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Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by VULCAN(m): 11:06pm On May 11, 2020
So his father who did a DNA test with him did not know that he adopted the young man and his siblings all those years ago?

Perhaps he forgot. After all 36 yrs is a long time ago angry

Sometimes you read what people write and just wonder whether they should be allowed to contribute to discussions?
Mariangeles:
The possibility that he was adopted without him ever knowing should also be taken into consideration.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Mariangeles(f): 11:09pm On May 11, 2020
VULCAN:
So his father who did a DNA test with him did not know that he adopted the young man and his siblings all those years ago?

Perhaps he forgot. After all 36 yrs is a long time ago angry

Sometimes you read what people write and just wonder whether they should be allowed to contribute to discussions?
grin grin grin

Sorry ooo grin
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by asmovic(m): 11:11pm On May 11, 2020
Evergreen4:
After God, fear women
if not for religion, I would have said, after women, fear God!
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Chirowman(m): 11:11pm On May 11, 2020
fear who no fear woman
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by nnamdizen(m): 11:18pm On May 11, 2020
StreetFight:
Anywhere the devil is too busy to go, he sends a woman.
I'd rather say, anywhere the devil is afraid to go he sends a woman grin
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by VULCAN(m): 11:21pm On May 11, 2020
Go and sin no more grin grin

Mariangeles:
grin grin grin

Sorry ooo grin
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by luvyaself95(m): 11:24pm On May 11, 2020
friday2011:
Since you lack manners and also refuses to comprehend a simple sentence that you typed by yourself, stupid boy

I am sure such are languages you use at your parents, you must have told them in the past like:

Father, are you foolish?

Mother, cant you see?

To you, its normal, but believe me, your life is doomed.

Idiot.
Old cargo fuckoff.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by udemzyudex(m): 11:25pm On May 11, 2020
Mariangeles:
The possibility that he was adopted without him ever knowing should also be taken into consideration.
Including his 2 siblings?
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Fearcom(m): 11:25pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:
Is paternity fraud the only thing committed in marriages? undecided
Stop ignoring the question by asking another question.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Fearcom(m): 11:29pm On May 11, 2020
Akanoaaa:
No matter any wrong a man can do, he will never give you someone else child to nurse and pretend that the child is yours. So think well before you defend evil women
Dont mind her.

Arrant nonsense.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Fearcom(m): 11:31pm On May 11, 2020
kerry57:
Women and secrets
Women and DIRTY secrets
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Fearcom(m):
meetme01:
Not men. The society we live is the bane of these paternity fraud. Alot of men are sterile, they fail to accept. They put the blame on women who is handicapped but just have to find a way out. It's really sad how we stigmatize women who are yet to birth. Both parties are guilty.

Until we change our mindset and accept children are from God, paternity fraud has come to stay in our society.
Hello sir.

You're starting to cook something that some thing that isn't edible.

Too many women have children where some out of the rest aren't the husband's. For some the firstborn isn't his; for others the last born isn't his, and in other cases where there are three to five children in one family, two arent his while the rest of them are.

Now consider the percentage of women who have adulterous affairs without getting pregnant for their boyfriends at all while all their children are their husbands.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Simbrixton(m): 11:46pm On May 11, 2020
bukatyne:
grin

Only women are bad abi?

No husband does wrong? undecided

On this thread, the wife is wrong. In another, it could be the husband.
my fmr gf would defend dese kain of behaviour she would say is d guys fault
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Amhappy(f): 11:58pm On May 11, 2020
maishai:
For everything we say, we should know that there are a million and one thing that could be implied..... God knows how much this man is suffering to protect a stupid ego, you need not say much but I can tell you that It is better being ridiculed as childless than being rediculed fathering another mans child in this society
In my culture those days,i know families whose first daughter has to stay back to bear sons for her father's name, wife marry wife,women coerced to sleep with other men to get pregnant, wife married for only son as a child when he knows nothing about erection and she has to produce children for his name,wife married for a dead son. Many of that has been abolished. However i can categorically say that most men do not prefer to be ridiculed by childlessness trust me. Do you want them to say you are not a man. That's why most people looking for the fruit of the womb blamed the woman but the man maybe the problem. It's never heard or discussed. Getting another man to do the do is mostly a top secret taken to the grave. The sperm donor has to be somebody that cannot trace you and you cannot trace. Not contact whatsoever. So who will even know to ridicule you. If not for a DNA test will this oga ever know?
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by chronique(m): 12:00am On May 12, 2020
This one loud o. Even God in heaven is scared of that woman.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by chronique(m): 12:05am On May 12, 2020
I have always said it. No matter how much I trust my wife, I'm definitely doing DNA test for all my kids. I no want hear say I shoot bird, him mama fly.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by AreaFada2:
Rgade:
There's no way I can be sure that her story is true, but what I am sure of however is that this lady is sapiosexual on her Twitter bio. undecided
This particular story may or may not be true but I have seen it at close quarters.

A relative's 3 kids were not his. The woman lived in a sumptuous house, rode his SUVs but had several boyfriends outside still.

He died suddenly not too long after finding out.

About 35% of firstborn kids belong to another man and about 30% of all kids belong to another man outside.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Nobody: 12:16am On May 12, 2020
friday2011:
Na wa, but me get 1 question,

In the case of swap...

I mean while the nurses are taking care of the babies in the ward, a baby was taken in place of another...

Later on in life, a paternity test was conducted and as expected the result came out negative...

Won't the woman be accused wrongly?
makes real sense, only God dey save man o
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by bukatyne(f): 12:17am On May 12, 2020
Simbrixton:
my fmr gf would defend dese kain of behaviour she would say is d guys fault
Stop writing shorthand angry

Former girlfriend; was that why you japa?
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by orumba(m): 12:23am On May 12, 2020
same again? Never
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by MhizJoyce(f): 12:37am On May 12, 2020
Cuddlebugie:
Wayo Allah na! shocked
These recurring cases of women pinning the biological children of other men on their husbands is unbecoming
I am a woman but I fear women o. cheesy cheesy
Come and cut small corn. grin I like you jor
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by lavenjcrown(m): 1:15am On May 12, 2020
This must be a cook up story.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Raphcom: 1:32am On May 12, 2020
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Simbrixton(m): 1:38am On May 12, 2020
bukatyne:
Stop writing shorthand angry

Former girlfriend; was that why you japa?
talk reasonably bikonu

Not all women are dsame

D ones dat have sense are scarce
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by doitforyou(f): 1:47am On May 12, 2020
eyinjuege:
Exactly.
I've never heard DNA requirement for parents or even siblings.
They do it for your children, if they're in Nigeria and you want to bring them to the US.
This! The tweet is probably false but paternity fraud happens so let me not get in the way of a good NL story lol
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Lifecanbeamazin: 1:49am On May 12, 2020
The problem here is, how do you explain to your
siblings and dad the DNA result �.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by Foxie: 3:11am On May 12, 2020
nikjaneTAILORS:
so many of such in the world today ,,,women can keep secret en and they can manipulate only them know the father of child.


i am a fashion designer please patronize me
Nice one.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by 2016v2017: 3:24am On May 12, 2020
StreetFight:
Anywhere the devil is too busy to go, he sends a woman.
They're the real devil you can see physically
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by 2016v2017: 3:25am On May 12, 2020
Nwodosis:
A woman was the only creature that saw and had one on one physical discussion with the Devil, we are yet to know all they discussed.
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by ATTemi:
Dear wife,
My trust issue is so severe I’ll go 4 DNA test whenever we have a new baby!
Re: A Man Discovered That His Father Is Not His Real Dad 36 Years After by eyinjuege: 4:13am On May 12, 2020
doitforyou:
This! The tweet is probably false but paternity fraud happens so let me not get in the way of a good NL story lol
Yes, I remember an uncle who had to do DNA test in order to bring his children over several years ago. The children were already in their teens and were all from different mothers and one of them failed the test.
He took the ones that passed and we never really understood why he would abandon this child in Nigeria, wasn't sending money for school fees etc until decades later when he confessed to my mum that the child wasn't his
Meanwhile, the child (who is early 40s now, so not a child cheesy) was close to me , my family etc and s(he) never knew till date why the "father" remains so detached and unsupportive. The mum in nigeria is yet to reveal the truth.
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