₦airaland Forum

GreatResearcher:
No.2

healthserve:
You Don dey v.ex egovine name you talk say you wan be land lady. We get house for Sangotedo I dey work for V. I na wetin make I do o.

Millenniumlady:
Tell that to married women..... i can't marry a Nigerian man to start with

Arsenate:
The couple you talked about are probably of northern descent living in the north.

healthserve:
Please be careful about all these treat a woman like a queen. 80% of times its perceived differently by the other party albeit received as weakness and low self esteem. For me, I've reworked my model and advice men to do same which is to treat a wife same level same way she treats a man.. This gives access to recall recoil and remove in the event of drama that arises from too much accessibility and familiarity

GreatResearcher:
that my army frnd is a calabar guy.

crackkhaus:
This is funny.

Marriage advice from a divorced couple...
Why should anyone listen to them?

It's hubris.

healthserve:
Ha.ba what did we do to you aunty

Arsenate:
But the lady is from the north and they are living in a northern town. That's my point.

Millenniumlady:
I AM A FEMINIST and Nigerian men hates feminist

GreatResearcher:
this guy sef. u talk as if u knw dem. they are both from AKWA IBOM STATE. They base in kaduna

Kamani8:
Balance is the key. If you know how to treat her wella and when to withdraw when she oversteps her boundaries, she'll find you a bit mysterious and she'll keep yearning for that your other side which in turn will keep her on her tippy toes all d time.
But if u continuously treat her like a man, the day she finds someone that treats her like a woman, the rest will be history.

GreatResearcher:
i'd listen to dem. they talkin frm first-hand experience

healthserve:
The last paragraph you've finished matter my elder. Twale

healthserve:
Oh feminist. I wish you well with your life choices along with its consequences. Best of luck

crackkhaus:
If they knew what they were doing, they'd still be together.

GreatResearcher:
read d story. d ended up happily and stil b frnds. they are stil together

Arsenate:
Fair enough. At least I got the bolded right.

Kamani8:
Loool. Thank me later

healthserve:
Cause over time I've learnt to discern what reality is from illusion and how to detail the difference with high precision

crackkhaus:
I'm referring to the photo you posted.
How are they still together when they're celebrating a divorce?

RisenPhoenix:
How strong the man is. If the man commands the respect of his home, and wields his authority firmly but with wisdom, the marriage will last. If he is weak and servile towards his wife; as most men are today; it won't.

Millenniumlady:
It takes a lot to keep lady in marriage men that listen's,care,comes home early from work,provide for the family, puts her first and must be very hard working and great in bed i think this will keep every woman that wants to be kept in marriage The truth is Nigerian men are always eager to get married but finds it hard to stay married

GreatResearcher:
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Ishilove:
Na people wey never marry dey give marital advice pass. Smh

Millenniumlady:
If you get mind try slap me

Millenniumlady:
Tell that to married women..... i can't marry a Nigerian man to start with

Ishilove:
Na people wey never marry dey give marital advice pass. Smh

Jman06:
Op, it depends on the kind of lady you married. It is good to study the background of any lady you plan to marry.

If a lady is raised in a decent home where the mum and dad live peacefully together, chances are high that the lady would have learnt from her mother how to keep a home.

Also, the kind of friends a lady keeps should never be overlooked when deciding whether to wife her or not. This is because it is hard to find a lady who reasons on her own without being influenced by her friends. If a lady is surrounded by pseudo feminists, men haters and gold diggers, brother such a lady is not good for marriage.

In summary, marry from a decent home. Maintain close and friendly relationship with your in-laws (mil especially) and you'll see how successful your marriage would be.

Jman06:
Op, it depends on the kind of lady you married. It is good to study the background of any lady you plan to marry.

If a lady is raised in a decent home where the mum and dad live peacefully together, chances are high that the lady would have learnt from her mother how to keep a home.

Also, the kind of friends a lady keeps should never be overlooked when deciding whether to wife her or not. This is because it is hard to find a lady who reasons on her own without being influenced by her friends. If a lady is surrounded by pseudo feminists, men haters and gold diggers, brother such a lady is not good for marriage.

In summary, marry from a decent home. Maintain close and friendly relationship with your in-laws (mil especially) and you'll see how successful your marriage would be.