I am just curious to know the effects and implications that one can expect from what my wife of 10years said to me this morning.My wife told me as I was about to make love to her that,she doesn't love me again,meanwhile, I was sucking the breasts when the bombshell dropped,I went ahead to remove her cloths and went down to do the normal duty.But I have been cold to her afterwards,cos I kind of feel strange presently, I don't want the cascading effect of her words to gofar,I might not forgive her.

So if I may ask,is it possible she was pulling my legs,also considering she has never said something like that before,even at times of difficult and problematic issues.

Mrstoned:
I am just curious to know the effects and implications that one can expect from what my wife of 10years said to me this morning.My wife told me as I was about to make love to her that,she doesn't love me again,meanwhile, I was sucking the breasts when the bombshell dropped,I went ahead to remove her cloths and went down to do the normal duty.But I have been cold to her afterwards,cos I kind of feel strange presently, I don't want the cascading effect of her words to gofar,I might not forgive her.

So if I may ask,is it possible she was pulling my legs,also considering she has never said something like that before,even at times of difficult and problematic issues.

you should ask her where you have gone wrong to warrant such statement from her. Obviously you have been hurting her. Find out

She NEVER loved you or she's trying to manipulate you with that statement. But watch how women here are going to justify her statement and emotionally manipulate you into enslaving yourself to apologize and please her to win her love.

I think she's fed up pretending to love you and you should be grateful she said her mind.

Go for DNA for your kids and STD checkup, because for a woman to be brave enough to say such to your face, she's cheating.

Also mind how you have sex with her to avoid being infected.

Thanks!

Mrstoned:
I am just curious to know the effects and implications that one can expect from what my wife of 10years said to me this morning.My wife told me as I was about to make love to her that,she doesn't love me again,meanwhile, I was sucking the breasts when the bombshell dropped,I went ahead to remove her cloths and went down to do the normal duty.But I have been cold to her afterwards,cos I kind of feel strange presently, I don't want the cascading effect of her words to gofar,I might not forgive her.

So if I may ask,is it possible she was pulling my legs,also considering she has never said something like that before,even at times of difficult and problematic issues.

Explain the bolded b4 I tell you anything

Lol how you still felt the urge to do the "normal duty" after she said that is one thing I can't seem to figure out here. She was blunt with her words, which means she's ready to discuss it with you.

So I advise you talk to her, ask her why she stopped feeling that way towards you and what you may have done wrong. You also need to be sure if she's hiding anything from you that could have contributed to this (e.g an extramarital affair or just peer influence).

She Doesn't.
At least she was honest with you.
I like her already.

The next thing is to find out what made her fall out of love, take her out, to a cool spot, enjoy catfish and drinks.

Talk about random things, make her laugh, let her lose her guard.

Then ask in a playful manner, what made her fall out of love.


I hope she tells u.

10 years of marriage and you choose to get answers from Nairaland instead of talking to your wife?

I just weak for Una matter.

I was sucking the breasts when the bombshell dropped, I went ahead to remove her cloths and went down to do the normal duty.

Chei! Your ancestors must be proud of you.

I can't believe that such a bombshell didn't deter you from having sex!! Your mind is unwavering.

Probably you too don't care anymore.
You both might just be tolerating eachother.

Mrstoned:
I am just curious to know the effects and implications that one can expect from what my wife of 10years said to me this morning.My wife told me as I was about to make love to her that,she doesn't love me again,meanwhile, I was sucking the breasts when the bombshell dropped,I went ahead to remove her cloths and went down to do the normal duty .But I have been cold to her afterwards,cos I kind of feel strange presently, I don't want the cascading effect of her words to gofar,I might not forgive her.

So if I may ask,is it possible she was pulling my legs,also considering she has never said something like that before,even at times of difficult and problematic issues.

Explain the bolded b4 I tell you anything

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Rozz:
you should ask her where you have gone wrong to warrant such statement from her. Obviously you have been hurting her. Find out

Yeah... i agree with you!. He must have hurt her really bad for her to say this.

If I must be frank with you, I think she's getting emotional and sexual fulfillment elsewhere. For a woman to say that to your face it means water don pass garri. Watch her closely. Try to monitor her calls, chat and movement codedly. Brace yourself for the outcome, because you certainly won't like it.

Margy:


Yeah... i agree with you!. He must have hurt her really bad for her to say this.

He didn't realize the woman is hurting but instead he picked offense.

You may have done something to damage her love for you, her love for you can not just die like that there must be a reason.

Romanoff:
10 years of marriage and you choose to get answers from Nairaland instead of talking to your wife?

I just weak for Una matter.

no b 10years the give answers, especially when a woman is involved-people that u can't understand, sometimes people help too

So you choose to bring your relationship of 10 years to the singles on nairaland to gives you advise...someone said she is no more in love with you and still yet you went ahead and have sex with her....oga don't go back through where you came from ?

Mrstoned:
I am just curious to know the effects and implications that one can expect from what my wife of 10years said to me this morning.My wife told me as I was about to make love to her that,she doesn't love me again,meanwhile, I was sucking the breasts when the bombshell dropped,I went ahead to remove her cloths and went down to do the normal duty.But I have been cold to her afterwards,cos I kind of feel strange presently, I don't want the cascading effect of her words to gofar,I might not forgive her.

So if I may ask,is it possible she was pulling my legs,also considering she has never said something like that before,even at times of difficult and problematic issues.

How did you allow yourself to lose the love of your wife?
What did you do to her that gave her the boldness to say that to you?
Do you think she ever loved you?
How is she towards you? Cold?
Does she respond to your touch?

Rozz:
you should ask her where you have gone wrong to warrant such statement from her. Obviously you have been hurting her. Find out

You don't judge an issue, especially marital issues, this way. You don't know the OP, neither do you know his wife. Even though there are possibilities that he did something wrong, there's no obvious pointer to that yet. So don't conclude just yet.

Don't bother about what women say, pay attention to what they do.
They can say a lot of stupid things within a little swing of emotion.

Be vigilant, the day she stops showing you love she has stopped loving you.

...and you didn't ask her directly considering that you've known each other intimately for at least 10yrs? We strangers will know what's on her mind, of course!

Richy4:
I might be wrong but I'm guessing that It could be cabin fever.. She might have been a bit irritated about what's been going on.. no movement, nothing that excites her, she was being caged at home by the Government... on top of that she has to deal with u and your needs... it could have been hard on her.. And it is hard on a lot of people but they cannot say it aloud to their spouse just the way your wife said it..

You know when they are advertising drugs and they say things like after 3 days and the symptoms persists, consult your doctor.. After the lock down and the symptoms persists, then you have to find out what's cooking... for now don't take her words for it man.. everyone is on edge.. angry and annoyed..

...you are just too nice!

sisisioge:


...you are just too nice!

Hhahahah That's my default setting

Mariangeles:


How did you allow yourself to lose the love of your wife?
What did you do to her that gave her the boldness to say that to you?
Do you think she ever loved you?
How is she towards you? Cold?
Does she respond to your touch?

This is good...let the questions for question continue...someone must answer.

Rozz:
He didn't realize the woman is hurting but instead he picked offense.

We're you the one who hurt her?

What prevents the woman from telling her husband her problems?

She's obviously cheating. I hope you're not like her?

Aurelius1:
If I must be frank with you, I think she's getting emotional and sexual fulfillment elsewhere. For a woman to say that to your face it means water don pass garri. Watch her closely. Try to monitor her calls, chat and movement codedly. Brace yourself for the outcome, because you certainly won't like it.

People fall out of love. Not necessarily because they seeing other people or sexing other people. Not everyone who's getting married are in love, sooo many do it to fulfill societal obligation.

So, what do want us to do? Why not talk to your wife and seek to win her heart back by changing for good (if you are at fault)?

Humanoid01:

You don't judge an issue, especially marital issues, this way. You don't know the OP, neither do you know his wife. Even though there are possibilities that he did something wrong, there's no obvious pointer to that yet. So don't conclude just yet.

Theres always an action before any reaction and his wife is obviously reacting here(obvious pointer),so he should ask his wife what the problem is, so they can resolve it amicably and not him picking offense.

sisisioge:
...and you didn't ask her directly considering that you've known each other intimately for at least 10yrs? We strangers will know what's on her mind, of course!

Lol

Even if he wants advice, not even a backstory provided

Romanoff:
10 years of marriage and you choose to get answers from Nairaland instead of talking to your wife?

I just weak for Una matter.

My Dear,there is nothing weh musa no go see for gate oh,e be things.

Ehen!.go na."pulling my legs".u break leg?