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Re: Christian Sex. by Ebenezer2021(m): 11:23am On Mar 01, 2020
MrNipplesLover:
una don come again.


u no see that I typed "Thank you, Jesus"?
that's not an evidence of salvation.
Even oloshos still thank God for cashing out after a night out
Re: Christian Sex. by duchaB(m): 11:24am On Mar 01, 2020
Jeweltz:
wink wink You make me laugh
Issokay!
Re: Christian Sex. by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:26am On Mar 01, 2020
Ebenezer2021:
that's not an evidence of salvation. Even oloshos still thank God for cashing out after a night out
how did you get to know about this?

pls, expatiate. I really wanna learn from u, sir.
Re: Christian Sex. by sachisco: 11:30am On Mar 01, 2020
Good message but the erotic picture you used at the end is wrong.
Re: Christian Sex. by Daviddson(m): 11:35am On Mar 01, 2020
GoodBoi1:
Yet you posted a sexy picture at the end of your message. Is the picture necessary? Don't you think it goes against this point? Practice what you preach.
It's Lalasticlala who usually add pictures to the thread that he sees as relevant to the thread text, if it doesn't come with any. So I guess that was what happened in this case.
Re: Christian Sex. by 77up(m): 11:58am On Mar 01, 2020
GoodBoi1:
Yet you posted a sexy picture at the end of your message. Is the picture necessary? Don't you think it goes against this point? Practice what you preach.
you dey mind the hypocrite lots grin
Re: Christian Sex. by Mizwisdom(f): 12:00pm On Mar 01, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
There is nothing as awesome as abstaining from any form of sin, God help us.
The Spirit of God lives in you.
Re: Christian Sex. by MuttleyLaff: 12:10pm On Mar 01, 2020
GoodBoi1:
Yet you posted a sexy picture at the end of your message. Is the picture necessary? Don't you think it goes against this point? Practice what you preach.
Gbam!

Daviddson:
It's Lalasticlala who usually add pictures to the thread that he sees as relevant to the thread text, if it doesn't come with any. So I guess that was what happened in this case.
You do know you can be done for violating rule #8, because if what you have said is not true then means you have slandered Lalasticlala by giving out that false information. Mods I dont think are allowed to make fine adjustments to posts without making clear they have
Re: Christian Sex. by MightySparrow: 12:14pm On Mar 01, 2020
I don’t understand, is thre a Christian brand of sex? Bleep Na Bleep o jare�
Re: Christian Sex. by pocohantas(f): 12:17pm On Mar 01, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
There is nothing as awesome as abstaining from any form of sin, God help us.
Lol. Very true though...
Re: Christian Sex. by Kay25(m): 12:38pm On Mar 01, 2020
uchkochi:
CHRISTIAN KIND OF SEX.

We have established the fact in the previous message that sex is not bad, it is just that if it is done before marriage it is wrong and a sin at that. Even married people still commit adultery which is also wrong. So this message is a two sided one talking to singles on one hand and the married on the other hand.

It is difficult to convince someone that is already involved in fornication or adultery that it is wrong especially when they have justifiable reasons to indulge in this act.

Justifiable reasons like their spouses does not satisfy them, or they feel compelled to do it so that their relationship will not break, no matter how justifiable your reasons please don’t forget that there is a way that seems right but the end of it is destruction. Proverbs 14:12 and 16 vs. 25.

Don’t assume that everybody is doing it, there are still people keeping themselves. Stopping it is not as important as know how to. That is the various physical strategies to apply.

These Practical Ways Includes;

1. Be real and avoid pretence: many people don’t know themselves so they end up doing what they don’t know they can do. We have weaknesses, but a weakness is not dangerous if it is discovered on time and curbed. It is only when you ignore your weakness that it controls you. The first thing you should know is that your flesh is weak when it comes to sex. And there is no time that it will be stronger than sex. You cannot be stronger than sex. The devil knows that it is stronger than you so he uses this ignorance to over power your mind. Of all the sins lust leading to fornication is the only one that God insists that we flee. 1st Corinthians 6 vs.18. Joseph would not have been able to overcome the temptation to sleep with Potipher’s wife if he had not fled. He knew that he was weak and the only way to be strong is to flee.

2. Understand that there is nothing like casual sex: sex is sex there is nothing casual about it. It could be casual today and become deep and regular tomorrow. It is deceitful to believe that the enormity of the act is when you really go deep in it. Conceiving the thoughts in your mind and meditating on it is like opening the door for the devil to molest you. What do you talk about when you are alone? If you only talk about sex, you may just be preparing the ground for the act. Sex begins in the mind, so to think that sex can be casual is to end up a casualty. You may have sex and not reach orgasm; this does not make it casual. It only increases your appetite for more and more. Kissing and playing would soon graduate into a deeper level of intimacy so beware.

3. Romance for ladies sex for guys: You should understand that a lady loves romance so much that most times she wishes it does not metamorphose into sex. But a guy cannot be truly satisfied until sex is involved. So you see that abstinence is the best bet. Don’t try to please anybody by indulging in sex with them if you are not married to them. They may be pleased today but tomorrow may not be pleased again.

4. Flee, RUN AWAY WHEN THE URGE IS Rising, WHEN YOU DO GOD WILL STRENGTHEN YOU BECAUSE ITS HIS WORD: Some people sit and say no, no, no when they should be on their feet heading for the doors. Its not easy, I know, but would you prefer to disobey God and loose out than to obey Him by fleeing? Don’t assume that you are spiritual enough to overcome; this assumption has led many to fornication. Please don’t only make an attempt and return, rather flee indeed.

5.GOD CANNOT HELP YOU UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO FLEE: To flee does not only mean to run away, if the pressure continues you will have to flee from that relationship. If someone gives you a gift or promises you a favour and wants to sleep with you, you will have to flee from that gift and favour. Sin is sweet but your destiny is sweeter.

6. Avoid songs and films or pictures that put sex in your mind: Your mind is programmed in such a way that what you pay more attention to is what passes to your subconscious. And it is difficult to control what has passed from your consciousness into your subconscious. For example you can watch a film and be so engrossed in it then sleep at night and dream about that same film. What just happened is that the film information was saved in your subconscious mind. So guard your heart with all diligence. Proverbs 4:23.

In case you are married and your partner cheats or intends cheating on you because you don’t satisfy him/her sexually then it will not be out of place for that partner to teach you how to. You see the best way to satisfy yourself is to satisfy your partner. Sex is reciprocal in nature, if the love is there. It is because of sexual in satisfaction in marriages that was why God said in Hebrews 13 vs. 4 that MARRIAGE IS HONORABLE WITH THE BED UNDEFILED. God’s original intention was that HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE VIRGINS WHEN THEY GET MARRIED. So that they can learn from the onset on how to satisfy each other and even grow to learn the many things that sex can offer. Thank God we serve a God of restoration, a God that can rewrite every wrong by His mercies. WELCOME TO A NEW BEGINNING OF CHANGE IN THE NAME OF JESUS.

OMEGA GOSPEL NETWORK.(CYBER/MOBILE CHURCH)
which one is cyber church?
Re: Christian Sex. by gift2xl: 12:38pm On Mar 01, 2020
Most at times, those things you see as sin, is not seen as sin before God.
Re: Christian Sex. by Kay25(m): 12:40pm On Mar 01, 2020
Sodiquinone:
A christian should be like Christ, and guess what he never had sex throughout his life,so Christians should nt be having sex,,,but for topics like this they run to old testa
ment .Abeg tell us what Jesus himself said about sex
did jesus teach about marriage?
Re: Christian Sex. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Mar 01, 2020
See the kind of picture you attached to ur write up,now u will tempt Vaseline crew and porn addicts .pls practice what u preach
Re: Christian Sex. by TissuePaper: 1:16pm On Mar 01, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
GOOD THING WE HAVE OUR OWN ATHEIST SEX WHERE WE DO NOT HAVE ANY SILLY PRINCIPLES TO ABIDE BY.
WE JUST PULL CLOTHES, AND TURN UP TILL DAY BREAKS. cheesy
I thought u said you're not an atheist?
Re: Christian Sex. by Daviddson(m): 1:24pm On Mar 01, 2020
MuttleyLaff:
Gbam!

You do know you can be done for violating rule #8, because if what you have said is not true then means you have slandered Lalasticlala by giving out that false information. Mods I dont think are allowed to make fine adjustments to posts without making clear they have
Mods have added photos to my threads before. So I know what I'm saying.
Re: Christian Sex. by CAPSLOCKED: 1:24pm On Mar 01, 2020
TissuePaper:
I thought u said you're not an atheist?
AN ATHEIST IS BETTER THAN ME.
Re: Christian Sex. by DWJOBScom(m): 1:26pm On Mar 01, 2020
Healthy write up for growing Christians
Well done
Re: Christian Sex. by Akpan107(m): 1:27pm On Mar 01, 2020
Sodiquinone:
A christian should be like Christ, and guess what he never had sex throughout his life,so Christians should nt be having sex,,,but for topics like this they run to old testament .Abeg tell us what Jesus himself said about sex
Jesus has repeatedly spoke against sexual immorality or sex outside marriage.

It's called adultery!
And every believer must abstain from every form of immoral acts.

Jesus was busy teaching good morals,
While Muhammad was busy having sex with a lady who is not his wife
Sunan an-Nasa'i book 36:21

Finally, a lady poison your Prophet to death
Sahih al-bukhari
64:450

Re: Christian Sex. by Topmost11(m): 1:43pm On Mar 01, 2020
Hmnn. Christian sex!
I guess the writer meant how a christian should have sex. As long as it is within matrimony, "anything" goes but on condition that it does not violate the bible. I have not seen where the bible talks about how to have sex. The bible only says "knew her" when sex is within matrimony and "laid with her" when sex is outside matrimony. So missionary,doggy, scissors, cowgirl etc is not in the bible. This means we are not told how to have sex. Pleasure yourselves however you like so far as it doesn't negate the dictates of the bible and it doesn't go against societal common sense. For example, because I am married, do I now go into the market with my wife and engage in sexual act? That negates societal common sense. Also, do I say we are married and I am not satisfied with one round my wife can accommodate, I should now do 3some? Or do anal with another woman and say i did not have sex with her? Sex "tools" is the penis and vagina, not penis, vagina and anus.
Which brings us to MouthAction. Should my wife suck my dick or should I lick/finger her vagina? I think it is allowed so far as you derive pleasure and is mutually agreed.
Then a wise individual may day what if anal is mutually agreed with my wife, can't we do it?

So it all boils down to do what is not against the bible. Where you are not sure of what the bible says on a particular subject, just don't do. In the end you will not be at fault.


That's my two pence.
Re: Christian Sex. by Akpan107(m): 1:47pm On Mar 01, 2020
AntiChristian:
grin

Christian kinda sex!

What other kind of sex exists?

But why end with your church advert?
Hoping for recruits or are you a fisher of men from other denominations?
The OP caption is faulty...
According to the teaching of Christ, Sex is to be enjoyed by those who are married.

It says, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will live with his wife. The two will become one.’

6 So they are no longer two but one. Let no man divide what God has put together.”

Matthew 19:5-6

Only where Christ allow divorce, is when ones partner is caught in the act of adultery...

So, sexual immorality is a great sin.
Re: Christian Sex. by biebs: 2:17pm On Mar 01, 2020
Fornication isn't in the ten commandments so its no sin...... If anyone can show it is in d commandments then its a sin if not its no sin
Re: Christian Sex. by Hugo55(m): 2:35pm On Mar 01, 2020
Hmmmmmm all this write for just SEX! common, sex is sex.....just have fun but remember, sex goes with responsibility.
Re: Christian Sex. by MuttleyLaff: 2:56pm On Mar 01, 2020
Daviddson:
Mods have added photos to my threads before. So I know what I'm saying.
OK, but well, I am not sure mods are allowed to make fine adjustments to posts without making it clear they have done so. What if the adjustment misrepresents the original intent or doesnt go down well with the poster, hmm?

Back in the day, when JeSoul was a moderator here on the Religion forum, she always left notes behind after editing, adding and/or making fine adjustments to other people's posts.
Re: Christian Sex. by Unlimited22: 4:20pm On Mar 01, 2020
biebs:
Fornication isn't in the ten commandments so its no sin...... If anyone can show it is in d commandments then its a sin if not its no sin
LMAOOOOOOOOOOO
Re: Christian Sex. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 01, 2020
Sodiquinone:
A christian should be like Christ, and guess what he never had sex throughout his life,so Christians should nt be having sex,,,but for topics like this they run to old testament .Abeg tell us what Jesus himself said about sex
Matthew 5 :27- 28. It applies to both married and singles
Re: Christian Sex. by sonmvayina(m): 5:17pm On Mar 01, 2020
Sodiquinone:
A christian should be like Christ, and guess what he never had sex throughout his life,so Christians should nt be having sex,,,but for topics like this they run to old testament .Abeg tell us what Jesus himself said about sex
Why should somebody who never has sex, tell me how to do it or when to do it?
Re: Christian Sex. by Nobody: 5:21pm On Mar 01, 2020
Mudisolo2:
Matthew 5 :27- 28. It applies to both married and singles
Nice one,this verse talks about adultery ,,,but very hilarious and wicked at same time, I can assure you Jesus willnt say smth as wicked as that

If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away...Mathew5:29-30

and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery..vs 32

This is terrible
Re: Christian Sex. by Legendguru: 5:29pm On Mar 01, 2020
BORIng
Re: Christian Sex. by Engraced80(f): 5:41pm On Mar 01, 2020
Every other sin is done outside your body, but sex is defiling your body which is the temple of God.
so flee from premarital sex and adultery.
May God equip us with the sufficient grace to do so in Jesus name.
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