Oluromantic:
You didn't tell us how long it's been going on. However it's common among couple. Perhaps you guys have been too familiar with each other recently or there's no emotional connection between you too or maybe he has issues on his mind. Counseling or agbo mixtures can help. I do not suggest Viagra

Righteousness89:
Masturbation has been a Spirtual and Physical Destroyer of Man and Home..

It opens the door to a whole lot Physical, Spirtual and Mental Disorder...

Your Hubby needs to understand that he has a Problem Befor there can be a Solution..

Acidosis:
Your topic obviously did not address the main issues. As for PE and ED, I would suggest you try water melon, bananas, berries, and nut. These fruits can help increase blood flow to the penis, thus, giving a man stronger and lasting erection. These fruits work 80% of the time. Viagra should never be encouraged except in situations where other alternatives (with zero side effects) fail.

BTW, there is no correlation whatsoever between PE or ED and masturbation. Masturbation as far as scientific and human behaviour are concerned has NOTHING to do with PE and ED. It can, however, become an addiction and make a mess of an individual's sexual life/interests.

Have it in mind that a stronger erection wouldn't do much for a man that derives better pleasure in mid-night masturbation, hemp, and porn.

His erection, using the recommended remedy, won't be to your advantage but his personal interests (to watch porn and masturbate in the middle of the night) unless you address the bigger issues (addictions, self-centredness, hemp, etc.)

Ningen:
Your husband has not even acknowledge that he has a problem. I mean the fact that he's not even bothered at all signifies that he's not ready to accept necessary changes to his lifestyle.

You need to make him see and accept he has a problem. Do whatever you can to make him visit a doctor together before anything. Only then.

FinewineNg:


Thank you for your suggestions. How do I address the bigger issues you mentioned?

FinewineNg:


For a very long time. As far back as January this year.

It's not about issues in his mind. He is feeling he doesn't owe me sexual satisfaction.

mariahAngel:


Do you have pending issues between you two that you both haven't addressed?
He hasn't always been that way right?

I think he's being cold towards you for a reason you didn't state.

Prof0fficial:
you do deny him most times right....so he opted for d evil act. well...he is not wise but I think you weren't giving him on demand earlier.

FinewineNg:
Please ooo help. What is the tested and trusted solution to Premature ejaculation? My husband doesn't last 5 secs during sex. Immediately he penetrates me, he just cums just like that when I am preparing to enjoy the show. This have been going on for months and he isn't bothered.
The other time his di#&k was inside me and it went flaccid.

He says there is nothing wrong with him.

He doesn't kiss, he is not the romantic type, even to play with my nipples is a big job for him.

I am frustrated to the point I am always Hot 247. My v. Jay is always wet. I need to be made good love to. For 2 months now, no sex, he just masturbates in the middle of the night while watching p@rn on his phone (he is a porn addict and heavy hemp smoker).

I told him we should see our family Doctor but he insisted there is nothing wrong with him.

I have a healthy sexua l libido and I enjoy pre-intimacy nd se x alot but here I am, starved, frustrated, constantly dripping and hungry for it. We have 4 kids and my libido increased after child bearing. I'm in my middle thirties and he is is his mid forties.

I am a 100% clean woman and I maintain very healthy oral and general body hygiene so its not a case of me being a dirty woman.


[/b]Nairalanders please what healthy treatment options are available, where can we get it?[b]

Help me. I can't sleep with another man.

Thank you for your suggestions.

Righteousness89:
Masturbation has been a Spirtual and Physical Destroyer of Man and Home..

It opens the door to a whole lot Physical, Spirtual and Mental Disorder...

Your Hubby needs to understand that he has a Problem Befor there can be a Solution..

Ningen:
Your husband has not even acknowledge that he has a problem. I mean the fact that he's not even bothered at all signifies that he's not ready to accept necessary changes to his lifestyle.

You need to make him see and accept he has a problem. Do whatever you can to make him visit a doctor together before anything. Only then.

FinewineNg:


For a very long time. As far back as January this year.

It's not about issues in his mind. He is feeling he doesn't owe me sexual satisfaction.

Righteousness89:
Masturbation has been a Spirtual and Physical Destroyer of Man and Home..

It opens the door to a whole lot Physical, Spirtual and Mental Disorder...

Your Hubby needs to understand that he has a Problem Befor there can be a Solution..

Amopeekun:
With all you wrote up there, pls get your own stuff and do the do in his presence now.

Buy your s£x stuff and get into your birthday suit or some damn sexy looking lingerie and get down to business right there while he is on his own thing. He is your husband, so no shame. Anytime you feel like getting down and he is not interested, get into the wash room, pamper your body with some nice body oils and get down to business. Let him hear and know.

Abeg no let the kids hear or know o. All the best

RTSC:

He ejaculates quickly.
He does not lack interest in her. He cannot be hard long enough to satisfy her.

This is a health/mental issue, not a lack of interest.

Dotherightthing:
Masturbation has been a Sspirtual and Pphysical Ddestroyer of Mman and Hhome..

It opens the door to a whole lot Pphysical, Sspirtual and Mmental Ddisorder...

Your Hhubby needs to understand that he has a Pproblem Bbefor there can be a Ssolution..

Respectfully Ppressure him to seek Ggodly Ccounsel...

frozen70:


Am glad you already have children

It Seems he is not bothered about his poor sexual prowess

He does alot of masturbation that's why he can't really have a good erection

You too, you can't kill yourself, since you don't want to mess up outside your marriage, get on with your own porn and sort yourself out

You can't remain the way you are, just watch and get satisfied

Even if you report him to his family, they will say you have gotten kids naw, what else do you want

They won't understand that your sexual life needs to be attended to especially now that you are done with kids

Just porn it

tunderoc:
Has he always been a porn addict or masturbator? Do you think maybe at some point he was depressed or something bothered him so much that he spent a lot of time alone? Finally what has always been your mood to his midnight request for your attention before things got to this stage.
Since you still share a bed and you do notice him masturbating I will suggest the next time before he could say Jack get your mouth on the D and tell him it's yours you've been missing it and so need him, suck the living day outta him, get dirty with him why making him realise how much you miss his hard thrusting and strokes. Then don't forget the fruits mention above in the thread. You can add tiger nuts and coconut to it and blend into smoothie for him at night. Come back to thank us o