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Christian Sex. by uchkochi(m): 5:45am On Mar 01, 2020
CHRISTIAN KIND OF SEX.

We have established the fact in the previous message that sex is not bad, it is just that if it is done before marriage it is wrong and a sin at that. Even married people still commit adultery which is also wrong. So this message is a two sided one talking to singles on one hand and the married on the other hand.

It is difficult to convince someone that is already involved in fornication or adultery that it is wrong especially when they have justifiable reasons to indulge in this act.

Justifiable reasons like their spouses does not satisfy them, or they feel compelled to do it so that their relationship will not break, no matter how justifiable your reasons please don’t forget that there is a way that seems right but the end of it is destruction. Proverbs 14:12 and 16 vs. 25.

Don’t assume that everybody is doing it, there are still people keeping themselves. Stopping it is not as important as know how to. That is the various physical strategies to apply.

These Practical Ways Includes;

1. Be real and avoid pretence: many people don’t know themselves so they end up doing what they don’t know they can do. We have weaknesses, but a weakness is not dangerous if it is discovered on time and curbed. It is only when you ignore your weakness that it controls you. The first thing you should know is that your flesh is weak when it comes to sex. And there is no time that it will be stronger than sex. You cannot be stronger than sex. The devil knows that it is stronger than you so he uses this ignorance to over power your mind. Of all the sins lust leading to fornication is the only one that God insists that we flee. 1st Corinthians 6 vs.18. Joseph would not have been able to overcome the temptation to sleep with Potipher’s wife if he had not fled. He knew that he was weak and the only way to be strong is to flee.

2. Understand that there is nothing like casual sex: sex is sex there is nothing casual about it. It could be casual today and become deep and regular tomorrow. It is deceitful to believe that the enormity of the act is when you really go deep in it. Conceiving the thoughts in your mind and meditating on it is like opening the door for the devil to molest you. What do you talk about when you are alone? If you only talk about sex, you may just be preparing the ground for the act. Sex begins in the mind, so to think that sex can be casual is to end up a casualty. You may have sex and not reach orgasm; this does not make it casual. It only increases your appetite for more and more. Kissing and playing would soon graduate into a deeper level of intimacy so beware.

3. Romance for ladies sex for guys: You should understand that a lady loves romance so much that most times she wishes it does not metamorphose into sex. But a guy cannot be truly satisfied until sex is involved. So you see that abstinence is the best bet. Don’t try to please anybody by indulging in sex with them if you are not married to them. They may be pleased today but tomorrow may not be pleased again.

4. Flee, RUN AWAY WHEN THE URGE IS Rising, WHEN YOU DO GOD WILL STRENGTHEN YOU BECAUSE ITS HIS WORD: Some people sit and say no, no, no when they should be on their feet heading for the doors. Its not easy, I know, but would you prefer to disobey God and loose out than to obey Him by fleeing? Don’t assume that you are spiritual enough to overcome; this assumption has led many to fornication. Please don’t only make an attempt and return, rather flee indeed.

5.GOD CANNOT HELP YOU UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO FLEE: To flee does not only mean to run away, if the pressure continues you will have to flee from that relationship. If someone gives you a gift or promises you a favour and wants to sleep with you, you will have to flee from that gift and favour. Sin is sweet but your destiny is sweeter.

6. Avoid songs and films or pictures that put sex in your mind: Your mind is programmed in such a way that what you pay more attention to is what passes to your subconscious. And it is difficult to control what has passed from your consciousness into your subconscious. For example you can watch a film and be so engrossed in it then sleep at night and dream about that same film. What just happened is that the film information was saved in your subconscious mind. So guard your heart with all diligence. Proverbs 4:23.

In case you are married and your partner cheats or intends cheating on you because you don’t satisfy him/her sexually then it will not be out of place for that partner to teach you how to. You see the best way to satisfy yourself is to satisfy your partner. Sex is reciprocal in nature, if the love is there. It is because of sexual in satisfaction in marriages that was why God said in Hebrews 13 vs. 4 that MARRIAGE IS HONORABLE WITH THE BED UNDEFILED. God’s original intention was that HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE VIRGINS WHEN THEY GET MARRIED. So that they can learn from the onset on how to satisfy each other and even grow to learn the many things that sex can offer. Thank God we serve a God of restoration, a God that can rewrite every wrong by His mercies. WELCOME TO A NEW BEGINNING OF CHANGE IN THE NAME OF JESUS.

OMEGA GOSPEL NETWORK.(CYBER/MOBILE CHURCH)

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Re: Christian Sex. by AntiChristian: 7:41am On Mar 01, 2020
grin

Christian kinda sex!

What other kind of sex exists?

But why end with your church advert?
Hoping for recruits or are you a fisher of men from other denominations?

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Re: Christian Sex. by iCauseTrouble: 9:32am On Mar 01, 2020
Just have sex as it pleases you and your partner. There is nothing like Christian or non Christian sex shocked

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Re: Christian Sex. by Cryomancer: 9:32am On Mar 01, 2020
Christian sèx kwa?

Are we suppose to pray before having the Christian sex or we are to read the bible during the sex or use anointing oil to sanitize the environment before the sex?


Nothing wey coronavirus no go see for Nigeria. undecided

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Re: Christian Sex. by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:33am On Mar 01, 2020
There is nothing as awesome as abstaining from any form of sin, God help us.

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Re: Christian Sex. by Dottore: 9:33am On Mar 01, 2020
Ok
Re: Christian Sex. by PureGoldh(m): 9:33am On Mar 01, 2020
Nice tips but the headline ain't adding up sha...Number 4,5 and 6 makes sense alot

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Re: Christian Sex. by money121(m): 9:33am On Mar 01, 2020
Ok
Re: Christian Sex. by Nobody: 9:33am On Mar 01, 2020
A christian should be like Christ, and guess what he never had sex throughout his life,so Christians should nt be having sex,,,but for topics like this they run to old testament .Abeg tell us what Jesus himself said about sex

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Re: Christian Sex. by Lovelies1: 9:33am On Mar 01, 2020
5
Re: Christian Sex. by Ekakamba: 9:34am On Mar 01, 2020
My pick. cool


Sex is reciprocal in nature, if the love is there. It is because of sexual in satisfaction in marriages that was why God said in Hebrews 13 vs. 4 that MARRIAGE IS HONORABLE WITH THE BED UNDEFILED. God’s original intention was that HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE VIRGINS WHEN THEY GET MARRIED. So that they can learn from the onset on how to satisfy each other and even grow to learn the many things that sex can offer.

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Re: Christian Sex. by OtemAtum: 9:34am On Mar 01, 2020
Na wa
Re: Christian Sex. by soberdrunk(m): 9:34am On Mar 01, 2020
I wonder what holy/religious people say during sex..... angry

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Re: Christian Sex. by Yankiss(m): 9:35am On Mar 01, 2020
Let's have the Muslim version or view of sex as well. Why is it that everyone comments on Christian threads while that of Muslims is exclusive? I don't understand this discrimination. It doesn't say well of Nairaland Mods.

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Re: Christian Sex. by Edams224(m): 9:35am On Mar 01, 2020
So Christian has different ways of having sex dan the normal sex we are all aware of?
Re: Christian Sex. by olisaEze(m): 9:35am On Mar 01, 2020
Why is there no 'declaration of Faith' on this page as there are on Muslim posts? Non Muslims can’t comment on Muslim posts, why should it not be the same for Christian posts? Admins kindly do the needful, biko.

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Re: Christian Sex. by Nobody: 9:35am On Mar 01, 2020
k
Re: Christian Sex. by Yakade(m): 9:36am On Mar 01, 2020
Good

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Re: Christian Sex. by ThatFairGuy: 9:36am On Mar 01, 2020
grin
Re: Christian Sex. by kelvxyn: 9:36am On Mar 01, 2020
God have mercy on us.
God already said, "my ways are not ur ways, neither are my thoughts your thoughts"
So do what you know is right and leave the rest for God. What looks bad in the sight of men might look good in the sight of God.

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Re: Christian Sex. by AOB1: 9:36am On Mar 01, 2020
sex na sex jare cool
Re: Christian Sex. by GoodBoi1(m): 9:37am On Mar 01, 2020
uchkochi:

6. Avoid songs and films or pictures that put sex in your mind: Your mind is programmed in such a way that what you pay more attention to is what passes to your subconscious. And it is difficult to control what has passed from your consciousness into your subconscious. For example you can watch a film and be so engrossed in it then sleep at night and dream about that same film. What just happened is that the film information was saved in your subconscious mind. So guard your heart with all diligence. Proverbs 4:23.
....
Yet you posted a sexy picture at the end of your message. Is the picture necessary? Don't you think it goes against this point? Practice what you preach.

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Re: Christian Sex. by betterpikinn: 9:37am On Mar 01, 2020
The hypocrisy in that religion is on the highest level.


Most of them her just deceiving themselves.


My guy is constantly fûcking two girls in their choir for the past two years.


I caught my childhood friend too, a girl fûcking her married pastor. What I read on her WhatsApp is out of this world grin

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Re: Christian Sex. by koyeni(m): 9:37am On Mar 01, 2020
sad
Re: Christian Sex. by TheExecutioner: 9:37am On Mar 01, 2020
Re: Christian Sex. by Uyi168: 9:37am On Mar 01, 2020
Cryomancer:
Christian sèx kwa?

Are we suppose to pray before having the Christian sex or we are to read the bible during the sex or use anointing oil to sanitize the environment before the sex?


Nothing wey coronavirus no go see for Nigeria. undecided
.

Or use anointing oil as lubricant...
Re: Christian Sex. by ThatFairGuy: 9:37am On Mar 01, 2020
cheesy
Re: Christian Sex. by OnpointDesign(m): 9:38am On Mar 01, 2020
cheesy
Re: Christian Sex. by MartinsD12(m): 9:38am On Mar 01, 2020
uchkochi:
CHRISTIAN KIND OF SEX.

We have established the fact in the previous message that sex is not bad, it is just that if it is done before marriage it is wrong and a sin at that. Even married people still commit adultery which is also wrong. So this message is a two sided one talking to singles on one hand and the married on the other hand.

It is difficult to convince someone that is already involved in fornication or adultery that it is wrong especially when they have justifiable reasons to indulge in this act.

Justifiable reasons like their spouses does not satisfy them, or they feel compelled to do it so that their relationship will not break, no matter how justifiable your reasons please don’t forget that there is a way that seems right but the end of it is destruction. Proverbs 14:12 and 16 vs. 25.

Don’t assume that everybody is doing it, there are still people keeping themselves. Stopping it is not as important as know how to. That is the various physical strategies to apply.

These Practical Ways Includes;

1. Be real and avoid pretence: many people don’t know themselves so they end up doing what they don’t know they can do. We have weaknesses, but a weakness is not dangerous if it is discovered on time and curbed. It is only when you ignore your weakness that it controls you. The first thing you should know is that your flesh is weak when it comes to sex. And there is no time that it will be stronger than sex. You cannot be stronger than sex. The devil knows that it is stronger than you so he uses this ignorance to over power your mind. Of all the sins lust leading to fornication is the only one that God insists that we flee. 1st Corinthians 6 vs.18. Joseph would not have been able to overcome the temptation to sleep with Potipher’s wife if he had not fled. He knew that he was weak and the only way to be strong is to flee.

2. Understand that there is nothing like casual sex: sex is sex there is nothing casual about it. It could be casual today and become deep and regular tomorrow. It is deceitful to believe that the enormity of the act is when you really go deep in it. Conceiving the thoughts in your mind and meditating on it is like opening the door for the devil to molest you. What do you talk about when you are alone? If you only talk about sex, you may just be preparing the ground for the act. Sex begins in the mind, so to think that sex can be casual is to end up a casualty. You may have sex and not reach orgasm; this does not make it casual. It only increases your appetite for more and more. Kissing and playing would soon graduate into a deeper level of intimacy so beware.

3. Romance for ladies sex for guys: You should understand that a lady loves romance so much that most times she wishes it does not metamorphose into sex. But a guy cannot be truly satisfied until sex is involved. So you see that abstinence is the best bet. Don’t try to please anybody by indulging in sex with them if you are not married to them. They may be pleased today but tomorrow may not be pleased again.

4. Flee, RUN AWAY WHEN THE URGE IS Rising, WHEN YOU DO GOD WILL STRENGTHEN YOU BECAUSE ITS HIS WORD: Some people sit and say no, no, no when they should be on their feet heading for the doors. Its not easy, I know, but would you prefer to disobey God and loose out than to obey Him by fleeing? Don’t assume that you are spiritual enough to overcome; this assumption has led many to fornication. Please don’t only make an attempt and return, rather flee indeed.

5.GOD CANNOT HELP YOU UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO FLEE: To flee does not only mean to run away, if the pressure continues you will have to flee from that relationship. If someone gives you a gift or promises you a favour and wants to sleep with you, you will have to flee from that gift and favour. Sin is sweet but your destiny is sweeter.

6. Avoid songs and films or pictures that put sex in your mind: Your mind is programmed in such a way that what you pay more attention to is what passes to your subconscious. And it is difficult to control what has passed from your consciousness into your subconscious. For example you can watch a film and be so engrossed in it then sleep at night and dream about that same film. What just happened is that the film information was saved in your subconscious mind. So guard your heart with all diligence. Proverbs 4:23.

In case you are married and your partner cheats or intends cheating on you because you don’t satisfy him/her sexually then it will not be out of place for that partner to teach you how to. You see the best way to satisfy yourself is to satisfy your partner. Sex is reciprocal in nature, if the love is there. It is because of sexual in satisfaction in marriages that was why God said in Hebrews 13 vs. 4 that MARRIAGE IS HONORABLE WITH THE BED UNDEFILED. God’s original intention was that HUSBAND AND WIFE ARE VIRGINS WHEN THEY GET MARRIED. So that they can learn from the onset on how to satisfy each other and even grow to learn the many things that sex can offer. Thank God we serve a God of restoration, a God that can rewrite every wrong by His mercies. WELCOME TO A NEW BEGINNING OF CHANGE IN THE NAME OF JESUS.

OMEGA GOSPEL NETWORK.(CYBER/MOBILE CHURCH)
Unreasonable writing, don't Christian sex there is nothing like that

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Re: Christian Sex. by dayleke: 9:38am On Mar 01, 2020
Holy sex

Invisible condom

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Re: Christian Sex. by FirstbornWds: 9:38am On Mar 01, 2020
Christian Sex kwa...


There's nothing we'll not see.

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