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There was a thread here on Nairaland where a poster said. Most men don't appreciate the multiple roles the wives play and still you want them to work their heads off to provide to the finances of the family, something that is solely the mans responsibility.

She lamented that women

1. Go thorough a lot to have children for men, and indeed some loose their lives in that process. From puberty to menopause, they bleed every month for reporductivuty sake. These children bear the mans name not thiers.

2. Do house chores and domestic duties at home.

3. Ensure their husbands are sexually satisfied.

4. And still have to work on top of it to provide to family income.

Growing up, I always thought women took pride in these roles, but it does appear some women feel they are doing the men a favor. And would have wished nature had not put women under such circumstances. Thier love and desire for children was built in favor of the man to continue his lineage. Their body was designed for this purpose to please man. In a nutshell, she was created for the man to achieve his purpose, and not the other way around.

Some women even argue that Nature is not balanced and fair to them. While can no longer have children in her 50's the Men can still father a child at the same age.


Unfortunately Life is getting harder for Men making relationships tougher on women. Anywyaz

It makes me wonder if some women recent being women ? Is it becoming more difficult to carry out such responsibilities? Do women feel purposeless sometimes ? What can men do to ease the burden ?

NB: This is not a thread to bash women, but to understand them better.

Moderator, please front page.

That's the point. Feminists are successfully brainwashing women that " womanly " roles akin to slavery.

In a bid to fight against the psychological posturing is the reason we have all sorts of women across the broad-spectrum all of which translates to" we tired of being feminine and womanly.


Hence, many ladies hate being women. Take it to the bank

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There was a thread here on Nairaland where a poster said. Most men don't appreciate the multiple roles the wives play and still you want them to work their heads off to provide to the finances of the family, something that is solely the mans responsibility.

She lamented that women

1. Go thorough a lot to have children for men, and indeed some loose their lives in that process. From puberty to menopause, they bleed every month for reporductivuty sake. These children bear the mans name not thiers.

2. Do house chores and domestic duties at home.

3. Ensure their husbands are sexually satisfied.

4. And still have to work on top of it to provide to family income.

Growing up, I always thought women took pride in these roles, but it does appear some women feel they are doing the men a favor. And would have wished nature had not put women under such circumstances. Thier love and desire for children was built in favor of the man to continue his lineage. Their body was designed for this purpose to please man. In a nutshell, she was created for the man to achieve his purpose, and not the other way around.

Some women even argue that Nature is not balanced and fair to them. While can no longer have children in her 50's the Men can still father a child at the same age.


Unfortunately Life is getting harder for Men making relationships tougher on women. Anywyaz

It makes me wonder if some women recent being women ? Is it becoming more difficult to carry out such responsibilities? Do women feel purposeless sometimes ? What can men do to ease the burden ?

NB: This is not a thread to bash women, but to understand them better.

Moderator, please front page.

Lol, women dont resent being women.

What they resent is sacrificing their entire lives and ambitions and comforts and then being treated poorly, not taken seriously or unappreciated and regarded as inferior.

Another thing they resent is the fact that marriage these days has been reshaped and bent out of place to favour men while women barely get anything out of it.

Look at the traditional rules regarding marriage, yes women according to Abrahamic religions are supposed to bear kids that follow husband's lineage and bear his name while being home keepers and submissive. While men are meant to be providers (if he can't provide he is an infidel) and protectors that love their wives like christ loved the church. In Islam a man is obligated to buy whatever he buys for himself for his wife as well, if he buys clothing, he must also buy cloth for his wife,if he buys snacks he must buy for her and so on.

But many men these days, either due to economy or selfishness, have weaseled out of their duty as provider and lovers. How many men these days love their wives with all the cheating and infidelity going on left and right? How many Muslim men buy whatever they buy for themselves for their wives?

Inspite of the fact that women are now so providers, many men still want to be dictators like idi amin and control their wives lives and some even demand their salaries, ogbeni it doesnt work that way, you can't relax on your biblically assigned duties then you want to enforce that women do everything in scriptures 100%

Many men dont even believe they should help out with cooking or cleaning or taking care of children and these are men whose wives work and provide.

So what women are resenting is the way the system has been panel beated out of place to make it unfair and burdensome for women.

I do not believe they resent being women, as a matter of fact a lot of women are who, what, and where they are in life due to the benevolence of a man/men who loves/loved them.
Even though they may not love this man/men back, they can't deny that they enjoy the benefits and perks of being women who are desirable.

What they do resent however is the fact that there are still some men who don't put them on the pedestal they assume they should be put on, even when they have neither merited nor earned it.

My personal opinion regarding the unending blackmails about how women are burdened by marriage and raising children, has largely always remained the same – I believe that women of this school of thought should simply not get married...but if already married, should get out of it so they can enjoy a life without stress, since it's of no benefit to them...
It's quite simple really yea.

You can't be complaining about the stress y'all go through in marriage, yet still desire/pursue marriage and having a husband. Don't let their online posturing fool you boys, these people do desire marriage a lot more than anything else in life.
All they think about once they come of age is being a wife, having a wedding party and being provided for by a man.

A man could decide to date a woman for many years and not think of wifing her, but the very day some of these so-called 'marriage-is-too-stressful' type of women have sex with their boyfriend, you see them asking yeye questions like what are we now? OR where is this going?

The real issue is that modern women just want an easy life, a baby girl lifestyle, an enjoyment life... everything na stress to them.
It's not like desiring these things is a problem, everyone ought to desire a stress-free life... the problem is that unlike men who usually plan their lives based on how to achieve personal comfort on their own efforts, women prefer comfort to be provided FOR them by men simply because of an erroneous belief that having a vagìna entitles them to it.

A male extremist whose video I once came across on YouTube said something very interesting, he said:

"Once you take away a vagìna from a woman or take away her ability to birth children for a man, she basically becomes masculine in a sense and will ultimately find a way to become responsible for providing her own comfort without waiting to be pampered and taken care of – it's almost as if they have been conditioned into tying their sense of self-importance & entitlement to the organ between their legs"...

I find the above statement to be true, unfortunately...

Where they are oppressed,yes