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At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by adoreyou(m): 6:50am On May 17, 2020 |
A lot of people will come out with an age that is at par with their present status but generally,lookingat the present state of the country would you make a case for someone you presume is old enough to live on his own? let's discuss. |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by OneCorner: 7:01am On May 17, 2020 |
32 is the right age |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Oluromantic: 7:07am On May 17, 2020 |
Many factors determine this, ranging from poverty/wealth to being the only child or one of battalions of children to how many flats are in ur fathers compound. Some parents build boysquatters for their sons to start life with, especially if you're the only son. If you have a job thats far from home or you make it early, nothing stops you from having your own apartment away from home. If the children are much, you may not even feel comfortable eating with them in that house anymore. But at one point or the other, a male child need to go fetch some living on his own even if you have a house build down for you by ur parents so you can be valued. However, not everyone is so lucky. And if there's no good job on time, one can live with a friend or relative outside home till a good job is found. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by MajesticKris: 7:17am On May 17, 2020 |
As soon as he's born |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by iPrevail(m): 7:22am On May 17, 2020 |
After his first sex! |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by AfroMighty(m): 7:37am On May 17, 2020 |
It actually depends on alot of factors, some left their parents house as early as 18(i had a friend the moment he graduated from an apprentice to own his own shop, he rented his own apartment) and some till they graduate and even after graduation they're still living with their parent... while some will never leave their parent because their parent is all they've gat... So bros once you know, you are capable of doing alot on your own, can handle situation responsibly and fend for yourself, you're good to go. |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by ednut1(m): 7:38am On May 17, 2020 |
Stop asking lame questions |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Mariangeles(f): 7:41am On May 17, 2020 |
As soon as he can stand on his own. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Mariangeles(f): 7:43am On May 17, 2020 |
iPrevail: What about the guy who had his at the age of 14? |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by iPrevail(m): 8:40am On May 17, 2020 |
Mariangeles: He's now a man |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by adoreyou(m): 9:17am On May 17, 2020 |
ednut1:Reports have it that people who mind their business live longer.I'd advice you do same. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by adoreyou(m): 9:21am On May 17, 2020 |
iPrevail:Is a man's sex organ a pre-requisite for manhood or a mere tool to pregnate? |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Ybaby: 9:21am On May 17, 2020 |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by adoreyou(m): 9:24am On May 17, 2020 |
Modes,do the needful or do not the naive be enlightened? |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Ybaby: 9:30am On May 17, 2020 |
AfroMighty: The thing about being capable is that you do not become capable until you take on responsibility Similar to turning rice to white..... until the fire is under that pot, that rice has zero chance of becoming white. Too many people afraid to be their own person and they will say it is economy, it is this or that but until they leave and carry responsibility they can never be an adult. Having said that, adulthood is comes with it's challenges but so does crawling - now imagine a 3 year old baby refusing to walk but wants to be crawling all over the place. As a matter of fact, babies after they start walking - once in a while they go back to crawling or ask you to carry them because they cannot come and kee themselves o je but as long as they are still crawling they are still babies not toodlers. Age is only a number and until you leave the nest especially as a man let your blokos be bigger than a timber - you are not an adult and please use a condom - least you bring forth children you cannot feed. The men ruling Nigeria today left home at age 16 or so and in thier 70 they still kick asses of the new men. Those who feel triggered by this - Life is choice and consequences. You choose! On my part - I am sorry for giving you the mirror 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Mariangeles(f): 9:36am On May 17, 2020 |
Ybaby: True but the Nigerian system makes it hard. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Ybaby: 9:42am On May 17, 2020 |
Mariangeles: See! If you look at the challenges you will never swim. He that is in you is bigger than he that is in the challenge In this economy some people just started prospering o - there is always a way and it is by having faith in God, being prayerful and visualising Once we take our minds in imagination to what we want to achieve - Heaven says Yes! It is a strength that can only be learnt through challenges..... hard to teach it.... but it is FAITH Have you see a baby trying to walk it is so funny they stand and it is as if the floor is extremely far - they are scared shitless but they must walk ! they must figure it out!!! they soon find out the floor is not that far jo. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Nobody: 9:47am On May 17, 2020 |
Forget oyibo and their 18year-rule madness, please stay in your family home at least until after your NYSC. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Mariangeles(f): 9:56am On May 17, 2020 |
Ybaby: Mama D mama! You're a scary motivator! I imagine you with a whip shouting "Move! Move!! Move!!!" 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Ybaby: 10:21am On May 17, 2020 |
Mariangeles: I see the great in people but everyone has free will. |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Raalsalghul: 2:12pm On May 17, 2020 |
adoreyou: This topic is stale and has been thrashed several times on this forum. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Man Leave His Father's House? by Mizwisdom(f): 2:23pm On May 17, 2020 |
@18 in my house. 1 Like |
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