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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 8:42pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Therapy should be handy...if not , OP ga luru nwaanyi ozo...

Ihunanya kwanu?
I che na owu mmadu nile ji ike e ji alu nwanyi abuo?

O di ka I wu onye obi chichichi? grin
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by crackhaus: 8:43pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:

What pained me the most is that she covered her face when she finally agreed recently.
SMH


I just can't...


***
Is having a sidechic also against your religion? angry

She doesn't even need to be a sidechic, could just be a female friend who doesn't mind having sex with you once every 2months... lipsrsealed

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by DenreleDave(m): 8:44pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce.

What should I do?

Is divorce the next thing u r thinking all bcox she said dt.


U were never ready for this marriage sir.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 8:50pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Ihunanya kwanu?
I che na owu mmadu nile ji ike e ji alu nwanyi abuo?

O di ka I wu onye obi chichichi? grin
Ihunanya di, mana onwere spices na eme ya tor gbuo onwe ya...


A wu m onye obioma o, mana ,I like positivity.


M wuru op, i will try and work things out, but it will be disappointing if she isn't willing.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 9:00pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Ihunanya di, mana onwere spices na eme ya tor gbuo onwe ya...


A wu m onye obioma o, mana ,I like positivity.


M wuru op, i will try and work things out, but it will be disappointing if she isn't willing.

Yeah. Is the Op's wife willing? That'll determine how things turn out for them
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 9:13pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Yeah. Is the Op's wife willing? That'll determine how things turn out for them
OP's wife is not....Onye gwara di ya na , onwe ghi iko a na akwa again...cheesy
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:14pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.

It normal Give her time she is nursing the trauma of the child birth even if she had normal delivery she could still show the sign of fear.you needs to pet her like a new Lady in your life make her feel like you her see her for the first time. Does she dress well and make her hair talk to her because it may be sign of depression as well

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 9:21pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

OP's wife is not....Onye gwara di ya na , onwe ghi iko a na akwa again...cheesy

Iko k'owu mmeko di na nwanyi?

Igbo gi ehn...o puru mpi grin
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 9:28pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Iko k'owu mmeko di na nwanyi?

Igbo gi ehn...o puru mpi grin
hahahaha, ok, ya wuru enyi nwoke na nwaanyi, o bu iko, ya wuru di na nwunye, o bu mmeko?..cheesy


Why not mmeko enyi nwoke na nwunye...
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by dearygally: 9:35pm On Oct 28, 2020
She is most likely just feeling insecure about her body and hasn't come to terms with her scars..stop trying to take off her clothes n kiss her neck her but leave her breasts.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 9:38pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

hahahaha, ok, ya wuru enyi nwoke na nwaanyi, o bu iko, ya wuru di na nwunye, o bu mmeko?..cheesy

Owuya na


Why not mmeko enyi nwoke na nwunye...

Aghotahu'm nke a...

I miniri nwanyi nu na di I gba n'eshi?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 9:42pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:

Owuya na



Aghotahu'm nke a...
I miniri nwanyi nu na di I gba n'eshi?
Sex for married people is mmeko.

sex for boyfriend/girl friend is ikwa iko...cheesy

Why the difference in name,When its same sex na?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by CHoccolaTE: 9:53pm On Oct 28, 2020
HopeSpencer:


No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.

You forced her and she covered face as if someone is raping her because guess what,

Forced sex is actually rape.

Yes, your being married doesn't change that. And here you are talking about how you felt rejected as if you are the victim here, my friend will you gedifok!!!

If she is still breastfeeding she will have very low to non existent sex drive because thats how the bodies of nursing mothers work, their sex drives nose dive because nature and evolution has programmed females to not want sex (pregnancy) when there is a little one still depending on them.

When I say marriage is not natural frustrated men will jump on my neck to start yarning rubbish. How is a man with very high sex drive supposed to cope for the two years his wife breastfeeds their baby with low sex drive? Or not even wanting sex at all. Some breast feeding moms dont even have ovulation or monthly cycle or period until they wean their babies so the vagina is extremely dry and sex is usually painful.

Stop raping your wife Mr man, help her get into the mood instead of having selfish sex like many of you married men do, you get married then start having only 30seconds sex that satisfies only yourself and yourself alone then you start wondering why your wife does not want to keep submitting her vagina for you to use like say na short time ashawo you carry.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by mariahAngel(f): 9:53pm On Oct 28, 2020
Munzy14:

Sex for married people is mmeko.


sex for boyfriend/girl friend is ikwa iko...cheesy


Why the difference in name,When its same sex na?


One is fornication (iko), while the other is sexual intercourse (mmeko)
I hope that answers your curiosity grin
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 9:59pm On Oct 28, 2020
mariahAngel:

One is fornication (iko), while the other is sexual intercourse (mmeko) I hope that answers your curiosity grin
akuko....humans...grin
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by adegbenga80592: 11:02pm On Oct 28, 2020
: I di very harsh! I ma ihe nwoke mmadu gabiga? Onwe kwara nu ihe ozo na abughi konji...Ihe siri ike nowadays, nwaanyi nwere ike ori ju be afo, ma ya fodukwa ume eji buru weight oga....
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by pozehnani(f): 11:53pm On Oct 28, 2020
Allow her to rest na. Somebody just gave birth you're forcing yourself on her. I even thought it was on normal grounds. She's prolly passing through postpartum stage. Give her time, she'll come around.
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Nobody: 12:09am On Oct 29, 2020
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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by frozen70(f): 1:28am On Oct 29, 2020
HopeSpencer:
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce.

What should I do?

There is no smoke with out fire

Trace the smoke and you will find out where the fire is

What kind of crazy idea is that

If you have been having good communication with her, definitely she will open up

If you guys have not been having good communication before now, then it's either you are the problem or she has lost hope and confidence in you

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Nobody: 4:03am On Oct 29, 2020
Wetin she con want?

Nah death be that now
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by baby124: 4:21am On Oct 29, 2020
Super story thread grin
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Blissquare(f): 5:32am On Oct 29, 2020
This is how some men allow themselves to be manipulated by women. No matter what she is going through, she knows the implication of ten months abstinence in marriage. She should be sober and worried instead of adamant. It is even easier for a woman that had C.S. to have sex than the one who had a vaginal birth. At the same time, there is something that you are not doing right. Maybe you should try being more romantic or stop giving her everything she asks for. Try to take your bath before making any nice and brush your teeth very well. Use perfume. I don't mean to sound harsh but you have to try all probabilities.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by CHoccolaTE: 6:02am On Oct 29, 2020
Blissquare:
This is how some men allow themselves to be manipulated by women. No matter what she is going through, she knows the implication of ten months abstinence in marriage. She should be sober and worried instead of adamant. It is even easier for a woman that had C.S. to have sex than the one who had a vaginal birth. At the same time, there is something that you are not doing right. Maybe you should try being more romantic or stop giving her everything she asks for. Try to take your bath before making any nice and brush your teeth very well. Use perfume. I don't mean to sound harsh but you have to try all probabilities.


There is too much ignorance in this comment, no way the person writing it is female.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by BigDawsNet: 8:52am On Oct 29, 2020
You both need a sex teraphy

Just $100 /hr
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by johhbekeboh09: 9:20am On Oct 29, 2020
HopeSpencer:

We don't marry two wives, as Christians
Your ages?
Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:58am On Oct 29, 2020
Munzy14 and mariahAngel, you both know commenting in any form of language except English is against the rule here right? You guys are disrupting the flow of comments here.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by englois: 10:40am On Oct 29, 2020
@ OP
Hope you're not passing subtle messages to her while with her. Examples
(1) Babe, you look beautiful but this your new weight na something
(2) Complaining of sagging breast
(3) Not helping out with the baby and some chores

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Ayo2004: 10:56am On Oct 29, 2020
HopeSpencer:
She made it clear that she is no longer interested in sex. And she's never ready for divorce.

What should I do?
Give her hor*y pills or throw her out of your house.......
I don give u plots for the movie wey u dey produce grin

Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 1:18pm On Oct 29, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
Mun.zy14 and maria.hAngel, you both know commenting in any form of language except English is against the rule here right? You guys are disrupting the flow of comments here.
Which of the rules?

Or, are u the only one here?


This thread has more 1k views and as well more than 15 comments..Are u smarter than those people? who ignored.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:27pm On Oct 29, 2020
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Munzy14:

Which of the rules?

Or, are u the only one here?


This thread has more 1k views and as well more than 15 comments..Are u smarter than those people? who ignored.
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Is English that hard for you, that you can't communicate solely with it?

So me choosing to point out a wrong ain't smart, but people ignoring it are smart? Are you sure you're ok upstairs?

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Munzy14(m): 2:09pm On Oct 29, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
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Is English that hard for you, that you can't communicate solely with it?

So me choosing to point out a wrong ain't smart, but people ignoring it are smart? Are you sure you're ok upstairs?
Wahala for who no sabi seek attention....


I asked u a question, instead u stoop so low to insult your father, by asking him if he is ok upstairs...cheesy


Frustrated ladies and wahala.

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Re: She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore And She Doesn't Want Divorce by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:17pm On Oct 29, 2020
Munzy14:

Wahala for who no sabi seek attention....


I asked u a question, instead u stoop so low to insult your father, by asking him if he is ok upstairs...cheesy


Frustrated ladies and wahala.

You have a serious problem with comprehension,

If that is your way of insulting your father, good of you, going by your tribe,

It's very simple, comment in the universal language people can understand, instead of deviating, surely you are not an illiterate.

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