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My head is clear now and my decision has been made.

Oga you are married for fvck sake!

Confront and ask your wife if you don't feel comfortable with that chat. Na everything una dey carry come online?

Fix ur insecurities

Maybe she is or maybe she's not
just confront her about it, but not with violence

donstan18:
Oga you are married for fvck sake!

Confront and ask your wife if you don't feel comfortable with that chat. Na everything una dey carry come online?

Sometimes it's good to ask for other opinions so one doesn't act rash or based on emotions. An external eye/mind would think clearer in this scenario.


OP, "missing a client" is a red flag! The corresponding response as well is also a bad pointer that they have booked an appointment. Just wait to gather more evidence. Don't confront her yet

StPete:
Sometimes it's good to ask for other opinions so one doesn't act rash or based on emotions. An external eye/mind would think clearer in this scenario

I disagree with you Bruv. Social media is the wrong place to seek for advice on little marital issues like this.

Just a simple and healthy confronting question to his wife if he feels uncomfortable with the chat. Simple! This isn't a complicating issue atall.

Bringing it here means he's ready to watch people tag his wife a cheat, olosho or possibly advise him with the assumptions that his wife is cheating, which isn't impossible though. But he should confront his wife if he's unsettled and perturbed with the chat.

Some women sha

Ask her what she means by 'missing you' but be prepared to listen pointless & evasive explanations, some emotional blackmail, and a tinge of some expert reverse psychology thrown back at ya for going through her messages in the first place.

If you know what's good for you, get a grip on your emotions & don't react. Just take note of this and keep checking up information regarding this particular person - the frequency of their exchanged calls, the WhatsApp messages.

No woman will ever admit she is cheating on you until you catch her red-handed in the act itself, or perhaps you see a chat where she is specifically talking about having sex.
Anything other than this, it's long expert analysis you're just looking for, lol.

Unnerve:
Ask her what she means by 'missing you' but be prepared to listen to a lot of pointless explanations, emotional blackmail, and some expert reverse psychology back at ya for going through her messages.

If you know what's good for you, get a grip on your emotions & don't react. Just take note of this and keep checking up information regarding this particular person - the frequency of their exchanged calls, the WhatsApp messages.

No woman will ever admit she is cheating on you until you catch her red-handed in the act itself, or perhaps you see a chat where she is specifically talking about having sex. Anything other than this, it's expert analysis you're just looking for, lol.

Thanks.