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| Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 12:17am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Hello guys! Pls, am seeking for advice. I have known this nice lady who is HIV positive for 7 years now. She takes her drugs religiously and doesn't joke with her hospital appointment which is 6 months apart. She is a first liner and the drug is in a small blue container which she takes once daily. The issue at hand now is that I had unprotected sex with her thrice last week. Am scared of contacting the virus now. Please house am I at risk? |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 12:18am On Jul 16, 2020 |
All the advice and insults are welcomed in good faith. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by blackpanthar: 12:28am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:You dont love yourself. Could you not control your urges knowing fully well she is a ticking bomb? This is terrible, you need to go for a series of test and really stop letting your erection decide your direction. Do you really love her enough to end your whole life because of sex with her? Pls check yourself first then if you are negative then totally stop such risky business |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Vyzz: 12:32am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:You knew that she was positive yet u were bold enough to Bleep her without protection.... Nigga u are the boldest man ever.... We need u to replace buratai.. So u looked in the face of Aids and took ur mask off.. Mehn... This if f**king bold.... Damn ...Just Damn ![]() On behalf of swallonir and community... You are a REAL NIGGA
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| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Untainted007: 12:37am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Please which advice again do u want? If you had used ur brain befr acting, you won't be here seeking for advice. It's vice versa if your are positive, marry her and live with her for the rest of ur life and if you are negative, then re-decide how u want to use ur life. Shikena |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by galaxy2020(m): 12:39am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Liar.... |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by chukwuibuipob: 12:44am On Jul 16, 2020 |
HIV/AIDS is not a death sentence..Go to government hospital and register HIV melecine |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Ladylite: 12:55am On Jul 16, 2020 |
We are all sinners. So I won't judge you. We know somethings are bad but we all are guilty of still going ahead to get what we want. Am really sorry you had this experience |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by ayoncox: 2:08am On Jul 16, 2020 |
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| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by nosagold(m): 2:28am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:We all make mistakes my brother. I know you're feeling down but God still loves you enough to pick you up. This is my advice: Do not do that again. Summon courage and go for a HIV test. If it's positive, you'll be able to manage it properly as it's far from a death sentence (you'd be surprised at the number of people that live healthy lives with it). On the other hand, if it's negative, you'll be sure. Cheer up brother, Jesus still loves you. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Legitz: 3:36am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Why did you have unprotected sex with her when you know she is HIV positive |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Danielomisco(m): 4:36am On Jul 16, 2020 |
U are safe cos she is on drug,guys he has done it n acknowledged he messed up gv advice nt saying he is this n dt. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Greatzeus(m): 4:56am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Yes you are. Not because you slept with someone who has HIV but because you did it multiple times. Ignorance about HIV is very high. See your chances of contacting HIV from unprotected sex is very very low,it increases when you have multiple unprotected sex with multiple partners. Sleeping with someone who has HIV doesn't mean you will contact HIV,if it was so, number of those living with HIV would be much much higher. Hiv is contacted when the blood of an infected person enters the blood stream of an uninfected person. Thats why using unsterilised needles or blade or clippers have higher risk than Sex. But most people don't bother about them,only concerned about not getting it through sex. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 5:33am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Danielomisco:Thank you... A doctor I shared my concern with told me not to worry. But I should be careful n never do such again. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 5:38am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Greatzeus:Thanks for enlightening me. Her CD4 is about 700 or so that is why she visit the hospital after 6 months n not 3 months. You mean I should be hopeful that I will be fine? |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 5:41am On Jul 16, 2020 |
nosagold:Thanks for the word of upliftment. I will wait till 3 months before I can perform test. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Tumbulum: 5:41am On Jul 16, 2020 |
If her viral load is undetectable then you may not be at risk cos those who have achieved this state through religious taking of ARV cannot transmit the virus. But I will advice you to go for test after 3months to rule out a possible infection and to keep your mind at peace. Bros no play with fire abeg. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 5:44am On Jul 16, 2020 |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 5:49am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Tumbulum:Does high CD4 mean low viral load? |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Tumbulum: 6:08am On Jul 16, 2020*. Modified: 2:12pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Saxobeat:no. She is the only one who knows if she is undetectable based on her last viral load test meanwhile high cd4 simply means her immune system is doing very well and she low chance of contracting an opportunistic infection. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Nobody: 6:41am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Must you fabricate stories just to seek attention? Nonsense bullshit fabricated story. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 9:37am On Jul 16, 2020 |
LIVINGICON:Oga I didn't fabricate anything. Help with advice Cc Thorpido Threebear Dominique |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by b3llo(m): 9:44am On Jul 16, 2020*. Modified: 10:31am On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:Entertain no fear but be very careful since u made mention she is on first line n she takes her drugs religiously that means she is viraly suppressed. Don't dive raw again n stay safe. Professionals can advise accordingly. The probability of a woman getting HIV from a one time Vaginal Penetration sex with an HIV positive man is 0.08% (or 1 out of 1250 exposures) , while it is 0.04% (1 out of 2500 exposures) for the man when reverse becomes the case. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 1:53pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blackpanthar:I will run test in 3 months time. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by blackpanthar: 4:10pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:Stay strong bro. Be sure she won't get pregnant, this drama just has to be laid to rest |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by adedayoa2(f): 5:19pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Wow, do you love the lady that much? |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Saxobeat(op): 5:24pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blackpanthar:Thanks bro for the support |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by Aadeyinka(m): 6:19pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:you are not serious,is like u see poison and drank it, when you aware she has HIV ,then must u sleep with her and even without protection , may be ur life no get value to u again ,ask her the drugs name and keep using to sustain you for a while, next world u will wise. Pls help me greet my grandpa ,he died last year, tell him i miss him |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by b3llo(m): 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Aadeyinka:bros u harsh o... didn't u see where he said she is consistent with her drugs? Say something comforting Na. All man must die one day. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by thorpido(m): 11:03pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Saxobeat:You have a slim chance of getting infected with HIV because your partner's CD4 count is high and she has been using her drugs religiously. However,it is not impossible to still get infected when you continually have sex with someone with HIV even when they are on drugs.Some things in medicine come with exceptions. Take a test in 3 months just to be sure you're clear. |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by ariklawani(f): 8:55am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Why sleep with her without medical evaluation.... You should have known better.. If you need proper explanation and Treatments.chat this whatapp number.. That's an online health care.... Speak with a doctor.. Is a private online health care...... 0904 606 3043 |
| Re: Help! Am I At Risk Of HIV? by ariklawani(f): 8:57am On Jul 17, 2020 |
You have spoken |
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