings fortunes after a man marries, that means we won't have poor married men and poor families all over Nigeria today because when those people were single too, they believed that after marriage they will become the next governor of their state but look around Nigeria, poverty everywhere.

Marry only when you have a sustainable income to maintain a healthy family cry

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Re: I Am In Serious Trouble,what Should I Do by nwaimoroseyaho: 1:50pm On Feb 26, 2020

You know his place of work right? Tell him that destroying you will destroy him too. Arm yourself with the recorded conversation, tell him that anymore threat from him, you will wait for him to resume work, arrest him in his off and make sure he to jail. He equally has a lot to loose.

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