God is using this to warn your friend, escape now and be free forever. Cancel the wedding and escape for your life.

Saintinoo:

Those banks are also robbing us, they hardly return the illegal charges on our account.
If you think you can have an angel as a wife, then try and watch your own life and see if you have no fault.

You cant have an angel for a wife or husband but you can choose the kind of demons you deal with.

Ayodejewel:
The babe lacks integrity for real. She was called but still denied and reluctantly agreed. Now she's almost loosing a relationship because of lack of integrity

I think the best thing is for the guy to follow his heart.....he has already made up his mind....

Ogbeni,
Na ur girlfriend, OK, we are sharp guys here. u re not planning any wedding, all u want is an advice from us either you should stop ur relationship with de gal or continue....

no wedding for ur agenda for now OK.

meanwhile wetin dey vest u na de chop alone attitude portrayed by ur girlfriend on de money.

Most people making noise here have collected loans and refused to pay

It is well.

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

The same type of girl, would also steal from her future husband........

The kind of man she needs is hushpuppy.......

Wetabix:

Ogbeni hide your face ordinary 100k enter your account mistakenly.. You go empty ham act good online offline true nature comes out

like I stated earlier, not everyone is like you. Yes u would do that, but there re persons that wouldn't

A nation where fraud is seen as "smartness" has a long way to go.
That wedding should be permanently canceled.

How a person treats a stranger or their property is the best guess of their real behavior.
People can pretend when in close company but not with strangers.

A lack of integrity usually reflects on every part of a person's behavior including fidelity.

He should have his decision on not just this incident but also precious ways she should have proved her integrity.

This might just be one of those one chance moments.

Integrity is very important and shouldn't be underestimated.

Imagine my Wife washing my cloths and pocketing all the money she finds or other cases of I left money here but can't find it.

I think it's the right choice he made, but should have instead suspended it indefinitely. for now

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

Is your friend's fiance related to Bola Ahmed Tinubu If yes, it is in their blood to steal, loot and pretend

Having integrity is priceless. She has lost a viable relationship because of greed.

Emmypam:
Most people making noise here have collected loans and refused to pay

So would you marry such a woman?

I'm sure you will.....please do, and leave us 'noisemakers' alone.

Emmypam:
Most people making noise here have collected loans and refused to pay

Insurance would pay the loan companies nah........

Don't let single people who don't have any idea about relationships mislead u, when money is involved, people integrity can be shaken it may happen to u too op, don't discard 3 years relationship base on sin that can be forgiven, money can compromise anybody integrity,




Note: am not married though.

Where is this damn nigarrr, isorite. Come and comments

Wetabix:

We can do this all day arguing back and forth but deep down we know how the shiiit goes behind the scene..and am not offended with you calling me a criminal at least I know myself. Can you say the same for yourself

...Never called you a criminal bro.Read my comment again I asked you a question.

Not everybody will act the way you are thinking. Period.

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

It depends on how strong he is, if he has the heart to forgive, he can forgive her and corrects her based on the assurance that he's satisfied with every other areas of her life.
If by any way, he's doubtful of strength to bear the forgiveness, he should move on.
Trust and integrity is the only pillar of every relationship.
He should not enter what he will be sorrowful for in life. Broken courtship is better than broken marriage

He should call it off. Integrity is very important in marriage who knows what will happen after the marriage.

Saintinoo:

Those banks are also robbing us, they hardly return the illegal charges on our account.
If you think you can have an angel as a wife, then try and watch your own life and see if you have no fault.

Pro-fraudster.
What is the difference between you and Shekau, Armed robber, and kidnappers?
After all, you also have faults.
SMH

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

Her reason for doing this disgraceful and inconsiderate thing. If she has done something like this b4 or it’s just a first time will determine how to handle the situation.

Sm people do what she’s done not out of greed or dubiousness bt out of ignorance also.

He should forgive, the times are hard, our system makes some people to behave the way they do
until u find urself in her shoes,

True but this may be a warning sign, a very strong one at that.

SSpeter:
quite a though decision to make.

dancok:
Don't let single people who don't have any idea about relationships mislead u, when money is involved, people integrity can be shaken it may happen to u too op, don't discard 3 years relationship base on sin that can be forgiven, money can compromise anybody integrity,




Note: am not married though.

So you would marry that kind of woman...and watch as she drains you of your money and your life?

One guy I once knew cancelled his wedding three days to the day because he discovered his potential bride had lied to him over small matter. Yes, broken engagement, but boy did that guy dodge big wahala.

If they refused to return that money EFCC will jail them.

Money that isn't Your own should be returned.

Saintinoo:

Those banks are also robbing us, they hardly return the illegal charges on our account.
If you think you can have an angel as a wife, then try and watch your own life and see if you have no fault.

You left the issue and started chasing shadows..

Whether banks rob you or not is not a good enough reason to appropriate money that was paid into your account and proceed to deny it when confronted..

That is a lack of integrity and as you can see,this is not a court of law but about marriage..

He can't well have an Angel as a wife but he sure cannot make do with a Devil either..

Financial advisor

Wetabix:

I swear too many hypocrites in this country everyone acting like a saint.. If everyone is this good online then who is committing the crimes offline. Bunch of pretenders.

And you wonder why you are in poverty?
Hustling fraudsters hardly progress because they are penny wise pound foolish.

kalufelix:
How much are we talking about here.... Pay excess money enter my account and be waiting for integrity...integrity bawo... Because she is a woman... She even used the mofo as her next of kin... I need to marry that babe. Hypocrites everywhere!

You guys will be a good match.
Imagine regularly fleecing your wife of money while
she lies and exaggerates to extort you back.
It will be a match made in heaven.

Mikyle:
am I the only one thinking that "is it possible to use someone you are yet to marry as your next of kin"?


I dey smell something.

you can use anyone as a next of kin. A next of kin foes not mean you are the next in line to the persons assets. A next of kin is someone close to you that the bank can contact when something happens to you....even if you don't have a will, the court sees ur parents as nexyt in line if you are unmarried

kikero:





See these ones!

They are the kind that will marry such women and then ten years later will open thread for Nairaland under new name with the title 'If I had known!'

You want to marry a woman who is capable of stealing someone else's money because everyone is a hypocrite?

Well, most of us know that what she did was wrong.And if saying what she did was wrong qualifies me to be called a hypocrite, so be it!

But then, it's none of my business. Happy married life, y'all. And when the thieveing ladies you have married have drained you of your very life force, do open a thread on Nairaland , so that we can have fun mocking thee!

... Don'tmind those two.

Their comments only shows they lack intergity