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Acidosis:
Whatever it will take to leave that girl, please do it o. You may die before your time if you spend an hour more with her. Just leave her and her family for good.

lol but I just find the op post funny. That's the most toxic girl you should not even having anything to do with

If they could treat their father that way, be 100% sure they will treat you worse

Acidosis:
Is that how people marry nowadays? You don't bother to investigate the family you're moving into?

But it's possible such may be going on but the lady in question still has respect and care for d father. I simply meant he should transfer his aggression on the lady who lacks empathy and stop calling d poor old man a simp.

You broke up with your girlfriend on the 24th of May and only a few days later you invited another woman to your house to see if she'd probably be 'the one'?


I think we have a sneak peek at why your previous relationship crashed.
It ain't you,it's your weiner

Op Am proud of you but again try, don't be too sensitive like me all the time

It’s good that you know what you don’t want in your life.
How can you tell the man is a “simp” from his voice? And right after acknowledging he has had a stroke? Do you know that some strokes go hand in hand with difficulties with speech and voice changes? Hmm!

Carchoice:
I’m crediting her bank account with T Fare so she leave tomorrow morning. She’s bad omen. She’s one of the many bad eggs out there but we still have the good ones.

Good you were intuitive enough to recognize this.

Whatever you're having with her now, take care not to let it go any further than necessary.

schumastic:
Op the only thing I can say is this.

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

Most times, the Apple is still on the tree

It's good you found out about her character

Good call...one of the quickest ways of telling the kind of person a man/woman is is to watch them interact with their immediate families....especially parents.

merieam16:
* yimu if my head is full of (shlt)like u av spelt it, so ur own head is full of what ? urine... iranu

u wan build future ba, y u no kukukma carry block. radarada

Grow up

Liutay:
Most times, the Apple is still on the tree

Either way the Apple got its attributes from the tree, wether it turns out sweet or bitter, the tree plays a key role to it. That is the whole point, so twisting it is pointless.

@op, good call on your part to free her. I find unkindness in people very unattractive and the lady in question lacks discretion or she grew up thinking its normal to mock one's parents.

holocron:
To start with, you call another man a simp but what would make you invite a woman to your house for some days and you don't touch her, after spending on her and you are now spending more on tfare to send her back. Don't you have better things to do with your time and money? Why won't she disrespect and mock you too just like her simple father who failed to discipline and provide a good masculine and fatherly role model for the daughters.

No need to spit out the morsel of cake already in your mouth by sending her back.

There are no 'good' or 'bad' women. They are like liquid and will take the shape provided by their container ( their male partner). You, the man, must provide her 'shape', though not usually without some emotional/psychological clashes as she vigorously tests your mettle.

You're wise ..

Hathor5:
One of the most useless write-ups I have ever read in my entire life.

Peele

Carchoice:
The same way some men have been brainwashed to believe women are a problem is the same way some “Mothers” have brainwashed their daughters to believe men are a problem.


I’m with this lady right now that came from a far distance to visit me, she came yesterday noon. I actually thought I was meeting someone with 70 percent qualities of what I want in a woman. I gave her the queens treatment. I’m sure she’s wondering why I haven’t touched her and ask for sex.

But something bad happened a while ago, everything was going good before her sister called on video. The discussion was centered on their sick dad(stroke) and his excesses. they were laughing at the man poor man. I could hear the mans voice in the background trying to counter whatever it is they were mocking him with. After the the whole discussion they ended it with, “na mummy get e time, e nor concern me”. Then she asked the sister if their mom is back from where she went to, and I heard the dads voice again trying to voice out his anger that his wife left the house and yet to return and no news of her whereabout. This lady should be around 25 to 27


Now I don’t want to be partial about this experience, the man might have messed up sometime in his life to merit this sad treatment. But we all know these girls got this behavior from their mom. And she instilled this behavior in them. They have lost total respect for the man. I have been really trying to tell her kind of person since she came here but this just summed it.

I’m not bashing women with this thread but pointing out something the society doesn’t talk about. But when it is a woman that is going through this treatment it gets televised.

I’m crediting her bank account with T Fare so she leave tomorrow morning. She’s bad omen. She’s one of the many bad eggs out there but we still have the good ones.


If you marry these kind of women, you go down fast and get turned to someone like their father.

By the way, the man is a simp. I could hear from the voice.

Edited: this thread just shows how corrupted and perverted most of us are. Asking me why did I invite her if don't plan to touch her? Really?

I must commend you for your decision ,you will make a good husband.Not all homes you go in to pick a wife from.Some men will turn blind eye and start complaining of the woman after marriage.Obviously they are their mother's daughters

holocron:
To start with, you call another man a simp but what would make you invite a woman to your house for some days and you don't touch her, after spending on her and you are now spending more on tfare to send her back. Don't you have better things to do with your time and money? Why won't she disrespect and mock you too just like her simple father who failed to discipline and provide a good masculine and fatherly role model for the daughters.

No need to spit out the morsel of cake already in your mouth by sending her back.

There are no 'good' or 'bad' women. They are like liquid and will take the shape provided by their container ( their male partner). You, the man, must provide her 'shape', though not usually without some emotional/psychological clashes as she vigorously tests your mettle.

Bro not every guy has high sexual urge,I for one will do anything to have a respectful, gentle,nice and lively lady around me all day and night, sometimes we need someone to gist with, experience happiness and exhale some inner energy. Everything doesn't have to circle around pusxy and dhick..
Everyone has got an inner demon they are fighting and while some drink it out with alcohol,others smoke it out,some go to viewing centers to hang around people and feel the excitement of others and also catch some excitement too even though they know nothing about football.. so pls don't judge anyone how they chose to live their lives and how they spend their money to buy the comfort they need. Not every guy thinks about sex when a lady is around them and not every girl is dull,some of us do learn a thing or two from the smart ones. Live and let live..
Note: I have dated about 4girls after my split up and never slept with any because the qualities I seek wasn't in any of them, like they say"SWAG IS FOR BOYS WHILE CLASS IS FOR MEN" you don't need to be up to 45years before you attain the wisdom of an adult,some people mature upstairs and go for what they want in life at an early stage in life,while some grow old and still don't know what they want in life.

drmikeadams:
U never meet bad woman before,,,if u like make she be in gas form,,e no go ever take shape provided by container(their male partner and father)

When that happens look very well...she has already been shaped by ANOTHER previously (it will just take more energy than usual, and you may not be equal to the task), or is presently in the process, in competition with you.

holocron:
When that happens look very well...she has already been shaped by ANOTHER previously (it will just take more energy than usual, and you may not be equal to the task), or is presently in the process, in competition with you.

lol. “Already been shaped by ANOTHER”

Please read the thread on front page again , Also read your first comment and this last comment and tell us if you are not confused like bubu. The man doesn’t understand the situation of Nigeria anymore.

Carchoice:
lol. “Already been shaped by ANOTHER”

Please read the thread on front page again , Also read your first comment and this last comment and tell us if you are not confused like bubu. The man doesn’t understand the situation of Nigeria anymore.

I for break am down, though to give proverb and also to interpret dey tire person. Suffice it to say, 'a word is a enough for the wise'. Again, 'He who has ears let him hear.'

Carchoice:
lol. “Already been shaped by ANOTHER”

Please read the thread on front page again , Also read your first comment and this last comment and tell us if you are not confused like bubu. The man doesn’t understand the situation of Nigeria anymore.

On 2nd thought...
You know there are 3 or 4 states of matter, and you can move an object to higher or lower states by applying or removing energy. And some materials require higher energy to transit states. Now, women in relationships with men, has as their default state, liquid form. They constrain themselves to the nature (shape) of the man after testing him vigorously to ensure his worthiness and fitness for purpose. The man has to expend energy/resources to withstand and overcome these tests. If a woman appears inflexible it may mean the man is not acceptable and has failed her tests (does not have capacity/energy/resources), or she has already adjusted to another for a long time (It might take more resources to melt) etc...

Now, capisce (understand)?

holocron:
On 2nd thought...
You know there are 3 or 4 states of matter, and you can move an object to higher or lower states by applying or removing energy. And some materials require higher energy to transit states. Now, women in relationships with men, has as their default state, liquid form. They constrain themselves to the nature (shape) of the man after testing him vigorously to ensure his worthiness and fitness for purpose. If a woman appears inflexible it may mean the man has failed her tests (does not have capacity/energy/resources), or she has already adjusted to another for a long time (It might take more resources to melt) etc...

Now, capisce (understand)?

don’t quote me again. You are stressing my brain.

This answers your questions. You were not there in that family in the past to know the pains and trauma that man may have caused his wife and children when he was agile. If you like give her transportation money, and end the relationship, but nothing guarantees you'd definitely meet a better woman. Daughters are usually caring to their dad, so when a girl acts this way, something could have caused it. There is nothing wrong in sitting her down to ask questions, and talk to her to forgive her dad if he wronged them , but you have chosen to quit.

It is a pity that some ladies believe it's wrong for the OP to have stayed with her without sex, give her queens treatment, and plan towards giving her transport fare. Op wishes to complete what he started, and there is nothing wrong in sleeping with a gal in same house without sex, it shows goods morals/self control.

Carchoice:
Now I don’t want to be partial about this experience, the man might have messed up sometime in his life to merit this sad treatment.

Carchoice:
lol. “Already been shaped by ANOTHER”

Please read the thread on front page again , Also read your first comment and this last comment and tell us if you are not confused like bubu. The man doesn’t understand the situation of Nigeria anymore.

Leave the guy make e dey blow English wey him sef no understand.

LilMissFavvy:
This answers your questions. You were not there in that family in the past to know the pains and trauma that man may have caused his wife and children when he was agile If you like give her transportation money, and end the relationship, but nothing guarantees you'd definitely meet a better woman. Daughters are usually caring to their dad, so when a girl acts this way, something could have caused it. There is nothing wrong in sitting her down to ask questions, and talk to her to forgive her dad if he wronged them , but you have chosen to quit.

It is a pity that some ladies believe it's wrong for the OP to have stayed with her without sex, give her queens treatment, and plan towards giving her transport fare. Op wishes to complete what he started, and there is nothing wrong in sleeping with a gal in same house without sex, it shows goods morals/self control.

My sister, you see this life isn’t too complicated like we humans have made it to be. Whatever the man might have done to them, where’s thy heart? The goodness the Bible talked about. Why hold on to things of the past? Such people don’t go far in life because they are holding on to too much. This is the time to make that man realize his mistake and give thanks to God for giving him a chance to realize his past mistakes. It’s a pity we all are not really the same.

Sending her away is to give the corrections from afar. I know when I bring it up while she’s here, either she might want to all of a sudden put on a good performance before my eyes or she’ll go cold in embarrassment. When she gets to her destination, I’ll table it when she’s settled and observe for a while. But that single experience from her is something I don’t condone. It changes my affection and views of that person. She’s the opposite of me.

Carchoice:
My sister, you see this life isn’t too complicated like we humans have made it to be. Whatever the man might have done to them, where’s thy heart? The goodness the Bible talked about. Why hold on to things of the past? Such people don’t go far in life because they are holding on to too much. This is the time to make that man realize his mistake and give thanks to God for giving him a chance to realize his past mistakes. It’s a pity we all are not really the same.

Sending her away is to give the corrections from afar. I know when I bring it up while she’s here, either she might want to all of a sudden put on a good performance before my eyes or she’ll go cold in embarrassment. When she gets to her destination, I’ll table it when she’s settled and observe for a while. But that single experience from her is something I don’t condone. It changes my affection and views of that person. She’s the opposite of me.

op is a smart guy, you observed and saw the bullet abi bomb. she's damaged goods, no matter what your parents did to you why mock them? mock a very sick man. she's a psychopath. she receiving that call in your presence was God's way of telling and showing you what she's made of.
A girl I wanted to marry last December, made a nasty comment about her father and family and not just that. I put in consideration that they must have wronged her or something but then I observed how she treats people. she shows me love like mad, does everything to make me happy and cries anytime she offends me but bro to me thats sentiment. if you want to see how someone is watch how they treat strangers.
she's always putting this dont mess with me attitude and ready to tackle or trash anyone that messes with her. I understand it must be as a result of what she has been through but I ain't no shrink so I have to bail out of the marriage intention after I tried to correct her and saw she doesn't learn. I bounced, still fucking her on the side though.

RUN AWAY FROM DAMAGED FEMALES

I have actually been to a house where the man of the house does not talk.

If he talks, the wife shouts him down as if he is an slowpoke. And the woman's children are majority girls so they have learnt from their mother.

Like you, I also dumped the lady who took me there..

By the way, the man is a simp. I could hear from the voice.

How could u conclude just like that!
The prayer every man should be praying is that may our health not fail us. Once upon a lion would just suddenly turn to a dove.

Carchoice:
lol. “Already been shaped by ANOTHER”

Please read the thread on front page again , Also read your first comment and this last comment and tell us if you are not confused like bubu. The man doesn’t understand the situation of Nigeria anymore.

Bro, I advise that you quit but without telling her it's because of that video call. Tell her you're quitting due to incompatibility issues. Reason being she is just gonna up her game and put up a better camouflage for the next dude she will be with, concealing her true nature and tricking the unfortunate fellow into marrying her.

ibkayee:
You gave her 'queens treatment' and paid for her Tfare without her having to do anything, looks like you're the simp according to Redpill (or whatever) 'standards' lol

Must every guy Fvck every girl that visit him??

foleskay:
Must every guy Fvck every girl that visit him??

Hey foleskay, I don't know how to handle this PM thing.

Saintmary:
Hey foleskay, I don't know how to handle this PM thing.

Lol. Me too.
08061637389. Hi me on whatsapp pls

ThePussiologist:
op is a smart guy, you observed and saw the bullet abi bomb. she's damaged goods, no matter what your parents did to you why mock them? mock a very sick man. she's a psychopath. she receiving that call in your presence was God's way of telling and showing you what she's made of.
A girl I wanted to marry last December, made a nasty comment about her father and family and not just that. I put in consideration that they must have wronged her or something but then I observed how she treats people. she shows me love like mad, does everything to make me happy and cries anytime she offends me but bro to me thats sentiment. if you want to see how someone is watch how they treat strangers.
she's always putting this dont mess with me attitude and ready to tackle or trash anyone that messes with her. I understand it must be as a result of what she has been through but I ain't no shrink so I have to bail out of the marriage intention after I tried to correct her and saw she doesn't learn. I bounced, still fucking her on the side though.

RUN AWAY FROM DAMAGED FEMALES

Hmnnn, #Damaged females... Reminds me of a girl I really liked so much but she just can't stop speaking ill of her dad at all times, had to do away with her by giving her a simple test and she failed!