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well reporting the father and reporting the mother are two different things.
I will not even tell if it was my best friends Boyfriend or sisters husband

Are you guys kiddin me? I mean, you watch your parents cheating and you turn a blind eye? Your parents!!! Your parents!!! You sleep and wake up with this knowledge? I don't believe you guys, honestly. Sorry!

well, dat's something i don't want to look forward to.
if he was cheating, i'd ask him to tell my mom himself!
whereby he refuses, i'll do the talking myself!!

but instead of cheating, they shd get divorced if they aint feeling the marriage!

precisely Radiant. Beggars belief
I would say something for sure. Anyway chat to you soon, where ur ass been girl?

For those reporting. I will tell you were it will end.
After fighting themselves and settling themselves.
Your mothers will come to you and tell you not to interfere in their marrage.
Your brothers and sisters will ask themselves or you . why you had to open your mouth.

Mama, if they ever utter such crap, only then will I stfu!

well said Radiant lol

And not all families are jerry springer rejects,that scenario is a description of a backward family

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@ Topic,

I will want everybody to remember that whatever your answer is, you need to take it in context of when it happened. If this happens while you ae a kid, CHANCES are you will not tell cos you are a bit vulnerable and somewhat trusting regardless of what you see your parents doin.

I have been extremely lucky in my life that i was never faced with this issue. My parents were together for about 45years and i can tell you that NOTHIN or if any of them did i didnt see any funny business goin on. Thank God.

If you find out while u were an adult, u probably will confront ur dad about it, cos you dont have to worry about the chances of being put out or get ur ass kicked etc etc. And you always remember wife/husband issue are delicate. The woman might suspect the hus but her attitude might be "As long as u come back to me, i dont wanna know what u doin"

Reporting will not leave things the same for sure. Your dad might be waiting around the corner to bitchslap you for being a snitch.

If you feel u are closer to the offending party, chance are you will be hush hush about the issue. So its a lot of factors that will come into place before you say ill tell or not. Its not a simple answer. im glad i never have to make that choice.

My dad is long gone now and i know i can always trust both of them even in 5 lifetimes.

Then some people can use their hands and spoil their peoples Marrage.
In Nigeria everone will blame the loud mouth child.
Tomorrow go and report your people to police and make them go to jail

promise72:
@ Topic,

I will want everybody to remember that whatever your answer is, you need to take it in context of when it happened. If this happens while you ae a kid, CHANCES are you will not tell cos you are a bit vulnerable and somewhat trusting regardless of what you see your parents doin.

I have been extremely lucky in my life that i was never faced with this issue. My parents were together for about 45years and i can tell you that NOTHIN or if any of them did i didnt see any funny business goin on. Thank God.

If you find out while u were an adult, u probably will confront ur dad about it, cos you dont have to worry about the chances of being put out or get ur ass kicked etc etc. And you always remember wife/husband issue are delicate. The woman might suspect the hus but her attitude might be "As long as u come back to me, i dont wanna know what u doin"

Reporting will not leave things the same for sure. Your dad might be waiting around the corner to bitchslap you for being a snitch.

If you feel u are closer to the offending party, chance are you will be hush hush about the issue. So its a lot of factors that will come into place before you say ill tell or not. Its not a simple answer. im glad i never have to make that choice.

My dad is long gone now and i know i can always trust both of them even in 5 lifetimes.

@ bolded: One in 1 million, going by nairalanders.