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Men what is the main reason why you will choose to marry a middle aged woman over a young woman?

The aim of this thread is not to bash women and this is my personal definition of middle aged woman because it is has standard definition.

Age most times(not always) determines experience. But for me, compatibility is more important than age. She could be younger or older than I am, if our personalities flow well as though we were friends, I'm good to go. Cus it's friendship that keeps marriage going much later. The I love you, I love you will fade away once children ensue.

Drfernandez:
Men what is the main reason why you will choose to marry a middle aged woman over a young woman?

27 is middle aged? Even 40 isn't.

According to Wikipedia, 45yrs - 65yrs is.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_age

bukatyne:
27 is middle aged? Even 40 isn't.

According to Wikipedia, 45yrs - 65yrs is.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_age

That is Wikipedia own and I do not have a problem with it. I have my reason for limiting it between 27 - 40.

bukatyne:
27 is middle aged? Even 40 isn't.

According to Wikipedia, 45yrs - 65yrs is.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_age

Leave Wikipedia. I'm sure you can relate to what the op is saying in this society we find ourself.

Oluromantic:
Leave Wikipedia. I'm sure you can relate to what the op is saying in this society we find ourself.

Thank you.

bukatyne:
27 is middle aged? Even 40 isn't.

According to Wikipedia, 45yrs - 65yrs is.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_age

Lol, this Nairaland people sef, I just smiled when I saw the heading. When does old age now start?

Your erroneous representation of what a formal middle aged woman is notwithstanding, a sane middle aged woman (in your context) is likely to achieve self-realization and, by extension, have a self-conviction than an average young woman. So, it'll be a lot easier to walk and work with her, provided that her conviction is in consonant with yours and both of you have altruistic interest for each other - happy ending is almost certain. 

However, it is like a timebomb waiting for explosion to walk and work with a young woman (or even a man) who has not achieved self-realization and does not have a conviction, because the very moment she achieves self-realization in the future the likelihood of the center holding water will be very slim, especially if she forms a conviction that is not in consonant with yours.

LordKO has spoken.

aeion:
LordKO has spoken.

LOL. It's very obvious that I borrowed those words from you.

LordKO:
LOL. It's very obvious that I borrowed those words from you.

Ok

27-40 is not middle aged.

Start with the correct definitions first of all

Middle age is actually from around 45 to 65 years.

Young is less than 45 years.

So perhaps you might want to check your title.

OP your thread won’t get many meaningful contributions because the first reaction from each poster would be to correct you.

So fix your title and maybe folks might not be distracted and actually discuss what you’re really asking.

Imagine this illiterate saying 27 is middle aged. lol

cococandy:
OP your thread won’t get many meaningful contributions because the first reaction from each poster would be to correct you.

So fix your title and maybe folks might not be distracted and actually discuss what you’re really asking.

It will, from his fellow ageist evening newspaper gang.

Drfernandez:
That is Wikipedia own and I do not have a problem with it. I have my reason for limiting it between 27 - 40.

Pls take proper care when creating threads viewed by different people all over the world, as it can actually show viewers your depth of knowledge and how much thought process you put into your work.
You cannot conjure up your own definitions and put it out there to replace the standard. It causes a lot of confusion.
You also need to be explicit so more people can understand you.
I come in peace.

bukatyne:
27 is middle aged? Even 40 isn't.

According to Wikipedia, 45yrs - 65yrs is.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_age

Op is 23 years old so anyone over 25 is ancient to him.

LordKO:
Your erroneous representation of what a formal middle aged woman is notwithanding, a sane middle aged woman (in your context) is likely to achieve self-realization and, by extension, have a self-conviction than an average young woman. So, it'll be a lot easier to walk and work with her, provided that her conviction is in consonant with yours and both of you have altruistic interest for each other - happy ending is almost certain. 

However, it is like a timebomb waiting for explosion to walk and work with a young woman (or even a man) who has not achieved self-realization and does not have a conviction, because the very moment she achieves self-realization in the future the likelihood of the center holding water will be very slim, especially if she forms a conviction that is not in consonant with yours.

*Consonance

Ishilove:
*Consonance

Consonant as an adjective is correct in the context I used it.

LordKO:
Consonant as an adjective is correct in the context I used it.

You used it as a verb, not an adjective.

Ishilove:
You used it as a verb, not an adjective.

I used it as a predicative adjective. Don't worry, I am still imitating you.

Drfernandez:
That is Wikipedia own and I do not have a problem with it. I have my reason for limiting it between 27 - 40.

No matter your reason(s), you are not at liberty to come up with your personal definition of what constitutes middle age, it is like coming up with a thread and addressing a 5 year old as a toddler and expecting conversations to be built on that false perception.

LordKO:
I used it as a predicative adjective. Don't worry, I am still imitating you.

Odiegwu. It is well o

Jessicafyne:
It will, from his fellow ageist evening newspaper gang.

I mean he will get contributions but nothing really meaningful.

Stupid thread. Of what use is a young woman to me?

Mtcheeew.

Middle-aged people are 50+.

It is insane to call a 28-year-old woman middle-aged.

Drfernandez:
Men what is the main reason why you will choose to marry a middle aged woman over a young woman?

Cos many men are not psychopaths and paedophiles


This op sounds like a waste of school fees

OP

Come and finish what you started.

Drfernandez:
Men what is the main reason why you will choose to marry a middle aged woman over a young woman?

How is 27- 40 middle aged?

Person go just wake up open rubbish thread

cococandy:
OP your thread won’t get many meaningful contributions because the first reaction from each poster would be to correct you.

So fix your title and maybe folks might not be distracted and actually discuss what you’re really asking.

You're right...

Ladyhippolyta88:
How is 27- 40 middle aged?

Person go just wake up open rubbish thread

You are crazy. Adult young age can be 18 - 34 or 12 - 34, mid-age can be 35 - 39 or 35 - 44, middle age can be 40 to 55 or 45 - 65, old age is 66 - infinity.

So, there's nothing wrong in using my own definition to capture my thoughts, because there is no standard for it.