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| She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer(op): 7:15pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce. What should I do? |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Aboks(m): 7:26pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Marry second wife 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer(op): 7:32pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Aboks:We don't marry two wives, as Christians |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by html14java(f): 7:33pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:Deal with it then 20 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Aboks(m): 7:35pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:Divorce is the answer leave all those story she dey tell you She is tired of the marriage period 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Hathor5(f): 7:50pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Fake story. 3 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 7:50pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:How come? Does she have any health issues? |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by MightySparrow: 7:56pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:Marry her afresh. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:00pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Wetin Amadioha never see for shrine... 
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| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ishilove: 8:01pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:What is her reason for the loss of interest? 1 Like |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer(op): 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself. |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by thorpido(m): 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
She probably has a fear of pregnancy and the thought of having another CS has created a fear in her. You're probably not doing it right too which makes her not yearn for it. 9 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer(op): 8:03pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Ishilove:She gave no reason except that she delivered thru CS 10 months ago |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:03pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:So what advice do you want? Is it to patronise ashawo house, or buying more soap?? Go back to drawing board and work things out as Man, or keep cying. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:04pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Oso enye m aka.... |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:She must be going through postpartum depression. You need to help her overcome the challenges she's going through. Is it her first child? 6 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer(op): 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Ishilove:What pained me the most is that she covered her face when she finally agreed recently. |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ishilove: 8:05pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:10 months is a long time to avoid sex after CS. Have you asked her how she expects you to cope and what options are available? |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ishilove: 8:06pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:Oh this is bad. I think she is traumatised over something. It's a thing of the mind and she has switched off. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:07pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Munzy14:I di very harsh!  I ma ihe nwoke mmadu gabiga? |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by HopeSpencer(op): 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Is her first |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Munzy14:Onye? |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:11pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Onwe kwara nu ihe ozo na abughi konji... Ihe siri ike nowadays, nwaanyi nwere ike ori ju be afo, ma ya fodukwa ume eji buru weight oga.... 2 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:11pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
HopeSpencer:No wonder. The experience is all new for the both of you. So sorry but you need to be patient with her and help her pull through. 1 Like |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:12pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:OP, choro agbatara ya oso na... Imagine, the wife cover face last time, OP collected his ifeoma ya. 1 Like |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:13pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Munzy14:Onye onu ojoo! I think she's going through postpartum depression. |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:14pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Munzy14:It's probably all new to him too. It's good he brought it here so people with similar experience can help him. |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:16pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:For 10months? OP must be on SOS cry...Inukwa 10months nwoke mmadu eme tu be ihe onu. |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:18pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:The duration is long. |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Munzy14:I think it is a very complicated and delicate issue. It is up to him how soon she recovers. Her recovery depends on him. You know what I think? Not all women fully recover from postpartum depression. I was thinking about it one time that how come the behaviour of some women totally change after having a baby? Like, they become a different person from who they formerly were... 2 Likes |
| Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:36pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Therapy should be handy...if not , OP ga luru nwaanyi ozo... 1 Like |
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