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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by rs172(m): 7:47am On Aug 15, 2020
Kaysalas:

Hi, kindly give me details of the Cabale french Language school in Cotonou




Hello bro, i can't really remember the address again, but i know their head office is in Gbegamey.

When you get to Tokpa, just tell the bike man you're going to
Ce be lae Gbegamey..

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by justwise(m): 8:04am On Aug 15, 2020
justwise:
@All

Please lets not derail this thread by arguing about racism in America vs Germany. It was not the purpose of this thread it was just a mention.

You all are free to open another thread to trash that out.

Thank you.

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Cande75: 8:17am On Aug 15, 2020
rs172:

Hello bro, i can't really remember the address again, but i know their head office is in Gbegamey.

When you get to Tokpa, just tell the bike man you're going to
Ce be lae Gbegamey..

Tokpa Market smiley
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Ishilove: 8:34am On Aug 15, 2020
justwise:

Don't mind them.
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by justwise(m): 9:31am On Aug 15, 2020
Ishilove:

Don't mind them.

You know how quickly thread get derailed especially when it comes to argument about race or tribe.

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by evergreen9: 10:57am On Aug 15, 2020
[quote author=Danielhouston post=92778310]In other news, the weather is beautiful today and I’m having a beer outside with my colleagues. Some of you have been praying for me or wishing me well and I can feel it. Good things have been happening to me lately and I want you guys to know. So thank you.

Remember I told you guys that I could not rent my own apartment because of my Schufa problem? I found an apartment last week and I signed the contract. I now have my own apartment and don’t have to share with anybody. The Landlord didn’t worry about the Schufa. I have other testimonies but I’m still thinking if I should share them or not. I’ll give it time.

I just want to say, thank you for the kind wishes and for riding with me. Even though I’m not obligated to write these things, we are benefitting from each other in some way. I am sharing, I am healing, you are listening, we are learning, and we are succeeding.
I’ll be out of Germany for a few days but I’ll check in from time to time. I just may not be able to write long texts until I get back.

Next, I’ll talk about my travel story to Germany and my first months here, including my student life. Also about other countries, plus more pictures. Thanks [/quote]

This would be interesting. I look forward to your post.

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by willy2000(m): 12:39pm On Aug 15, 2020
It is funny, how german threads are always going south, there is more to this than just nairaland.

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by pocohantas(f): 2:54pm On Aug 15, 2020
Danielhouston:
14. Avoid fines. Buy a ticket for the train and do the right thing. You can risk it if you want but if they catch you, you’ll pay €60 fine when you could have just bought a ticket of €2,80 and saved yourself the trouble.

15. Lastly, spend your money and enjoy yourself. Don’t just save and save without enjoying your hard work. When you die, people who don’t know how you suffered for the money, will be the ones to spend it. Yes, students die too.

Other Nigerian students in Germany pls feel free to add to the post.

Nawa! This one touch me for chest. grin grin

Nice thread, Daniel. There is a lesson for everyone here. I am on page 40 now, we move...
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Nobody: 3:03pm On Aug 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Nawa! This one touch me for chest. grin grin

Nice thread, Daniel. There is a lesson for everyone here. I am on page 40 now, we move...
good afternoon ma.how's your day being?
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Keiris: 4:22pm On Aug 15, 2020
Danielhouston:
When I moved to the house, I heard of another guy who had died, just months before I moved in. He died in front of the kitchen. They said he drank too much alcohol and choked in his vomit. They didn’t even know he was dead. They walked past him and went to the toilet. They thought he was drunk again and sleeping. Until the next day, he had not woken up. That was when they knew.

A girl died from overdose during sex with her boyfriend, after taking GHB (I think I mentioned that before). Some people also commit suicide out of loneliness. Germany has a culture of “mind your business” and people tend to keep to themselves. Some people are so lonely that they’ve not spoken to anyone in weeks. Some of them get a dog.

Even children don’t visit their parents. They just keep them in a home and don’t see them in months. They don’t even expect their children to take care of them. That’s why some of them always make sure they have pensions and don’t care about getting married or having kids. They probably know they’ll end up in a home when they get old, and a social worker can take care of them.

This is a falsehood. Children not visiting their parents is an exception not the rule. The average German is very conservative when it comes to family values and has very close family ties. I wonder how people come to the conclusion that Germans are not close to their parents and neglect them. How many such families have you known?

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Keiris: 4:25pm On Aug 15, 2020
Danielhouston:


I’m telling, learning German is NOT easy. I have a B1 language certificate and I’m still struggling. A lot of words have the same meaning and many words mean the same thing.

For example: in English we say “the” bag. “The” in German could be “die, den, das, der” and you have to use them appropriately even though they all mean the same thing.

About racism, I’ve been called the N-word but that was mostly online and by 2 Russian guys in a train in Berlin. It was worse in 2015 during the refugee crisis in Europe. People would yell at me through their windows “Go back to Africa”, “Monkey”. But that was in small cities. There are no strong laws in Germany that protects people of color against racism but we’re constantly fighting against it. They recently established an anti-racism unit but I don’t know if it’s functional.

Germany has a very strong privacy law that racists tend to benefit from. You can experience racism and not be able to film the racist or post their picture online. You can only share that information with the police and your lawyer. You also need to have a witness or evidence. Other kinds of racism are institutional and economic. You don’t see them but they affect the way you’re being treated when you need something.

I’ve experienced more racism from Russians, Polish, Arabs and Turks in Germany than I have from Germans. Germany is no where near USA when it comes to racism. USA takes the cake. The thing is, Germans are VERY good at pretending. Even if they don’t like you, they will still be polite to you but you’ll know by the way they treat you. They also care SO MUCH about their reputation because of their history.

Germans won't like you if you don't speak German properly no matter if you are black or white so they not liking you could be because after seven years you still don't speak German properly.

Die, den, der, das differ in meaning.
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by emeka55: 4:49pm On Aug 15, 2020
Keiris:


Germans won't like you if you don't speak German properly no matter if you are black or white so they not liking you could be because after seven years you still don't speak German properly.

Die, den, der, das differ in meaning.

You are questioning how he came to the conclusion that Germans don’t visit their parents, then YOU came to the conclusion that Germans don’t like him or anybody that does not speak Deutsch properly. You see how some of u shoot ur selves in the leg? Who told u told you that Germans don’t like people who can’t speak German properly?? So which means Germans hate almost every foreigner in Germany?? But they still offer jobs to people who don’t even speak German. Make it make sense??

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by wizvicbankz: 4:54pm On Aug 15, 2020
Keiris:


Germans won't like you if you don't speak German properly no matter if you are black or white so they not liking you could be because after seven years you still don't speak German properly.

Die, den, der, das differ in meaning.

Sense is far from you

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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Keiris: 4:58pm On Aug 15, 2020
emeka55:


You are questioning how he came to the conclusion that Germans don’t visit their parents, then YOU came to the conclusion that Germans don’t like him or anybody that does not speak Deutsch properly. You see how some of u shoot ur selves in the leg? Who told u told you that Germans don’t like people who can’t speak German properly?? So which means Germans hate almost every foreigner in Germany?? But they still offer jobs to people who don’t even speak German. Make it make sense??

Germans will always tell you that you have to speak German when you live in Germany. You will make this experience countless times if you don't learn German. Even when immigration is discussed on TV in political talkshows the issue that some foreigners refuse to learn German will always come up. When Germans complain about foreigners one of the reasons is that some of them refuse to learn to speak German.

How did you come to the conclusion that almost every foreigner doesn't speak German in Germany? undecided undecided undecided
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Keiris: 4:59pm On Aug 15, 2020
wizvicbankz:


Sense is far from you

Just because you are not capable of learning German?
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by emeka55: 5:01pm On Aug 15, 2020
Keiris:


Germans will always tell you that you have to speak German when you live in Germany. You will make this experience countless times if you don't learn German. Even when immigration is discussed on TV in political talkshows the issue that some foreigners refuse to learn German will always come up. When Germans complain about foreigners one of the reasons is that some of them refuse to learn to speak German.

How did you come to the conclusion that almost every foreigner doesn't speak German in Germany? undecided undecided undecided

So because Germans tell you that you have to speak German that means they won’t like you if you don’t speak German??
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Olalekank(m): 5:19pm On Aug 15, 2020
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Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Keiris: 5:31pm On Aug 15, 2020
Why were my posts hidden?
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Olabode971(f): 6:11pm On Aug 15, 2020
You pipu should not deray this thread ohh..


Danileshouston didn't take permission from you, before coming to share his experience ooh..


So, all thread deraalers should take caution oh
Re: Being Black In Berlin/germany by Gerrard59(m): 6:13pm On Aug 15, 2020
There seems to be this belief that OP's tales cannot be critiqued or objected whereas this isn't the diary section where only the poster is allowed to post. The reality is: not everyone will agree with what OP writes no matter how coherent he writes. People will always have divergent opinions especially if they believe their experiences need to be aired to counter what they read. As long as these opinions are logical, coherent and free of insults, there's no point hiding posts or banning moniker because they disagreed with the OP. If OP doesn't want divergent opinions on a free-to-comment thread, it's best the thread gets moved to a section where only his posts will be allowed.

Funny enough, people who believe OP's posts should be the alpha and omega (note: on a free-to-comment thread) are those who claim to promote free speech, liberal opinions and diversity. However, in reality just like we've witnessed, they practice what they don't preach while preaching what they don't practice.

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