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I am of the opinion that men should enjoy a single life between the age of 20-29, they should enjoy their finance and time themselves before they get into a life long commitment and raising kids which would take a toll on their cash & time.

So I want to ask other men's opinion, is it advisable to carry the responsibility of raising a family early?

modified: Women are also free to give their opinions.

Twenty8:
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So I want to ask other men's opinion, is it advisable to carry the responsibility of raising a family early?

yes.
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IF YOU ARE MATURED ENOUGH.

Twenty8:
I am of the opinion that men should enjoy a single life between the age of 20-29, they should enjoy their finance and time themselves before they get into a life long commitment and raising kids which would take a toll on their cash & time.

So I want to ask other men's opinion, is it advisable to carry the responsibility of raising a family early?

You'll have to clarify what you mean by the bolded. In your opinion, does "enjoyment" cease the moment a man gets married?
While there is no hard and fast rule on the time a man should get married, some unmarried folks use questions like this to shield themselves from the pressures of being unmarried.
No time is too early or too late for a man to get married.

Yes, if you have the means,its good to start being responsible for as early as you can

IMO, marriage should not even be considered at all irrespective of the age.

Blackbelly:
You'll have to clarify what you mean by the bolded. In your opinion, does "enjoyment" cease the moment a man gets married?

By "enjoyment", I mean having to do your own things without having to make sacrifices, and also having time for yourself.

Blackbelly:
You'll have to clarify what you mean by the bolded. In your opinion, does "enjoyment" cease the moment a man gets married?
While there is no hard and fast rule on the time a man should get married, some unmarried folks use questions like this to shield themselves from the pressures of being unmarried.
No time is too early or too late for a man to get married.

I am also waiting.

I know the enjoyment that stops upon marriage.

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fati2001:
yes.
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IF YOU ARE MATURED ENOUGH.

Na so them talk oh, but if you enter fully them go turn ur matured to pre-mature

Men should have dreams and aspirations.

Marriage hardly favours the male folks.

Going into it earlier further reduces your chances of success ; adding more financial, physical, mental and emotional stress upon him. Plus whenever you fail to deliver at any point, the society labels you as irresponsible.


Why choose to add insult upon sufferings and then die early?

ojun50:
Na so them talk oh, but if you enter fully them go turn ur matured to pre-mature

yes for those who lost their umbilical cord.

fati2001:
yes for those who lost their umbilical cord.

I hear you

Marriage isn't all about maturity or readiness, it's not about your financial level or good character, it's not all about faithfulness or respect, it's not about nuggets or relationship advice, it's not about the experiences you've had from previous relationships, nether is it all about beauty or handsomeness.

It's simply all about NOTHING.

E no get manual, just marry.

At 30 getting to 40 I will still be rocking my life...

People are different so they will make different choices. It is neither advisable nor to be discouraged. It depends on the individual, his circumstances and preference.