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| Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Wisefellow(op): 11:15am On Nov 18, 2020 |
As a matter of concern, our society is now experiencing high rate of singles whom are of marriageable age but still very much unmarried either by choice or circumstance. This is more prevailing with the women compared to men accross developed and developing countries. Marriage is an institution ordained by God for humanity to procreate and multiply in this world with consent of parents or guardians. Though not everyone will get married as some will never attain marriageable age due to death, while others may not marry out of choice or circumstances beyond their control. Single parenting is the order of the day. Marriage, like every other thing, has the good and bad side depending on the perpective. So why are people shying away? Vehicles are expensive but do get damaged, faulty or have accident and people still buy, enjoy and carefully maintain them. As the owner/ driver, its your choice! Same similitude goes with marriage, the couples are the joint owner/driver. Can two walk together unless they agree? What are the roles of parents to better the situation? What role is the government playing to address this menace distorting family creation? Is it people themselves that needs to ammend their ways because right attitude to life with respect and humility results to love which most people, unfortunately, does not possess? I am really worried about this situation. |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Ahmed0336(m): 11:17am On Nov 18, 2020 |
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| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 18, 2020 |
I think everyone is enjoying their singlehood in peace.Men have succeeded in making marriages unattractive |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by dermmy(m): 11:35am On Nov 18, 2020*. Modified: 12:56pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Zzor:Men are the ones enjoying their single hood in peace while the ladies are busy running from one church to another trying to break the curse of the single hood caused by their own foolish decisions. You know being single doesn't bother we men the way it gives you ladies headache. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by donbachi(m): 11:43am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Women should stop believing dat broke guys will never make it in life.and broke guys should stop waiting till they have millions before they will marry..lastly,the both should look inward when dealing with the opposite sex and not pockets and curves.so many of them are both carriers of greatness.but,many judges by looking at present condition.women should begin to have the mindset,that any man that will marry her.will become rich after marriage.cos,for her sake the man will obtain favour from GOD. |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by XXXXTENTACION: 11:44am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Zzor:always quick to push blames on men  rather than take responsibility, look at yourself, look within, look at your own faults and mistakes and see how you can correct them you are here blaming men for your own misfortune.  how will pushing blames on men solve the situation at hand  |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Wisefellow(op): 11:47am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Men have succeeded in making marriages unattractive[/quote]How? |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by cococandy(f): 11:51am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Who is alarmed? You or them? Might I suggest you focus your alarm on stuff that can actually affect you personally. Say.... global warming, this vicious virus, the ever increasing poverty that’s breaking our backs. |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by ABOVEDELAW: 11:57am On Nov 18, 2020 |
YOU CANNOT EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. 1 Like |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Why not start by sponsoring and financing mass wedding. The money to marry woman in my village alone go fit add one more keke Napep to my fleet then in Mbaise, you must sell your papa land before you can marry their daughter and no be say the woman go give person peace sef. Ike gwuru. 2 Likes |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Wisefellow(op): 12:13pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Most people are born to work out self achievement, while some people are born to be self made... Many are born to be selfish but few are born to be selfless We all belong somewhere as the world revolves around us to make it better out of love or otherwise. |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Wisefellow(op): 12:15pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
cococandy:Most people are born to work out self achievement, while some people are born to be self made... Many are born to be selfish but few are born to be selfless We all belong somewhere as the world revolves around us to make it better out of love or otherwise. |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by cococandy(f): 1:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Wisefellow:okay  |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by TimiRume(f): 1:34pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
dermmy:If it doesn't bother you, why are men the ones always creating threads like this? Women are not dumb or naive anymore. Many women have come to realise they are better of and happier single than married because marriage is very burden some for them. You can't be the homemaker 100% and still share his responsibilities by half. It stresses and ages them. And if nairaland men are the mirror of the men they have to deal with it, even more reasons to stay single. 2 Likes |
| Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by Wisefellow(op): 2:24pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
TimiRume:Many women have come to realise they are better of and happier single than married because marriage is very burden some for them... perhaps the separated/ divorsed couples and not the ones happy in marriage. You can't be the homemaker 100% and still share his responsibilities by half. It stresses and ages them.... I agree absolutely! Men should love and appreciate such women. The women in question did all out of love, for love supercedes and that does not make them less inferior but extra ordinary. I urge you all not to give-up easily because the good ones are still out there. |
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