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'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by ebukajay184: 11:53am On Nov 20, 2020
Musician, Charles Oputa aka Charlie Boy, has narrated how he felt when his last daughter, Dewy, came out to him as a lesbian, IgbereTV reports.

In a post shared on his Facebook page this morning, Charlie Boy said when she initially came out to him, he was confused and asked himself some questions as to what he might have done wrong to have a gay child. The singer and activist says that he looks back now and is grateful for the experience of having a lesbian child.

His post reads:

''For Parents Only.
About 4yrs ago, my last Princess of the house called me from America, from her tone I was bracing up for whatever she was about to tell me especially when she kept saying to me, “daddy promise me you won’t get mad at me, or give up on me”

I am close with my children and I love dem to bits. They are my friend. But I wasn’t really ready for the “breaking news” my Princess Dewy had for me.
When my child told me she is gay, a lesbian, I experienced a range of emotions, during dat phone conversation.
So many things went through my mind, one of them included self-blame ( "Did I do something wrong?" ) ( "The child I thought I knew and loved no longer exists." ), worry ( "Will my child be discriminated against?) religious confusion ( "Is my child damned to spend eternity in hell?" ), and stigma ( "What will people think of my child? Of me?" ).

However, I kept pinching myself to calm down because I didn’t want my baby to shy away from me or for us to have a strained relationship. I loved my baby far too much.
I first took a deep breath. And all I could say was, “are you sure?”
I was hoping it was a prank but it was happening in real time.
Even though I was unusually calm through that conversation, my mind was wondering in all direction.

Months before this incident, I was lending my voice in support of LGTB rights in Nigeria.
Is life playing tricks on me. Now my daughter is gay, why do I feel disappointed? Am I a hypocrite? How do I handle this bomb shell?
I have faced many challenges in my life and won, I was determined to win this too. All I want is my Princesses Love, happiness and Success in her life anything else is secondary. I told myself that I will get through this, and many months later I did.

As a matter of fact, I now look back and find that I am grateful for the experience of having a gay or lesbian child.
Nothing can come between me and any of my beautiful children. It is stupid to even think that having a gay child means that parents have failed. That’s some pedestrian thinking.
Me, I love my gay daughter oooo because she has put some colors into my life too.
Acceptance of the truth is like surgery. It hurts but cures. Lie is like a pain killer. It gives instant relief but it’s side effects can last forever.

I am proud when I say,
God has brought peace to my confusion, joy to my sadness and hope to my heart.
I love you Dewy"
https://www.facebook.com/156922181023054/posts/3348064931908747/?app=fbl

https://igberetvnews.com/1372337/grateful-experience-lesbian-child-charlie-boy/

Lalasticlala

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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by ebukajay184: 11:53am On Nov 20, 2020
Dewy and her partner

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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by Righteousness89(m): 11:54am On Nov 20, 2020
No Matter who we are,
No Matter what we Have,
No Matter what the world think or says,
No Matter how we try to Modify/ Gratify Evil,
Evil is Evil!
What GOD Almighty Calls Evil is Evil!
Immorality of any kind is evil!
Lgbt is Evil! It's Abomination and Wickedness to GOD Almighty..

The Word of GOD cannot Be Broken
The Word of GOD cannot Change even in a Changing World!

Heaven and Earth will pass away! But my Word will Remain!

Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still.

And, behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be.

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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by Oblongata: 11:56am On Nov 20, 2020
I have nothing against Gays or Lesbians...

Dey your Dey make I Dey my Dey cool

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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by gidgiddy: 12:06pm On Nov 20, 2020
Thats life, we cant all be straight. To each their own
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by blazepascal(m): 12:10pm On Nov 20, 2020
Rubbish this gay nd lesbian stuff dey irritate GOD KNOW SAY THIS THING NA DEVIL HANDWORK
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by osarog: 12:24pm On Nov 20, 2020
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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by osarog: 12:25pm On Nov 20, 2020
Righteousness89:
No Matter who we are,
No Matter what we Have,
No Matter what the world think or says,
No Matter how we try to Modify/ Gratify Evil,
Evil is Evil!
What GOD Almighty Calls Evil is Evil!
Immorality of any kind is evil!
Lgbt is Evil! It's Abomination and Wickedness to GOD Almighty..

The Word of GOD cannot Be Broken
The Word of GOD cannot Change even in a Changing World!

Heaven and Earth will pass away! But my Word will Remain!

Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still.

And, behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be.

Religion don make this one kolo. Your mind is irredeemably colonized.

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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by Goddyj(m): 12:29pm On Nov 20, 2020
A time came when I realized that some people are born that way. When I ponder about some of my childhood friends that later turned out to be gay, I always remember that these people had always been feminine in nature right from childhood.

It makes me wonder whether God actually creates some people that way; or is it a kind of birth defect, or mental disorder?
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by osarog: 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2020
blazepascal:
Rubbish this gay nd lesbian stuff dey irritate GOD KNOW SAY THIS THING NA DEVIL HANDWORK

Stop reading that silly book our colonizers call "the word of God". Do you really think God can allow whatever irrigates God to exist in the first place ?

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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by fergie001: 12:34pm On Nov 20, 2020
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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 20, 2020
Noted.


When last did Buhari made love to Aisha in the other room
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by jokayos: 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2020
Stupid father with stupid daughter.
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by IfGodbeforus(m): 12:47pm On Nov 20, 2020
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osarog:


Religion don make this one kolo. Your mind is irredeemably colonized.
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Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by blazepascal(m): 12:53pm On Nov 20, 2020
osarog:


Stop reading that silly book our colonizers call "the word of God". Do you really think God can allow whatever irrigates God to exist in the first place ?
go nd read the bible so that your eyes will be opened. u are stil blind. after adam sinned so many evil entered this world sickness, pain ,death ,deformities hatred Etc strange things are happenhng this days.
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by blazepascal(m): 12:56pm On Nov 20, 2020
Goddyj:
A time came when I realized that some people are born that way. When I ponder about some of my childhood friends that later turned out to be gay, I always remember that these people had always been feminine in nature right from childhood.

It makes me wonder whether God actually creates some people that way; or is it a kind of birth defect, or mental disorder?
God didnt create pple that way its the devil handwork
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by blazepascal(m): 12:56pm On Nov 20, 2020
Goddyj:
A time came when I realized that some people are born that way. When I ponder about some of my childhood friends that later turned out to be gay, I always remember that these people had always been feminine in nature right from childhood.

It makes me wonder whether God actually creates some people that way; or is it a kind of birth defect, or mental disorder?
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by ggood: 1:16pm On Nov 20, 2020
Are you serious this Charlie Girl is evil for encouraging such thing
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by fourboys: 1:18pm On Nov 20, 2020
This man is completely mad
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by Shortyy(f): 2:08pm On Nov 20, 2020
Hmm such a beauty wasted.
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by RoyalUc(m): 3:00pm On Nov 20, 2020
"Acceptance of the truth is like surgery. It hurts but cures. Lie is like a pain killer. It gives instant relief but it’s side effects can last forever...I am proud..."

Well, what you are actually doing now is DENIAL! It's all a lie!
Re: 'I Am Grateful For The Experience Of Having A Lesbian Child' - Charlie Boy by RoyalUc(m): 3:10pm On Nov 20, 2020
Goddyj:
A time came when I realized that some people are born that way. When I ponder about some of my childhood friends that later turned out to be gay, I always remember that these people had always been feminine in nature right from childhood.

It makes me wonder whether God actually creates some people that way; or is it a kind of birth defect, or mental disorder?

God didn't create some people that way.

No matter how the world turns 'up side down' we must never come to a state the ABNORMAL becomes NORNAL!
There is something called perversion.

People just choose to be reprobates.

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