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You hear the sound of slap,you rush out and see your sister locked up his shirt.bros have you ever thought of the fact that it could be your sister dishing out the slap and then locking up his shirt.you never really mentioned that you saw him slapping her.my people ,the reverse could be the case.anything is possible.lol

sisisioge:


The way you dey always call me on top matters sef.

Mate you not my sister again?

Get yourself out of that house before your brain becomes accustomed to that kind of normal.

And of course let your sister know she is setting herself up for disaster if she continues like that.

Let your Brother-in-law know that you are enlightened and out of respect for your sister you will not be disrespecting him.

Lastly, let your parents know what's happening. Whatever anybody then decides to do, everybody will carry their own cross. Just get out of there, it's an unhealthy environment and very disrespectful to you.

Seems that her husband gets himself TURN ON when he slaps ur sister o
Anyways, no mata how u tell me to stay away, i will just change am for both of them. I hate domestic violence. Remember that u will still be called in Kingsmen meeting when someone dies. Counsel them so that the children won't see beating as a normal thing. Ladies that receive beatings are the most stubborn ppl that can't listen to good advice. If there is any vacancy i go like know o . Op

U plp should keep sharing slaps ooo till one person ends up dead...and reality hits u hard

Belafonte:
Are you saying women are incapable of rational thought and also lack civil and reasonable conflict resolution skills?

Sisisioge, is this guy right? Should I be worried?

I am responsible for my statement while u are responsible for how you interpret it.

seankafor:
Thread with caution because once you do anything stupid, both you and your sister will be at recieving end.

All these people telling you to report to your mum or treat the man fvckup.. will they be there when the man evicted you from his house or when the man divorces or chases your sister away and your? One thing you dont want is your sister staying for years in your family house. that will breed frustration to both her and your family.

I will advise you to just pack out from the house if it's too much for you to bear. And leave your sister and her family alone.. they re adults..of your sister isnt complaining,wo are you to? On a normal day your sister now 80% is the property of her husband and you dare not interfere.. it might not even be brutal and complicated as you think..

Try face front small if you cant atleast pack out and rent your own house..

he will still be evicted from the house if one of those slaps lead to death of his sister.

akaahs:
...... and this is coming from a lady?
So, U gonna shoot up ur brother when ur husband is abusing u?
I have slap and beat my aunt's husband d last time he beat her. Warned him when ever he try again

I guess you are always there to beat your aunt's husband ANYTIME he beat her
I'm very sure nobody force her sister to marry a particular guy, if things go wrong she should leave
I can't believe many stay in abuse relationship so that can brothers can fight for them
Will you be always there? Huh?
Or you think because you beat and warned him, he won't do it again?
If any lady can't leave or stand for herself in abuse marriage, one day her brothers will not be around

thorpido:
Your sister is being foolish indulging him.A lot of Nigerian women tolerate a lot of nonsense just to stay in marriage.
Your sister is an adult,let her deal with it herself.

Thank you dear

bukatyne:
4th April 2020, you were thinking of carrying sacrifice for your fiancé

21st April 2020, your two year old daughter can't talk

1st May 2020, your sister whom you live with gets slapped by her husband.

One needs to be more diligent before wasting time to answer people's fantasies.

And on April 29 he caught his dad fvcking thier landlady. To think I wasted my time commenting on this thread. It seems the OP post stories from other social media platforms or what he watched in movies on NL. Smhaykins is a joke.

my advice for you is to leave that house quick

Kemimarch16:
I hate men that do beat women

Men hates nagging wife

Even if a woman should nag,is there no way to punish her than beating her?what are you trying to defend?a responsible man will never beat a woman.
will u be happy if your sis husband usually beat her because of nagging

nuelyoyo:
And on April 29 he caught his dad fvcking thier landlady. To think I wasted my time commenting on this thread. It seems the OP post stories from other social media platforms or what he watched in movies on NL. Smhaykins is a joke.

Sorry

so if your wife nag u will beat her

Apart from questioning the veracity of this story, I am appalled at the use of contractions by the OP.

What is the meaning of z, r, n, N, cr7, av, tym, serz, and so on, as used by the OP? Is this the way we communicate now. Our young ones should not be allowed to see or read stuff like this.

Smhaykins:
Hello peeps,

Please advice.

I stay with my sister, they av a 3 bedroom apartments. And I stay in one of d room because z closer to my office and I go to my house on weekends.

But since I moved in, I observed dat her husband always beat her.. I don't know if he just started or he has been doing dat before...because my sister has never complained to us.

Though, if not dat I leave with dem, I will advice every lady to pray for dat kind of guy...cos he z so caring, Av time for his family, comes home early, religious, doesn't smoke nor drink. Most times do d cooking if he comes home before my sister.

We r a bit close, cos z a cr7 fan, n we go to viewing center to watch champions league together, ( he prefers viewing centre Dan watching at home).

When I tried to discuss the issue of him beating my sister with him, he was so angry, and he replied dat z not my fault, dats y dey don't want a third party in der ouse cos ppu will never mind der business.

I also tried talking to my sister, she said do I want her to pack out of her husband ouse or wat do I want her to do if av not gotten another husband for her. Dat every marriage has issues. N she warned me not to tell our parents.

Actually, z not always a serz beating, may be a slap or two, den my sister will lock his shirt n dey will start abusing each other...after some minutes dey will enter d room n by d time dey come out z always settled. Most times I will just hear d sound of d slap in my room, by d tym I rush out out, my sister wud av locked his shirt n dey will start abusing each other. When I try to intervene or settle it. The two of dem will tell me to leave dem alone dat dey will settle it. But I feel bad whenever it happens cos I will feel guilty for not speaking out if domestic violence leads to my sister's death someday.

Please advice if I shud report to our parents or not.

The best thing is for you to pack out and get a room

Who knows, you could be the cause of their quarrel

She may be the cause of their quarrel

Both of them understands themselves very well more than you want to

Your sister is not complaining

Make sure you mind you business but do well to pack out and leave them to their world

Novemberaura:
when love hurts it won't work. I can almost manage anything else except for this
there's clearly something more than love in their relationship and that thing is terminal.
marriage is overrated to me.
so your sister is convinced staying married will save her from societal hurt but is almost not aware she's on a death part.
if you love your sister don't stop at just telling your parents, get evidence of the domestic violence, get your sister a psychiatrist or psychologist to make her know her husband is gradually killing her then sue the black son of bitch. (divorce)

unless you are not a "recent man"

hey this is just to remind you to smile it helps buddy, hope you have a great evening? How'd your day go though

Nawaoooooo . This one way buhari regimen dey like this how will jagajaga(walking corpse) own go be?? I pity UMU NNEM Na UMUNNA

Waiting Fulani No Go See For Bush?

Waiting passenger no go hear for bus ?

Do they have kids? If yes, ask your sister if she thinks it is healthy for her kids to watch the abuse.

As for reporting, since they both told you not to, please respect their wishes without telling outrightly however, drop a hint with your parents and other siblings.

Smhaykins:
Hello peeps,

Please advice.

I stay with my sister, they av a 3 bedroom apartments. And I stay in one of d room because z closer to my office and I go to my house on weekends.

But since I moved in, I observed dat her husband always beat her.. I don't know if he just started or he has been doing dat before...because my sister has never complained to us.

Though, if not dat I leave with dem, I will advice every lady to pray for dat kind of guy...cos he z so caring, Av time for his family, comes home early, religious, doesn't smoke nor drink. Most times do d cooking if he comes home before my sister.

We r a bit close, cos z a cr7 fan, n we go to viewing center to watch champions league together, ( he prefers viewing centre Dan watching at home).

When I tried to discuss the issue of him beating my sister with him, he was so angry, and he replied dat z not my fault, dats y dey don't want a third party in der ouse cos ppu will never mind der business.

I also tried talking to my sister, she said do I want her to pack out of her husband ouse or wat do I want her to do if av not gotten another husband for her. Dat every marriage has issues. N she warned me not to tell our parents.

Actually, z not always a serz beating, may be a slap or two, den my sister will lock his shirt n dey will start abusing each other...after some minutes dey will enter d room n by d time dey come out z always settled. Most times I will just hear d sound of d slap in my room, by d tym I rush out out, my sister wud av locked his shirt n dey will start abusing each other. When I try to intervene or settle it. The two of dem will tell me to leave dem alone dat dey will settle it. But I feel bad whenever it happens cos I will feel guilty for not speaking out if domestic violence leads to my sister's death someday.

Please advice if I shud report to our parents or not.

Report to Lagos state domestic violence, your sister would be forever indebted to you

bukatyne:
@bold:

This is not 'domestic violence', it is two 'fighting'.

Because person never blind you for eye or scatter your hearing abi?

Continue redefining domestic violence even when you know the slap is coming from one person.