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And the Erica lady is busy chasing the waya guy.

Crownedrookie = bunnae = GentRoyal = Aududunine11 = moreb2cum = homo!

You are taking about sanctioning. Abi they should cancel the freaking show.

Can we go back to when we celebrated people for being bright, inspiring, intelligent and successful not peeps with no trace of good morals.

Literally forcing this bbn bullsh*t down our throats

I have a small question: what happens when ladies touch (grope) men?

How come it is not harassment when ladies come around touch men the way they want, the hair, the head, the ears, the chest, the thighs, the buttock, the stomach...?

What exactly is going on? Why is it harassment when men touch women (especially when the woman hasn't complained) but women touching men doesn't constitute harassment?

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Trash

I wonder why people come on to big brother naija thread to cry foul, "I don't watch this nonsense show", X"the show is for kids", bla bla bla. Listen you bizzy body(s), you are not under any duress to watch the show or comment on its thread, you all better grow up and mind your businesses. SMH

Since Witches of Feminist Coven couldn't harm D'banj they have moved on to Kiddwaya

Two romantically involved guy and a girl were danceing and rocking each other both having personal contacts with each other yet you accuse the man of sexual assault when his hands touched her breast

You better have sense Kidd maybe humble and down to earth but still doesn't change the fact that he is a rich kid and can sue the author of this nonesense just has D'banj is suing his accuser


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pmoye:
I have a small question: what happens when ladies touch (grope) men?

How come it is not harassment when ladies come around touch men the way they want, the hair, the head, the ears, the chest, the thighs, the buttock, the stomach...?

What exactly is going on? Why is it harassment when men touch women (especially when the woman hasn't complained) but women touching men doesn't constitute harassment?

Don't mind them. If na woman touch man for sensitive part, nobody will say anything. Sometimes I just feel like spraying these feminists with machine gun.

Most of you watch this show

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCN6KUjwRCU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaPdiZQbKK4

Timil:
If they say Buhari will poopoo today I will say it is a lie.

Buhari went to Oyedepo's house and was shouting where is my boxers gimme my boxers.

Ni gba ti Oyedepo bo si ita Buhari so fun Oyedepo oni bami gbe pata mi mo fe yagbe sinu boxers mi. (When Oyedepo came out Buhari said to him give me my boxers I want to shhit inside it)

Who's ur weed plug?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

Real niggarrrz don't veg out in front of the tv watching bbnaija
Those are for pussy asss niggarrrs


Real niggarrrz smoke some weed, drink enough bottles, make some dope money and bang enough Pussy anyday anytime twice on Wednesday

Mr Niggarr himself. Always masturbating on every thread

uche87:
The Big Brother Naija reality show has kicked off again and as expected, the controversies are slowly emanating with the momentum growing. The usual Saturday party took place days back, with the 20 housemates partying under the influence of alcohol. The joyous activity seemed harmless and fun until an awkward event took place. Terseer Waya, popularly known as Kidd Waya, grabbed the breast of a fellow housemate, Erica, on the dance floor. Erica appeared startled, she swiftly moved away from the 27-year-old son of a Nigerian billionaire, Terry Waya. Kidd Waya expressed no sense of remorse about his action, he even requested to have more time with her which she turned down.

A short video clip of the incident was recorded and uploaded online; it sparked discussions. Many called for the sanctioning of Kidd Waya to serve as a deterrent to other young men who enjoy preying on women and taking undue sexual advantage of them. But nothing of such ever happened for the public to see. It would be recalled that the seemingly unwritten codes of conduct guiding the participants of the reality show forbids sexual harassment and other forms of delinquencies of human beings. It was on this note that Kemen, a participant, was disqualified and evicted in the year 2017, after he appeared to have groped a fellow housemate, TBoss, in the middle of the night. How come Kidd Waya isn't being reprimanded for his odious action in the house? Is it because he is promising and the organizers of the show will be seeking to make some cool cash from his presence in the Big Brother house? Why the double standard? Have the rules changed again? If so, what are the rules? Are women safe in the house?

Sexual harassment as the new pandemic

The issues of sexual harassment and rape in Nigeria are beginning to spread as fast as coronavirus with the majority of the cases going unreported due to the stigma attached to the victims. In Lagos state alone, the police revealed last month that residents had reported 32 separate cases of defilement, rape and other offences related to sexual intercourse, all within six months. A similar crime record is in Kano State. The northern state recorded 42 rape cases in the state between January and May, this year. There is hardly any day that a rape incident isn't is reported on social media, blogs or the mainstream media. But we live with the menace like the new norm in human society.

Since the Big Brother Naija show is being followed by millions of people, the organizers had a chance to make a bold statement against the objectification of women by at least penalizing Kidd Waya with a strike or two. Him going scot-free is an endorsement of his criminal activity, which if not curtailed will snowball into a larger problem that could make the society unsafe for us all. This is the time to put financial interests and ratings aside, to pursue a cause that will better our society.

History of sexual harassment on the BBNaija show

This is not the first time the prying lens of the BBNaija high definition cameras is looking the other way in the face of harassment in the house. The previous season recorded about two clear-cut incidents of sexual molestation which were never looked into. Instead, the video clips became part of the highlights of the show which created more publicity on social media. It appears the initial success of the show is also measured based on social media trends. The show presenter, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu boasted yesterday that the show trended on Twitter on a global scale sometime last week.

Frodd's off and on 'relationship' with Esther looked interesting until he once crossed the line. While lying on the same bed with her on a fateful night as they were covered with a duvet, Frodd appeared to pull down his briefs as he leaned on Esther who expressed resistance. It took the intervention of Big Brother who spoke to Frodd off-camera, to stop him.

Omashola who had earlier barged into Thelma while she was in the bathroom soon marked the infamous register. After the usual Saturday night's party, a drunk Omashola that paraded his erection with pride was seen simulating sex behind a mother of two, Venita. Despite being resisted by her, Omashola seemed persistent. The incident was caught on camera and the videos were circulated online. It was followed by the usual social media engagements but nothing happened. Omashola got away with the incident and even had the gut to give Venita a nickname on stage in front of a large crowd, at the end of the show.

A chance to do the right thing

Kidd Waya is a young man who exudes so much confidence. He is handsome, exposed, well-travelled and hails from a wealthy family. He doesn't hide his background and privileged life. He brags about being confident and it works for him. He appears to be the everyday 'Alpha Male' figure who just go for what they want according to the spate of the hunger. This mentality might not be far from the scandal that rocked the U.S president, Donald Trump before the presidential election in 2016 after an audiotape of him bragging about his exploits with women leaked. The severity of Kidd Waya's move was written over the face of the hapless Erica., but he didn't see it as a big deal. That sense of entitlement was boldly written all over his face. Being tipsy isn't an excuse to touch women inappropriately.

From all indications, the organizers missed a golden opportunity to contribute their quota to the war against sexual harassment in our society, but it is never too late to do the right thing. Kidd Waya can still be given strike(s) or disqualified from the show in the spirit of fairness, equity and justice. I guess Kemen will be shaking his head in surprise and disappointment as he watches Kidd Waya being let off the hook for material gains.

The reputation of the show is already on the line. Come to think of it, BBNaija hardly trends on an educative note. It is all about controversies and scandals. The themes of the show in the past also reek of the expectations of the organizers. Themes like See Gobe, Double Wahala, Pepper Dem Gang reek of one trouble or the other which the housemates are hypocritically punished for when they push their luck too far to gain popularity and entertain the viewers. The essence of the show needs to be redefined as it is losing its initial goals and objectives.

When an offence like this goes unanswered, it is bound to multiply in the nearest future. The authorities of the show are sleeping in a house with a burning roof.

Written by Osayimwen Osahon George

Source: https://www.tori.ng/news/150837/will-this-fresh-scandal-in-bbnaija-show-be-ignored.html

Double Standard. How about ladies who rub their bum bum on a guy's dick while dancing? Is that not sexual harrasment? Most of us ladies also share in the blame. We keep tempting guys while dancing but when they react we call it sexual harrasment. SMH

Rubbish he didn’t even grab her titties. He was holding her and it looked like he was bt not certain yet and she cautiously moves his hand.

They where dancing romantically together that is not sexual harassment pls. People are only saying so because Erica reacted bt sm other gal might not react cos it’s almot normal with dancing. He only ask her to come back so he can’t do it how she’s comfortable with.

Nothing here at all.

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uche87:
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Written by Osayimwen Osahon George

Source: https://www.tori.ng/news/150837/will-this-fresh-scandal-in-bbnaija-show-be-ignored.html

Osayimwen Osahon George..whoever you are. To think that you spent you time researching and writing this article shows that although you write well, you still don't have sense. Do you not see the 18 rated sign boldly written at the top of the screen during the programme? if you want to watch an educative programme where they teach you physics and maths don't you have Cowbell competition on NTA or 'Speakout' on wherever they show it? (ah I remember this program...Speeaaakouttt'). Why do you want to go to Babylon and then complain that they are unholy? you nor get sense o..I'm just saying. Mind your business and seek out educational programmes where they are. Thank you.

BlueRayDick:
Nonesense!

U allow adult male and female who have free access to booze, dance and grind on each other's crotch....but somehow u feel it's inappropriate for them to respond to hormones by touching the other's body in the heat of the matter

Why not just cancel the show entirely?

When too much liberalism is dished out in the guise of been woke, this is the kind of confusion you get. Like a group of adults are holed up in a house where sex, booze, raunchy dressings, seduction is the order of the day & a PG rated show but you still have issues with them grinding each other's crotch?

Ediots!

So she didn't harass him by twerking on his crotch... All the women that have been touching the abs of those men in the house without seeking consent, u didnt see harassment there.

roseb1:
Double Standard. How about ladies who rub their bum bum on a guy's dick while dancing? Is that not sexual harrasment?

It is the confusion & lunacy 21st century wokeness is causing mankind

uche87:
The Big Brother Naija reality show has kicked off again and as expected, the controversies are slowly emanating with the momentum growing. The usual Saturday party took place days back, with the 20 housemates partying under the influence of alcohol. The joyous activity seemed harmless and fun until an awkward event took place. Terseer Waya, popularly known as Kidd Waya, grabbed the breast of a fellow housemate, Erica, on the dance floor. Erica appeared startled, she swiftly moved away from the 27-year-old son of a Nigerian billionaire, Terry Waya. Kidd Waya expressed no sense of remorse about his action, he even requested to have more time with her which she turned down.

A short video clip of the incident was recorded and uploaded online; it sparked discussions. Many called for the sanctioning of Kidd Waya to serve as a deterrent to other young men who enjoy preying on women and taking undue sexual advantage of them. But nothing of such ever happened for the public to see. It would be recalled that the seemingly unwritten codes of conduct guiding the participants of the reality show forbids sexual harassment and other forms of delinquencies of human beings. It was on this note that Kemen, a participant, was disqualified and evicted in the year 2017, after he appeared to have groped a fellow housemate, TBoss, in the middle of the night. How come Kidd Waya isn't being reprimanded for his odious action in the house? Is it because he is promising and the organizers of the show will be seeking to make some cool cash from his presence in the Big Brother house? Why the double standard? Have the rules changed again? If so, what are the rules? Are women safe in the house?

Sexual harassment as the new pandemic

The issues of sexual harassment and rape in Nigeria are beginning to spread as fast as coronavirus with the majority of the cases going unreported due to the stigma attached to the victims. In Lagos state alone, the police revealed last month that residents had reported 32 separate cases of defilement, rape and other offences related to sexual intercourse, all within six months. A similar crime record is in Kano State. The northern state recorded 42 rape cases in the state between January and May, this year. There is hardly any day that a rape incident isn't is reported on social media, blogs or the mainstream media. But we live with the menace like the new norm in human society.

Since the Big Brother Naija show is being followed by millions of people, the organizers had a chance to make a bold statement against the objectification of women by at least penalizing Kidd Waya with a strike or two. Him going scot-free is an endorsement of his criminal activity, which if not curtailed will snowball into a larger problem that could make the society unsafe for us all. This is the time to put financial interests and ratings aside, to pursue a cause that will better our society.

History of sexual harassment on the BBNaija show

This is not the first time the prying lens of the BBNaija high definition cameras is looking the other way in the face of harassment in the house. The previous season recorded about two clear-cut incidents of sexual molestation which were never looked into. Instead, the video clips became part of the highlights of the show which created more publicity on social media. It appears the initial success of the show is also measured based on social media trends. The show presenter, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu boasted yesterday that the show trended on Twitter on a global scale sometime last week.

Frodd's off and on 'relationship' with Esther looked interesting until he once crossed the line. While lying on the same bed with her on a fateful night as they were covered with a duvet, Frodd appeared to pull down his briefs as he leaned on Esther who expressed resistance. It took the intervention of Big Brother who spoke to Frodd off-camera, to stop him.

Omashola who had earlier barged into Thelma while she was in the bathroom soon marked the infamous register. After the usual Saturday night's party, a drunk Omashola that paraded his erection with pride was seen simulating sex behind a mother of two, Venita. Despite being resisted by her, Omashola seemed persistent. The incident was caught on camera and the videos were circulated online. It was followed by the usual social media engagements but nothing happened. Omashola got away with the incident and even had the gut to give Venita a nickname on stage in front of a large crowd, at the end of the show.

A chance to do the right thing

Kidd Waya is a young man who exudes so much confidence. He is handsome, exposed, well-travelled and hails from a wealthy family. He doesn't hide his background and privileged life. He brags about being confident and it works for him. He appears to be the everyday 'Alpha Male' figure who just go for what they want according to the spate of the hunger. This mentality might not be far from the scandal that rocked the U.S president, Donald Trump before the presidential election in 2016 after an audiotape of him bragging about his exploits with women leaked. The severity of Kidd Waya's move was written over the face of the hapless Erica., but he didn't see it as a big deal. That sense of entitlement was boldly written all over his face. Being tipsy isn't an excuse to touch women inappropriately.

From all indications, the organizers missed a golden opportunity to contribute their quota to the war against sexual harassment in our society, but it is never too late to do the right thing. Kidd Waya can still be given strike(s) or disqualified from the show in the spirit of fairness, equity and justice. I guess Kemen will be shaking his head in surprise and disappointment as he watches Kidd Waya being let off the hook for material gains.

The reputation of the show is already on the line. Come to think of it, BBNaija hardly trends on an educative note. It is all about controversies and scandals. The themes of the show in the past also reek of the expectations of the organizers. Themes like See Gobe, Double Wahala, Pepper Dem Gang reek of one trouble or the other which the housemates are hypocritically punished for when they push their luck too far to gain popularity and entertain the viewers. The essence of the show needs to be redefined as it is losing its initial goals and objectives.

When an offence like this goes unanswered, it is bound to multiply in the nearest future. The authorities of the show are sleeping in a house with a burning roof.

Written by Osayimwen Osahon George

Source: https://www.tori.ng/news/150837/will-this-fresh-scandal-in-bbnaija-show-be-ignored.html

is like you are jobless... a show that is filled with immorality and u re complaining of sexual harassment..

if it was the girl that grabbed the guy's dick am sure u won't create a topic about it. u will see it as "normal".

biko if you dnt av work, go to a building site and hustle..

tunjilana:
So she didn't harass him by twerking on his crotch... All the women that have been touching the abs of those men in the house without seeking consent, u didnt see harassment there.

People wey dey mental

What is sickening is the fact that foolish men are not seeing the hand writing on the wall. Women want to eat their cake and have it.

All the narratives here ain't the same thing.
Tboss's issue is a different one...she appeared to be sleeping while kemen put up his act.
She was asked whether she was in the know and she responded that she was asleep, that's why Kemen was disqualified: for taking advantage of a sleeping female housemate


As for Omashola....when did barging into the bathroom become sexual harassment?
In my hostel....A PG hall, where an outsider will hardly differentiate between the male/female blocks...ladies barge in on guys at will, but when a guy barges in on a lady, he becomes a pervert and the whole hall will be upside down.
The one where he was rocking Venita....the same normally happen in clubs and parties, and if the lady doesn't enjoy it, she walks away. I will tell you that most of the ladies enjoy being rocked.
Its a similar story with Kidwayya and Erica....she didn't enjoy it and she walked away.

A lot of this sexual violence thing will begin to get little attention if we want to be analysing every move a guy makes and subject same to sexual harrasment or intimidation.

Kemen' own was sexual harassment (a lot of people still argue that Tboss was in the know but decided to play victim)
The others were just normal happenings

Please....spare the male folk from this sexual harrassment/rape stuffs.

Are there males that rape or harrass females sexually? ...YES
....and I don't support that in any way.

But a lot of lame narratives are coming up to paint the male gender as evil mongers....PLEASE STOP IT.

him dad na billionaire na

And do you how much they will make from kidwaya only through votes

Him papa go Don organise all him billionaire friend to vote


So it's kind of a loss to them and beside they where all on alcohol