rockstarB:

I just checked the BP too and it's really fine. Thank you

That’s really good to know.
I wish I had an easy thing to do to deal with your stress. Just beat it sha/ stay positive/count your blessings. A beautiful life awaits.

I have a 2:1 university degree..
I've been looking for a job...
Even if I can get a simple sewing machine, it'll go a long way.

Visiting Romance and Family sections.

SweetCunt97:
Go do private classes.

Na wetin dey stomach dey carry wetin dey Head.

Aren't we all depressed? It's hard living in Nigeria and not be depressed. We fight so much battles everyday.
Money can't make one truly happy in this country. Even in your air conditioned SUV you still have to battle with ditches. Even in your Banan Island mansion, you still have to grapple with epileptic power supply. How can you be happy with all the sad, hungry faces around?

adoreyou:
I read a story here yesterday about a young lad who committed suicide.A banker by profession with lots to offer if only he got help. My mind begin to race as i tried to process thoughts.Is there any challenge you are facing?Bare it all here help may come

U don run

hmmm! Been dealing with depression for almost two years. Sniper dey house(mumsy innocently bought it against insects and the likes) and i dey reason am constantly. I open teeth(smile and laugh) everyday with constant pain in my chest.

Some mornings, the tears i shed make it impossible for me to keep up with prayer while i pray.

But, Things always happen that make me know that God wants me to hang on and not give up. I am not settled yet but i am not utterly abandoned. I give God glory.

hmmmmm....depression is a very bad thing especially when the victim has no one to rub minds with....this post taught me a lesson, suicide is never an option...money can be replaced but life can't.

I choose to live happily henceforth, at least for the sake of my boy and unborn kid.

Money

bukatyne:


I will be back.

I am back

1. What do you about it? Do you want to back to school on a part-time basis? Or do you want to acquire additional knowledge that will give you the leverage to move to what you want? Or do you want to find passion in what you do? I listened to a TedX talk a while back and it might be of help ( I did not agree with everything in it):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MBaFL7sCb8
What is your purpose? What you want to do outside your work or education? What do you need to achieve it? You can achieve anything you have in mind to if you work at it.

2. Take the lessons and move on

3. Sorry, it is everyone. Are you looking at ways to diversify or modify your business to be relevant post-COVID?

4. You have your hands in many stuffs. What is paramount? What makes your heart beat? What is the thing people are almost sure will make you tick?

5. I like fans of marriage . When you say 'no good prospective man, what do you mean?' What are the qualities you are looking for in a prospective husband and father of your children? Do you want to share here?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3fIZuW9P_M&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&index=9 - another TedX talk (Disclaimer, I have not watched it)

@Headache: You have gotten good advises as regards drinking water, eating fruits and checking your BP. In addition you are worried about too many things which can also produce stress (emotional and mental) which can also affect you physically.

Take it easy, play music and dance naked in front of your mirror.

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Lizzyangel:
hmmmmm....depression is a very bad thing especially when the victim has no one to rub minds with....this post taught me a lesson, suicide is never an option...money can be replaced but life can't.

I choose to live happily henceforth, at least for the sake of my boy and unborn kid.

Stay strong sis

Reading this thread is going to make me depressed

crackland:
Reading this thread is going to make me depressed

Yo bro, where do you get all this stickers or what is it called sef from?

Corona, no salary more responsibilities

Highorbit7O16:
I have a 2:1 university degree..
I've been looking for a job...
Even if I can get a simple sewing machine, it'll go a long way.

sewing machine? For what? Tailoring fashion designing? Are you a lady? How much will it cost? Where are you based?

Yuceeluv:
hmmm! Been dealing with depression for almost two years. Sniper dey house(mumsy innocently bought it against insects and the likes) and i dey reason am constantly. I open teeth(smile and laugh) everyday with constant pain in my chest.

Some mornings, the tears i shed make it impossible for me to keep up with prayer while i pray.

But, Things always happen that make me know that God wants me to hang on and not give up. I am not settled yet but i am not utterly abandoned. I give God glory.

Can you shed more light on what you are passing through sis? who knows, miracle may happen

Corona virus the lockdown when is it going to end affecting my business very much no income since March

Lizzyangel:
hmmmmm....depression is a very bad thing especially when the victim has no one to rub minds with....this post taught me a lesson, suicide is never an option...money can be replaced but life can't.

I choose to live happily henceforth, at least for the sake of my boy and unborn kid.

Sis if i may ask, is it hubby issue? Are you a single mom?

I was financially bouyant two years ago. Things went down under since then. Till now, i am not back on my feet. I feel handicapped most times especially when you are treated anyhow RN by people who adored you when you had money. It is a terrible pain.

emmaodet:


Can you shed more light on what you are passing through sis? who knows, miracle may happen

emmaodet:

Sis if i may ask, is it hubby issue? Are you a single mom?

YES, I'M A SINGLE MOM.

CAPSLOCKED:


YES, I'M A SINGLE MOM.

Hahahaha
Capslocked, oya now, come make i chop you clean mouth

Yuceeluv:
I was financially bouyant two years ago. Things went down under since then. Till now, i am not back on my feet. I feel handicapped most times especially when you are treated anyhow RN by people who adored you when you had money. It is a terrible pain.

Hmmmmmmmmm
I understand you plight sis, been there and i know the mockery and laughing that goes on behind your back.
Most people are wicked, they are always angry and annoyed when you are doing fine hoping you will crash and they can mock you and rub it on your face.
That is why most times when i plan family vacation and i calculate it up to 500k or more, i just kukuma scrap it of my list.
Though am working but have still not gotten off from PPT (Post Poverty Trauma).
It is a disease or syndrome of having Phobia for Poverty. You just have this ingrained fear for falling back into poverty.
Whenever you plan taking some ridiculous actions like buying expensive car or a vacation to europe, you just have this fear, like Poverty lurking in the corner and you hearing is heavy breathing as a constant reminder that any mistake or wrong move, he will pounce on you and devour you.
My sister, you are not the only one in it ooo

emmaodet:


sewing machine? For what? Tailoring fashion designing? Are you a lady? How much will it cost? Where are you based?

Yes, manual sewing machine.
Exactly, fashion designing. It is a skill I've acquired and ready to work.
I'm a young man.
The Tokunbo cost around 25-30K. The brand new is 45K. But as of now, I don't have the luxury of choice.
I'm based in Lagos, Iju Ishaga.

Highorbit7O16:
Yes, manual sewing machine.
Exactly, fashion designing. It is a skill I've acquired and ready to work.
I'm a young man.
The Tokunbo cost around 25-30K. The brand new is 45K. But as of now, I don't have the luxury of choice.
I'm based in Lagos, Iju Ishaga.

Do you have a shop or you will be using your house?
How much have you saved so far towards it?
Atleast, omo to ba sipa ni mama e ma gbe - it is only a baby eager to be carried and has raised his/her arm that the mother will lift.

emmaodet:


Do you have a shop or you will be using your house?
How much have you saved so far towards it?
Atleast, omo to ba sipa ni mama e ma gbe - it is only a baby eager to be carried and has raised his/her arm that the mother will lift.

I'll work from home first, till I'm able to get quite a number of customers. I had 30k savings prior to this Covid 19 lock down. Right now I don't have up to 8k on me, I don't have a job either, so I don't even have any hope abi expectation that so so time I should get so so amount... As in ehn.. iru igbesi aye wo ni mo n gbe bayi tori olorun

Highorbit7O16:
I'll work from home first, till I'm able to get quite a number of customers. I had 30k savings prior to this Covid 19 lock down. Right now I don't have up to 8k on me, I don't have a job either, so I don't even have any hope abi expectation that so so time I should get so so amount... As in ehn.. iru igbesi aye wo ni mo n gbe bayi tori olorun

Even if i want to help you, i can't give you the 25k you needed and moreover since you don't have any savings, what is the assurance you won't spend the money given also since it is not yet complete and other responsibilities will keep encroaching that will eat it.

emmaodet:


Even if i want to help you, i can't give you the 25k you needed and moreover since you don't have any savings, what is the assurance you won't spend the money given also since it is not yet complete and other responsibilities will keep encroaching that will eat it.

Brother,please don't see it that way. All of my spendings are very much calculated and essential. Whatever you can assist me with, believe me, it'll be a step forward. I'm not in anyway wasteful

Highorbit7O16:
Brother,please don't see it that way. All of my spendings are very much calculated and essential. Whatever you can assist me with, believe me, it'll be a step forward. I'm not in anyway wasteful

Hmmmmmmm,
Okay, give me a mention next week Wednesday so that we can take actions.

Moreover, do you have any contact of the machine seller?

Is it the table type or the one that uses leg to operate?

emmaodet:


Hmmmmmmm,
Okay, give me a mention next week Wednesday so that we can take actions.

Moreover, do you have any contact of the machine seller?

Is it the table type or the one that uses leg to operate?

OK. Thank you very much, I'll save the date. I don't have a specific seller phone number but I know where to get it. You'll definitely get proofs and updates.
It's the one that uses leg.

rockstarB:

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Tomorrow dear.

I'm not depressed but I'm worried because I really need something to do and job is forthcoming.

Only God knows when school will resume, i really need a job to support my family

emmaodet:


Yo bro, where do you get all this stickers or what is it called sef from?

The website is right in the post you quoted bruv, check again.

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