Seun, Lalasticlala

Irrespective of tribe, me I see both proposal and elaborate wedding as unnecessary paparazzi

helinues:
Irrespective of tribe, me I see both proposal and elaborate wedding as unnecessary paparazzi

Women tend to pressure their men into these..
Like, someone would keep wondering why they think it is so necessary.

BluntNigerian:
Women tend to pressure their men guys into these..
Like, someone would keep wondering why they think it is so necessary.

Real men don't bow to unnecessary pressure

Unnerve:

Men kneel to beg for kpekus?

This is news to me

Ask your friends. Though they will not readily agree

Some cry like babies. Real tears.


I asked how are u?
Seems u are fine.

descarado:


Ask your friends. Though they will not readily agree

Some cry like babies. Real tears.


I asked how are u?
Seems u are fine.

Lol, I'm fine. My apologies for not responding earlier.

I feel like I already know who is behind this, let me watch you for a little more

descarado:


Ask your friends. Though they will not readily agree

Some cry like babies. Real tears.


I asked how are u?
Seems u are fine.

Cry because of kpekus??
Who does that?
..
Those type of men can be totally overthrown and fully controlled by women just with a little patting on the head.

Unnerve:
Proposal or no proposal, in public or in private, I'm just glad that some men are finally realizing they shouldn't kneel to give a woman an engagement ring bought with his money, simply because he wants her to marry him in a wedding dress he will buy for her, inside a venue he will pay for. Lol
Then there's also the fact that he may not be the first man to have had sex with her. Sister has probably had at least two other guys who saw, felt, and explored every inch of her body before him.


I'm a numbers guy, quite rational in my dealings, and I'm yet to deduce the simplest reason behind that whole kneeling facade.
Maybe someone can help me.

I don't think anyone with this type of mindset should get married. It is marriage not survival of the fittest.
And talking about sex and virginity, if you are not one yourself and if you have slept with multiple ladies, why should the lady's sex life before she met you be of concern to you ? It is only when you are a virgin and pure that you should be concerned.
I don't get the idea of kettle calling pot black, isn't that hypocrisy ?

Norano:
I don't think anyone with this type of mindset should get married. It is marriage not survival of the fittest.
And talking about sex and virginity, if you are not one yourself and if you have slept with multiple ladies, why should the lady's sex life before she met you be of concern to you ? It is only when you are a virgin and pure that you should be concerned.
I don't get the idea of kettle calling pot black, isn't that hypocrisy ?

You must be very silly telling me what I should or should not be concerned about.

Unnerve:

Lol, I'm fine. My apologies for not responding earlier.

I feel like I already know who is behind this, let me watch you for a little more

U guessed right

Life is all about choice, allow men that prefer to propose first to do so willingly.

descarado:

U guessed right

Hahaha, we will always identify ourselves. This connection is too strong, I am scared

Unnerve:

Hahaha, we will always identify ourselves. This connection is too strong, I am scared

Unnerve:

You must be very silly telling me what I should or should not be concerned about.

You are very stupid for calling me silly, I guess you are guilty of what I said seeing that you choose to insult me instead of addressing what I said.
Bloody hypocrite! Lol, Rational person indeed, fool.

descarado:

Nuttella:
Life is all about choice, allow men that prefer to propose first to do so willingly.

What would you say about ladies that insist on their would-be hisbanbds that the Engagement Ring Must not be below N100k, and that it must be 18Carat Gold with pure diamond crest.?
That one too is choice??
And when the man continues to explain to her that he can't afford to spend such amount of money on a single ring, she would then decide to make everything so emotionally draining for the guy.
Is that one choice too??

BluntNigerian:
What would you say about ladies that insist on their would-be hisbanbds that the Engagement Ring Must not be below N100k, and that it must be 18Carat Gold with pure diamond crest.?
That one too is choice??
And when the man continues to explain to her that he can't afford to spend such amount of money on a single ring, she would then decide to make everything so emotionally draining for the guy.
Is that one choice too??

Someone on this thread said, just get her pregnant to avoid things like this.
Don't know how effective it is, but it may be a good tactic nonetheless

BluntNigerian:
What would you say about ladies that insist on their would-be hisbanbds that the Engagement Ring Must not be below N100k, and that it must be 18Carat Gold with pure diamond crest.?
That one too is choice??
And when the man continues to explain to her that he can't afford to spend such amount of money on a single ring, she would then decide to make everything so emotionally draining for the guy.
Is that one choice too??

Before a lady would make such demand, she must have sized the pocket of her would-be husband, you can't be dating an averagely comfortable man and expect him to buy you 18carat Gold, its just and illusion. Whether you use aboki ring to propose or not, a lady that wants to be with you will accept it happily, remember, we women love marriage more than anything.

Nuttella:
Before a lady would make such demand, she must have sized the pocket of her would-be husband, you can't be dating an averagely comfortable man and expect him to buy you 18carat Gold, its just and illusion. Whether you use aboki ring to propose or not, a lady that wants to be with you will accept it happily, remember, we women love marriage more than anything.

Your understand of the whole scenario is very balanced, and it is good to go with..
Some people do not see it the way you are seeing it..
Trust Me.

Lalasticlala